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I'm going through the painful experience of a Radical change



A lovely, super nice, and extremely beautiful girl on Chaturbate does non-nude stuff, when I'm usually interested in more explicit stuff.



I noticed her on her second day of streaming. She wasn't very talkative, but she was really beautiful. I added her to my favorites. A few days later, I came back, looked through her bio, and noticed she was located in Paris (I know it's fake), and that she's 19 years old.

Knowing Paris well, I started a conversation and managed to capture her attention. I managed to sneak out the fact that she was Ukrainian, and little by little, a connection grew between us. She called me by my first name, and when I arrived in the room, I was treated to a warm welcome and smiles. I was even sometimes entitled to "je t aime beaucoup" for the few words she knows in French. On the other hand, she expresses herself in more than perfect English.

I started following her public Telegram. So close that I ended up confessing to her that I was seeing a Ukrainian escort. It was a bad move for me, I was kicked out of her room. Don't judge me, it's just another activity of the sex worker. Luckily I have a backup account.

Unfortunately, I could no longer tip with this account.

To reward her for her work and kindness, I gave her a Lovense Ferri.

A few weeks later, she was doing a duet with another girl, located in Bremen.

Always super nice, she introduced me to this girl as her bestie. I was always given a royal welcome. We laughed and chatted a lot, it was really great... truly a total connection. She ended up getting this room back with more followers.



Me, still unable to tip, I offered to give her a hyphy in exchange for her private Telegram and a domi2, since she made it clear that hers was broken. Everything was going great; we exchanged messages every day on Telegram. It was really great.



During a visit to her room, she asked me if I'd be interested in doing a private chat with her. I said yes, but you know I can't tip. So she sent me a Stripchat link on her private TG. We did a private chat, which wasn't very interesting because she doesn't really show anything intimate except her breasts. We got to know each other better.

The following week, we did a second chat, where we chatted a lot more. She told me she comes from a good, very religious family. She started streaming because she doesn't like studying or going to university, and that her family had rejected her a bit because of that.



That's when everything changed. She announced on her public TG on Friday that her stream would be shorter because she had a date. I thought, "Probably with a Guy." That was a month ago.



On Monday, she wasn't the same person anymore. Even the way she spoke to me was different. She contacted me via her private TG to tell me she was looking forward to doing another private chat together. I went into her room to tell her I didn't want to (I hate being forced). I saw a huge disappointment on her face.

She started not responding to me on private TG anymore, only when I was in her room, and insisted on going private. And since then, our relationship has really deteriorated, until she blocked me on her private TG and in her chaturbate room. I can only see her on Stripchat. She also blocked me twice for 24 hours.

In the meantime, I explained my account problem to chaturbate support, and I got my account and all the features back.



In conclusion, since she got a boyfriend, she no longer uses Lush, Ferri, or Hyphy. Just the domi2, only talks to the big tippers and those who take her to private. I think she's independent now, the room isn't the same anymore. I think her boyfriend is her moderator and he's constantly in the room because she often chats with someone off-camera. Sometimes you can clearly see her talking to him and then go to private. The privacy of private life is great.



Anyway, I don't know what to think of this girl...victim or high-flying manipulator?
 
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I'm going through the painful experience of a Radical change



A lovely, super nice, and extremely beautiful girl on Chaturbate does non-nude stuff, when I'm usually interested in more explicit stuff.



I noticed her on her second day of streaming. She wasn't very talkative, but she was really beautiful. I added her to my favorites. A few days later, I came back, looked through her bio, and noticed she was located in Paris (I know it's fake), and that she's 19 years old.

Knowing Paris well, I started a conversation and managed to capture her attention. I managed to sneak out the fact that she was Ukrainian, and little by little, a connection grew between us. She called me by my first name, and when I arrived in the room, I was treated to a warm welcome and smiles. I was even sometimes entitled to "je t aime beaucoup" for the few words she knows in French. On the other hand, she expresses herself in more than perfect English.

I started following her public Telegram. So close that I ended up confessing to her that I was seeing a Ukrainian escort. It was a bad move for me, I was kicked out of her room. Don't judge me, it's just another activity of the sex worker. Luckily I have a backup account.

Unfortunately, I could no longer tip with this account.

To reward her for her work and kindness, I gave her a Lovense Ferri.

A few weeks later, she was doing a duet with another girl, located in Bremen.

Always super nice, she introduced me to this girl as her bestie. I was always given a royal welcome. We laughed and chatted a lot, it was really great... truly a total connection. She ended up getting this room back with more followers.



