In poor taste...?

[CupcakeQuinn]

Forgive me, I feel like I'm asking some random questions that I haven't seen in the "beginners" stickies on this site or others.

I saw one comment on a forum that a girl was tempted to show a picture of Eeyore when asked "show ur ass". And again, not wanting to step on any toes, I was curious if anyone *actually* did this, and if it would be in poor taste.

I mean, if your profile states that you are NOT A NUDE MODEL and some asks to see your pussy, you could hold up a picture of Pussyfoot (the cartoon kitten)

http://www.posters.ws/images/392056/looney_tunes_pussyfoot.jpg

Ass: Donkey, from Shrek
Boobs/Boobies: the bird

AND if someone were to refer to a vag as "taco", a picture of Deadpool saying that he loves tacos.

I feel like it would give good viewers a sense of your humor while shutting down freeloaders without just immediately blocking them. BUT, I don't want it to be a turnoff to everyone. And I while I haven't seen it in the rooms I've seen, I didn't know if maybe I just had bad timing.

Thanks, folks!

*Edit*

P.S. I still haven't gone -live- yet. I want things to be as great as possible. I only have that new model status for a week. I was hoping to start this weekend with it being a holiday and having more free time to cam, but... I'm reading all the forums and advice I can, I'm decorating and taking the time to layout my room, STRETCH (dear god), coming up with games and rewards, and getting my profile set up. I don't want to rush and have my cam score and # of viewers go down the toilet cause I rushed things.

 

[Violet Dawn]

Someone asked me to send a nude pic once, I sent them a picture of a naked turkey.

I do nudity too, just not when demanded. And I really don't see the problem with it.

 

[CupcakeQuinn]

That's awesome. You sending a naked turkey, that is!

I did nude while stripping, but the internet is a whole new ball game and the rule seems to be "Don't do anything you wouldn't want your family/kids/friends to see", my family being the factor right now. And I never had to worry about my family randomly stumbling into a club with me flashing my bum hehe.

But yeah, I was just thinking I could print some pictures out that would be cute and humorous to go along with who I am online and in person. Which can be very passive aggressive, or just ignoring the situation entirely.

 

[MadJohnson]

That's awesome. You sending a naked turkey, that is!

I did nude while stripping, but the internet is a whole new ball game and the rule seems to be "Don't do anything you wouldn't want your family/kids/friends to see", my family being the factor right now. And I never had to worry about my family randomly stumbling into a club with me flashing my bum hehe.

But yeah, I was just thinking I could print some pictures out that would be cute and humorous to go along with who I am online and in person. Which can be very passive aggressive, or just ignoring the situation entirely.

As a member, the best thing I can suggest is to just try it!

From my observations, 90% of camming is trial-and-error. You won't really know the tone of your room for the first few weeks or months anyway, so give it a shot and see how it feels to you. And get a feel for how your members like it.

My personal take? I think it would be funny, but you'd need to vary the pictures or they'll get old fast if I were a regular.

 

[CupcakeQuinn]

Thanks for responding! I love this site and having views from models AND members. I was concerned that I'd A) come off as a bitch and B) that 99.9% of models were doing the same thing and I just happened to miss it while viewing rooms on the site.

I have to say coming up with ideas and trying to be as original/ unique/ likable as possible has definitely distracted me from bad events, sleep, and it's set off a good anxiety haha.

 

[SoTxBob]

HA ! Nike them.. "Just Do It!"
I have known MANY girls that will post a cat emote and even their live cat when asked to show pussy. I know theres one for a jackass because Ive used it. I think there's also a boobie [bird] emote as well. No worries tho.... its your room so handle it as you like !

 

[DFT]

First of all, this topic makes me happy. Doing your due-diligence to hit the ground running, brilliant.

Sounds to me like you've come up with a fun, flirty non-nude concept. Agree with MadJ about mixing up the images, also the trial and error part. "No battle plan ever survives first contact" - Field Marshall Helmuth Karl Bernhard Graf von Moltke (popularized version)

Within that, go with what is in your taste and humor. Look forward to seeing your creativity.

 

[Magnolia]

AND if someone were to refer to a vag as "taco", a picture of Deadpool saying that he loves tacos.

Well, I've named my vagina Wade now because of this thread, so thank you for that.

But I see this all the time! Definitely not in poor taste. The poor taste comes from someone demanding something of you without payment.

 

[CupcakeQuinn]

YUSSSSSSSS!!!!

God you guys are making feel better about doing this. Y'all rock.

