This could be fun or really dangerous

[MarieElise]

I've just had to sit in a room with a guy blah blah blahing endlessly about edging. Sum total of 6 tokens spent. Fuck's sake mate, you don't have to type everything that enters your head into the chat.

Basically telling on himself for being cheap. It's amazing how many of them will do that.

 

[Vixxen81]

"But I tipped a ton yesterday!"

Yeah well you paid for yesterday's ticket to Disneyland but you still have to pay today's admission price.

Translation: I already spent that money and we're dealing with today's balance sheet.

 

[AmberCutie]

"But I tipped a ton yesterday!"

Yeah well you paid for yesterday's ticket to Disneyland but you still have to pay today's admission price.

Translation: I already spent that money and we're dealing with today's balance sheet.

I really like this one. (and by like I mean hate, but you know)

 

[pbonACF]

If you have to ask, it's probably best not to:

"Remember me?"

 

[rockin_rod]

Tip menu item - Show Boobs 60

User tips 30 - "show me one titty BB"

(if the model had done as requested, I'm sure the user would've said "no, not that one, the other")

 

[MarieElise]

A problem I've come across with custom content buyers (that's just guys who order personalized videos) is that there is a huge chunk of them who will send you small novels and detailed scripts for a 10 min video they are only paying $100-$200 for. Then, when you tell them, "for these prices, I take a brief few paragraphs with a few trigger words or phrases, but no scripts," they'll often go ahead and send you a few paragraphs. But when you deliver it, they'll have a litany of complaints, that were not things they even asked for in the few paragraphs. So I guess just people who expect mindreading is my complaint here.

Think girl with webcam, not Miramax. I'm not putting 40 hours into a $200 job. Max, I'm putting in would be 4, and even that is pushing it REALLY far! And is me being very generous with my time and equipment.
The expectations of many, and today's cost of living often don't math at all.

 

[Vixxen81]

@MarieElise because camming is my bread and butter and I was always meh on content in general, refusing customs was easy for me but they are occasionally very tempting until I remember they can do chargebacks on OF and I'm just not here for it.

 

[MeAbc]

How about any username that includes (variations of) 'niceguy', 'gentleman', or 'bigdick'/'hugecock'?

Yes! I have had BigCock and NiceGuy before!

 

[John_Grower]

Camming/Content Stereotypes You Absolutely Hate and Wish to Dispel

For both viewer and creator. Annnnnnnnnd go!

For me, the stereotype that I cannot stand, is that just because I'm on a cam site(s), that I'm interested in an irl meetup. No thanks, and stop asking for my location info.

 

[MarieElise]

@MarieElise because camming is my bread and butter and I was always meh on content in general, refusing customs was easy for me but they are occasionally very tempting until I remember they can do chargebacks on OF and I'm just not here for it.

Yeah, I had the unfortunate experience of a few entitled guys recently with unfair expectations, and I'm gonna be really selective on who I accept those (customs) from going forward. Because camming makes me more money, faster, for the time put in. So I don't think you made the wrong call on that.

If a custom resells really well, over time, it might make me good money, with emphasis on the "might". But camming hands down, is guaranteed to make me a higher hourly rate, right off the bat, compared with pretty much every custom request. I have long-term custom buyers, who every idea they order resells really well. That's (and their good manners) is why they are long-term regs, who I continue to accept customs from. But not new guys. Even at $200 a custom that only resells a few copies, it really isn't worth my time, and is a financial risk for me. Real talk here; Not one I'm willing to take given some of the entitlement I've encountered with new guys recently.

 

[Vixxen81]

For me, the stereotype that I cannot stand, is that just because I'm on a cam site(s), that I'm interested in an irl meetup. No thanks, and stop asking for my location info.

Heh had a guy join fan club and then started peppering me with questions and he got to "location" in his interview questions and I just said, "nope". Haven't seen him since.

Real talk here; Not one I'm willing to take given some of the entitlement I've encountered with new guys recently.

It's like they're all newbs and don't understand and who the hell among us has the time to train them? Glad to hear camming is working out for you. I was curious if you were back at it or not.

 

[rockin_rod]

Tip menu item - Show Boobs 60

User tips 30 - "show me one titty BB"

(if the model had done as requested, I'm sure the user would've said "no, not that one, the other")

How about any username that includes (variations of) 'niceguy', 'gentleman', or 'bigdick'/'hugecock'?

Okay some may doubt this, but 100% truthfully, the below appeared in chat in the room I was in early this morning.
I just could not believe that they reflected my earlier comments here in this thread (above) - and they all happened within the space of about 15 minutes!

