Confused about client/model boundaries.

[Djdulo1017]

I'm a client and have been visiting one cam model for quite some time; 3+ years.

We have a great time Skyping together and etc, conversation are great, she always treats me special, and all that good stuff. She even gave me her snap for free, added me on Instagram for free, and has given me lots of free content, tons of pictures and free videos and etc. I don't know if this counts but I have an anal fetish and she's done some anal shows for me, and she says I'm the only one she does it for and I honestly love it. and we're friends on Instagram where we comment on each other stuff, text through DM sometimes and just have a good rapport. I've never asked for her number or ever pressured her for anything, Ive probably have spend a few thousand over the last 3 years on her.

I started seeing her on cam after my last relationship ended. I accidentally slipped up and said "I love you" during a regular hour long show and she said it back, we say it during our shows to each other a lot. It's amazing to hear and feel wanted

I jokingly said I'd like to take her to dinner sometime if I'm near her current town, or her in her home town which I live near and she jokingly said yeah. But I don't know if she's serious or just saying those things to keep me paying and etc

My real question is would it be possible or weird to want to meet in person? In a friendly way? I understand I'm paying for a service but wouldn't mind paying to take her out to dinner with no promise for anything physical?

 

[AudriTwo]

Why not ask her seriously? Send her a message on Snapchat or Instagram. I've heard the "I only do x for you, and no one else" before hustle, so I'm a bit skeptical on that. She could just be doing her job, and if you do ask her out and she makes you pay for a date because she needs to take the night off, then that's an escort date. If you don't mind, cool. Just be careful not to ask on any camsites.

But if it's real, she won't have you pay for shows and experience real her, not cam persona her.

Worse case scenario she says no. What do you have to lose.

 

[Djdulo1017]

I still pay for shows, sometimes we do go over the time but it's spent talking nothing sexual.

I feel she enjoys our time on skype and etc but not have legitimate feelings for me which I'm okay with but saying "I love you" gets a little confusing and close to emotional issues.

I'll definitely ask if my work brings me near her and I wouldn't mind paying to take her to dinner, since I've been financially doing so for the last 3 years.