Relationship Model and member?

[johnluke]

Hello everyone.
I'm new in this forum and also in mfc.
however, I have a friend who is a member of the mfc long time.
And I have a doubt about relationship model and members.
The thing is my friend has a favorite model and he always stays in her room. He made to her big tips. he told me already gave this model more then 300 000 tokens.
And lately every time I go to the room of this model and when my friend is there too. she is very cruel to him. Said a lot in free chat "shut up" or bann you...
He tell me that sometimes he tries to speak with her in pm and replied that she can not answer. Because she need give attention for others members. I ask him what he write for her and he said only "hi".. or "How are you".
But is funny when he tip she answer very quick in pms.. he told me that!
My question is this.
You think that sometimes its need boundaries between members and relationship model.
i only ask this because when a member tip a lot a model and she said he is a good friend of her. and when she treat sometimes very bad in free chat or ignore this member.
I think she only want tokens of him..
I understand the job of models of my free cams is win tokens.. but give hope a members and use when they want.. is very bad.. is my opinion and yours?

sorry for my English..lol. i hope all understand..and sorry for my opinion for some models..

 

[AshaSnow]

Honestly if she treats him like crap and he's still tipping her, that's his problem. If he really wanted a model who would pay attention to him, tokens or no, then he would go seek one out. Maybe he likes being treated like crap. Some guys do.

 

[Lydia_Deetz]

Honestly yes her job (yes job) is to get tokens.

Now I am not advocating being cruel to big tipping members, BUT the thing I hate most is a premium who thinks because he tips a lot or often that he is "entitled" to certain types of attention. I can not speak for your friend or the model but I hate when someone PM's me to say hi or how r u? These things can be said in public without making the model neglect public chat.

As soon as a member says hi or how ru in PM I immediately assume they are just trying to get my attention all to themselves which in turn makes me annoyed and sorta bitchy.

 

[Bocefish]

MFC is NOT a dating site! It doesn't sound like she is leading him on... so he probably gets off on the cruel treatment if he continues to tip. Either that, or he is an idiot which reminds me of an old proverb...

A fool and his money are soon parted -- Thomas Tusser

 

[Lydia_Deetz]

MFC is NOT a dating site! It doesn't sound like she is leading him on, but he probably gets off on the cruel treatment if he continues to tip. Either that, or he is an idiot which reminds me of an old proverb...

A fool and his money are soon parted -- Thomas Tusser

This ^^ :thumbleft:

 

[johnluke]

Honestly if she treats him like crap and he's still tipping her, that's his problem. If he really wanted a model who would pay attention to him, tokens or no, then he would go seek one out. Maybe he likes being treated like crap. Some guys do.

yes I totally agree with you.
I asked him why he does not say anything to her. If she treats him like crap!
He told me that once. He said to her "leave of this room if she continued to treat him like crap" And once he stay 2 weeks offlline and she sent a lot of sms for he back again. But he return and she make the same.. Sorry for said this but when she win a lot of tokens of others she forget him but when need him change attitude. is my opinion..

He is a puppy of this girl..lol

but is problem of him of course..

I only want know what models and members think about relationship in my free cams. Only friends or professional friends?

 

[bawksy]

Taking advantage of emotionally insecure men is apparently good business for camwhores.

I only want know what models and members think about relationship in my free cams. Only friends or professional friends?

Impossible to generalize. It's possible for a model to befriend a member who never tips, and it's very common for models to pretend to like members in order to get more tips.

If your friend is spending too much money on MFC, get him an intervention. 300k tokens is pretty damn excessive. Sounds like he needs to cut his losses and walk away.

 

[johnluke]

Taking advantage of emotionally insecure men is apparently good business for camwhores.

I only want know what models and members think about relationship in my free cams. Only friends or professional friends?

Impossible to generalize. It's possible for a model to befriend a member who never tips, and it's very common for models to pretend to like members in order to get more tips.

If your friend is spending too much money on MFC, get him an intervention. 300k tokens is pretty damn excessive. Sounds like he needs to cut his losses and walk away.

I absolutely agree with you. 300,000 is too much. From what he told me he spent it all in a space of 10 months. I think!
But some models take advantage of the good will of members.
Sorry now models! But many models say for member they the best friends of her only to earn more tokens.
And in this situation i know she ask him for tip for help camscore or put more close of top20..

but he needs an intervention!!