 

[ts_cammer98]

Okay some may doubt this, but 100% truthfully, the below appeared in chat in the room I was in early this morning.
I just could not believe that they reflected my earlier comments here in this thread (above) - and they all happened within the space of about 15 minutes!
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Isn't weird how things come in waves? It reminds me of when I worked retail sort of.

 

[ts_cammer98]

oh might I add the unsolicited "<random state> here, you anywhere near?" nope.....

user has left the room

Like do ppl really use chaturbate for hookups? Isn't there better hookup places that go by location? Not that I feel I'm missing out on anything from them leaving the room, but there has to be some degree of success for ppl for as often as I see it.

 

[Vixxen81]

oh might I add the unsolicited "<random state> here, you anywhere near?" nope.....

user has left the room

Like do ppl really use chaturbate for hookups? Isn't there better hookup places that go by location? Not that I feel I'm missing out on anything from them leaving the room, but there has to be some degree of success for ppl for as often as I see it.

I think they're just trying to disarm cammers. And no I don't think it works at all. If a model doesn't care about locating themselves, it's in their bio.

 

[ts_cammer98]

I think they're just trying to disarm cammers. And no I don't think it works at all. If a model doesn't care about locating themselves, it's in their bio.

That goes with another post in another thread lol .... always trying to manipulate! fuckers! lol

 

[Vixxen81]

This is what camming should be

 

[rockin_rod]

There's a viewer that keeps offering the model a 'deal' on a private. She has her private rate at 60/min, minimum of 10 mins.
The 'deal' they offer her is 120/min for no minimum duration.
Simple math suggests they plan to be in private for less that 5 mins, or else they'd just go with the standard rate and duration.
And realistically if they're negotiating those terms, it'd be a LOT less than 5 mins.

I just can't see what the logic is, in trying to convince a model to agree.

 

[ts_cammer98]

There's a viewer that keeps offering the model a 'deal' on a private. She has her private rate at 60/min, minimum of 10 mins.
The 'deal' they offer her is 120/min for no minimum duration.
Simple math suggests they plan to be in private for less that 5 mins, or else they'd just go with the standard rate and duration.
And realistically if they're negotiating those terms, it'd be a LOT less than 5 mins.

I just can't see what the logic is, in trying to convince a model to agree.

In the PAST... emphasis on the past. Every "deal" I've ever made like that results in them attempting more deals and then pushing you (as the model) out of your comfort zone. That or they try some bs trick or whatever. MANIPULATORS! lol

One time I was at like halfway to my goal of 2k and someone offered me 3k to do my goal just for them in a pw. I took it.

I think that through the eyes of a sociopath, camsites are a giant playground. Like even though it would have been cheaper for the viewer to just finish my goal and I do the said goal in public, they would rather have the charge of taking something from the other viewers and that was worth money to them. Yeah I defiantly don't let that shape my overall view of viewers or nothing, I just think there is a few more sociopaths among cam viewers than lets say an off computer real life social event of any sort. I think it attracts them.

 

[MarieElise]

I just think there is a few more sociopaths among cam viewers than lets say an off computer real life social event of any sort. I think it attracts them.

Agreed. Don't forget the narcissists, too, though. God knows they'd never forget themselves (Narcissist joke there). But, seriously, I agree. It's almost sickening on our end of the camera, the amount of those we have to deal with. But at the same time, I agree with you that there are plenty of cool, normal guys too. But they are definitely there, lurking, in larger numbers than in regular social stuff, unless a person goes does BBQs in Prisons, or something weird like that. They are so gamey and slimy.

 

[yummybrownfox]

There's a viewer that keeps offering the model a 'deal' on a private. She has her private rate at 60/min, minimum of 10 mins.
The 'deal' they offer her is 120/min for no minimum duration.
Simple math suggests they plan to be in private for less that 5 mins, or else they'd just go with the standard rate and duration.
And realistically if they're negotiating those terms, it'd be a LOT less than 5 mins.

I just can't see what the logic is, in trying to convince a model to agree.

Years ago when ImLive (a site that was only giving models 30%) had the oh, so bright idea to announce to members that models have the option to give them a discount , there was this guy always coming into my chat asking me for a discount on a private show. It didn't matter if my rate was at the maximum (The max a model could charge was 5.80/minute) or if I lowered it to 3.80 or whatever...this dude would always ask for the discount, simply because he knew it was a site feature. And he knew damn well he wasn't ever staying in private even for 10 minutes.

