Annoying things members do

[David_Lee_Loca]

- come to my room
- got 3-4digits of tokens
- hang around all night
- no tips

Just fuck off, please.

Or when they keep you in PM, making all these offers just to mess with you or try to bargain for content when you can see that they can more than afford it.
It's like they don't realize or don't even care that we are actual human beings doing this as our job. It's sickening.

 

[CherryChu]

I don't even reply to those haha. I only open my PMs to members if someone's asking about a private and they seem genuine, or maybe if I'm really desperate and it's slow and I want to just have something to respond to on cam.

The other day I got a PM from someone who'd never been in my room before that just said 'Love you xxxx' and I'm like what?? What is that meant to do? Lol

 

[ComicOzzie]

I don't even reply to those haha. I only open my PMs to members if someone's asking about a private and they seem genuine, or maybe if I'm really desperate and it's slow and I want to just have something to respond to on cam.

The other day I got a PM from someone who'd never been in my room before that just said 'Love you xxxx' and I'm like what?? What is that meant to do? Lol

Q: How can you tell right away that a member will never tip you?
A: He tells you he loves you.

 

[SaffronBurke]

Q: How can you tell right away that a member will never tip you?
A: He tells you he loves you.

It's true, I've never seen a penny from someone who used the "l" word.... Unless it was referring to my ass.

 

[anon_imgone]

Breaking news: You are not special, unique, or different. 90% of guys who turn their cams on in a private with me are mid-20's to mid-30's, lift weights/work out, and have nice dicks. That doesn't even impress me anymore, because it's what I expect to see. I get maybe one fat old guy or gross dick a week, and the rest are hotties around my age.

I always assumed a lot of cam girls don't watch cams because they are afraid of an old fat hairy dude or something being on the other end.

 

[CherryChu]

I always assumed a lot of cam girls don't watch cams because they are afraid of an old fat hairy dude or something being on the other end.

That doesn't bother me - what I don't particularly like about watching cams is the connection/personal attention aspect. I'll watch them sometimes in privates as you're paying to get my whole attention, but I don't like it when I'm asked to watch in public. Unless you want me to ignore you and tell you you're boring and I've got other things to do. that one I can do =p and have been asked a few times haha

 

[Amelia Liddell]

I always assumed a lot of cam girls don't watch cams because they are afraid of an old fat hairy dude or something being on the other end.

i agree with saffron that like 8 times out of ten the guy is attractive. but even the few times where they aren't conventionally attractive doesn't mean we don't have fun personality is most important.

also hey, i love hairy older men with chubby tums, so i am not afraid of that at all

 

[Gen]

Old fat hairy dudes are usually more fun anyways because a lot of the young buff guys are like "are you impressed?!?? Can I have a discount because I'm so hot? I bet you never thought you'd see such a hot guy on here!" All of which is incredibly unsexy, haha.

 

[anon_imgone]

That doesn't bother me - what I don't particularly like about watching cams is the connection/personal attention aspect. I'll watch them sometimes in privates as you're paying to get my whole attention, but I don't like it when I'm asked to watch in public. Unless you want me to ignore you and tell you you're boring and I've got other things to do. that one I can do =p and have been asked a few times haha

That seems fair to me, I do find it weird some models just flat out refuse to watch cams regardless in pvt or not. I guess it's a turn off for some girls watching a guy even in pvt?

I personally don't turn mine on (I used to back when I used streamate) but I definitely fit the 20-30 young fit guy mold haha.

i agree with saffron that like 8 times out of ten the guy is attractive. but even the few times where they aren't conventionally attractive doesn't mean we don't have fun personality is most important.

also hey, i love hairy older men with chubby tums, so i am not afraid of that at all

LOL

Old fat hairy dudes are usually more fun anyways because a lot of the young buff guys are like "are you impressed?!?? Can I have a discount because I'm so hot? I bet you never thought you'd see such a hot guy on here!" All of which is incredibly unsexy, haha.

haha ya I can definitely see that, haven't done that myself but as someone goes to the gym that sees many people checking themselves out in the mirror I can totally see that happening.

