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This has nothing to do with anyone here or this forum...but I love it when someone tries to insult someone else and doesn't know the actual meaning of the word they chose to be insulting. It immediately lets me know they have know idea who they are talking about.
 
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This has nothing to do with anyone here or this forum...but I love it when someone tries to insult someone else and doesn't know the actual meaning of the word they chose to be insulting. It immediately lets me know they have know idea who they are talking about.

That’s a great way to triage assholes.
 
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It's funny you guys mention this, because I had a situation a few weeks ago where a guy just ripped me apart over a custom I made for him that he didn't end up liking. He listed his reasons for not liking it, and the words he used, either did not mean what he thought they did, or he just straight-up lied, because he felt like being mean to someone. I had actually put about 10 hours into his $100 custom, which equates to $10 per hour. It sold maybe 10 copies after the fact, which equates to only another $80 for me. I missed a family outing, bruised up my knees badly for this custom, and genuinely wanted to make it great for him.

2 of the reasons it was so "lackluster" were the lack of "contrast" - it was literally white against black, that's the highest contrast you can have.
And "poorly lit", the lighting, was absolutely perfect. I know this because I took 5 separate takes to get it so.

So, anyway, I love this topic. Suffice to say my live average on SM is a lot more than $18 per hour, so this guy was an absolute asshole and ingrate.
I just don't know if he was just being abusive and consciously lying, or if he was using words to communicate something different from what he thought he was communicating. Either way, not dealing with him again, moving forward.
 
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@MarieElise what a jerk! I've always been terrified to do customs and what you did was above and beyond what I think most people would do. 💜

I think people pick up buzzwords and think they apply them correctly and...just fail. Kind of like calling someone a gold digger when they are in fact the bread winner. 🙂 Uh, yeah a dictionary would do them wonders.
 
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@MarieElise what a jerk! I've always been terrified to do customs and what you did was above and beyond what I think most people would do. 💜

I think people pick up buzzwords and think they apply them correctly and...just fail. Kind of like calling someone a gold digger when they are in fact the bread winner. 🙂 Uh, yeah a dictionary would do them wonders.
Thank you, I agree with you on the buzzword theory. It's so confusing when they do that, and you actually know what the words mean, and take them literally 🤦‍♀️
Some people actually expect you to read their minds. They do. I totally get kids expecting that, but grown adults? The fuck???
I know people who's second language is English and speak it better than some of the chumps out there, who claim it's their first language 🤦‍♀️
 
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Thank you, I agree with you on the buzzword theory. It's so confusing when they do that, and you actually know what the words mean, and take them literally 🤦‍♀️
Some people actually expect you to read their minds. They do. I totally get kids expecting that, but grown adults? The fuck???
I know people who's second language is English and speak it better than some of the chumps out there, who claim it's their first language 🤦‍♀️
I said something the other day and someone took out the word I was using and replaced it with an antonym and I was like, "how do you function in this world when you don't listen to the words people use and replace them words they never meant?"

It was a lightbulb moment. "Huh so THAT'S why people think this..." I suppose ultimately not much to be done except hope their communication skills improve. Arguing with an unarmed opponent is much like watching paint dry.
 
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I said something the other day and someone took out the word I was using and replaced it with an antonym and I was like, "how do you function in this world when you don't listen to the words people use and replace them words they never meant?"

It was a lightbulb moment. "Huh so THAT'S why people think this..." I suppose ultimately not much to be done except hope their communication skills improve. Arguing with an unarmed opponent is much like watching paint dry.
Lol it is, and it's not really much of a win either. I'm always left wondering whether it was a genuine mistake or a purposeful manipulation. Hanlon's razor. Probably mostly genuine mistakes. But, for real, it's mind-numbing.
 
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Lol it is, and it's not really much of a win either. I'm always left wondering whether it was a genuine mistake or a purposeful manipulation. Hanlon's razor. Probably mostly genuine mistakes. But, for real, it's mind-numbing.
It makes me question my entire fabric of reality..*nods*
 
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It makes me question my entire fabric of reality..*nods*
Seriously, though, these days it does seem like we live in a world where facts are up for debate. It's scary.
 
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Seriously, though, these days it does seem like we live in a world where facts are up for debate. It's scary.
It really is terrifying. I know I largely stay away from the problematic areas of the internet but how people believe lies so readily these days with the internet RIGHT THERE to prove them wrong...I fear for the future in ways I never imagined before 2016.
 
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with the internet RIGHT THERE to prove them wrong...
Yep, this is exactly the part that scares me too. Information has never been so readily available or easy to access so quickly, and yet we appear stupider more ignorant than ever (??).
I don't understand, it's just not logical.

ETA; Hundreds and thousands of years of natural selection, and this is what we've got? I mean it's tragically funny.
 
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