I think you see both sides of a situation quite well. It's a Gemini trait. A very charismatic trait, too.
@MarieElise both my father and my sister are Cancers and they are the most selfish people I have ever met in my life. On my 30th birthday, my sister showed up to my mom's for my party and proceeded to talk about herself and only herself the entire time, then realized she and my husband had the same cell phone. She starts going on and on about the features and asks him a question and when he didn't answer right away she snapped at him, "WELL ARE YOU GOING TO ANSWER ME?!" I looked at her dead in her face and said, "he didn't know you were talking to him, just thought you were prattling like you always do."
I know another Cancer who is the most selfless person imaginable. So one out of three ain't bad. No diss to
@BrookeRidess, she's always been a sweetheart.