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"I want you to touch your cock." "I want you to rub your cock till it gets nice and hard for me." "Yes, rub it like that." "I want you to cum all over my boobs." Just tell the guy how you want him to touch himself. I've never done it, but I've seen a lot. So it's not like robotic, it's sensual, like having sex with words... I guess. lol
 
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"Yeah, baby... rub that vagina for me... yeah... you want me to fuck it for you? You dirty cow... Well, I'm not going to. I'm teasing you. This is erotic. Yes it is. It is. I'm going to instruct you on your way to the best orgasm you've ever had. Now rub that bit at the top. No, the pink bit. I think it's called the salcrum. Yeah, rub that salcrum for me, you filthy, filthy fuck-pot. Now take seven fingers, and just... shove them up that sweet butt-hole, baby. Lube? Where we're going, we don't need no lube. Just... just shove them up there, no need to tease them in. All at once. Now take your remaining three fingers and slide them in that dirty gaping flesh-hole... but keep rubbing that salcrum, baby. Say my name. Say it. And now strum that pussy. Strum it until you've got blisters on your fingers. Now grab that dildo. Push it in now. Now take it out. Now push it in. Now pull it out. On my count now... one two three... heeeaaave ho... heeeeaaave ho.... one and two and three and four... heeeaaave ho... heeeaaave ho... yeah, that pussy's gonna look like a ripped out fireplace by the time you're done and you love it, you dirty, dirty woman."

I have an audio JOI series for anyone who's interested. $10 per volume.
 
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Also look into edging...it's like joi, but more teasing, and the orgasms are a ton better. ^.~
 
Wow those literotica audio clips are sexy as fuuuuuck. I'm jacking off my imaginary dick to this one (Cum For Me JOI by MissKittenSK). Thanks for the link! I was floundering with JOI too but I love dirty talk so I think all I need is practice!
 
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I specialise in sensual joi, it's incredibly hot to build such intimacy with a stranger.. plus it gets them addicted to you pretty quick if you're good lol.
 
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I know a lot of clients are into dirty talk (in general) - joi being a big one. I just don't feel comfortable offering it/doing it because I know I'm not very good at it. I've always been a sub and I feel like that's why I'm so awkward with it. I think of it as a skill and I feel it's better to leave that to the pros! Maybe in a video though...? Hmmm...

Anybody else feel this way? Or is it just better to always be adding to your offerings as a cam-model?
 
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It's smart to research and educate yourself on the various things you might encounter as a camgirl, but you don't have to DO anything you're not into or comfortable with. If you're a sub you can still be plenty naughty, teasing, and dirty talking, and no need to feel you have to be something you're not. In fact that can work against you as true fetishists will see through you if you're acting. But you can use skills and interests you already have to switch something round yo your way of doing things - for example i am not at all dominant, but i offer sensual domination which is more about subtle manipulation through the senses, mind play, getting people addicted to you rather than ordering them around. When i've tried to be dominating, bitchy etc in the past i felt silly, akward, and the guy went away disappointed, but if i add my own twist to it and don't profess to be something im not, it works. So explore your sexuality, enjoy the new learning your shows and videos bring you. But don't feel you ever have to do something you don't like or don't feel you'd be good at. Stay true to you and work on being GREAT at what you do enjoy :)
 
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CutieLolo said:
I know a lot of clients are into dirty talk (in general) - joi being a big one. I just don't feel comfortable offering it/doing it because I know I'm not very good at it. I've always been a sub and I feel like that's why I'm so awkward with it. I think of it as a skill and I feel it's better to leave that to the pros! Maybe in a video though...? Hmmm...

Anybody else feel this way? Or is it just better to always be adding to your offerings as a cam-model?
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If you're a service-oriented type of submissive - think of it as a skill you can learn to please the person you're with. If you're ever with a Dom who enjoys dirty talk, it will be an asset to you :)

Don't think that because you're a sub it makes you awkward with dirty talk. I'm deeply submissive and dirty talk is something i've always enjoyed.
 
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It's smart to research and educate yourself on the various things you might encounter as a camgirl, but you don't have to DO anything you're not into or comfortable with. If you're a sub you can still be plenty naughty, teasing, and dirty talking, and no need to feel you have to be something you're not. In fact that can work against you as true fetishists will see through you if you're acting. But you can use skills and interests you already have to switch something round yo your way of doing things - for example i am not at all dominant, but i offer sensual domination which is more about subtle manipulation through the senses, mind play, getting people addicted to you rather than ordering them around. When i've tried to be dominating, bitchy etc in the past i felt silly, akward, and the guy went away disappointed, but if i add my own twist to it and don't profess to be something im not, it works. So explore your sexuality, enjoy the new learning your shows and videos bring you. But don't feel you ever have to do something you don't like or don't feel you'd be good at. Stay true to you and work on being GREAT at what you do enjoy :)
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Thank you! Great advice :h:
 
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If you're a service-oriented type of submissive - think of it as a skill you can learn to please the person you're with. If you're ever with a Dom who enjoys dirty talk, it will be an asset to you :)

Don't think that because you're a sub it makes you awkward with dirty talk. I'm deeply submissive and dirty talk is something i've always enjoyed.
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Ah! That makes sense. I hadn't thought of it that way I guess! Thank you :h:
 
Actually, it's very tricky, @marchards - you need enough of an imagination/anticipation for what the person will like. I could never really do it well, but I'm fascinated at how some are SOOO good at it.
 
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Actually, it's very tricky, @marchards - you need enough of an imagination/anticipation for what the person will like. I could never really do it well, but I'm fascinated at how some are SOOO good at it.
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It's just reading people, using active listening skills, having a genuine interest in giving them pleasure, and being turned on by the fact they're stroking for you. For the more Dom ladies there may be pleasure in the control aspect, teasing/torturing him into wanking a certain way, denying or threatening Denial, cum Countdowns etc. For the more sensual it might involve a recreation of a real event or role-playing what would happen if they were together now (I. E imagine me down there, using the tip of my tongue like this, ok now tease your fingertip over the foreskin.. that feel good? ) As with anything I think it's something you have to enjoy to be really good at :)
 
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as far as most of the roleplay requests I get this is one of my favorites. It's simple and easy to jump into. I wonder if guys are into this because most woman are a bit shy about verbalizing what they want sexually?
 
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