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[Danigirl]

Hi everyone. I'm John. I'm 39 and I can be found in South London, nr. Lewisham where I mostly work from home. I work in software for a fintech startup. I went through a divorce a while back and now being older and wiser I'm looking to meet new people who are more open minded. I actually have a question; how does one go about meeting a cam girl in a dating context - I'm thinking some place nice for coffee, and maybe a chat. Just normal dating. I want to potentially get into another relationship in the future but I want to date someone clear of any hangups. Somewhere down the line, few months maybe, I don't want to say the word anal or blowjob and get slapped in the face. So anyway, I'm aware this is a forum full of cam girls... and I want to say hi. And also put it out there that I'm interested to get to know some people and the possibility of dating might be on the cards. If I were ever to date a camgirl, one thing I'll be very clear on is I won't have a problem with what you do; I won't get all jealous and weird and I won't ask you to stop.

So that's me asking for something from you. Here's something from me. I do like that all cam girls are basically hard working entrepreneurs. And I work in software, heavily web based. If you want to talk to me about things that might help your personal business, I'm always happy to chat, no obligations, no strings, no charge

This is such a red flag for most of us models. We cam to earn money not to find a date. We have tons of guys asking us every time we are on if they can meet us, date us, marry us etc. It's while camming, it's emailed, it's on Twitter, it's on snap... Now it's on ACF. It's annoying AF. Believe it or not, there are tons of women who aren't uptight little prudes that aren't cam models.


Also, why are you trying to control @AudriTwo? She said your actions were pathetic. She didn't say you were pathetic.

 

[AmberCutie]

and this isn't a cam site

You've got it. This is a forum about cam sites and cam models, where actual cam models share their insights...

I have an interest in dating in their industry.

...and we're telling you not to. People going into the cam industry looking for more than entertainment are misguided. Stop before you start.

 

[THE MOLLIE MARIE]

I have an interest in dating in their industry

Why?

 

[snrubb]

I'm not trying to control anyone. I haven't tried to do that. I think you are right; there are other women outside of here who aren't quite uptight. I actually had a relationship a while back with a woman from OK Cupid who wasn't uptight, but then she did have an onlyfans account. I'm sorry if you see me as some kind of red flag... but I'm just on the Internet saying, hi, I'm here. Come talk to me if you want to, or... if you don't, then don't. That's no different than what happens on a dating site. I know this isn't a dating site but... what I'm doing isn't inherently bad. And I'm not automatically a threat because I'm on the Internet. I would have been back in the 90s when everyone thought dating sites were strange and full of stalkers, but now everyone uses them.

I get that working as a cam person you probably get approached all the time by clients who are desperate to meet you. But that's not what I am. I came here to meet on neutral ground. Not at your place of work. And I'm not asking for anything from you. I'm just here. If every girl on this site ignores me, that's OK. Odds on guys would get the same result on any major dating site so... you take a chance either way.

Relax. I'm not going to stalk you. And please, please don't engage with me unless you want to. Maybe we can just talk awhile . I do feel a slight regret that you use the term 'red flag', because non cam girls can go online, strike up a conversation and go to a cafe for a drink and have a nice time. I feel like perhaps you don't feel it's safe for you to do the same. And I'm sorry that people have put you in that position.

Anyway look - I am here. I'm friendly. I'm up for a conversation. I actually am on some dating sites, so odds on I find my partner there anyway. I have two girls I've gone on a first and/or second date with at present so I'm talking to people. This is just me casting my net a bit wider. I don't want to control or offend anyone. Have a nice weekend.

 

[snrubb]

Why?

I'm glad you asked me that. So I'm getting along with a nice woman at the moment. I'm chatting with her. She's nice. I do worry that around the fourth or fifth date I'll find out we're not that compatible in the bedroom because she is rather more conservative than me. I don't know that, but I suspect it.