 

[Nordling]

I remember a model who was once on this forum who kept several rubber children's toys handy when someone asked to see a certain body part. She had a rubber cat, a donkey, and several others that she happily showed.

 

[SaffronBurke]

I used to respond to "is your pussy hairy or shaved" by holding up my cat. I also respond to people demanding boobs on Instagram or Twitter with birds, and pussy demands.... Well, I take pictures of my cats like new parents take pictures of their infants. I have infinite pussy pics for you. Like @LunaTuna said, I do nudity on cam, but not without appropriate compensation.

 

[Empress Mika]

As a non-nude model myself, the best thing you can do is to do what makes you happy on cam and communicate your limitations in a way that makes you happy as well. Believe me, you will get guys *EVERY* session that will try to push your limits on nudity. Like... Oh, you don't do nudity? How about wearing a sheer, see through lingerie set? How about wearing a shirt without a bra? Wet t-shirt without a bra? Just using your hands? Just give me a nip-slip! And so much else, haha. If you can find an effective way to deal with all of this, and know your boundaries inside and out, you are already one step ahead of the game ^_~ Best of luck!

 

[Entertainer33]

Thanks for responding! I love this site and having views from models AND members. I was concerned that I'd A) come off as a bitch and B) that 99.9% of models were doing the same thing and I just happened to miss it while viewing rooms on the site.

I have to say coming up with ideas and trying to be as original/ unique/ likable as possible has definitely distracted me from bad events, sleep, and it's set off a good anxiety haha.

Personally, I adore models who get "bitchy" to demanding members. Makes for a fun room.

 

[CupcakeQuinn]

Thanks guys! I'm really considering moving my huge grumpy cat stuffed animal to my cam room so when someone asks, I can just hold it up! Plus, the expression on Tardar's face says it all

I never really thought about the no bra thing, and while I have sheer tops, I was thinking of making pasties like I used to so if I wear the tops I am still "covered" in an odd sense. All something to build up to. I don't want to start out with it and hate it but then having people think it's the norm.

And Entertainer- I can definitely see how it can be fun. I don't want to be such a huge bitch that it seems I hate my job, but I wont put up with shit from asshats. I want a fun room, and that's what I'm hoping for with the picture idea

 

[JoleneBrody]

Just DO NOT offer to show something for a tip only to show a joke. Save it for the freeloaders and beggars.

 

[CupcakeQuinn]

God no! If I say I'll show nip, I'll live up to that. But if I say in my profile and in chat multiple times that I do NOT do nude anything, then that's when I break out the funny stuff. I wouldn't want to be screwed over and wouldn't do the same to others.

*edit* sorry if that came off as rude :/

 

[JoleneBrody]

You don't sound rude, don't worry! Even if you regularly did double fist naked backflip shows... such requests without a tip are open to ridicule. finding a way to deal with the freeloaders and beggars with humor is like the best!

 

[CupcakeQuinn]

You don't sound rude, don't worry! Even if you regularly did double fist naked backflip shows... such requests without a tip are open to ridicule. finding a way to deal with the freeloaders and beggars with humor is like the best!

omfg.... I can't stop laughing... If I could do double fist naked backflip shows I think I might be in the circus rather than online. Holy shit that image is just, wow.

There's probably someone out there that can do that, but myself? Ha!

 

[CupcakeQuinn]

Random damn question... I've seen stuff on copyright music and such, but I can't tell when girls are on cam if they are playing music from their computers or from a speaker. I have a bluetooth speaker and love it, would prefer to use that. Does that muck things up? Sorry, I tried to use the search on here and just got "What kind of music do you use?", "Is copyrighted music okay?" or "Is it bad to use this music?"

To be fair, I did just type in "music" in the search bar. I tried to do a google search though and it only came up with GAMING music.

 

[GreenDaisy_80]

Random damn question... I've seen stuff on copyright music and such, but I can't tell when girls are on cam if they are playing music from their computers or from a speaker. I have a bluetooth speaker and love it, would prefer to use that. Does that muck things up? Sorry, I tried to use the search on here and just got "What kind of music do you use?", "Is copyrighted music okay?" or "Is it bad to use this music?"

To be fair, I did just type in "music" in the search bar. I tried to do a google search though and it only came up with GAMING music.

I personally use my speaker which I have bluetoothed to my tablet. Oh and I use my Spotify playlist ,it's really helped since I no longer have to listen to the adds . Pvts would get so awkward with food commercials or any really .