 

[LilyBlueBBW]

A lot of us don't watch cams because the dude usually wants us to do it for free. I have never watched another cam without some scrilla or deniro being involved. Hell I have even started to charge for PM's.

 

[anon_imgone]

A lot of us don't watch cams because the dude usually wants us to do it for free. I have never watched another cam without some scrilla or deniro being involved. Hell I have even started to charge for PM's.

But what about in private when the guy is paying?

 

[LilyBlueBBW]

Money rules in our industry. You don't say a particular word without being paid for it. You don't take off a piece of clothing without being paid for it. You definitely do not watch someone else's cam without being paid for it. Now I will do free chat with my regulars all day along but they know that in order for me to show some skin, they need to show some ends. Anytime a man takes you in private and is paying for your time, you do everything with him as long it is within reason and it does not break that particular site's rules.

 

[BrieLovexo]

One of my pet peevs right now is when a member tips for example 25 tokens during the show,and then I mention a video deal in the chat like "next person to tip 75 tokens gets my new video." They will either tip the 50 tokens and expect the video or just ask me "hey since I already tipped25 tokens that means I owe you 50 tokens right now right?"

I don't know if this happens to a lot of models but it happens to me a lot and I'm usually too nice to shut it down.
I feel like this is almost the same as bargaining for less because they know they tipped the 25 tokens for the show and not the content.

 

[AmberCutie]

But what about in private when the guy is paying?

I think she was trying to say "dinero", which that (in Spanish) and "scrilla" would mean money.

 

[JerryBoBerry]

also hey, i love hairy older men with chubby tums, so i am not afraid of that at all

Old fat hairy dudes are usually more fun anyways

Inserting obligatory response.

 

[SaffronBurke]

But what about in private when the guy is paying?

Maybe they just don't want to see penis. Most women don't find stranger's penises particularly attractive.

 

[LilyBlueBBW]

Maybe they just don't want to see penis. Most women don't find stranger's penises particularly attractive.

Some guys have penises that look like a pink eraser. Some guys have penises that look like mr. peanut. Don't nobody want to see all of that! If someone is paying to see me naked, do it and not the other way around. I know we are in the adult business and we are not supposed to talk about the man upstairs but some of the regulars seriously need jesus or a lobotomy. If I just found you 5 minutes ago, I don't want to see your damn dick!

 

[anon_imgone]

Some guys have penises that look like a pink eraser. Some guys have penises that look like mr. peanut. Don't nobody want to see all of that! If someone is paying to see me naked, do it and not the other way around. I know we are in the adult business and we are not supposed to talk about the man upstairs but some of the regulars seriously need jesus or a lobotomy. If I just found you 5 minutes ago, I don't want to see your damn dick!

Now this is the answer I was looking for LOL and it is a good one!

 

[NoelleBright]

But what about in private when the guy is paying?

Some girls don't like to do it because it's too intimate and it makes them uncomfortable. Maybe it's easier for them to perform when they don't see the person behind the name?
Even though I'm fine with viewing cams, I can kind of understand where they're coming from as I don't like receiving audio from a member until we have done a show or two and I'm more comfortable with them.

I've never once been grossed out by what someone looks like, but sometimes I do wonder why some of these guys are so adamant about having their cams opened. Not because they're unattractive but because the guys who always really want you to do it all have the same deal: dick in hand in a poorly lit room at a weird angle with face out of frame. They're all the same.

 

[Ann_Sulu]

Maybe they just don't want to see penis. Most women don't find stranger's penises particularly attractive.

I watch cams, and love doing so. However, nothing about just seeing a guys penis turns me on...at all. I love to watch the guy getting into the show. The reactions turn me on, but to me whether it be male or female genitals...I honestly just find both very unattractive. Heck I'm bisexual, and still would waaaaay rather look at literally any other part of either gender then penis/vagina. I think guys just assume women want to see dick due to male-directed porn honestly. There always seems to be a close-up of dick that I skip over every time.

 

[ComicOzzie]

Never tip, yet feel compelled to share the minutia of their life with the room...

