Hi all,
I know a guy who is a personal fwb. Since we know each other in a personal type of context, I would prefer to keep things amicable as possible. For Halloween, I dressed up as a sort of sexy clown. He wanted me to rip open the crotch of my costume and make a vid for him, and I was like “No, I spent good money on this costume”. He told me something to the effect of, “I will gladly pay you more than what you bought the costume for, to do a custom vid”.
The Halloween costume cost me $121, accessories and all. The trouble is, I didn’t just purchase the Halloween costume…I purchased it on my credit card, and it will be accruing interest. My current Purchase APR is 28.49% variable. I googled a little bit about interest and my search results yielded that the interest this charge would accrue in a year would be about $34.70. Couple that with the fact that I also have to purchase more clown makeup (with shipping $7), some other clowny accessories like a mouth coil ($14), and good quality makeup remover wipes as I have sensitive skin ($14). He told me I could set the price that I want, as it is my time and effort and that I deserve to be compensated for being so good to him. He also told me that I could adjust the price to include any accessories I might need, like the makeup. I accidentally lowballed myself before putting a lot of thought into this and quoted him at $140. He explained to me that I could adjust the price for said accessories, after we both agreed upon this. I kind of think this is too low.
What do you think is fair?
I know a guy who is a personal fwb. Since we know each other in a personal type of context, I would prefer to keep things amicable as possible. For Halloween, I dressed up as a sort of sexy clown. He wanted me to rip open the crotch of my costume and make a vid for him, and I was like “No, I spent good money on this costume”. He told me something to the effect of, “I will gladly pay you more than what you bought the costume for, to do a custom vid”.
The Halloween costume cost me $121, accessories and all. The trouble is, I didn’t just purchase the Halloween costume…I purchased it on my credit card, and it will be accruing interest. My current Purchase APR is 28.49% variable. I googled a little bit about interest and my search results yielded that the interest this charge would accrue in a year would be about $34.70. Couple that with the fact that I also have to purchase more clown makeup (with shipping $7), some other clowny accessories like a mouth coil ($14), and good quality makeup remover wipes as I have sensitive skin ($14). He told me I could set the price that I want, as it is my time and effort and that I deserve to be compensated for being so good to him. He also told me that I could adjust the price to include any accessories I might need, like the makeup. I accidentally lowballed myself before putting a lot of thought into this and quoted him at $140. He explained to me that I could adjust the price for said accessories, after we both agreed upon this. I kind of think this is too low.
What do you think is fair?
