Best way to tell a model you're no longer interested?

[Misono]

Quick question, as I'm morally torn between two things here.

Been a regular with a model for a short period of time, tipping and had a private session etc. The problem I now have is that, in asking about doing another private, I've learned that they're a bit inflexible to an extent about the show they provide.

The first private I had, as I've done with other models, I've basically said to do what works for them, and I'll maybe make the odd suggestion regarding positions etc. This lets me get to know what works for them a little better.

In asking for the second private though, I've discovered that they again want to perform the exact same show, which just doesn't appeal to me. I like to try new things each session, but revert to type if it's evidently not working out. Having a near identical show just doesn't interest me, and in fairness would probably stop me visiting them.

So, my question is the best way to tackle this. I see two options; explaining the above like I have here or just walking away completely and cutting contact. Both are potentially going to cause issues, but it is evident this model isn't prepared to try anything tried and tested (should clarify, this is for a straight masturbation show, not quadruple anal whilst singing Bohemian Rhapsody).

I don't want to cause upset, but at the same time I'm unsure how best to let her know this.

 

[Calli_Jupiter]

I think you should let her know, if you're planning on walking away if things don't change I don't see what you have to lose by being honest! As a paying customer your satisfaction is priority and thus you should be made to feel comfortable stating your needs, just as the model's boundaries when communicated should be respected (at least by the more gentlemanly members).

Not only could having a discussion lead to greater satisfaction for both of you but it could help her improve her shows with other guys and become more popular. Sometimes people get stuck in a rut or need a little push to try something new and tbh I think most girls usually have one or two ways they masturbate and stick with that so it might not have occurred to her to switch things up.

Hopefully you two can come to an agreement. Good luck!

 

[JerryBoBerry]

Seems like you said it decent enough right there. Send them the link to this post you just made. Done.

 

[LaineyLushXo]

I would just be honest. Tell her you appreciate her time but you're looking for something a little different. I'm sure she will understand and if not maybe she's in the wrong field!

 

[FluffyGalore]

I'm not entirely sure what the issues is here. If Your wanting another Pvt with her why can't you just on asking for the Pvt and tell her what you would like, possibly providing suggestions as to how you would like it during the show. Why would that ever be an issue? I love having a guy who knows what he wants during a Pvt, and am quite happy for him to tell me during the show. However I always insist that he tells me what it is he is exactly looking for beforehand. If it's not something I'm comfortable with then I will say no. Try that see what she says and if she isn't going to tailor make the show for you (which is the point of a Pvt) then move on no explanation needed. Good luck

 

[Nextdoormilf]

I think you have written it well, if I received similar Message after discussing a pvt it certainly wouldn't affend me.

Saying that it wouldn't offend me either if a pvt was discussed and a simple thanks but not what I'm after was offered, it's more than just dissappearing.
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[CrazyCatLady]

Honestly the best way to handle it is to type this every time you are interested in a private and see what she says....

"Hi...was interested in doing another private. I would like to try something new today....can we try "xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx" Think you are up for it?"

I don't know any model that will take offense to it.

 

[Misono]

Thanks all for the feedback. I've left them a message just explaining that, whilst I enjoyed the previous show, I felt that after talking over ideas for a 2nd that the boundaries are quite narrow with regards to content, and I probably wouldn't enjoy it as much in hindsight as the first. Stressed in there that I really enjoyed the previous show, and would recommend to others, but what I'd want to do this time goes further than she was comfortable with, and I have to respect those limits.

For the purpose of the thread, one of the major limits was actually on the penetration front. The most she was ok with was fingers, and she had ruled out ever doing anything else. I didn't delve into the reasons, as it's not for me to know, but it was kind of a sticking point for me. Ok in the first show, but 2nd my expectations were for a bit more.

I appreciate the feedback from you all.

 

[Entertainer33]

Thanks all for the feedback. I've left them a message just explaining that, whilst I enjoyed the previous show, I felt that after talking over ideas for a 2nd that the boundaries are quite narrow with regards to content, and I probably wouldn't enjoy it as much in hindsight as the first. Stressed in there that I really enjoyed the previous show, and would recommend to others, but what I'd want to do this time goes further than she was comfortable with, and I have to respect those limits.

For the purpose of the thread, one of the major limits was actually on the penetration front. The most she was ok with was fingers, and she had ruled out ever doing anything else. I didn't delve into the reasons, as it's not for me to know, but it was kind of a sticking point for me. Ok in the first show, but 2nd my expectations were for a bit more.

I appreciate the feedback from you all.

I'm glad you worded it as respecting her boundaries, since you are attempting to word it in a kind manner to show yes, indeed, you are. It's more than I'm sure she gets from most horndogs on the site, and it even shows you respect her as a human being by wanting to be upfront.