Sorry for the strange title of the post. And sorry this is long!!! I know I've seen some discussions here about one aspect of this: Whether chats (like in TG or other social media) are sometimes written by studio admins or outsourced altogether (for example, that OnlyFans lawsuit). That was one part of my confusion, so here's the recap:
Met a model on a site about a month ago - nothing unusual. Russian model at a studio in Russia. She was new, had very few followers. I had normal interactions on the site with her; it was pleasant. She was friendly and spent a lot of time chatting with me (not surprising, considering few visitors). Sometimes would use a translator but at other times, she would write in English herself (very apparent). Said her own writing and speaking ability in English is "so so." At some point, she told me her account on StripChat and said she likes the interface better, so that was fine with me (more my cam home base anyway). Overall, I have visited this model about 2 times a week for a month. Maybe 3 times one week.
In one of the first couple of visits with her, she gave her Telegram, which was definitely a work TG.
I have only once previously used a TG account sent by a model. The model was only sending photos and generic messages like "Hope to see you on my stream tomorrow" - marketing stuff. Maybe something slightly personalized on occasion. I deleted it pretty quickly - it was more like spam.
Now with the model who is subject of this post, the TG experience was different immediately. At the start, she wrote much more personal messages, asking a lot of questions; she sent photos of herself in various places. She even sent photos with friends (I thought that was unusual); even sent a baby picture. I just took this all as she is new and maybe I happened to be one of the first customers who was spending money, so whatever.
We were writing back and forth and it was pleasant. She writing about experiences being new in cam modeling or sometimes we're just sending pics of some meal we had. But it seemed like within about a week, her messages changed. It seemed like a different person was writing them. They also had a chatbot quality - like not always matched to what we were talking about. Her replies would be "off." I started to wonder if sometimes she was the person writing but at other times, the studio was writing me. lol
But then some off-putting stuff: Less than 2 weeks from start of the TG correspondence, her messages began including statements like, "I am so glad we have found each other" and "You evoke in me notes of romance and real feelings." The messages began to get very long, too - this surprised me. But even though the messages were long, they seemed "generic." Hard to explain. Like, really flowery but not human. It was like someone telling ChatGPT to write a dialogue of some cheezy romantic babble.
Maybe an example helps: I would write something friendly but normal like: "Hope you had a good day. I couldn't go online for the last two nights. I love that photo you sent. Beautiful." But then her reply - this is exactly it, from TG:
Hey… I’m sorry I disappeared for a while. I got sick - I couldn’t even get out of bed, and I had no energy or desire to do anything. Emotionally, I’ve been feeling really lost too. There are so many confusing questions between us right now, and I keep thinking about them.
I don’t want to hurt you… but at the same time, I don’t want to lose what we have either. I feel like there’s something between us. Something real. Maybe we just need more time for everything to fall into place. 
"
Okay.... WHAT??
(No idea what she was talking about. What do we have? Why would we lose whatever it is? What confusing questions?)
There were several messages saying something like, "I don't want to hurt you but..." Eventully, I asked something like, "Why do you keep saying you don't want to hurt me? I don't understand. I haven't asked you for anything. Nothing has happened for someone to be hurt." Her reply, AGAIN with strange, out-of-context stuff:
When I say I don’t want to hurt you - I truly mean it. Maybe it’s just a difference in mentality. Where I’m from, people often approach relationships this way - with caution, care. It’s simply that I’ve never had a connection like this before… and I don’t want to make mistakes.
You didn’t ask for anything, but I’m simply the kind of person who thinks through every possible outcome and worries about things that maybe don’t even need worrying. 
Please understand… I’m just trying to find a balance between my job and my real life. Now that both are starting to mix — it’s getting harder. I wasn’t ready for that. But I truly feel like I’ve met someone unusual - someone who’s teaching me things that really matter.
Again... WHAT??? Is it just me or does that sound like bad AI? So, I could continue on with more examples, but you get the point. I'm confused. My questions are:
*Does this seem like anything typical for how models use TG, even if the aim is trying to build initial client base? There's a scam vibe, but like a badly executed scam (not convincing)
* Is there some chance the model IS writing all of this sincerely and maybe has some kind of emotional problems? (I don't want to be rude)
* Is it possible that all or some of this is being written completely by an admin? Or even some company that does this for studios (it seems like bad AI)?
I hope this post isn't offensive. I've been on sites for awhile, but I'm confused because sometimes I think, this model IS writing certain messages to me. Other times, I think, no. But whether it's her or some admin, what's the goal?
In case someone might ask, no, I have not given the model money other than through our few privates online and tips.
Also, some messages in TG (and even a few in PMs in StripChat) talk about how nice it would be to meet in person sometime. (This also confuses me, because I think a studio is not going to write things that are on the edge of violations).
