What kinds of things distract you while in a pvt?

[Phoenix4987]

For instance, I've noticed before models trying to be low-key checking how many tokens I had left. So I hid them so it wasn't a focus. Another thing I've noticed is that with some models when they see someone spying it gets them off balance. They try and figure out who it is, they lose focus on the show and focus on that. But I'm not really sure why someone spying matters. I mean, what's the difference between someone paying you for a pvt performance or spying on yours, they see the show regardless. Anyway what are some of the things that have distracted you before? Some guys abnormally large nose hairs? An odd trinket in the background?

 

[SaffronBurke]

Taking me private with the TV absolutely BLARING, then expecting to be able to talk out loud to me. Nuh-uh, I hit mute as fast as I could the instant your stupid TV made my ears bleed, you can type.

And since we're talking about talking... Please, oh please, if you wanna talk back and forth, wear headphones. The ridiculous cycle of feedback from speakers is horrendous.

 

[Phoenix4987]

That's funny. Sorry for your ears. The audio delay on MFC bugs the hell out of me, so I usually just end up typing.

Model: *Asks a question
Me: *Answers question
Model: I saidddd, *repeats question as my response just reaches her
Model: huh? ah, yes. i hear now.

Gah. So frustrating. If I'm going to talk, I'd rather do it on Skype.

 

[Deleted member 35180]

When a member wants me to cum immediately to get his bang for his buck, or has extremely specific requests on what he wants to see, and expects that I'm going to get off to whatever it is he's asking for. Constant switch up of requests "Get in doggie, no now reverse cowgirl, suck on the dildo now, stop edging!" Ahhh! I'm not, I just take a while to cum, and when I do, it's worth it. And I'm not faking it cause, I just think that's a bad habit to get into. To those dudes, stay, be patient, care about my pleasure, or fuck off. I don't care for pressure in what is supposed to be a fun sexual outlet. XP

Maybe this falls under more flustered than distracted, but similar no?

 

[KitKatSunrise]

Not talking at all and just expecting me to know what you want me to do. I get so flustered! Are you a fetishist? Do you want me to strip? Masturbate? Talk about my day??

 

[Deleted member 35180]

Not talking at all and just expecting me to know what you want me to do. I get so flustered! Are you a fetishist? Do you want me to strip? Masturbate? Talk about my day??

I try to get a pm going about this before the show starts,

TattGoddess aka Jessica Wilde on Youtube has a funny video about this, "Typical members on mfc" or something like that

"The ninja privater: This guy just comes into your room and you've never seen him before and he just hits that private button and you're like wtf? I don't know you, I don't know what you're into, I don't know how long you wanna go for. Talk to me man!"

 

[Ambers Troll]

Shark week arriving is a good one.... have had it happen a few times taking a model pvt.

The ninja privater

Had to comment on this.
I love being that guy, I have had some of the most awesome moments just going for it early. I can imagine it would take quite a bit of self awareness and confidence on a model's part to know how to receive someone so certain of what they want.

All I wanted to say, is that it wasn't reckless on the members part, just because you didn't notice them, doesn't mean they didn't notice you. The ninja privater has visited or seen you enough to be certain of spending, just like any regular.
TattGoddess aka Jessica Wilde is a great example. I have tipped her, followed her channel, but she has no idea who I am, she is not the type to notice. I have tipped AdySweet for example not much more and am on her friends list. Clicking private for one would be a surprise, for the other not at all.

 

[LaceyRoyce]

members tipping DURING a private (with tip notes ) is the rudest and most distracting thing.

Regarding turning off your token visability - privates are the only time i actually ever feel its a good idea to have that showing. Assuming you have a set amount to spend in pvt and you're expecting to zero out, I am usually paying attention so that I can make sure that I don't take too long/too short and time things right. Especially for anything related to fetish/JOI/domination but for a typical cum private it's still gonna govern how long i spend taking off my clothes, how long i have for foreplay, how long i have to cum.. so should i use somethign that takes a while or hurry the fuck up...etc.

 

[Serenity_Tam]

I agree with Lollipop for sure. I always will glance at tokens left because I need to gauge how long I spend on an action in a pvt. I am not distracted by it, it's part of the show. I check occasionally and try not to be obvious which honestly it shouldn't be since I'm looking at that direction anyways. There are a few members I am okay with not showing their counter because I know how much time we have before hand.


Sometimes I get distracted by how hot I am. In Skype sessions I minimise my face as small as I can because I'm even hotter in HD LooOOoL

If there is a noise outside my room i will get distracted for a.moment and maybe try and hear who it is and quickly silently hope someone doesn't have a guest over.

If my cats start fighting outside my room i get distracted. I've stopped a show for it to separate them

If something falls over in my room i get distracted

If a supply i need is just out of reach I get distracted

If a piece of fluff flies by my face I get distracted. Especially if it's summer because I'm wondering if it's alive.

As a human being first, adult working lady second I get distracted by a number of things and it's because I am a human not a sexy robot.

If someone spies on my Pvt I will always look at the username for a moment. It's a distracting change on the screen. I'm not trying to figure out who they are, not sure what the point would be. But I notice it.

I'm also distracted if a dude is exceedingly ugly. Also if his house is a mess.

 

[Pure_emotion]

I usually ask them how much time we got for pvt so i know how fast / slow i can go. Not all of them show their tokens and Im not bothered by that as long as they are honest telling me : ok, we play for 6 minutes. Nothing distracts me in privates cause i ignore everything and focus on my orgasm and watch the guy on cam if he has one. i'm 100% there enjoying myself. But hey, I have no sex in real life so that's why probably . LOL. never thought of that.

 

[uncoveredmanhole]

For instance, I've noticed before models trying to be low-key checking how many tokens I had left. So I hid them so it wasn't a focus. Another thing I've noticed is that with some models when they see someone spying it gets them off balance. They try and figure out who it is, they lose focus on the show and focus on that. But I'm not really sure why someone spying matters.

hmm. AFAIK, on CB you can't see someone's tks (you can only infer it if they didn't have enough to sent a PVT request). it doesn't say IIRC that someone is spying (it's just documented in your token stats), and you can even disable spying if you don't like it.
I wonder if they were aware that's an undesirable feature of the site you're talking about

back on topic: the only thing that really distracts me is not knowing what they want when I can't see the screen. it sucks that they can't communicate any other way (CB), so I have to have a peak now and then because for all I know they could've closed the PVT already, which takes me away from whatever I was doing.

 

[Fiona]

I have roommates and my room is by the front door, so I always get distracted when I hear the door or a car outside. I try to cam mostly when they are both gone, but shit happens. Also if I'm in my bed, my dogs INSIST on being there with me. They are usually as asleep under the covers, but sometimes they move around if they get hot.

 

[QueenVeee]

I guess big noises distract me but is not usual for me, my house is pretty quiet and I don't get distracted easily.