Ball stretcher

[BonnieBaby07]

I had someone come in my room tonight who wanted me to walk him around with a leesh on a ball stretcher. How am I suppose to do that if I'm here and hes behind the camera?.

 

[MarieElise]

I had someone come in my room tonight who wanted me to walk him around with a leesh on a ball stretcher. How am I suppose to do that if I'm here and hes behind the camera?.

imho its his responsibility to use accurate language to convey what he wants. I get that all the time, guys will say "ready to fuck?", and I'm like "I offer live webcam shows over the internet, if you would like a mutual masturbation show w c2c, sure".

What he probably meant was he wishes you to tell him what to do to himself step by step, which is common is BDSM shows. However it's his responsibility to communicate and train you on his limits, and how he likes it, rather than giving you a vague, nonsensical command. Then expecting you to mind read & extrapolate his exact, specific wishes from that shit. God help us all! Truly!

This is very common on these sites. They need hand-holding with accurate language. Sometimes they will have another person there with them that they want you to command, or they have a way of doing it to themselves. But they need to use words to explain that, rather than sounding like they are looking for a long-distance, telepathy sex- magic fucking circus show.

Many of them (these completely unaware types) freak out if you don't put it to them gently, though. So if you wanna get the sale from people like that , my advice is to use words to gently coax them to express themselves more clearly. If you outwardly display frustration or annoyance, they tend to bolt. If I don't have the energy after a long shift, I just tell them "Not something I'm into today, try back another time". Or sometimes I just scream "FFFFFUUUUUUUUUUUCCCCCCCKKKKKK!" into the void, because I just can't be arsed with it

 

[BonnieBaby07]

imho its his responsibility to use accurate language to convey what he wants. I get that all the time, guys will say "ready to fuck?", and I'm like "I offer live webcam shows over the internet, if you would like a mutual masturbation show w c2c, sure".

What he probably meant was he wishes you to tell him what to do to himself step by step, which is common is BDSM shows. However it's his responsibility to communicate and train you on his limits, and how he likes it, rather than giving you a vague, nonsensical command. Then expecting you to mind read & extrapolate his exact, specific wishes from that shit. God help us all! Truly!

This is very common on these sites. They need hand-holding with accurate language. Sometimes they will have another person there with them that they want you to command, or they have a way of doing it to themselves. But they need to use words to explain that, rather than sounding like they are looking for a long-distance, telepathy sex- magic fucking circus show.

Many of them (these completely unaware types) freak out if you don't put it to them gently, though. So if you wanna get the sale from people like that , my advice is to use words to gently coax them to express themselves more clearly. If you outwardly display frustration or annoyance, they tend to bolt. If I don't have the energy after a long shift, I just tell them "Not something I'm into today, try back another time". Or sometimes I just scream "FFFFFUUUUUUUUUUUCCCCCCCKKKKKK!" into the void, because I just can't be arsed with it

I get that all the time that they tell you a bit and expect you to mind read the rest.

 

[ts_cammer98]

I had someone come in my room tonight who wanted me to walk him around with a leesh on a ball stretcher. How am I suppose to do that if I'm here and hes behind the camera?.

t's not too different from like if your riding a dildo and talking to the camera like as if actually your riding them. People like interaction like that.

You just kind of wait a moment between instructions and don't forget to give them praise and such "oh your doing great"

Many of them (these completely unaware types) freak out if you don't put it to them gently, though. So if you wanna get the sale from people like that , my advice is to use words to gently coax them to express themselves more clearly.

Very, very true! A lot of them go right into the pvt and have only told you what they want(vaguely too), but no one ever says what they don't want. You dial it up too much and they leave, or sometimes (since they never really tell you) you don't dial it up enough because your trying to play it safe and they leave.

They like to change course on you too a lot! I get a lot of pvts that start as a JOI and then the client suddenly goes "now degrade me", and that's like the thing I'm worse at! Plus for my gender and type of shows I do, most of them want to be degraded for things I don't think are degrading. Then the show switches from something I'm decent at to something I'm not comfortable with. Can't blame the model, we all have things we do well and things we don't want to do. The clients dropping surprise bombs in the middle of the show and doesn't know a thing about the model.

To the viewers reading this: Please provide more details! lol

 

[MarieElise]

t's not too different from like if your riding a dildo and talking to the camera like as if actually your riding them. People like interaction like that.

You just kind of wait a moment between instructions and don't forget to give them praise and such "oh your doing great"

Very, very true! A lot of them go right into the pvt and have only told you what they want(vaguely too), but no one ever says what they don't want. You dial it up too much and they leave, or sometimes (since they never really tell you) you don't dial it up enough because your trying to play it safe and they leave.

They like to change course on you too a lot! I get a lot of pvts that start as a JOI and then the client suddenly goes "now degrade me", and that's like the thing I'm worse at! Plus for my gender and type of shows I do, most of them want to be degraded for things I don't think are degrading. Then the show switches from something I'm decent at to something I'm not comfortable with. Can't blame the model, we all have things we do well and things we don't want to do. The clients dropping surprise bombs in the middle of the show and doesn't know a thing about the model.

To the viewers reading this: Please provide more details! lol

I end the show if they switch up suddenly and tell them off, reminding them I never agreed to whatever it is they suddenly bust into. A lot of times they come back and apologize but if I have to do that ill then be irritated and want space from that specific person. If they get angry I block them. I'm tired of that shit. Read my profile and what I offer, don't make random assumptions or you'll get on my bad side. Manners

I've done one too many shows with coked up randos that are so immune and desensitized, that they need something different every 30 seconds. I'm happy for those types to fuck off.

 

[BonnieBaby07]

t's not too different from like if your riding a dildo and talking to the camera like as if actually your riding them. People like interaction like that.

You just kind of wait a moment between instructions and don't forget to give them praise and such "oh your doing great"

Very, very true! A lot of them go right into the pvt and have only told you what they want(vaguely too), but no one ever says what they don't want. You dial it up too much and they leave, or sometimes (since they never really tell you) you don't dial it up enough because your trying to play it safe and they leave.

They like to change course on you too a lot! I get a lot of pvts that start as a JOI and then the client suddenly goes "now degrade me", and that's like the thing I'm worse at! Plus for my gender and type of shows I do, most of them want to be degraded for things I don't think are degrading. Then the show switches from something I'm decent at to something I'm not comfortable with. Can't blame the model, we all have things we do well and things we don't want to do. The clients dropping surprise bombs in the middle of the show and doesn't know a thing about the model.

To the viewers reading this: Please provide more details! lol

Thats the mistake I keep making. I talking to them on the C2C instead of through thr webcam. I can't get the little window to move over to the other side.

 

[ts_cammer98]

Thats the mistake I keep making. I talking to them on the C2C instead of through thr webcam. I can't get the little window to move over to the other side.

I use a wide monitor, but if you have 2 monitors or if you have the real estate you can do it too. I like to click the button that makes the c2c stream it's own pop up window and put if off to the side, then make the c2c in the chaturbate window as small as possible and move it out of the way since closing it will close the pop up window too.