Here I find a lot of people who are certainly open minded as to the bedroom. OK so, if I were, and that's a big if, If I were to end up dating a woman who has worked as a cam model, I would know in advance they are open minded. So I don't need to bring it up, discuss it or wonder about it. I can talk with them about first date stuff. Travel. Food. Pets. Hopes and dreams. Just knowing that the road I'm starting down is the right one. You can't just pre-qualify something like that on a normal dating site. You have to wait like six weeks before you have that conversation. This is kind of an out of the box way of doing things and I'm not sure it will work. Maybe people here are too used to being suspicious and this idea will never get off the ground. But I do work in software and I do spend my life thinking about things from completely different angles.

 

[THE MOLLIE MARIE]

I would know in advance they are open minded. So I don't need to bring it up, discuss it or wonder about it.

You will still come to a point where sex will be discussed. That's how adult relationships work. There is no reason to assume that, simply because we are performers of a sexual nature, we are the same off camera. It's a performance. It's a job. If you really liked fast food burgers, would you be trying to date the burger maker from the McD? Most people don't spend their off time doing the same shit they have to do day in and day out at work. You are making a lot of assumptions.

You can't just pre-qualify something like that on a normal dating site.

Nor can you do that here.

Maybe people here are too used to being suspicious and this idea will never get off the ground.

I think it's more that it's just a bad idea to begin with.

But I do work in software and I do spend my life thinking about things from completely different angles.

Yes. You are trying to logic your way into something that is not logical. Human connection doesn't work like that. Treat people as individuals instead of walking into the situation with your own ideas about how they are based on the small amount of information you have.

 

[AudriTwo]

Dude really wants to dive head first into the viper pit.

 

[Danigirl]

I'm not trying to control anyone. I haven't tried to do that. I think you are right; there are other women outside of here who aren't quite uptight. I actually had a relationship a while back with a woman from OK Cupid who wasn't uptight, but then she did have an onlyfans account. I'm sorry if you see me as some kind of red flag... but I'm just on the Internet saying, hi, I'm here. Come talk to me if you want to, or... if you don't, then don't. That's no different than what happens on a dating site. I know this isn't a dating site but... what I'm doing isn't inherently bad. And I'm not automatically a threat because I'm on the Internet. I would have been back in the 90s when everyone thought dating sites were strange and full of stalkers, but now everyone uses them.

I get that working as a cam person you probably get approached all the time by clients who are desperate to meet you. But that's not what I am. I came here to meet on neutral ground. Not at your place of work. And I'm not asking for anything from you. I'm just here. If every girl on this site ignores me, that's OK. Odds on guys would get the same result on any major dating site so... you take a chance either way.

Relax. I'm not going to stalk you. And please, please don't engage with me unless you want to. Maybe we can just talk awhile . I do feel a slight regret that you use the term 'red flag', because non cam girls can go online, strike up a conversation and go to a cafe for a drink and have a nice time. I feel like perhaps you don't feel it's safe for you to do the same. And I'm sorry that people have put you in that position.

Anyway look - I am here. I'm friendly. I'm up for a conversation. I actually am on some dating sites, so odds on I find my partner there anyway. I have two girls I've gone on a first and/or second date with at present so I'm talking to people. This is just me casting my net a bit wider. I don't want to control or offend anyone. Have a nice weekend.

When has telling a girl "relax" ever worked? I'm perfectly relaxed. Just took a bath.

When you come to a forum for cam models or in your analogy a coffee shop that's frequented by strippers with the sole reason to find a girl to date, you seem way more interested in their job than the actual girl. That's the red flag. If I went to a bar frequented by wall Street dudes with the intent on finding a rich man, I'd be called a gold digger. That's also a red flag. Means intentions are out of whack. Makes me look like all I want is money and all you want is some free nudes or sex with a model that everyone else wants. The red flag has nothing to do with me not feeling safe and everything to do with experience with tons of dudes who think they can use things not designed as a dating website to find a date.

