Well it's not rocket science. Most girls know that guys HATE it when a girl badmouths a girl they think is attractive. Guys don't mind and often encourage bitching about a girl they don't like or know, and in fact in my experience can be much worse than girls, but when it comes to someone they fancy, even if it's a friend you have to step so carefully and be very careful with your wording. If a guy thinks a girl is bitching or even hinting at something rude about another girl that they like they do tend to pick up on it fast and will often rise to defence. Usually thinking you're jealous or are trying to ruin their happiness or something like that. Or they just think you're a crazy bitch and suddenly the other person comes out looking like a saint.
If you're talking about girls the guy doesn't know then most guys I know seem to make the judgements fast.
It's in a certain order who guys will listen to. Penis always comes first. Then friendship. Random girls they don't know will usually be the bitches.
It's the same with camming. I'll be honest, sometimes I want to slag off another model. No one on here, but occasionally another model has annoyed me and I get that horrible ugly surge, when you want to angrily spill a load of nasty stuff about her for no good reason. It might be that a regular tips her a lot and I really don't like how she appears as a person. In fact, it pretty much always stems from it being a model I don't like, who is also possibly a threat, and always who is more successful than me. Sometimes hearing men doting on a girl annoys me. When it's someone awesome I don't care but I don't particularly like it when they do it to me, so when someone is going on about how a girl who just doesn't seem like a very nice person is the most perfect girl in the world... well, it's stupid and shallow and that annoys me.
But... the reason I don't succumb to these urges is because I'm not really angry at them. I am angry with myself. I am angry that a girl who I feel that I am better and nicer than is more successful than me. That they're better at playing the game. I'm angry that in general I'm not doing better and I always feel unsuccessful in camming. And I am more angry that when you start disliking a model it raises this horribly ugly feeling. Whilst having it I am then over wracked with guilt and shame for it. So yeah, I don't give in. I also know that if I did give in, the person I rage at would look at me with disgust, would think I'm this terrible horrible person. And my god, I can live with the guilt of feeling it for a few minutes like once every few months, but I couldn't deal with people knowing.
So yeah, it does happen. It is a seriously bad idea to go around myfreecams slagging off other models. Everyone gets bad feelings about other models every now and then. It's for all sorts of different reasons. Essentially though, as a model on this subject your opinions are not relevant. Members should be able to choose for themselves, whether the model is a good person or not doesn't really matter or effect me. Life sucks, it's sometimes unfair, you've just got to deal with it. I'm sure plenty of models dislike me, I appreciate that they don't take those feelings out on me or other members.
It's a seriously stupid idea for business to be bitching about models and the only members who'll stick around will be nasty ones who condone that kind of behaviour.
I feel sad for the models who cannot control themselves and let the nastiness control them. The best part about the myfreecams community is all the awesome girls I've talked to and have got to know. They've been here to support me when in life all my closest female friends have moved away. To miss out on all this just to get worked up over the 1 in thousands that you don't like is just plain stupid. And I know if I ever were seriously nasty to another model/overly slagged her off I couldn't face the girls here again.
Instead I just bitch about stupid members. I mean let's face it, they give us a hell of a lot of ammo!