I'm planning a private show with one of the forum's very own models, CassidyNicole. I'm posting this with her permission. We thought it would serve as an example of how to initiate contact with a model for a scheduled private show instead of just jumping on and getting out, although that's perfectly fine if the model doesn't mind. Some of the stuff was mentioned in the Amber private show thread, but I'm posting this in the Cam Girl: General Discussion subforum as I think this pertains to all the ladies.
To preface this, I spent perhaps 3 or 4 nights in public chat with CassidyNicole getting to know here and seeing if our chemistry is a match. I think we had some fun so I sent the following email to her about a private show.
Note this is merely one example and not the "rulebook". Any method is fine, so long as it is polite, respectful, and of course gentleman like. Some of the points I could talk about in depth are mentioned as clarification to Cassidy in the content. I hope this helps a bit.
To preface this, I spent perhaps 3 or 4 nights in public chat with CassidyNicole getting to know here and seeing if our chemistry is a match. I think we had some fun so I sent the following email to her about a private show.
Note this is merely one example and not the "rulebook". Any method is fine, so long as it is polite, respectful, and of course gentleman like. Some of the points I could talk about in depth are mentioned as clarification to Cassidy in the content. I hope this helps a bit.
Hello, Sweetie. Just wanted to work out some details for the show so we are comfortable with each other and know what to expect, so there's no unpleasant surprises to make things awkward.
To begin with a little of my interests, I am fascinated by women in general and I absolutely love watching women orgasm. To me, there is nothing more sexy than watching a woman squirm in ecstasy. It's not a sexual thing for me, it's like a spiritual emotional thing, I simply enjoy watching a woman getting off, there's really no other way to say it, I guess. Some people watch TV, I watch women orgasm.I don't masturbate during my time on the site. I just watch and will be just watching during the show. Like I said, it's a mental gratification thing rather than physically sexual.
With that out of the way, I'd like to see that little black dress you wore last night on cam (Sunday night). Don't rush out and buy anything special for the show, so if you don't have yellow panties/g-string don't go out and get some. Any light color like green or blue is fine too. Yellow panties underneath a black cocktail dress like that just makes heart race and take a deep breath.
As far as actual things I'd like to see, any comfortable position is fine. Laying on your back propped up against pillows would probably be the most comfortable for you. I will not try to make you do 20 things all at once, but simple toy in your beautiful pussy with a clit vibe or just a toy alone would be perfect. Either way. If you like nipple stimulation while you toy yourself, you can leave the clit vibe out of the equation. I realize you only have two hands.
I'm very interested in seeing anal too. Not many women make me really want it, but you are definitely one of the few that I just gotta see do it. You are simply adorable. We can incorporate that into this show or a future show, it doesn't matter to me. You spoke earlier about preferring anal in the shower, so maybe we can have a setup like that for an anal show or if you're comfortable on the bed in a certain manner, we can do it there instead. Some women need to be in a certain position for it, like doggystyle, on their side, or whatever is comfortable for them. Like I said earlier, I don't want you being uncomfortable, hurting yourself, or rushing anything.
I'm not going to have you cum once and leave. If you would like I'd like to see you orgasm a few times. I realize women are not sex robots and some women can't cum more than once in a short period of time. Some, once they have a clitoral orgasm it's very sensitive and they can't have direct stimulation anymore and that is absolutely not a problem. If you can have multiple orgasms, I do like closeups if you can do one without too much camera trouble. For length of time for the show, I'm planning on about 30 minutes, but shorter if that will wear you out. I'd like to hold it to that as a max, at least per show if we do anal separately. If you get tired or things get uncomfortable, we can end it, that's no problem. Your safety and comfort are the first priority.
I hope everything I mentioned is OK with you. If it isn't, let me know. I don't ever want to do, say, or have you do anything that will be uncomfortable for you.
Thanks again, Sweetie.
Adam