 

[CupcakeQuinn]

I personally use my speaker which I have bluetoothed to my tablet. Oh and I use my Spotify playlist ,it's really helped since I no longer have to listen to the adds . Pvts would get so awkward with food commercials or any really .

"Get lasagna from your (local) Olive Garden!" Yeah- I dont really spotify or pandora But I'm setting up playlists that fit a theme. Dude likes a more goth chick? I'm gonna put on black lipstick and Combichrist "This shit will fuck you up"

But that's awesome. I have googleplay set up with different lists so I'm glad I can play it from my phone rather than computer!!!!! Thanks!

 

[JoleneBrody]

if you pay for spotify you won't get commercials... just incase you ever want to look into different music options in the future.

 

[CupcakeQuinn]

I was thinking of doing spotify if I made enough money and it was worth it. I know its silly and only $10 ish a month, But I cant afford extras at the moment. It's why I'm trying to plan everything out. I may be over thinking it all, but I'd rather do that than kill my cam score just 'cause'.I want to start out right so I can afford those little extras and such.

 

[MadJohnson]

I was thinking of doing spotify if I made enough money and it was worth it. I know its silly and only $10 ish a month, But I cant afford extras at the moment. It's why I'm trying to plan everything out. I may be over thinking it all, but I'd rather do that than kill my cam score just 'cause'.I want to start out right so I can afford those little extras and such.

Do you already have Amazon Prime? They include their music streaming service now. It's not as good as Google Music or Spotify, but it's free with Prime.

Also, one suggestion regarding music. Just make sure to play it from speakers located away from your microphone. Playing it from your computer speakers is fine as long as they are decent, if you are using a discrete mic or one built into a separate camera (like one of the Logitechs). If you are using your laptop mic then definitely play music on something else (but also consider getting a better mic).

 

[CupcakeQuinn]

I used to, but it's something I turned down since my roommates have it (so if I have to order something, I can ask them). And I have a whole room to play with so I think I can manage to place my speaker somewhere decent! Thank you

 

[GreenDaisy_80]

"Get lasagna from your (local) Olive Garden!" Yeah- I dont really spotify or pandora But I'm setting up playlists that fit a theme. Dude likes a more goth chick? I'm gonna put on black lipstick and Combichrist "This shit will fuck you up"

Combichrist ?! I have to check them out ! Reminds me or some cradle of filth or something

I was thinking of doing spotify if I made enough money and it was worth it. I know its silly and only $10 ish a month, But I cant afford extras at the moment. It's why I'm trying to plan everything out. I may be over thinking it all, but I'd rather do that than kill my cam score just 'cause'.I want to start out right so I can afford those little extras and such.

I honestly didn't have the extra money for a subscription but a regular lets me use his , maybe you could get just as lucky

I used to, but it's something I turned down since my roommates have it (so if I have to order something, I can ask them). And I have a whole room to play with so I think I can manage to place my speaker somewhere decent! Thank you

And yes I also have roommates and sometimes I end up blarring my music to tune them out other times I have to be considerate while they are sleeping and try my best to keep it down.

 

[CupcakeQuinn]

Combichrist is very, um, it gets play on goth/industrial nights at clubs haha. But I varied quite a bit between that, dubsteb, trip-hop, indie, alt. rock, etc.

I hope I get that lucky! And yup, roommates can be quite the pain. They aren't always quiet while I'm asleep so I'm gonna try and be considerate but if they wake up and can't go back to sleep- well karma sucks, doesn't it?

 

[GreenDaisy_80]

Combichrist is very, um, it gets play on goth/industrial nights at clubs haha. But I varied quite a bit between that, dubsteb, trip-hop, indie, alt. rock, etc.

I hope I get that lucky! And yup, roommates can be quite the pain. They aren't always quiet while I'm asleep so I'm gonna try and be considerate but if they wake up and can't go back to sleep- well karma sucks, doesn't it?

Wow I totally relate to everything you just said ! I mean I haven't been to a goth club in a while but I agree with all your music choices ! This is random but I want to say a whole lot more to you because it seems we chat well. But could we message each other ? I wanna talk bout more music with you and about the karma surrounding our roomies .

 

[CupcakeQuinn]

Is there a way to private message or direct message?!!!!!

*edit* I'm an idiot with new sites.

 

[Sevrin]

Is there a way to private message or direct message?!!!!!

*edit* I'm an idiot with new sites.

In a thread it's easy. Click the member's name to the left of the post and then click "Start a Conversation". Otherwise go to your conversations (Click your name at the top of the page) and then hit the "Start a Conversation" button at the top right-hand side of the page.

When you find a new message board, just click everything.