 

[MarieElise]

I'm glad you asked me that. So I'm getting along with a nice woman at the moment. I'm chatting with her. She's nice. I do worry that around the fourth or fifth date I'll find out we're not that compatible in the bedroom because she is rather more conservative than me. I don't know that, but I suspect it.

Here I find a lot of people who are certainly open minded as to the bedroom. OK so, if I were, and that's a big if, If I were to end up dating a woman who has worked as a cam model, I would know in advance they are open minded. So I don't need to bring it up, discuss it or wonder about it. I can talk with them about first date stuff. Travel. Food. Pets. Hopes and dreams. Just knowing that the road I'm starting down is the right one. You can't just pre-qualify something like that on a normal dating site. You have to wait like six weeks before you have that conversation. This is kind of an out of the box way of doing things and I'm not sure it will work. Maybe people here are too used to being suspicious and this idea will never get off the ground. But I do work in software and I do spend my life thinking about things from completely different angles.

I get what you are saying, but I don't think there is one single cam model here who treats this forum like a dating site. So in that regard your wishes come off as a bit disrespectful of this space. However, I do totally get where you are coming from sexually. Are there other spaces this guy can go to meet more sexually open minded women, who feel really good about themselves?

ETA; I don't spend any time looking for partners so I have no clue where he would go about doing this.

 

[AmberCutie]

Here I find a lot of people who are certainly open minded as to the bedroom.

Here’s an example of why you’re misguided. Assuming that because we do this for a living means we are open in minded as to bedroom stuff is wrong.

 

[snrubb]

I'm just getting a really kind of negative vibe from this whole conversation. I don't think it's coming from my end. I'm here really to make positive connections. I'm anywhere to make positive connections. I think everyone working cam sites are awesome. Positive vibes to you all. But I'm not loving this conversation and I don't strictly need to be here, so I'm going to leave. Best wishes to you all.

If you want to reach me, go to my site, shortify.pro. Put a message in the box; contact me, and also your email address. Oh and while we're on that subject, shortify.pro is a URL shortening website which gives the smallest URLs on the Internet. Really. You can use it to promote your content on your instagram and twitter accounts and stuff. It's free. You're welcome. Goodbye

 

[AmberCutie]

I'm just getting a really kind of negative vibe from this whole conversation. I don't think it's coming from my end. I'm here really to make positive connections. I'm anywhere to make positive connections. I think everyone working cam sites are awesome. Positive vibes to you all. But I'm not loving this conversation and I don't strictly need to be here, so I'm going to leave. Best wishes to you all.

If you want to reach me, go to my site, shortify.pro. Put a message in the box; contact me, and also your email address. Oh and while we're on that subject, shortify.pro is a URL shortening website which gives the smallest URLs on the Internet. Really. You can use it to promote your content on your instagram and twitter accounts and stuff. It's free. You're welcome. Goodbye

You’re interpreting people telling you you’re wrong as people being negative.

 

[snrubb]

You’re interpreting people telling you you’re wrong as people being negative.

Sorry for any offence. I'm going to go. But thanks anyway. Nice talking.

 

[Miss_Lollipop]

I'm just getting a really kind of negative vibe from this whole conversation. I don't think it's coming from my end. I'm here really to make positive connections. I'm anywhere to make positive connections. I think everyone working cam sites are awesome. Positive vibes to you all. But I'm not loving this conversation and I don't strictly need to be here, so I'm going to leave. Best wishes to you all.

If you want to reach me, go to my site, shortify.pro. Put a message in the box; contact me, and also your email address. Oh and while we're on that subject, shortify.pro is a URL shortening website which gives the smallest URLs on the Internet. Really. You can use it to promote your content on your instagram and twitter accounts and stuff. It's free. You're welcome. Goodbye

There are some industries that have dating specific apps. Farmers have one lol. Sex workers don't.

This forum is not a dating site. It's a place we come to talk shop not find a date.

