What irritates you most about camming?

[MeAbc]

Hi Model friends. Can anyone else relate to repedative irritating pet peeve habbits of viewers? I have been in Flirt mode on SC on our Karaoke night for just one hour a week and a different viewer only once visits and requests 18 + activities after It is written and varbalized every few minutes and happens every single time! Some apologise while others laugh. At first I calmly explained that we are in FLIRT mode because they were not familliar with flirt mode. Now the same ones get on there once and request 18 + and they know better! This is getting old and at this point i'm rolling my eyes. Please feel free to share your pet peeves with me. I think some just need a friendly reminder while others are being smart asses.

 

[ts_cammer98]

I can't say I'm really irritated too much anymore these days inside my chaturbate room. Internet is always going to internet, and that kind of makes me chuckle a bit. I've spent my whole life online, so nothing surprises me and I love what I do. After streaming for a while I have just sort of idk, changed how I conduct myself and such and don't give much for the trolls to feed on anymore. Viewers that fit in my niche stay and the ones that don't leave. The ones that have a few shitty or annoying things to say don't hang long anyways, as no reactions give them 0 entertainment. Theres a few minor etiquette things that annoy me a little here and there, but I think most viewers are annoyed by that too. Either way, in the end my viewers are the reason I pay my rent each month, and once I began carrying myself the way I do now, most of the trolls and annoyances kind of weed themselves out.

 

[Vixxen81]

Do you do nude shows, OP?

 

[MeAbc]

I can't say I'm really irritated too much anymore these days inside my chaturbate room. Internet is always going to internet, and that kind of makes me chuckle a bit. I've spent my whole life online, so nothing surprises me and I love what I do. After streaming for a while I have just sort of idk, changed how I conduct myself and such and don't give much for the trolls to feed on anymore. Viewers that fit in my niche stay and the ones that don't leave. The ones that have a few shitty or annoying things to say don't hang long anyways, as no reactions give them 0 entertainment. Theres a few minor etiquette things that annoy me a little here and there, but I think most viewers are annoyed by that too. Either way, in the end my viewers are the reason I pay my rent each month, and once I began carrying myself the way I do now, most of the trolls and annoyances kind of weed themselves out.

Dont get me wrong. I trully apriciate my viewers and love them because they saved my life and helped my husband and I with food and essentials. I give viewers that deserve it free shows on special occassions and special discounts as benefits when they become top viewer and Kings are treated like royalty to express my gratitude and appriciation for them. I was just stating the irritation at times mainly with the freeloaders and lowballers. other than that I usually enjoy what I do and have allot of fun with our viewers.

 

[Mery_NudesMaker]

Ugh...the viewers who completely ignore the room rules or current mode are the absolute worst. It’s like they lack basic reading comprehension skills, or they just think if they push hard enough, you'll magically change your mind. Rolling your eyes is the only logical reaction at this point! Dealing with those types who just demand 18+ stuff during a chill stream drains so much energy. Honestly, that’s one of the main reasons why managing user engagement through smart triggers and features like custom compliments or direct interaction fire-triggers helps a lot. When you can easily filter out the noise or guide the audience into structured, gamified interactions rather than just letting them shout demands in chat, it saves so much sanity. Stay strong on your Karaoke nights, don't let the smart asses ruin your vibe

 

[nikol111]

The FREELOADERS. Worst of the worst lol. I've been analyzing certain users behavior patterns and it has led me to not even want to keep participating on token sites. These users will wait hours upon hours in and out of your room to see anything they haven't tipped for. I can count the times where purple users will literally spend an entire 6hr session in and out of my room and not tip at all. It gets to the point where I go on a banning spree banning the prestigious purples lol. They believe that they're untouchable and can abuse models as they please. This is exactly why I've gravitated to doing more hidden shows.

 

[brandonsully]

probably the constant pressure to stay active and deal with weird people lol

 

[MarieElise]

Just the internet in general- how disrespectful people talk to each other and how manners go right out the window. People like that mostly don't hang around my room long, though, because I either roast them or call them out for poor behavior. Lots of the more experienced cam site users are not like that, though.

