No argument with those sentiments. In my cases, it's been the opposite situation - they're showing off their wives, or they have some swinging or spouse swapping fantasy. Either way, without approval, it's a violation of their (or my) spouse's privacy.I can’t stand the kind of men who try to put women against each other, or try to get one woman to bash/disrespect another woman. And telling a cam model that she’s hotter than your “fat wife”…OMG, you’re a massive pile of shit if you do this. I feel so sorry for the women in relationships (or marriages) with guys like this.
Like WTF…do you think that’s gonna make me smile, giggle, and say “Awww, thanks, bb!”No. I’m gonna be disgusted, and tell you that I hope your wife gets all your money and leaves you…and winds up with an amazing, HOT guy who actually knows how to find the clit and give her the best, mind blowing sex ever.
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Just had a guy try to rope me into his bacterial vaginosis fetish (the fish smell) and my god what the flying fuck is wrong with these people? Why on earth would a chick want to talk about something so reputation-ruining (even wearing a pad, you can still smell it if the case is bad enough and not being treated). Not to mention uncomfortable with two of the worst cures a woman has to endure for this kind of stuff (giant horse pill twice a day for 7 days that you can't drink on without getting violently ill or a gel that makes it look like your vagina is giving birth to slime.)
yummybrownfox
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^Yeah, I really hope models aren’t agreeing to do that specific fetish show, because these shows get recorded and plastered on the internet. And then it’s inevitable that you’re gonna have ignorant-ass, uninformed men finding it, and creating their dumb lil’ Reddit threads talking shit about how “nasty” you are. 
Nobody wants to go viral for something like that.
Nobody wants to go viral for something like that.
I was seriously horrified by it. He then asked me what's the worst pussy I've ever smelled and I hit insta-banned.^Yeah, I really hope models aren’t agreeing to do that specific fetish show, because these shows get recorded and plastered on the internet. And then it’s inevitable that you’re gonna have ignorant-ass, uninformed men finding it, and creating their dumb lil’ Reddit threads talking shit about how “nasty” you are.
I'm a blatant kink-shamer and I'd have told this guy off with reckless abandon.
I first tried to educate and he doubled down and I was like NOOOOO GTFO and just banned the shit out of him. It's so gross. And I totally agree things need to be shamed when it crosses lines.
shanepenis: Do you have any kids?
shanepenis: Do you have any boys?
Me: Don't worry about my kids
shanepenis: Did you have them circumsized?
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Don't think I'm breaking new ground here, but it's infuriating when members try to make my family, esp. kids (though they are adults), parts of their perverted fantasies.
shanepenis: Do you have any boys?
Me: Don't worry about my kids
shanepenis: Did you have them circumsized?
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Don't think I'm breaking new ground here, but it's infuriating when members try to make my family, esp. kids (though they are adults), parts of their perverted fantasies.
stormythunder
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I would just ban instead of typing back a sentence that also contains the word. You can end up with a ban even if your intention wasn't to further the convo.
I’ve definitely told clients I’m not a therapist and can’t continue with that line of conversation. I have my own mental health issues and find it both unhealthy and unethical for me to engage in that kind of convo, but I will send them a list of free/low cost mental health resources if I can do so in a way that doesn’t break TOS where it happens.
It’s really unfair and manipulative for clients to ask this type of support from sexworkers who are not trained to help them or to minimize the effect on our own lives of handling others’ mental health challenges. Also most of us aren’t paid enough for that work.
Good point. I think I usually say "don't worry about my family," but I think I did use the K word. That said, I usually give them two strikes, unless the first one is really egregious. A number of times the member will apologize and change the topic.
The only thing worse than non-tippers is guys who try to haggle. It's not a flea market you douchebag.
and you can't buy fleas at a flea market
And worse is when they try to make it sound like they are doing you the favor. "You're not busy, so 6tk/min instead of the usual 90 is better than 0." Try that at a Best Buy... "You're not selling any TVs at the moment, so I'll help you out by buying that $700 one for a dollar..."
Oh, let's add to those the ones that once bought a TV and now want a free TV each time they visit the store...