I understand looking for sexually open partners. Try lifestyle sites. Stingers, fetish sites etc. No one likes you making assumptions about us about our jobs and frankly anyone that wants to date me because of my job is not at all my type. Especially if they think it's because I won't say no to anal my God.

 

[MarieElise]

. Farmers have one lol.

This is true, I checked it out when I was single. Men w boats who like to sail have one too, but I forgot what it's called.

 

[snrubb]

There are some industries that have dating specific apps. Farmers have one lol. Sex workers don't.

This forum is not a dating site. It's a place we come to talk shop not find a date.

I understand looking for sexually open partners. Try lifestyle sites. Stingers, fetish sites etc. No one likes you making assumptions about us about our jobs and frankly anyone that wants to date me because of my job is not at all my type. Especially if they think it's because I won't say no to anal my God.

I feel really misunderstood. You can say no to anal if you like. My point is, people who do cam work at least know what it is and many have done it. So they won't feel like it's a sin or going against nature or something. That's all I was looking for; that sliver of open ness. I don't want to date anyone because they are a cam worker - I don't see that as adding to a relationship at all. Anyway, never mind. I'm on my way out the door, so if you could let me leave, I'll be out of your hair.

 

[THE MOLLIE MARIE]

let me leave

Okay, you are dismissed. Good luck. Just write on your dating profile that you are looking for sexually open people, k? Then they can pre-qualify themselves.

 

[Miss_Lollipop]

I feel really misunderstood. You can say no to anal if you like. My point is, people who do cam work at least know what it is and many have done it. So they won't feel like it's a sin or going against nature or something. That's all I was looking for; that sliver of open ness. I don't want to date anyone because they are a cam worker - I don't see that as adding to a relationship at all. Anyway, never mind. I'm on my way out the door, so if you could let me leave, I'll be out of your hair.

sorry but anal is a sin. Jesus loves you

 

[Miss_Lollipop]

This is true, I checked it out when I was single. Men w boats who like to sail have one too, but I forgot what it's called.

I want a man with a boat. Maybe I should go to a professional sailors forum where they talk about sailing related industries... oh wait

 

[AudriTwo]

imagine throwing yourself into a viper pit for anal sex. holy shit.

 

[MarieElise]

imagine throwing yourself into a viper pit for anal sex. holy shit.

 

[Danigirl]

Guys. We're sooo negative and meanie heads because we warned he could be taken for a lovecon and don't like our cam rooms and forums being used as camgirlmatch.com .

 

[yummybrownfox]

Hi everyone. I'm John. I'm 39 and I can be found in South London, nr. Lewisham where I mostly work from home. I work in software for a fintech startup. I went through a divorce a while back and now being older and wiser I'm looking to meet new people who are more open minded. I actually have a question; how does one go about meeting a cam girl in a dating context - I'm thinking some place nice for coffee, and maybe a chat. Just normal dating. I want to potentially get into another relationship in the future but I want to date someone clear of any hangups. Somewhere down the line, few months maybe, I don't want to say the word anal or blowjob and get slapped in the face. So anyway, I'm aware this is a forum full of cam girls... and I want to say hi. And also put it out there that I'm interested to get to know some people and the possibility of dating might be on the cards. If I were ever to date a camgirl, one thing I'll be very clear on is I won't have a problem with what you do; I won't get all jealous and weird and I won't ask you to stop.

So that's me asking for something from you. Here's something from me. I do like that all cam girls are basically hard working entrepreneurs. And I work in software, heavily web based. If you want to talk to me about things that might help your personal business, I'm always happy to chat, no obligations, no strings, no charge

So you're not just looking to date a woman. You're looking to specifically date a woman who is a cam girl. LOL. And why is that?

Is it because you assume a cam girl will invite you on cam to do b/g shows with her live?
A cam girl is obviously craving cock 24/7, and is always ready to fuck like she's just gotten out of prison...right?
It sounds cool to brag to your guy friends "I'm fucking a model/cam girl/porn star!"