I guess recently how fast so many viewers are to assume things. I get it a lot of people are sex and touch-deprived, but convincing yourself it's time to marry a woman you barely know, because your cock got hard a few times, scares me. I've had a lot of guys wanting to meet up, some even talking about marriage recently, and that scares the shit out of me. Not something I do, or something I'm looking for. I was guilty of letting lust cloud my thinking a lot, when I was younger, so maybe it annoys me because it reminds me of parts of myself that annoy tf out of me. But that's actually really dangerous. Just because you find someone sexy doesn't mean they are a good or suitable long-term match for a committed relationship. That's how disasters & unhappy families happen. I really wish society would de/ un conflate sex and committed romantic relationships; I really do.

 

[yummybrownfox]

I mentioned this before in the 'Things Members Say That Make You Go WTF' thread shortly after it happened, but I'll mention it here too.

If I politely tell you I don't enjoy using dildos anymore and haven't for years (and I use vibrators instead), telling me "But a private show is supposed to be about what I want" is rude, entitled, and annoying. Because your rude ass could've specified beforehand that you're looking for a dildo show. Then I could've politely told you that I don't use dildos, and I use vibrators. That would've allowed you to either A) seek out a dildo show elsewhere, B) proceed to take me private where you'll watch a genuine orgasm happen from my vibrator if you can actually STFU long enough to watch me please myself, and not keep telling me to switch positions every two seconds..., C) go buy an old video of mine where I did fuck a dildo, or D) just stay in my public chat where we currently are and just tip for flashes. Btw, he ended up staying in private with me for about 20 minutes. So obviously the 'no dildo' detail wasn't a dealbreaker for him. I really thought he was gonna end the private after I had to calmly check him real quick for the annoying remark.

Just because a lot of models use dildos doesn't mean that every model will. And it doesn't mean that those models will automatically use a dildo in every private session either. I mean...seriously...GET REAL. So if a dildo show is what you must see in order to bust your load, then speak up and ask. You can also look for models who have "dildo" as a tag or hashtag. Just remember that WE make the decisions on what we do with OUR bodies, as it should be.

 

[Vixxen81]

It occurred to me the other day why cybering/sexting situations instantly turn me off. Originally I thought it was objectification, which is undoubtedly buried in the message itself, BUT I have literally never sexted/cybered with anyone but my husband. Ever. I have no idea how to.do that with some random dude on the internet. And I don't want to learn. Maybe I should ask chatgpt about it.

 

[MeAbc]

The FREELOADERS. Worst of the worst lol. I've been analyzing certain users behavior patterns and it has led me to not even want to keep participating on token sites. These users will wait hours upon hours in and out of your room to see anything they haven't tipped for. I can count the times where purple users will literally spend an entire 6hr session in and out of my room and not tip at all. It gets to the point where I go on a banning spree banning the prestigious purples lol. They believe that they're untouchable and can abuse models as they please. This is exactly why I've gravitated to doing more hidden shows.

I dont blame you. I do the samething when I notice too many freeloaders on a consistant basis. I will disapear into a ticket show. That way they are forced to pay if they want to see us do anything. Then they can freeload all they want because they paid to come in and whatch us.

 

[MeAbc]

I mentioned this before in the 'Things Members Say That Make You Go WTF' thread shortly after it happened, but I'll mention it here too.

If I politely tell you I don't enjoy using dildos anymore and haven't for years (and I use vibrators instead), telling me "But a private show is supposed to be about what I want" is rude, entitled, and annoying. Because your rude ass could've specified beforehand that you're looking for a dildo show. Then I could've politely told you that I don't use dildos, and I use vibrators. That would've allowed you to either A) seek out a dildo show elsewhere, B) proceed to take me private where you'll watch a genuine orgasm happen from my vibrator if you can actually STFU long enough to watch me please myself, and not keep telling me to switch positions every two seconds..., C) go buy an old video of mine where I did fuck a dildo, or D) just stay in my public chat where we currently are and just tip for flashes. Btw, he ended up staying in private with me for about 20 minutes. So obviously the 'no dildo' detail wasn't a dealbreaker for him. I really thought he was gonna end the private after I had to calmly check him real quick for the annoying remark.