Me, still unable to tip, I offered to give her a hyphy in exchange for her private Telegram and a domi2, since she made it clear that hers was broken. Everything was going great; we exchanged messages every day on Telegram. It was really great.



During a visit to her room, she asked me if I'd be interested in doing a private chat with her. I said yes, but you know I can't tip. So she sent me a Stripchat link on her private TG. We did a private chat, which wasn't very interesting because she doesn't really show anything intimate except her breasts. We got to know each other better.

The following week, we did a second chat, where we chatted a lot more. She told me she comes from a good, very religious family. She started streaming because she doesn't like studying or going to university, and that her family had rejected her a bit because of that.



That's when everything changed. She announced on her public TG on Friday that her stream would be shorter because she had a date. I thought, "Probably with a Guy." That was a month ago.



On Monday, she wasn't the same person anymore. Even the way she spoke to me was different. She contacted me via her private TG to tell me she was looking forward to doing another private chat together. I went into her room to tell her I didn't want to (I hate being forced). I saw a huge disappointment on her face.

She started not responding to me on private TG anymore, only when I was in her room, and insisted on going private. And since then, our relationship has really deteriorated, until she blocked me on her private TG and in her chaturbate room. I can only see her on Stripchat. She also blocked me twice for 24 hours.

In the meantime, I explained my account problem to chaturbate support, and I got my account and all the features back.



In conclusion, since she got a boyfriend, she no longer uses Lush, Ferri, or Hyphy. Just the domi2, only talks to the big tippers and those who take her to private. I think she's independent now, the room isn't the same anymore. I think her boyfriend is her moderator and he's constantly in the room because she often chats with someone off-camera. Sometimes you can clearly see her talking to him and then go to private. The privacy of private life is great.



Anyway, I don't know what to think of this girl...victim or high-flying manipulator?
You were already doing it wrong within the first few interactions. Theres no need to know where she really is from or any other personal info about her. Thats so creepy. Coming back with a 2nd account after being banned is also beyond creepy.

You should understand that from the beginning your "connection" was always transactional. Many times models are willing to entertain someone so long as they are tipping. That means playing up to your interests and wants. Genuine banter can really make our day and all that, but it doesn't mean we feel any sort of deep connection.

I also want to stress that she isn't a manipulator or a victim. She's just doing a job. You crossed too many boundaries. She probably realized you knowing info about her family troubles was getting into creepy territory. If anything, you may have been a bit manipulative to get her to that place of sharing that type of info. Maybe she really did get a boyfriend and is thinking twice about how long she wants to spend entertaining clients off site when on-site is safer. Maybe she pretended that she had a date so that you would take the hint. Either way, it's not our responsibility to know or care.

My advice is to leave her alone and forget about all of this. Take her off your cam sites and telegram and let her live her life. These sites aren't for dating.
 
Hey has anyone tried the new Wendy's frosties with the mixed in stuff?

I just tried Dr. Pepper Blackberry for the first time and the last time...man it tasted like chemicals and nothing but chemicals. Cough syrup. Not even really a blackberry flavor.
 
Hey has anyone tried the new Wendy's frosties with the mixed in stuff?

I just tried Dr. Pepper Blackberry for the first time and the last time...man it tasted like chemicals and nothing but chemicals. Cough syrup. Not even really a blackberry flavor.
What is your favortite burger?
 
What is your favortite burger?
Probably homemade but as for fast food I only get Wendy's burgers. Bacon double stack (two hamburger patties, cheese, bacon) plain and then add mustard when I get home. I hate soggy bread.
 
I just tried Dr. Pepper Blackberry for the first time and the last time...man it tasted like chemicals and nothing but chemicals. Cough syrup. Not even really a blackberry flavor.
Just thinking about it gives me the ick. We still have 10/12 cans in the 12-pack we bought months ago. Even the smell is... bleh.
 
Just thinking about it gives me the ick. We still have 10/12 cans in the 12-pack we bought months ago. Even the smell is... bleh.
Literally took one sip and said what the fuck is that???? Poured it down the drain. Blackberry jam is my favorite thing on earth when it comes to toast so I was bitterly disappointed.
 
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What is your favortite burger?
Probably homemade but as for fast food I only get Wendy's burgers. Bacon double stack (two hamburger patties, cheese, bacon) plain and then add mustard when I get home. I hate soggy bread.
When we were in LA we were fanatics for Wendy's. Their fries (the sea salt natural cut ones from around 2012) were our favorite, and their burgers were top notch.

We've tried them a couple times since moving up to PNW (and also in Utah) and something has changed :( We'll give Wendy's a shot again soon hoping those were just bad days at those locations.

