3 Newbie Questions

[IamGrace]

Hi everybody,

please apologize my "stupid" questions, but please tell me:
1.) it is safe her to post my real screen name and my real picture?
2.) until now i not understand why so many models sell their whatsapp number - is this really safe? How you hande customers who all day long call and first of all - is this not a invitation to be paid outside the camsites? I want be paid only in tokens, nothing else.
3.) I was eager to apply on SC, but i was refused because of my nationality, then i read here that some models left SC, is this camsite not the best site respective income and amount of visitors?

Thank you very much for your help

 

[AudriTwo]

1) you do not have to post anything here that you are uncomfortable or fearful of your safety. there are plenty of models here who post anonymously.
2) some models sell whatsapp to make it a bit personal or to take them offsite. you don't have to if you don't want to. i never sold a whatsapp, telegram, or snapchat and did just fine.
3) if sc declined you because of your nationality, i'd give up on it. maybe check out streamate. its a private based site. (sign up here directly: streammatemodels.com) be sure to read the rules because its different than CB or SC. especially if your limited on the sites you can stream on. follow every rule to a T.

 

[cbhours]

If you sell WhatsApp it should probably be on a different phone if possible (maybe another android profile?) or one without Instagram and Facebook on it at least. I have no idea how these things are communicating, I didn't give instagram access to my contacts at all and yet here it is recommending all my Facebook friends to my adult instagram account. I have been sent a models brother and mother as facebook friend suggestions from just talking to the model on Whatsapp.

 

[Vixxen81]

If you sell WhatsApp it should probably be on a different phone if possible (maybe another android profile?) or one without Instagram and Facebook on it at least. I have no idea how these things are communicating, I didn't give instagram access to my contacts at all and yet here it is recommending all my Facebook friends to my adult instagram account. I have been sent a models brother and mother as facebook friend suggestions from just talking to the model on Whatsapp.

Yet somehow no one will ever read your messages (according to WhatsApp commercials)...I don't mess with any of that stuff. It scares me to death.

 

[shrekkkyy]

If you sell WhatsApp it should probably be on a different phone if possible (maybe another android profile?) or one without Instagram and Facebook on it at least. I have no idea how these things are communicating, I didn't give instagram access to my contacts at all and yet here it is recommending all my Facebook friends to my adult instagram account. I have been sent a models brother and mother as facebook friend suggestions from just talking to the model on Whatsapp.

If you sell your WhatsApp or Snapchat, please make sure it is a different number than what you have on your personal private profiles. On my Facebook, I have had three models real Facebook profiles show up as friend suggestions. It's because Facebook and Instagram pull from your contacts. And WhatsApp is owned by Meta now. I told them immediately of course, but for your privacy I would keep everything separate.

 

[IamGrace]

If you sell your WhatsApp or Snapchat, please make sure it is a different number than what you have on your personal private profiles. On my Facebook, I have had three models real Facebook profiles show up as friend suggestions. It's because Facebook and Instagram pull from your contacts. And WhatsApp is owned by Meta now. I told them immediately of course, but for your privacy I would keep everything separate.

Thank you for the helpful advice, but after that? I not like to chat on my phone while i am performing and after that (i perform 8-9 hours a day) i like to enjoy my free time. Which suggestions you have how to handle whatsapp "customers"?

 

[LaceyRoyce]

Thank you for the helpful advice, but after that? I not like to chat on my phone while i am performing and after that (i perform 8-9 hours a day) i like to enjoy my free time. Which suggestions you have how to handle whatsapp "customers"?

Just don’t offer it? You don’t have to do it.

 

[IamGrace]

Just don’t offer it? You don’t have to do it.

I won´t. Many men ask me for my whatsapp, insta, facebook or snapchat, and i always think that they only want save money and go round the camsite.

 

[yummybrownfox]

I won´t. Many men ask me for my whatsapp, insta, facebook or snapchat, and i always think that they only want save money and go round the camsite.

