Behavioural Change

[bnaj]

Some couple performers behaviour change suddenly after getting rewarded for months as they become abusive and ignorant to their favourites. Do the high tippers deserve such insult. What's the psychology behind this?

 

[bnaj]

As it’s already been stated in this thread, there’s members and models both telling you the same thing.

This post here pretty much validated what everyone here (models AND members) has been saying about you more than likely having an unlikable personality and that being the reason why models aren’t nice to you.

Also, FYI, paying 1000 tokens for a 25 minute private couple show hardly makes anyone a high tipper. That’s $2 a minute split between two people before taxes. So, each performer is actually making less than a dollar per minute. I wouldn’t call that “easy money”. If they’re offering a show for that amount, yes they should be upfront if it will cost more for certain acts. However, if you spoke to them the way you’ve posted here, it’s not surprising they would want more to keep the show going.

Most models appreciate tippers of any size, as long as they are well mannered and respectful. But, paying $50 dollars and then acting self righteous about it is enough for people to no longer appreciate you or your meager spending.

Plz don't complicate things. See you can't accept the simple thing.. Have cool head and try to understand what i mentioned. Problem is models want more and more many with less and less action. That's easy money. Try to respect penny.. For your kind information there are models who doesn't bother to respect tippers who are unable to tip large no matter how well mannered they are..

 

[Marceline]

Plz don't complicate things. See you can't accept the simple thing.. Have cool head and try to understand what i mentioned. Problem is models want more and more many with less and less action. That's easy money. Try to respect penny.. For your kind information there are models who doesn't bother to respect tippers who are unable to tip large no matter how well mannered they are..

You’re the only one here that can’t accept a simple thing. The thing everyone in this thread has said. You came here to ask “what’s the psychology behind models being mean to tippers?”. We answered, you didn’t like those answers and so now you’re trying to talk down to us. If anyone is upset, it’s you. Because let’s be real, you don’t want actual input. You wanted a place to whine about models not treating you in the way you feel owed.

Having sex on camera isn’t easy money. If you think it is, I urge you to start camming and see how it goes.

Since you said you only watch couple shows, let me give you a quick run down. I assume by couples you mean a man and a woman. Assuming you’re a man, you should know that the vast majority of men can’t cum on demand and depending on the man their refractory period can be hours or even until the next day. Meaning, most men can’t do multiple private shows that involve cumming. So, for couple’s shows, they need to make sure a private is financially worth their time, since they may not be able to do another one that same day. That’s why they ask for more money.

If you’re constantly having issues with models not “respecting” you, look at the common denominator. There’s plenty of models who are nice to their tippers.

 

[bnaj]

You’re the only one here that can’t accept a simple thing. The thing everyone in this thread has said. You came here to ask “what’s the psychology behind models being mean to tippers?”. We answered, you didn’t like those answers and so now you’re trying to talk down to us. If anyone is upset, it’s you. Because let’s be real, you don’t want actual input. You wanted a place to whine about models not treating you in the way you feel owed.

Having sex on camera isn’t easy money. If you think it is, I urge you to start camming and see how it goes.

Since you said you only watch couple shows, let me give you a quick run down. I assume by couples you mean a man and a woman. Assuming you’re a man, you should know that the vast majority of men can’t cum on demand and depending on the man their refractory period can be hours or even until the next day. Meaning, most men can’t do multiple private shows that involve cumming. So, for couple’s shows, they need to make sure a private is financially worth their time, since they may not be able to do another one that same day. That’s why they ask for more money.

If you’re constantly having issues with models not “respecting” you, look at the common denominator. There’s plenty of models who are nice to their tippeStillrs.

Still haven't received my answer to psychology . You just keep blamming that i'm rude to models please i've no intention of that. You're still complicating things about private and public shows. 100 -200 tokens show can be a private show and 10,000 tokens show can also be a public show . it depends on the performers how they want. Hope you understand it Why are you putting compulsion that it should be a private show. Mine are all public shows for your information.. Some may demand cumshow which is difficult for both men and women always. So i'm not going to that debate anymore. I'm not here to whine but trying to get help about the mishadling of penny and how to overcome the circumstances leading to it from the ones who have faced.

 

[bnaj]

Anyways enough of this thanks for getting all the inner voices once again.. enjoy camming..

 

[rockin_rod]

OP just seems to be trolling.
Makes me think of the recent banned multiple accounts here that were holding conversations with themselves in their own thread.

 

[BlueEyezIrish]

If you were a big tipper and suddenly the model doesn't seem to want to talk to you anymore, it could mean that your tokens are no longer worth having to put up with your personality. Or that you're no longer tipping enough to justify putting up with you.

Being a regular and being a tipper doesn't create entitlement, which often shows up as very controlling behaviour.
That's just exhausting, and most likely a huge turn-off.

Facts!!! And I can NEVER tell them
How I really feel it will cause a lot of unnecessary fake accounts made to stalk harass and constantly be a source of Fuckery. Men don’t need to know why. Not one man has ever said why they suddenly leave or stop tipping.

 

[AudriTwo]

If you are so interested in learning the psychology of your situation why don't you speak to a psychologist?

 

[stormythunder]

Still haven't received my answer to psychology .

We aren't psychologists but I don't think a psychology lesson is needed here. You seem to be attached to this specific couple and unable to let them go but I assure you there are plenty of other couples to choose from. Not that I'm condoning going to bother other couples like this, just throwing it out there

 

[yummybrownfox]

okay okay performers are getting so hyper please calm down.