Instead of wasting our time with nonsense, try actual dating sites. Try Tinder, Bumble (On Bumble the woman has to contact the man first), OKCupid, etc. Cam girls, for the most part, have NO intention of meeting you in person. I don't care if you read threads on here where some poor bastard is all "BuT wE sAy I lOvE yOu AnD tAlK eVeRyDay!" There are some models that give zero fucks about "draining your wallet" by telling you what you wanna hear...while letting you believe that she's fallen in love with you, and can't wait to meet you "soon."

 

[SaffronBurke]

I came here to meet on neutral ground. Not at your place of work.

Except it's still not a dating site. Absolutely no model is on this forum to get a date, and the number of times that it's just happened that a couple happened to find each other is zero, as far as I'm aware. That's actually lower than the number of models who met their SO's on stream - I know of three, but there are a handful more out there. In each of those instances, neither party was looking for a date, but they happened to have a connection and the model pursued it. But here? We're here to kick back and network a little, but absolutely not to date anyone, so you're guaranteed to strike out if you're coming here with that goal in mind.

If you want someone sexually open-minded to date, try Fetlife. They have groups geared towards any activity you could want, and personals ads are extremely popular in them. I've met lots of awesome people from there.

 

[SerenaDevin]

My name is Ava.

I started streaming part time on CB back in April and then moved to SM. I decided to go full time about a month ago and haven’t looked back since.

I have much to learn and am finding these forums full of information.

 

[trashpandafan]

Hi all, just trying to follow the rules. I'm mainly signing up here so that I can seek some support directly from punker barbie. A friend of mine is a recent model who got her account banned, I'm trying to help her get it reinstated because she's gotten so discouraged. Hope that's not against the rules.

 

[englishmuffins]

Hi all, just trying to follow the rules. I'm mainly signing up here so that I can seek some support directly from punker barbie. A friend of mine is a recent model who got her account banned, I'm trying to help her get it reinstated because she's gotten so discouraged. Hope that's not against the rules.

There is nothing that you will be able to do. Your model friend will need to create an account on here reach out Punker Barbie herself and contact support if she hasn’t already. It’s important to note that if your model friend has already contacted support, that should wait for their response and not submit more tickets to them, that will only push her case to the back of the queue.

While it is admirable and kind of you to try to do what you can to help get her reinstated, no representative from chaturbate (here or the site) will give you any info about a model.

 

[trashpandafan]

There is nothing that you will be able to do. Your model friend will need to create an account on here reach out Punker Barbie herself and contact support if she hasn’t already. It’s important to note that if your model friend has already contacted support, that should wait for their response and not submit more tickets to them, that will only push her case to the back of the queue.

While it is admirable and kind of you to try to do what you can to help get her reinstated, no representative from chaturbate (here or the site) will give you any info about a model.

Ah, I guess that makes sense. Thanks!

 

[AnastasiaCalypso]

Hiya. I'm Anastasia, an ukrainian model who found her camming nest on AdultWork. I used to work on LiveJasmin as well, and tried other sites too but I found it much better for me on AdultWork.
I'm 22, I'm an artist/designer, avid pole dancer, and I love everything related to music.I have been camming for 2 years on and off, both from home and studios. Never really had a nice experience with studios and they took a massive toll on my mental health and confidence, so I am trying to heal those by working from home and being gentle to myself. I might cover my experience with studios later on, if I am ready.
I can describe myself as an open person, I like being friendly but I do have my limits too It's all about getting to know me and I'm good to go. Hope I can meet some great peeps here as well!!

 

[ilikemolly]

hi everyone. new here and not performers anywhere. My girlfriend and i have a lot of fun on chaturbate and believe people who go to work should get paid and anyone going there to belittle anyone or ask extra gross questions should all be launched into space. we've met some very nice and interesting people