Met a model on a site about a month ago - nothing unusual. Russian model at a studio in Russia. She was new, had very few followers. I had normal interactions on the site with her; it was pleasant. She was friendly and spent a lot of time chatting with me (not surprising, considering few visitors). Sometimes would use a translator but at other times, she would write in English herself (very apparent). Said her own writing and speaking ability in English is "so so." At some point, she told me her account on StripChat and said she likes the interface better, so that was fine with me (more my cam home base anyway). Overall, I have visited this model about 2 times a week for a month. Maybe 3 times one week.
In one of the first couple of visits with her, she gave her Telegram, which was definitely a work TG.
I have only once previously used a TG account sent by a model. The model was only sending photos and generic messages like "Hope to see you on my stream tomorrow" - marketing stuff. Maybe something slightly personalized on occasion. I deleted it pretty quickly - it was more like spam.
Now with the model who is subject of this post, the TG experience was different immediately. At the start, she wrote much more personal messages, asking a lot of questions; she sent photos of herself in various places. She even sent photos with friends (I thought that was unusual); even sent a baby picture. I just took this all as she is new and maybe I happened to be one of the first customers who was spending money, so whatever.
We were writing back and forth and it was pleasant. She writing about experiences being new in cam modeling or sometimes we're just sending pics of some meal we had. But it seemed like within about a week, her messages changed. It seemed like a different person was writing them. They also had a chatbot quality - like not always matched to what we were talking about. Her replies would be "off." I started to wonder if sometimes she was the person writing but at other times, the studio was writing me. lol
But then some off-putting stuff: Less than 2 weeks from start of the TG correspondence, her messages began including statements like, "I am so glad we have found each other" and "You evoke in me notes of romance and real feelings." The messages began to get very long, too - this surprised me. But even though the messages were long, they seemed "generic." Hard to explain. Like, really flowery but not human. It was like someone telling ChatGPT to write a dialogue of some cheezy romantic babble.
Maybe an example helps: I would write something friendly but normal like: "Hope you had a good day. I couldn't go online for the last two nights. I love that photo you sent. Beautiful." But then her reply - this is exactly it, from TG:
Hey… I’m sorry I disappeared for a while. I got sick - I couldn’t even get out of bed, and I had no energy or desire to do anything. Emotionally, I’ve been feeling really lost too. There are so many confusing questions between us right now, and I keep thinking about them.
I don’t want to hurt you… but at the same time, I don’t want to lose what we have either. I feel like there’s something between us. Something real. Maybe we just need more time for everything to fall into place. "Okay.... WHAT??
(No idea what she was talking about. What do we have? Why would we lose whatever it is? What confusing questions?)There were several messages saying something like, "I don't want to hurt you but..." Eventully, I asked something like, "Why do you keep saying you don't want to hurt me? I don't understand. I haven't asked you for anything. Nothing has happened for someone to be hurt." Her reply, AGAIN with strange, out-of-context stuff:
When I say I don’t want to hurt you - I truly mean it. Maybe it’s just a difference in mentality. Where I’m from, people often approach relationships this way - with caution, care. It’s simply that I’ve never had a connection like this before… and I don’t want to make mistakes.
You didn’t ask for anything, but I’m simply the kind of person who thinks through every possible outcome and worries about things that maybe don’t even need worrying. Please understand… I’m just trying to find a balance between my job and my real life. Now that both are starting to mix — it’s getting harder. I wasn’t ready for that. But I truly feel like I’ve met someone unusual - someone who’s teaching me things that really matter. Again... WHAT??? Is it just me or does that sound like bad AI? So, I could continue on with more examples, but you get the point. I'm confused. My questions are:
*Does this seem like anything typical for how models use TG, even if the aim is trying to build initial client base? There's a scam vibe, but like a badly executed scam (not convincing)
* Is there some chance the model IS writing all of this sincerely and maybe has some kind of emotional problems? (I don't want to be rude)
* Is it possible that all or some of this is being written completely by an admin? Or even some company that does this for studios (it seems like bad AI)?
I hope this post isn't offensive. I've been on sites for awhile, but I'm confused because sometimes I think, this model IS writing certain messages to me. Other times, I think, no. But whether it's her or some admin, what's the goal?
In case someone might ask, no, I have not given the model money other than through our few privates online and tips.
Also, some messages in TG (and even a few in PMs in StripChat) talk about how nice it would be to meet in person sometime. (This also confuses me, because I think a studio is not going to write things that are on the edge of violations).
Instead I began giving slightly sarcastic, responses, questioning when something was illogical or contradictory. Those replies also were amusing. (I thought it was AI but even AI content usually makes more sense)
Say Poootaaatooo 