Telling women to “calm down” (or “smile”)…

 

[bnaj]

If you are so interested in learning the psychology of your situation why don't you speak to a psychologist?

Atleast try to give respect to tippers in return of their help.

 

[bnaj]

Telling women to “calm down” (or “smile”)…

They need easy money right..

 

[yummybrownfox]

They need easy money right..

LOL. If anyone told you it’s “easy money” dealing with entitled/butthurt/demanding men on cam sites, they lied.

I'm off to go watch Sanford and Son.

 

[AmberCutie]

Atleast try to give respect to tippers in return of their help.

They need easy money right..

You're really not very good at this. Please go find something better to do.

 

[Ich Bin]

You're really not very good at this. Please go find something better to do.

Easy money??? He really doesn't understand, does he? Maybe he can find something better to do by reading some of the threads that talk about food.

 

[pingodoce]

Models don’t owe members explanations as to why they don’t want the member around anymore, same as members don’t owe models explanations if they decide to stop visiting their room.

Honestly, if you’re a big tipper and a model doesn’t like you enough to try keeping those tips coming in, it’s highly doubtful they’ll outright say they don’t like you. Why? Because generally, if someone has an off-putting personality to the point where someone doesn’t want to pretend to be nice to them for their money, they are probably also the type of person who will throw a huge fit if you tell them that. A lot of people don’t like confrontation, and will try to avoid it.

That’s how I am. If someone has exhibited a series of unlikable behavior, I will just block or ignore them once I get to the point where I no longer wish to associate with them. It’s not my responsibility to explain to someone why certain things they are doing or saying makes me not want to interact with them.

I legit had to straight up block and ignore someone I was friends with for over a decade, because I could no longer tolerate who he was/became. I didn’t offer any explanations, because I knew with how that person was, he would have thrown a gigantic temper tantrum and I don’t have the time or energy for that.

ETA: Models also have to worry about members retaliating if they do tell them they no longer want them around. You never know how someone will react to that sort of news, so on top of worrying about the member throwing a fit, you also have to worry about whether or not they will try to blow up your spot. It’s easier and safer to just have the member get to the point where they don’t want to stick around anymore and leave on their own.

 

[pingodoce]

As for me, I have the case of a model who ignores me even when I give her tips. The only answers I get from her are asking me when we're doing a private session. I've already done two before

 

[Marceline]

As for me, I have the case of a model who ignores me even when I give her tips. The only answers I get from her are asking me when we're doing a private session. I've already done two before

The solution is pretty simple.

If you enjoyed the privates, keep doing them. If you didn’t or you prefer chattier models, find a chattier model to spend your tokens on. Or, you can do both. You’re not obligated to only be a patron of one model. It’s your money, do what makes you happy with it.

 

[Iluvablow69]

I'm impressed by the longevity of this thread haha

If you are not getting what you want from a particular model, just find someone else.
Models make the rules for their room and they decide how they will 'perform'. They can change it whenever they want and how often they want.
It's then up to you if you want to stay there and watch, tip tokens, take private etc.

 

[MarieElise]

Your mere existence is an insult to anyone who has literally been abused in their lives.

FUCKING THANK YOU, SO SICK OF READING THAT SHIT AROUND HERE!

Usually, the issue is it's some pompous upper-class dickhead that can't handle swear words and is completely out of touch with all the rest of us peasants, who live an actual unprivileged existence.

Somebody using a swear word or being rude to you is not abuse.
Grow up, and the excuse well CB uses that term, what are you a Lemming? Think for your fucking self, and grow up.
Pompous, out-of-touch twats are ruining this country!

Easy money, what corporate tit you sucking BVag? It's always the fucking hypocrites that come out with that Lugnut shit.

We don't get health insurance. We don't get 401Ks.
We don't get PTO and paid sick time.
We have to actually hustle.
It's called being a commission only worker, and I bet if you tried it yourself, you'd mentally fucking break.
We don't get to sit around binge watching Netflix, and milking the fucking corporate tit.
Watch your fucking mouth.

 

[yummybrownfox]

I'm impressed by the longevity of this thread haha

If you are not getting what you want from a particular model, just find someone else.
Models make the rules for their room and they decide how they will 'perform'. They can change it whenever they want and how often they want.
It's then up to you if you want to stay there and watch, tip tokens, take private etc.

This. And if a model has decided that she's no longer comfortable having you in her chat room to the point where she's kicked you out or banned you, don't be using "backup accounts" (like the dude in the other thread I've linked below) to sneak your way back into her room. *Cringe* Move on.

https://www.ambercutie.com/forums/threads/radical-change-of-attitude-of-a-model.56605/

 

[bnaj]

This. And if a model has decided that she's no longer comfortable having you in her chat room to the point where she's kicked you out or banned you, don't be using "backup accounts" (like the dude in the other thread I've linked below) to sneak your way back into her room. *Cringe* Move on.

https://www.ambercutie.com/forums/threads/radical-change-of-attitude-of-a-model.56605/

O this guy too had problems.. will go through the thread .. Thanks for sharing..

 

[bnaj]

Already told we aren't cheap and have couple specifics. o come on so much hate again.. It's a mutual feeling that grows with tenderness.

 

[rockin_rod]

When I lived in LA, I used to really enjoy grilled chicken from El Pollo Loco.
Far as I recall, they only operated in a handful of states in the SW.
Who does the best grilled chicken in your area?