Jason314's "Turn ons" topic

[Jason314]

At some point, I had this weird idea about S&M which is not like how S&M tends to be. I used to think that S&M included simple stuff like, "Take my shirt off now, slave!" and "Rub my breasts with your hands, now, slave!" and "Massage my back using these scented oils, slave!" I guess from what I've actually seen, that isn't S&M. Not that I've ever experienced it in real life either way, but still.

Nowadays, I find having the female pleading and begging me to do the aforementioned tasks to be a major turn on for me. It makes me feel important, and it also lets me know that the female is going to be extremely happy when I perform the sexual task for her.

Oh yeah, and having a girl look at me directly in the eyes with a sly grin while pushing a dildo in between her big slippery breasts is pretty much an instant hardon with pre-cum for me. I'll literally be squirming to get out of my pants if I haven't already. If she's wearing her hair in pigtails, I know my pre-cum will be slightly greater. If she's got her sexy voice on while still slyly grinning, I'll probably lose my composure rather quickly, which is unfortunate since I would like to enjoy the sensation a bit longer. If the breasts are soapy and combined with all of the above, that might be too much sexiness for a mortal like me to handle. :romance-cloud9:

 

[AlexLady]

S&M is Sadomasochism. Sadomasochism is stuff like spankings and things involving "pain."

The slave thing is called M/s, which is master over slave. It can be very loving just like husband and wife.

Using a slave title as an insult is called Humiliation.

Telling them what to do is Domination.


BDSM has a lot of parts. First D (Bondage,) next is D (Discipline,) then DS (Dom/sub,) and finally SM (Sadomasochism.) A lot of couples skip one part or another, but some people like all three. Some people are more extreme with one part than another. That's where things like humiliation comes in.

So yeah, sounds like you just used to think it was crazy extremes.


If you're thinking of these things, I vote you experiment. Things don't have to be intense one way or another, and if there's a model that really knows what you want to try give it a shot! Cam to cam helps a lot

 

[Jason314]

Hmm... thanks for the definitions, Alex. I guess I'm not as well versed in these sort of things as I could be.

 

[Bocefish]

There are now schools and specialized courses for that, KinkyKollege.com is just one of many. :whistle:

 

[AlexLady]

It's cool Jason

 

[Jason314]

Add on another turn-on... that picture of Amber's bare back in that 2010 pool album. Such a delightful tease. It's got my whole body squirming a bit.

 

[AlexLady]

Backs are surely the sexiest part of the body. All that open skin, the shapes and curves, the bone structure and muscles working together so fluidly... >_>

 

[tightlockup]

I've decided that none of the traditional BDSM labels fits me so I go with "Kinkster".

 

[spankamber]

ok all this talk is getting me hot, i love spankings!

 

[AlexLady]

Yeah. There are other kinks than BDSM by far; hell I think foot freaks are more common than sadists.

 

[ZoeyMore]

Yeah. There are other kinks than BDSM by far; hell I think foot freaks are more common than sadists.

Yes they are.

 

[PixelKitten]

At some point, I had this weird idea about S&M which is not like how S&M tends to be. I used to think that S&M included simple stuff like, "Take my shirt off now, slave!" and "Rub my breasts with your hands, now, slave!" and "Massage my back using these scented oils, slave!" I guess from what I've actually seen, that isn't S&M. Not that I've ever experienced it in real life either way, but still.

Actually, that sounds a lot like a service submissive to me.

 

[AlexLady]

XD The definitions were only to show their specifics, and show how open and other ways that BDSM could be done.

There are tons.