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[piercedcock78]

To let everyone know, I won't be doing live cam shows for the next couple of months. On November 29th I will be going in for a hernia repair surgery.

I am nervous about it.

On one hand I will be glad to have it gone. It has caused me complications and it is also the main reason that I always perform with a t-shirt on. On the other hand, it is the fear of the unknown I guess.

I want to thank every one of you.

When I first started camming three years ago I had no idea what to expect. I was doing a couple of writing projects, and a very dear friend of mine suggested doing something like this. So it was more or less on a dare...a way to make some extra money and have some fun.

Over those three years, the money has been nice. However, it has also been the wonderful reviews, the nice things that people have said, being able to help people live out their sexual fantasies. It has been being an ear to listen, to help people feel comfortable with some of their inner most desires and make them feel less awkward and not so alone.

One time in the early days, I had a client tell me that they were on and looking around to "fill a void". It was something simple, yet very profound. Because that is what everyone tries to do at one point or the other. No one is perfect, and we are all looking for something to get us thru the night and make us feel less alone in this world.

The same also held true for me. It is why I could understand it so well.

I know that there are many people who have said that doing porn is the worst decision that they could have made and that it ruined their lives. For me, it has been quite the opposite of that. It has given me a sense of independence but it has also given me a sense of great confidence. To be someone's sexual fantasy is a very powerful thing. I have always done my best to handle that with responsibility and sincerity.

I hope to recover fast. Once I get thru the surgery itself, I feel I will be on much better ground without some of this fear. Likewise, I also hope to be back camming in January at some point. Plus I may have a few other adult entertainment projects going for me in the next year.

I want to thank everyone for making me feel so welcome, for favoriting me, and for leaving me positive reviews.

One way that you can help me out during this time is to either mark me as a favorite or leave me on your favorites list if I am already on there as I will be back.

Also, always feel free to send me a dm as I always like good conversation.

Thank you again.

 

[rockin_rod]

Hope all goes well with the operation, and your return in the new year!

 

[Susperia]

Good luck with your surgery! Wishing you a fast recovery as well.

 

[ElGato]

I hope to recover fast. Once I get thru the surgery itself, I feel I will be on much better ground without some of this fear. Likewise, I also hope to be back camming in January at some point. Plus I may have a few other adult entertainment projects going for me in the next year.

Will it be laparoscopic/robotic surgery? I had a hernia repair done that way about 1 1/2 yrs ago and I was blown away with how fast the recovery was.
I was back, able to do 80% of my normal activity in a few days and felt amazing after a week. Four little 1/4 inch incisions for the whole surgery. I can't even find any scars from it now.

I'm sure the surgery will be smooth and your recovery will be fast. Wishing you the best!

 

[piercedcock78]

I just got off the phone with the nurse and I found out it will be laparoscopic.

Thank you.

 

[yummybrownfox]

I just got off the phone with the nurse and I found out it will be laparoscopic.

Thank you.

I read that procedures that are done laparoscopically have a shorter recovery time. So YAY for that!

You’ll be put to sleep, and have no memory of the procedure when you wake up. You may feel groggy and disoriented, and a little nauseous. Which is why they’ll probably require you have someone pick you up to take you home (They wheel you outside in a wheelchair to that person’s car…they don’t want you driving yourself home). Make sure your first meal afterwards is something light. If a breathing tube was used, you may have a sore throat afterwards. You’ll probably feel some discomfort for a few days where the incisions were made. Since your abdomen is inflated with gas, your belly may look big when you wake up. Your stitches will be removed at your follow-up appointment, unless dissolvable stitches were used. I’m wishing you all the best, and please check back in with us on here (When you’re feeling up to it) to keep us updated on how you’re doing!

Last year I had a laparoscopic salpingectomy on July 1st. (Had both fallopian tubes removed…permanent birth control). I was told that afterwards, I should eat something light. No heavy lifting for a week. No sex for a week (Or two?), and no swimming for a week. I remember going to the 4th of July parade, and walking for 20-30 minutes to a different spot to watch the fireworks. So while I wasn’t yet feeling 100%…I definitely felt okay enough to be out and about. July 6th I had gone out to sing at karaoke night, and a friend of mine there offered to pull off my three bandages (which covered the stitches) for me…and I let her.

 

[piercedcock78]

I read that procedures that are done laparoscopically have a shorter recovery time. So YAY for that!

You’ll be put to sleep, and have no memory of the procedure when you wake up. You may feel groggy and disoriented, and a little nauseous. Which is why they’ll probably require you have someone pick you up to take you home (They wheel you outside in a wheelchair to that person’s car…they don’t want you driving yourself home). Make sure your first meal afterwards is something light. If a breathing tube was used, you may have a sore throat afterwards. You’ll probably feel some discomfort for a few days where the incisions were made. Since your abdomen is inflated with gas, your belly may look big when you wake up. Your stitches will be removed at your follow-up appointment, unless dissolvable stitches were used. I’m wishing you all the best, and please check back in with us on here (When you’re feeling up to it) to keep us updated on how you’re doing!

