Do you ever feel weird about attention from super young members?

[Lexi Lovegood]

I know when you're 18 or over you're an adult and have a right to view adult content, but it feels weird to me being viewed and interacted with in that way by people who are ten years younger than me who I view as kids. Like, their age still has the word 'teen' in it. Are you more careful with how you interact with younger members, (like making sure they aren't spending unwisely or getting emotionally attached etc.), or do you treat them just like every other adult? I don't want to be patronizing, but I also don't want to be insensitive to the possible issues that come with that age dynamic. Maybe it's not my problem? I don't know.

 

[Lintilla]

18-year-olds are literally half my age starting this year, but I still have plenty of them talking to me, which is... definitely a bit odd to me. If someone seems too immature to be on a camsite they're getting blocked whether they're 18 or 88. It's never fully about age. I'd say I end up using it more as a "teachable moment" sometimes, and younger guys seem like they can often be more receptive about wanting to learn a thing or two (vs an older guy who doesn't want to hear he's been wrong about what women like for decades). Or maybe they're just respecting their elders lol. I certainly don't deal with any disrespect. Beyond that, I think I treat them like anyone else, and I'm not really interested in their age unless they make it an issue. Most never even mention it, and plenty of those that do are surely lying. I go more by behaviour, not whatever age they claim to be. Most of the younger guys tend not to have a lot of money to spend, so at that point it's kind of a non-issue anyway.

 

[Emberblaze]

My boyfriend was only 19 and I was 29 when we started seeing each other. It doesn't bother me in the least bit. 19 is a fully adult member of society in Canada. They can even drink.

I agree with the above that younger guys can often be more receptive about certain things. My boyfriend listens to what I want/need better in bed than any of the guys I dated my own age.

Some are clearly fuckboys of course but those happen at any age. I think society pushes us to be uncomfortable with younger men or think poorly of them because older dudes feel threatened by them. I can't tell you how many men my age or older made a HUGE DEAL and still do about my partner's age while they were literally chasing after women the same age.

"If you get tired of your boy and want a real man I'll be right over here."

Right over there what? Throwing yourself at 25 different 19 year old women a week? Thanks bro but I'll stick to my man that actually treats me like a human being.

Immaturity can come at any age. If they are immature give them the boot. If they aren't treat them like every other member.

 

[Mila_]

I don’t think it is my place to tell members how to spend their money or make assumptions about their maturity and life choices. It sounds superficial and invasive to me.

 

[Violet Dawn]

No, I really don't care personally. I don't really feel like it's my place to tell someone not to spend money on me. I'm not going to manipulate their potential immaturity, but it's really not my problem as it's something that anyone of any age can be.

 

[MatureSwiss]

Personally I do not care - it seems that there are many young men out there how like older men...

 

[yummybrownfox]

It's okay, but yes, it does feel a bit weird to be flirted with by an 18-year old, because I'm thinking Wow, I'm old enough to be his mom! Lol. When they ask "Do you like younger guys?," my answer may be "Mmmm. Yes, I do!" (which is a fucking lie, but I'm not about to tell a dude in a PAYING/private chat that I'm typically not into his type...lol)...or my answer may be "Well, I like men who are mature...and not selfish in bed" (Which is the truth...and I like this answer for the non-tipping dudes in free chat who just wanna ask a bunch of personal sex-related questions).

 

[AwesomeKate]

I actually love when my viewers/tippers are around 18 years old. I've had several people tip me when they finally were legally able to and tell me they've been watching for a couple years. I think that would normally make a model feel weird, but it doesn't for me. I feel that I portray a healthy sexuality on my cam show and often spend time explaining things about working relationships, what makes sex good for both partners, etc. In other words, I feel like a good influence on them and their views on sexual women. I think camming is a better way for young people to learn about sexuality than porn clips. You get to know an entire person intimately instead of just seeing their sex acts. It feels much closer to the real thing, imo. I also like knowing that young people are growing into generous tippers and supporters of online entertainment. They realize that I'm providing a service and respect my time. They will most likely grow up to be generous, older people.

