I don’t think that Vixxen’s original response was rude. Like, there’s times when I can sometimes see how someone could take a blunt response online as “mean”, but I’m honestly not sure what part of the original response to the bio could be taken as Vixxen being an “asshole”.
She’s right that other models or even members could report you for what you put in your bio, and with CB being so strict, it could lead to a ban. Would you have preferred no one say anything and for that to happen? Based off your hours, it seems like camming is your main job? You don’t want to lose your job/income over a bio. And, I’m not sure about CB, but you for sure used words that would be flagged on every clip site I’m on.
Also, it is annoying seeing people skirt around the rules of a site. I’ve never once in the almost eight years I’ve been in the adult industry reported another model, but I’ve seen a ton of rule breaking and it does piss me off. Obviously it’s not about me feeling right or being righteous, since I don’t report. I get angry because our industry is literally under attack by the government and general society, and when enough people are breaking rules it does look bad on the industry and like this industry is filled with degenerates who don’t give af like the government/society make us all out to be.
For example, the FAQ answer about meeting up. While I’m not saying this was your intention, I’d interpret your answer like you’re actually trying to find a way around the no meeting up rule by posting your location and that you’re active on Grindr.
You haven’t been in the industry for a long time, by your own admission, so maybe you don’t know about FOSTA/SESTA. It’s a law here in the US that essentially undermines Section 230 of the Communications Decency Act, by making any site that allows users to promote/foster/perpetuate “sex trafficking” legally liable for the users actions. Consensual prostitution can be considered sex trafficking by our fucked up government. Meeting up for tokens can be considered prostitution. That is why talks of meetups are expressly forbidden and a bannable offense, because it puts the sites in legal jeopardy.
While one person talking about meetups in a round about way isn’t realistically going to hurt the site (although it could), if enough people are doing it and the US government decides to step in to make a point/be assholes, thousands of models would be out of a job and lose their income and it would be a further blow in demonizing our industry and more fodder for the government to outright ban it.
So yeah, that’s just one reason why people, like myself, get pissed when other models break rules.
She’s right that other models or even members could report you for what you put in your bio, and with CB being so strict, it could lead to a ban. Would you have preferred no one say anything and for that to happen? Based off your hours, it seems like camming is your main job? You don’t want to lose your job/income over a bio. And, I’m not sure about CB, but you for sure used words that would be flagged on every clip site I’m on.
Also, it is annoying seeing people skirt around the rules of a site. I’ve never once in the almost eight years I’ve been in the adult industry reported another model, but I’ve seen a ton of rule breaking and it does piss me off. Obviously it’s not about me feeling right or being righteous, since I don’t report. I get angry because our industry is literally under attack by the government and general society, and when enough people are breaking rules it does look bad on the industry and like this industry is filled with degenerates who don’t give af like the government/society make us all out to be.
For example, the FAQ answer about meeting up. While I’m not saying this was your intention, I’d interpret your answer like you’re actually trying to find a way around the no meeting up rule by posting your location and that you’re active on Grindr.
You haven’t been in the industry for a long time, by your own admission, so maybe you don’t know about FOSTA/SESTA. It’s a law here in the US that essentially undermines Section 230 of the Communications Decency Act, by making any site that allows users to promote/foster/perpetuate “sex trafficking” legally liable for the users actions. Consensual prostitution can be considered sex trafficking by our fucked up government. Meeting up for tokens can be considered prostitution. That is why talks of meetups are expressly forbidden and a bannable offense, because it puts the sites in legal jeopardy.
While one person talking about meetups in a round about way isn’t realistically going to hurt the site (although it could), if enough people are doing it and the US government decides to step in to make a point/be assholes, thousands of models would be out of a job and lose their income and it would be a further blow in demonizing our industry and more fodder for the government to outright ban it.
So yeah, that’s just one reason why people, like myself, get pissed when other models break rules.
" or "Hiya gorge! Just FYI you're not allowed to drink alcohol or be drunk on CB, like, at all. Other people might report you if they see you drinking (and you did agree to the site's terms), so put it away please! 
"? I recognize it might not work but at least we could try.