Alesbf: I'm back, I'm done with dinner.
Alesbf: I went to the taqueria next door, and got tacos and chips
Alesbf: they are only $0.99 on Tuesdays

 

[Magnolia]

When members talk shit/make fun of people's fetishes. Particularly foot fetishes.

DUDE, I have a foot fetish, you idiot. Enjoy my boot, ya fucko.

 

[David_Lee_Loca]

When members talk shit/make fun of people's fetishes. Particularly foot fetishes.

DUDE, I have a foot fetish, you idiot. Enjoy my boot, ya fucko.

Some guy in my room tonight called foot guys "bottom feeders".
Uhh, me and my man love feet...awkward.

 

[TaylorMarie_56]

Him - Hey talk to me!
Me - Hi!
Him - It's nice to meet you. I have a wife/gf, I shouldn't be doing this. hehe
(3 second later since you didn't reply)
Him - I should go.
Me - OK
Him - Wait NO!
(3 second later since you didn't reply)
Him - Where did you go?
(3 second later since you didn't reply)
Him - Please talk to me.
(3 second later since you didn't reply)
Him - :-(

Basically they want to cheat, want to "act" like they feel bad, and want you to be enticed and turned on since they are "reluctant".

 

[TaylorMarie_56]

When members talk shit/make fun of people's fetishes. Particularly foot fetishes.

DUDE, I have a foot fetish, you idiot. Enjoy my boot, ya fucko.

Ditto. Everyone has a fetish/turnon

 

[Magnolia]

Some guy in my room tonight called foot guys "bottom feeders".
Uhh, me and my man love feet...awkward.

This stigmatization of foot fetishes is ridiculous. It's not something that I or others can control, it's basic brain chemistry. The body image map where genitalia are located is directly next to the area where feet are located. In people with foot fetishes these two areas are cross-wired with one another, creating sexual pleasure in both the feet and the genital area. It's similar to the phantom limb syndrome (and actually studies of the phantom limb syndrome led to the discovery of the origin of foot fetishes).

 

[VeronicaChaos]

^ I tend to think the stigmatization comes from the overwhelming number of cheap feet guys. Of course, there are tons of cheap guys with all sexual interests, but the feet guys tend to stand out quite a bit, making the fetish itself an easy target of disdain. I've dated guys with foot fetishes, and I have no problem with them. I have regulars and friends with foot fetishes as well. But for the longest time I went out of my way never to show my feet because there would be such a huge influx of feet freeloaders. Now, honestly, I only show them if a few regs that like them happen to be in my room.

It sucks, and I really wish these annoying feet guys would realize how much they're harming their entire fetish's image.

 

[Ann_Sulu]

Right along the lines of mocking fetishes they aren't into...asking "What's the weirdest fetish/thing you've done on cam?" Oh, jee yeah sure...lemme just be a total asshole about a person's sexual fantasies. I'm not even going to get into how it would be a bad business plan. I simply wouldn't mock anyone, because I know there's enough turns me on that many would find weird.

 

[Ann_Sulu]

Sorry to double post, but this just happened and I don't want to forget to type it here.

The member who constantly tries to justify his suggestions to camgirls with the phrase "Trust me I know what I'm talking about I've been a member on cam sites for years."

Same member comes up to me today and asks for advice on how to not give twitter his personal info. I responded that he should "Trust me, because I've been a camgirl for years, as opposed to a member who thinks a camgirl is making a lot thanks to one whale in her room."

 

[SaffronBurke]

Right along the lines of mocking fetishes they aren't into...asking "What's the weirdest fetish/thing you've done on cam?" Oh, jee yeah sure...lemme just be a total asshole about a person's sexual fantasies. I'm not even going to get into how it would be a bad business plan. I simply wouldn't mock anyone, because I know there's enough turns me on that many would find weird.

After you've cammed long enough, there are no "weird" fetishes anymore. There's only "Sure, I'd love to do that for you in private" and "sorry, I don't offer that, but I'm sure there are plenty of models who do".