Thankfully I don't get many of those anymore. Hate it for those who do.
Or worse, when they buy a USB cable and think that entitles them to the TV too.
Luckily, I suppose, these people don't spend enough to be able to downvote a Best Buy. "Worst customer service ever. Wouldn't give me free stuff, after I bought their cheapest item!"
Expecting her to do a twerk then he will tip - we all know it's BS
Guys will try any angle to scam a model it's ridiculous.
6:07 AM
BootyChallengeBoy
Hi lo, o have a offer, if u want to know more lets talk im pm
6:10 AM
BootyChallengeBoy
Hey, love! Let me see you doing a twerk show, and i will rate it from 40 to 1k! But it need to be a great twerk show (please dont do just a shake), we can do it in pvt if u want, but i need to see if it worth in a sample
Guys will try any angle to scam a model it's ridiculous.
6:07 AM
BootyChallengeBoy
Hi lo, o have a offer, if u want to know more lets talk im pm
6:10 AM
BootyChallengeBoy
Hey, love! Let me see you doing a twerk show, and i will rate it from 40 to 1k! But it need to be a great twerk show (please dont do just a shake), we can do it in pvt if u want, but i need to see if it worth in a sample
Yeah, don't go giving any twerks that are less than great for free! It needs to be great and it needs to be free. That's his final offer.
That is just gross! Discusting!! Thats just as bad as a guy wanting to lick a women's dirty feet and tell him he is not worthy of sex.
I think I'm going with the vaginosis one as worse. Any term starting with "bacterial" should not end in the word "fetish."
Why is it always the greys that try this and think it will work
3:16 AM
gemy890
Hola, cariño, quiero verte en Dubai, pagaré el billete de avión, los hoteles y el alojamiento en su totalidad, también algunos regalos, si estás interesado, envíame un mensaje, cariño
Translation: Hi darling, I want to see you in Dubai. I'll pay for the plane ticket, hotels, and accommodation in full, plus some gifts. If you're interested, send me a message, darling.
3:16 AM
gemy890
Hola, cariño, quiero verte en Dubai, pagaré el billete de avión, los hoteles y el alojamiento en su totalidad, también algunos regalos, si estás interesado, envíame un mensaje, cariño
Translation: Hi darling, I want to see you in Dubai. I'll pay for the plane ticket, hotels, and accommodation in full, plus some gifts. If you're interested, send me a message, darling.
"sorry for the silence I'm tipping my other favorite cam girl"
If he had been standing in front of me in person I would have straight kicked him in the balls. No cap.
If he had been standing in front of me in person I would have straight kicked him in the balls. No cap.
yummybrownfox
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I know people laughed about this (not his remark, but the part about kicking him in the balls
), but this annoyed me that he even said this to you. Like why the fuck would you blurt out this statement to a cam girl. I really think some of these knuckleheads are as dense as the Ray Barone character on Everybody Loves Raymond.
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I have banned people for this, like if it's a long time regular and it's once in a blue moon then I tend to be more like "let's cheer you up" but when it's consecutive days or they havnt already established it's not a normal part of your personality it's an instant ban if they are doing it in public chat.
Wow that is genuinely ridiculous. It's fine to be tipping others but to be so disrespectful is insane. Do guys do it because they want to make a model jealous? Make them feel shitty? Or are they genuinely so dumb?
Grey user...
1:57 PM
monster_man100
I really like you, but before I send you tokens, I want my dick to be rock hard. What can you show me for that?
1:57 PM
monster_man100
Are you brave enough to take your clothes off?
stormythunder
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- stormythunder
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- stormythunder
Since he's a Grey user, apparently he was never brave enough to buy any tokens.Brave enough
I'm pissed off for two reasons:I know people laughed about this (not his remark, but the part about kicking him in the balls
A) How dare you assume you're that important I would miss your chat when you're dark blue and tipped me 25 tokens
B) He said something like I had been told before where he was from as if I should have remembered a dude I interacted with twice maybe a month or longer ago
But I would love to know if he said something similar to her and what her response was.
You know he spent time crafting exactly what to say that would leave the model with no choice but to take her clothes off.