All in all, I think young people will always seek out porn. If they happen to find me, I feel confident that I am not a damaging source of information and entertainment. I feel proud of my shows and the message I try to send.

 

[SaffronBurke]

I get skeeved out irl having 18&19-year-olds chat me up, so, yes, it also bugs me on cam. Most of the issue that I have is that they make such a huge deal out of the age gap, if they didn't do that I probably wouldn't care.

 

[AudriTwo]

I don't like when they focus that they have a "young dick." It makes me think oh great, you are inexperienced with sex and emotionally. Because almost every young guy I slept with was god awful.

I of course tell them this everytime.

 

[AudriTwo]

I don't like when they focus that they have a "young dick." It makes me think oh great, you are inexperienced with sex and emotionally. Because almost every young guy I slept with was god awful.

I of course tell them this everytime.

i do want to add i have several younger guys who frequent me that i don't mind. they are chill and over all good dudes. it's just the ones that brag about that "young dick"

 

[Lexi Lovegood]

I should be clear. I haven't had any problems so far with younger dudes, I was just kind of taken aback when I was chatting with someone and they told me how young they were and then hinted at maybe wanting something at some point that would be super expensive for them, and I was just wondering if I should look out for them a bit more. I'm really used to feeling like I have to take care of everyone (past jobs and also just my personality I guess). It seems that's a habit I may need to break, at least somewhat. I love the variety of responses, this place certainly isn't an echo chamber.

 

[Deleted member 45270]

I'm only in my early 20's and yes, it makes me uncomfortable. 18 is still a minor in my eyes.

We can't control our age (obviously), so I do feel a bit bad about being creeped out over something they can't help.

Edit: I don't treat them differently; everybody that has said that their age is 18 or 19 have been nice people. But if they ask if I would want "18 year old dick," then yeah, no thanks - I'm upfront and tell them that they're too young for me. It just doesn't feel right tbh.

 

[NotYou]

I know when you're 18 or over you're an adult and have a right to view adult content, but it feels weird to me being viewed and interacted with in that way by people who are ten years younger than me who I view as kids. Like, their age still has the word 'teen' in it. Are you more careful with how you interact with younger members, (like making sure they aren't spending unwisely or getting emotionally attached etc.), or do you treat them just like every other adult? I don't want to be patronizing, but I also don't want to be insensitive to the possible issues that come with that age dynamic. Maybe it's not my problem? I don't know.

I think interacting with that kind of young is weird and feels wrong, but I see a lot of the older ladies handling it in a very great way. They don;t play up to them too dirty or chat too intimately with them etc. They speak to them in a more "you're the same age as my child" way, but they manage to do it without making it too obvious. The only reason I notice it with some specific women is because they are my favourites and I watch them often.


Myself, I am 30 and I have always loved women 10+ years older than myself. I think at a certain age, maybe 25+ or even younger maybe, it all depends how that "younger" person is acting and their maturity level. I have always felt much more comfortable talking with and socializing with older women so for me, I speak to them properly and like I am not some stupid, immature person who is younger than them. We talk like adults having conversations. Of course, we will often have immature times together, be it in free chat, private chat, private shows.. but they are always when we are comfortable with each other and understand each other's personalities.

So I would personally say that for the most part, after a certain age, it depends on the younger person's maturity level.

 

[Moffle]

I suspect if a site like MFC introduced an 18+ age filter that actually worked then half of the guests and basics would disappear overnight.

 

[Amanda Neumann]

if someone lets me know they are younger than 18 I block and them on any form of social media, or in my shows. I do not like it but I'm only 23 and 18 year olds watching me makes me feel a little bit like I'm taking advantage, but as long as I'm honest with them and its their choice to watch and pay its their choice.