Last year I had a laparoscopic salpingectomy on July 1st. (Had both fallopian tubes removed…permanent birth control). I was told that afterwards, I should eat something light. No heavy lifting for a week. No sex for a week (Or two?), and no swimming for a week. I remember going to the 4th of July parade, and walking for 20-30 minutes to a different spot to watch the fireworks. So while I wasn’t yet feeling 100%…I definitely felt okay enough to be out and about. July 6th I had gone out to sing at karaoke night, and a friend of mine there offered to pull off my three bandages (which covered the stitches) for me…and I let her.

Thanks for all the love and support.

I will def keep everyone posted.

It does ease my mind to know that this is going to be laparoscopic.

Also thanks for the advice on the eating afterwards.

I am still nervous so messages like this really do help. Thank you.

 

[piercedcock78]

Hey all....the first couple days afterwords were a bit rough.

I am getting stronger by the day. Today I actually walked around the block. So I am making a lot of progress relatively fast. I'm hoping to be back on cam faster than I anticipated. The thoughts are DEF there lol...but I still need someone to help me get out of bed when I am laying down and I got a hella staircase to be able to get up to where I do my camming. But overall, I am feeling 110% better.

Thank you all for the love and support!!

 

[rockin_rod]

Hey all....the first couple days afterwords were a bit rough.

I am getting stronger by the day. Today I actually walked around the block. So I am making a lot of progress relatively fast. I'm hoping to be back on cam faster than I anticipated. The thoughts are DEF there lol...but I still need someone to help me get out of bed when I am laying down and I got a hella staircase to be able to get up to where I do my camming. But overall, I am feeling 110% better.

Thank you all for the love and support!!

Good to hear the procedure is behind you, and good luck with the recovery. I had something similar done maybe 18 months ago, but open surgery (so probably more invasive), and the importance of responding to what your body is telling you is vital. Please take it easy in the early stages, and be guided by your surgeon/specialist. The main thing I recall was them telling me to avoid sex for 10-14 days afterwards and to be prepared for some minor discomfort the first time I ejaculated after that - which there was. That may be different in your situation - mine was an inguinal variety which means the surgery is immediately next to the vas deferens.

 

[zippypinhead]

I can empathize. Hernias are no joke, and the surgeries to address them are serious. I hope you can rest easy, and the convalescence is quick.

 

[piercedcock78]

Good to hear the procedure is behind you, and good luck with the recovery. I had something similar done maybe 18 months ago, but open surgery (so probably more invasive), and the importance of responding to what your body is telling you is vital. Please take it easy in the early stages, and be guided by your surgeon/specialist. The main thing I recall was them telling me to avoid sex for 10-14 days afterwards and to be prepared for some minor discomfort the first time I ejaculated after that - which there was. That may be different in your situation - mine was an inguinal variety which means the surgery is immediately next to the vas deferens.

Thanks man, I really appreciate it.

I couldn't even imagine an open surgery. My hat's off to you that you are better now.

Yeah, I have been taking it very easy with diet and everything.

The strange thing in this...and maybe it is because my energy is coming back to me, but my libido has been thru the freakin' roof! lol. I already did ejaculate once (masturbation not sex)...and there wasn't any discomfort at all...but I was nervous based on some things that I had heard.


RN my main concern is to get and keep things regular in the bathroom department and to get rid of the stiffness when I walk and get out of bed.

Thank you for your kind words.

 

[piercedcock78]

I can empathize. Hernias are no joke, and the surgeries to address them are serious. I hope you can rest easy, and the convalescence is quick.

Thanks I appreciate it.

 

[babykalina]

Good luck with your recovery, take it easy and listen to your body and follow ur docs recommendations!

 

[piercedcock78]

I was able to get in and out of bed today. So I just had a friend help me to get up the stairs and I am on live now. Probably won't be a long time...but I had to see where things went.

Thank you all for the support.

 

[rockin_rod]

maybe it is because my energy is coming back to me, but my libido has been thru the freakin' roof! lol. I already did ejaculate once (masturbation not sex)...and there wasn't any discomfort at all...but I was nervous based on some things that I had heard.

Oh yeah, I can relate to that! I think just human nature of being told to avoid doing something, made me want to do it even more. Probably didn't help when my fave model sent me photos to 'cheer me up' as I lay in the hospital on the night of the surgery.....
From my perspective, the 'avoid sex' was more about giving time for the skin and underlying muscle to heal (the incision was a bit under 2" long) rather than any issue with ejaculating, although I was glad when everything just *worked* as it did before

 

[piercedcock78]

Just got done with my first pvt show since the surgery. It wasn't the longest one that I have done by a long shot...but I did it and I feel really good right now.

Thank you all so much!!