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Things Members Say That Make You Go "WTF?"

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As a moderator on Chaturbate, mostly I just tolerate the greys unless they become rude, spammy or say something that might get a model banned. Mostly they are harmless losers.

This guy on the other hand has been twisting my melons for weeks. He's the Whackamole grey who just keeps coming back every time his silence expires. Thankfully after weeks of it she finally banned him to save me getting repetitive strain injury. He claims to have been part of a hugely successful cam couple and his whole schtick is to come into a models room, criticise how few people are there, criticise her tip menu and say that he'll tell her how to be successful in a PM.

Obviously bullshit (lets not get into why he would choose to try to impart that advice as a grey, the most reviled and ignored of all users). A guy with that business strategy probably shouldn't be advising on business strategy.

Sadly I see some models taking him up on it, with god knows what consequences for their tip menus and broadcasts. I'm still shocked that Chaturbate has no way of just banning these idiots permanently. It's like building a house and allowing it to be filled by annoying wasps every day without ever calling pest control.

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Obviously bullshit (lets not get into why he would choose to try to impart that advice as a grey, the most reviled and ignored of all users). A guy with that business strategy probably shouldn't be advising on business strategy.
I don't know. You hear these stories about these people who live in squalor. And when they die, their neighbors learn that they were millionaires all along. He could be the millionaire model living like a gray member.....
 
"Babe if I had tokens....."
Always a sign to stop listening! It’s so obvious that viewers give advice based on what benefits them, not models.

As to millionaires… having lived both financially comfortable (not a millionaire tho) and flat broke, I can confidently assert that once basic housing/medical/food costs are cared for, extra spending money does very little to help my overall happiness compared to things like personal freedom, physical health, and supportive friendships. This is kinda what studies show for most humans so I don’t think I’m unique here - enjoying a sunny day or a convo with a close friend are simple things that can provide a lot more joy than a fancy new car for example.
 
Stories are stories. People with houses and money could choose to cook and clean and pursue friendships and enjoy the weather.

This said as a person with persistent depression, physical disabilities, and my own money issues and knowing seeking more money isn’t the key (for me) to make the best improvements in my happiness, mental or physical health. Just sayin. I could have more empathy for millionaires, but there are a lot of people I could help and they don’t top my list.
 
Stories are stories. People with houses and money could choose to cook and clean and pursue friendships and enjoy the weather.

This said as a person with persistent depression, physical disabilities, and my own money issues and knowing seeking more money isn’t the key (for me) to make the best improvements in my happiness, mental or physical health. Just sayin. I could have more empathy for millionaires, but there are a lot of people I could help and they don’t top my list.
From what I read, these people actually had mental health issues. I might have a little empathy for people like that.
 
From what I read, these people actually had mental health issues. I might have a little empathy for people like that.
Yeah I don’t mean to be cold hearted. But I suffer from mental health issues too and at least they can afford healthcare/ therapy?

I also volunteer for people with all sorts of mental and physical disabilities, often living in poverty, who work hard trying to maintain a balanced life, express and create more joy than almost all (of many) millionaires I’ve hung out with, and they clean up after themselves. 🤷🏻‍♀️
 
This is a rare case of a model - not a member - saying something that made me go WTF.

This was a new-to-me model, my first visit to her room.

Her third question to me - after “where are you from” and “how old are you” - was “How many children do you have?”

Putting aside how strange it is for that to be the third question asked of a stranger on a cam site, it just makes me cringe in general seeing the word “children” in an adult chat room.

Even if no harm was meant by it, just… can we not?
 
This is a rare case of a model - not a member - saying something that made me go WTF.

This was a new-to-me model, my first visit to her room.

Her third question to me - after “where are you from” and “how old are you” - was “How many children do you have?”

Putting aside how strange it is for that to be the third question asked of a stranger on a cam site, it just makes me cringe in general seeing the word “children” in an adult chat room.

Even if no harm was meant by it, just… can we not?


I know it's still weird and wrong either way but I think she just worded it wrongly. Just the usual casual (in real life I mean) "do you have any children? are you married?", you know, but I do agree that is always a weird and wrong question on cam sites.

To be fair I honestly don't think any model has ever asked me this - maybe they just make the assumption im a sad lonely guy being there hahahaha (or maybe they dont want to get banned so dont ask that type of question)
 
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For the record, this was definitely not even a thought for me when seeing the model.. so he clearly only speaks for his dumb self.


10:58 PM
-BlancoRodrigues-
you are so amazing honey...

10:59 PM
-BlancoRodrigues-
but looks like a cheater gold digger hahahaha

11:00 PM
-BlancoRodrigues-
gemini you are right??

11:00 PM
[MODEL]
@-BlancoRodrigues- Whaaat ahahahah?


11:02 PM
-BlancoRodrigues-
i am just saying honest opinion about how men see you hahaha
 
Ummm what does this even mean?


12:30 PM
Nnbvc12
Quickly, my dear wife, take off your clothes. (From a large hole in your backside)
from = form
 
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Damn wow, I didn't even think of this as a thing, at least not wanting someone to be horrible about your significant other... humiliate and be bad about yourself is one thing, but about your wife? That is just beyond shameful.
I understand maybe he means it all as a roleplay and he doesn't have a real wife, but maybe he does. Who knows, but if it is about a real wife then it's really fucked up


12:51 PM
badoldman2025
Into home wrecking play inn exclusive? Be mean and make fun of my wife as I wank to you?
 
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Not the biggest whiskey tango foxtrot moment, but still obnoxious:

littleone6: tipped 1 token -- Remove the underwear for more tokens!
littleone6: Waiting!!!
(Me informing how much that costs)
littleone6 has left the room.
 
Damn wow, I didn't even think of this as a thing, at least not wanting someone to be horrible about your significant other... humiliate and be bad about yourself is one thing, but about your wife? That is just beyond shameful.
I understand maybe he means it all as a roleplay and he doesn't have a real wife, but maybe he does. Who knows, but if it is about a real wife then it's really fucked up


12:51 PM
badoldman2025
Into home wrecking play inn exclusive? Be mean and make fun of my wife as I wank to you?
I equate that to these people that want to exchange pictures of spouses. Sometimes everyday photos, other times private. Their wives have no part in all of this, but they would violate their privacy like that. Also shameful.