Our go-tos right now are Whoppers with cheese from BK, QPC's from McD's, or Five Guys.
 
Literally took one sip and said what the fuck is that???? Poured it down the drain. Blackberry jam is my favorite thing on earth when it comes to toast so I was bitterly disappointed.
Forget if I've asked, but have you tried the strawberries and cream DrP? It's amaze haha
 
Correct but without the garden. :) And without the mayo and ketchup.
So funny, I love "garden" toppings on burgers, and no mustard, but lotsa mayo (and maybe a dopple of ketchup) :D

we all have our things
 
I like garden on my burger....
So a little bit of education time.

I have ARFID. Avoidant/Restrictive Food Intake Disorder. Certain textures against other textures make me react like a child throwing their lolly out the the pram. And Wendy's pickles are the most disgusting pickle to ever pickle on a burger, they use Romaine lettuce which has a rib down the center that doesn't belong on a burger and their condiments are sugar-loaded. So I just get it plain with cheese and bacon and add my own mustard when I get home.

ARFID is different from bulimia and anorexia -- it's not about weight or appearance. It's about smells, mouth feel, texture, and perceived lethality toward one's health.
 
ARFID is different from bulimia and anorexia -- it's not about weight or appearance. It's about smells, mouth feel, texture, and perceived lethality toward one's health.
I totally understand that, and while I know I don't have that affliction, have what I've called "aversions" to certain foods based on their texture, smell, or flavor.

I'm sorry you deal with that. :(
 
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I totally understand that, and while I know I don't have that affliction, have what I've called "aversions" to certain foods based on their texture, smell, or flavor.

I'm sorry you deal with that. :(
Everyone has things they don't like, right? That's fair and natural. I have things that I think will outright kill me the second it hits my mouth. Thankfully, I'm not the only one in my circle who deals with this and it's kind of understood to just let me deal with it the way I best know how to. <3 It's awful but it's not the worst thing to happen to a person, I guess. LOL
 
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@Vixxen81 Can you eat your own cooked "garden and veggies"?
Great question!!!! Yes, if I prepare all of the food myself I can eat everything I made. Not being able to see how others handle my food or tend to prep is where things go off the rails. I once watched a waiter drop a pen on the floor and set it on a table then seat people on that table...I made a fuss. "You should have wiped that down first. You know that."
 
Thankfully, I'm not the only one in my circle who deals with this and it's kind of understood to just let me deal with it the way I best know how to. <3 It's awful but it's not the worst thing to happen to a person, I guess. LOL
OMG it must be such a relief to have people in your circle that just get it. Hearing shit at a restaurant or even worse at home cooked meals from people who just wanna harp is the worst.
 
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OMG it must be such a relief to have people in your circle that just get it. Hearing shit at a restaurant or even worse at home cooked meals from people who just wanna harp is the worst.
It's a blessing really. Who knew I would slide in with my in laws in such a great way. HUbby's mom put her hand on mine and said "I get it."
 
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ANYWAY.....🙄

Those tacos al pastor (with pineapple) were deeelicious! I was happy to see that the food truck is an available option on DoorDash, because I didn't feel like leaving the house.
One of the many things that I get excited about...star-gazing/spotting The Milky Way...and delicious food!

Hungry The Office GIF
 
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I know very well that this is not a dating site. The fact that she plays with the emotional side to earn money is normal. She is there for that. For me it is the radical change that surprised me.. I have an acquaintance on CB for 8 years with whom we have a great connection and it has never been a question of meeting and she has never used her emotional influence. Otherwise yes she really has a boyfriend. On the other hand I do not understand my attitude and my return with another account is creepy..I never insisted on having her information, she also knows a lot about me and photos exchanged on TG
 
Hey has anyone tried the new Wendy's frosties with the mixed in stuff?

I just tried Dr. Pepper Blackberry for the first time and the last time...man it tasted like chemicals and nothing but chemicals. Cough syrup. Not even really a blackberry flavor.


I never had a Wendy's, and honestly thought they were opening some in the Uk soon, but apparently we already have 46 in England.
And just looking, 2 are actually close to me, but since I don't drive, it'd be a train journey just to get one. Not sure it'd be worth it.
(One is 18 miles (29km) away and the other 26 miles (42km)
 
I never had a Wendy's, and honestly thought they were opening some in the Uk soon, but apparently we already have 46 in England.
And just looking, 2 are actually close to me, but since I don't drive, it'd be a train journey just to get one. Not sure it'd be worth it.
(One is 18 miles (29km) away and the other 26 miles (42km)

Whenever I see Wendy’s I think of Wimpy, and how terrible it is/was 😅