 

[Vixxen81]

"Oh you must have a bodyguard/security/manager"

NO YOU STUPID MOTHERFUCKING JACKASS I'M LOOKING AT THE GODDAMN TV

I swear I'm going to have a stroke.

 

[rockin_rod]

Meh. Guys who think they're hot news.

Model, doing goal action of ass spanks.
Viewer: mmm do you like anal baby?
Model: no, I don't like it.
Viewer: you'd like it with me
Model: nope
Viewer: try me

 

[AmberCutie]

"If you were my girl, you'd never make it out of the bedroom, I'd be fucking you all day and night."

The stereotype of us cam girls being horny 24/7... The above sounds like a goddamn nightmare if you ask me, maximum of 15 mins a day 2x a week does me just fine, thanks.

 

[Vixxen81]

"If you were my girl, you'd never make it out of the bedroom, I'd be fucking you all day and night."

The stereotype of us cam girls being horny 24/7... The above sounds like a goddamn nightmare if you ask me, maximum of 15 mins a day 2x a week does me just fine, thanks.

That's why I don't offer cum shows. Even on my best and most enthusiastic days of acting skills on point, I can't fake orgasms and I can't pretend I want to do them for total strangers either.

*That's me, I realize others quite enjoy that line of camming and that's awesome. Thanks for doing it so I don't have to. *tongue in cheek*

 

[ts_cammer98]

That's why I don't offer cum shows. Even on my best and most enthusiastic days of acting skills on point, I can't fake orgasms and I can't pretend I want to do them for total strangers either.

*That's me, I realize others quite enjoy that line of camming and that's awesome. Thanks for doing it so I don't have to. *tongue in cheek*

omg! Totally another thing that goes here: as trans everyone has questions on the consistency of my cum! Like pshhh what are you gonna do, put it under a microscope? I don't know why you would expect someone who has transitioned to have a high sperm count, I have fucking boobs damn it!

 

[Vixxen81]

omg! Totally another thing that goes here: as trans everyone has questions on the consistency of my cum! Like pshhh what are you gonna do, put it under a microscope? I don't know why you would expect someone who has transitioned to have a high sperm count, I have fucking boobs damn it!

Girl, I once had to explain that a woman's "fluids" were due to her cycle not her horniness. LMAO *knucks* It does not change regardless. Sex ed is lacking in every single way.

 

[AmberCutie]

I have fucking boobs damn it!

The laugh reaction was because I swear I could just hear this being yelled out in response. like SERIOUSLY! lol

Girl, I once had to explain that a woman's "fluids" were due to her cycle not her horniness. LMAO *knucks* It does not change regardless. Sex ed is lacking in every single way.

I admit I lean into the wet stuff for the profit... but yeah, explaining vag goo is like pulling teeth. The amount of times I've seen vids with verrrry questionably chunky goo and guys are rock hard over it and I'm just like .... yeah that's actually a health issue lol

That's why I don't offer cum shows. Even on my best and most enthusiastic days of acting skills on point, I can't fake orgasms and I can't pretend I want to do them for total strangers either.

*That's me, I realize others quite enjoy that line of camming and that's awesome. Thanks for doing it so I don't have to. *tongue in cheek*

All that being said, I actually have quite enjoyed my cumshows over the years. Because I can trust myself to make it feel better than actual sex majority of the time. Dicks don't do what a smooth glass dildo with an angle for gspot and a very comfy vibrator can do. Of course there were times I faked it because I just wasn't able to get there (or wanted a show to be over for other reasons), but in the big picture of it all, I was genuine a very high % of the time when I finished. And I upsold the shit out of that aspect~!

 

[Vixxen81]

My attitude about cum shows on cam stems from the very first time I hit a goal to do one -- thinking, oh yeah that's going to be awesome. And because I am the AOL baby that I am and I can read 40 lines of text in the blink of an eye, I was very dismayed to read about the things people were ordering from McDonald's as I hacked away at my pussy with a dildo. It killed every ounce of desire I had to be "that" for them. And that was really early on. And to be honest...

I think that's what guys don't understand. You're shaping the model with every interaction you have and it should be handled a little more carefully than how most approach it and yeah we can hand wave it off but don't tell me that you're not still thinking about it years later or even a month later. Meanwhile for them, it's just a numbers game. "Who will finally say yes."

 

[Vixxen81]

Too late to edit, I guess what I'm saying is we have trauma too. How much of that we're supposed to hide is astoundingly different than what gets thrown in our laps.