Just because a lot of models use dildos doesn't mean that every model will. And it doesn't mean that those models will automatically use a dildo in every private session either. I mean...seriously...GET REAL. So if a dildo show is what you must see in order to bust your load, then speak up and ask. You can also look for models who have "dildo" as a tag or hashtag. Just remember that WE make the decisions on what we do with OUR bodies, as it should be.

You dont have to do anything you dont feel comfortable with. Never let a viewer pressure you into anything. I dont blame you for being irritated when they ask you to switch positions every two seconds. How are you supposed to get off like that??? I have had the same happen to my husband and I and my husband will go soft quickly if he is asked to switch positions quickly or if the viewer is exsessivly chatting with us.

 

[yummybrownfox]

You dont have to do anything you dont feel comfortable with. Never let a viewer pressure you into anything.

I sure don't.

 

[brandonsully]

Just the internet in general- how disrespectful people talk to each other and how manners go right out the window. People like that mostly don't hang around my room long, though, because I either roast them or call them out for poor behavior. Lots of the more experienced cam site users are not like that, though.

I guess recently how fast so many viewers are to assume things. I get it a lot of people are sex and touch-deprived, but convincing yourself it's time to marry a woman you barely know, because your cock got hard a few times, scares me. I've had a lot of guys wanting to meet up, some even talking about marriage recently, and that scares the shit out of me. Not something I do, or something I'm looking for. I was guilty of letting lust cloud my thinking a lot, when I was younger, so maybe it annoys me because it reminds me of parts of myself that annoy tf out of me. But that's actually really dangerous. Just because you find someone sexy doesn't mean they are a good or suitable long-term match for a committed relationship. That's how disasters & unhappy families happen. I really wish society would de/ un conflate sex and committed romantic relationships; I really do.

Honestly, I get where you're coming from. People really do blur the line between attraction and actually knowing someone, especially online. Being into someone doesn’t automatically mean you know them or that you’re compatible long-term.

 

[MarieElise]

Something that can irritate me on SM is when guys procrastinate on shows. I often have a limited window I'm available to be online live streaming. I can't be on 5 hours or 8 hours. Some guys will be nice, come in and out of my room a ton, and chat (appropriately). Then I leave for the day, and all of a sudden my DMs are full from those same guys who are now ready for exclusive one-on-one shows. I almost feel like quite a few of them try to guilt-trip me into coming back on, and doing a show because they missed their chance. I won't do that for them, because I don't want to feed into that kind of behavior and poor time management. SM isn't a token site, so if you aren't getting a show in a somewhat timely window, I'm writing you off for that day.

I'm not the best with time management either, but I'm not gonna pester someone in their off time if I had plenty of opportunity, but then fucked it up for myself by being too hesitant and slow. Or by failing to communicate. A lot of guys come in, come back, leave, come back, and then at some point they do get a show. But they very rarely communicate clearly "hey, I'm reloading my funds I'll brb for a show". Or "Hey Eli, I'm at work rn but I'll be home in 30 mins & I was really hoping for a show with you today." Can't read minds. I'm very busy too.

(Don't let that last example make you believe most guys wait until they get home; they absolutely do not! A small number do that, but many more go into the work bathroom, an empty room at work, or their car anyway. Which I'm fine with, but the car has to be stationary and parked, or I'm out. Safety first.)

 

[ts_cammer98]

Honestly, I get where you're coming from. People really do blur the line between attraction and actually knowing someone, especially online. Being into someone doesn’t automatically mean you know them or that you’re compatible long-term.

It's funny how much of a picture they paint in their heads based off you exaggerating like 5% of your personality to an extreme. There's a few recent posts here from that type lol and they would feel like totally ripped off and lied to if they ever found out your an exaggerated persona online.
Like falling in love with a waitress because she was nice and smiled. Come on ppl! The massage therapist gave a good massage because you paid for it, not because your hot or in love.

 

[brandonsully]

It's funny how much of a picture they paint in their heads based off you exaggerating like 5% of your personality to an extreme. There's a few recent posts here from that type lol and they would feel like totally ripped off and lied to if they ever found out your an exaggerated persona online.
Like falling in love with a waitress because she was nice and smiled. Come on ppl! The massage therapist gave a good massage because you paid for it, not because your hot or in love.

Lmao fr, people really be writing whole love stories in their heads over basic customer service