Ugh, they're even asking for your Facebook info too?! That's a big fat HELL NO. Absolutely do not give these men access to your social media accounts where you use your real name, and where you communicate with your IRL (in real life) friends and family. These guys can chat with you on the cam site(s) and Twitter (if you use it) for adult related stuff. It's one thing to be a cam model who's nice, but don't be too nice and accommodating to the point that guys are taking advantage of you. It's 100% fine to say no. Saying no does not make you mean, and does not make you a bitch. And if you encounter a guy who says you are, don't be afraid to use that wonderful BAN/BLOCK button.

These guys see that you're new, and they're trying to get over on you. They'll try to get away with shit that they know they could never do with veteran cam models. Like this 'asking you to send him a 30-minute custom video, and then he'll pay you afterwards' nonsense.

 

[IamGrace]

Ugh, they're even asking for your Facebook info too?! That's a big fat HELL NO. Absolutely do not give these men access to your social media accounts where you use your real name, and where you communicate with your IRL (in real life) friends and family. These guys can chat with you on the cam site(s) and Twitter (if you use it) for adult related stuff. It's one thing to be a cam model who's nice, but don't be too nice and accommodating to the point that guys are taking advantage of you. It's 100% fine to say no. Saying no does not make you mean, and does not make you a bitch. And if you encounter a guy who says you are, don't be afraid to use that wonderful BAN/BLOCK button.

These guys see that you're new, and they're trying to get over on you. They'll try to get away with shit that they know they could never do with veteran cam models. Like this 'asking you to send him a 30-minute custom video, and then he'll pay you afterwards' nonsense.

Yes, i understand, fortunately i not have snap, insta and twitter. But i was thinking, if it makes sense to make a model-twitter/insta/snap account? I have to use always only my screenname, pictures without recogniseable background and i have to sacrifice my private facebook account, because with picture search they will find this private account. So i asked myself if it really makes sense to publish myself as a model in the social media world and in the same time cut my facebook account that nobody can connect this both worlds? What really makes sense please?

 

[LaceyRoyce]

Twitter and Snapchat (or Instagram, TikTok, Reddit etc) can be used to promote yourself and can be helpful.

Facebook you should make everything private/friends only - so like I have FB messenger for my family. My FB user photo is a pic of flowers, and my fb name is not my real name, it’s a nickname. Then I make sure everything is hidden to friends only.

Snapchat can be public and used to promote OR you can sell it and post snaps to your story without offering to chat or communicate. Just be clear when they buy it that it’s for story access, not for chat.

 

[IamGrace]

Twitter and Snapchat (or Instagram, TikTok, Reddit etc) can be used to promote yourself and can be helpful.

Facebook you should make everything private/friends only - so like I have FB messenger for my family. My FB user photo is a pic of flowers, and my fb name is not my real name, it’s a nickname. Then I make sure everything is hidden to friends only.

Snapchat can be public and used to promote OR you can sell it and post snaps to your story without offering to chat or communicate. Just be clear when they buy it that it’s for story access, not for chat.

Oh, now i understand how to separate the private and the "official" side. Now i will edit my FB and keep it for family. Thank you very much for clarity in the social media jungle.

 

[shrekkkyy]

I can only say how some models I have bought there WhatsApp or snap handle it. Most just turn off notifications and ignore texts until before there stream and use it to tell people to come and join them, or send a picture out with their outfit of the day. Some just reply when it's convenient for them, and will hold a conversation. One of them told me from the start not to text often and just wait for her to initiate. As a user when a model offers there WhatsApp the impression is to be able to chat a bit often off of cam. For the snap we are expecting snap stories. I'm a bit of a unicorn and will not bombard a model. If I text, I don't keep texting till they reply. I'm sure most guys just keep texting and annoying the models and then come in the room and not tip either. I have to agree with the models above me and just don't offer it. Probably not worth it. Make an X and disable messaging and just post a pic a day to keep them happy. Maybe a pre-stream announcement.