jennavalentine said:yes! this is why i ASK guys to ask me first for a private. i need them to communicate to me. i've gotten into a private before where a guy didn't even read my minimum and then asked me to do anal then i said i don't do that and he left. this has happened SO many times.
i've had a long private where i don't take off my clothes til the last minute, i've had a long private where the guy wants me naked right away. everyone is totally different! this seems to be your ideal private which is great - but it's not for every guy.
That is so annoying!
I prefer to talk about what guys and girls want to do in private in PMs *before* going private. That way I can be prepared or inform them whether I'm interested.
By the way...
I love you Jenna!