 

[eyeteach]

This is actually a great thread with some very interesting replies. To you models, what's your personal age range that you're okay with? For instance, from "x" years old to "y" years of age is okay; or, do you not have a preference?

 

[SaffronBurke]

This is actually a great thread with some very interesting replies. To you models, what's your personal age range that you're okay with? For instance, from "x" years old to "y" years of age is okay; or, do you not have a preference?

My minimum comfortable age is 21. Younger than that, and I feel like an old creeper.

 

[eyeteach]

My minimum comfortable age is 21. Younger than that, and I feel like an old creeper.

Do you have an age ceiling?

 

[SaffronBurke]

Do you have an age ceiling?

It's less concrete, because I haven't had as many issues with people who are "too old" trying to fuck me IRL. As far as customers go, everyone's money spends the same, but for IRL people, it'd be mid-late 30's.

 

[JickyJuly]

I don't really care as long as they can legally be on site or buying clips. But, it is weird to me when they expect to be fawned over. If I were a full service provider, I'd probably not spend a minute with anyone under 45 though. Obvs, full service is not for me. Hehehe.

 

[Amanda Neumann]

Do you have an age ceiling?

That interesting, its not that it has never crossed my mind that men or women 60+, 70+, might have or does see me and follow me, but I find I at least do not get activity from any age beyond 40's, so I have adjusted to the idea of 40 year-olds watching me. I think if a 70 year old man started letting me know he is watching me I'd take that as a triumph in an awkward sense, spanning generations hahaha, but honestly I'd be social awkward and just say thank you.

 

[eyeteach]

That interesting, its not that it has never crossed my mind that men or women 60+, 70+, might have or does see me and follow me, but I find I at least do not get activity from any age beyond 40's, so I have adjusted to the idea of 40 year-olds watching me. I think if a 70 year old man started letting me know he is watching me I'd take that as a triumph in an awkward sense, spanning generations hahaha, but honestly I'd be social awkward and just say thank you.

You deserve that hug I gave you! Thanks for your honest answer.

 

[AwesomeKate]

I have a couple regulars in their 70s. I have watched their cams and they have huge white beards and huge bellies and I love them. They make me feel young when they compliment my youth and energy but also make me feel mature when they tell me I'm 'an old soul'. I love knowing that they are keeping up with technology and seeing them still have boners is great. I always hope my relationship continues being full of desire as we age so it makes me happy to see older men still crazy for women and able to perform.

 

[Fatquack]

I don't really care as long as they can legally be on site or buying clips. But, it is weird to me when they expect to be fawned over. If I were a full service provider, I'd probably not spend a minute with anyone under 45 though. Obvs, full service is not for me. Hehehe.

Oh, hi again!

 

[Lexi Lovegood]

I have a couple regulars in their 70s. I have watched their cams and they have huge white beards and huge bellies and I love them. They make me feel young when they compliment my youth and energy but also make me feel mature when they tell me I'm 'an old soul'. I love knowing that they are keeping up with technology and seeing them still have boners is great. I always hope my relationship continues being full of desire as we age so it makes me happy to see older men still crazy for women and able to perform.

That's a really interesting and cool perspective that I probably would not have thought of myself.

 

[Lexi Lovegood]

Actually, the guy that inspired this post has turned out to be one of the nicest and most consistent regulars in my room, like, I'm genuinely happy when he shows up. He hasn't tipped me, which I'm a little low-key salty about since his color changed in the chat, so I know SOMEONE got those tokens, lol (not that I would bring that up in my room or anything). Seriously though, he's super nice and respectful and fun to talk to. As far as I'm concerned, he can come bring his good vibe to my room regardless of his age or whether he ever tips me. In a perfect world he would bring his good vibe AND tokens, but alas, one can't have everything. But yeah, lesson learned I guess. If someone is going to come into my room and engage with me and treat me with respect they can be 18-99.