I would have seconded Amber's suggestion of you trying MyFreeCams as a solo model, because it's my favorite site and IMO you can relax a little more on there without having to worry about some of this shit, and feeling like you're walking on eggshells. However it sounds like you're only willing to cam on a platform where your husband can be present, so if that's the case MFC won't be an option since they don't allow men on camera for any reason at all.
And if you did become a solo model on there, your husband would need to not be in the same room at all and not be heard speaking from another room (like the hallway) while you're live. Years ago there was an MFC model on this forum who told us that she'd received a violation on MFC (I can't remember if she was suspended or permanently banned) because her husband could be heard asking her "What do you want from McDonald's?" If you're thinking
Well what if he just promises to stay really quiet (or asleep) on the other side of the room while I'm live?, no, you shouldn't do that. So you both would need to be on the same page about the fact that he must not be seen or heard speaking while you're live. And it wouldn't hurt to also have one of those doorknob hangers on your door with a message of "SHHH! I'M LIVE STREAMING!" or something with your door locked.
There isn't an MFC rule against watching something on T.V., though, so mens' voices being heard in YouTube ads, for example, aren't a problem. Hell, one day I'd even binge watched several episodes of My Hero Academia while live on MFC.