jessi_castro

[Nordling]

I don't think it's about any "right" to make unsolicited opinions about another person's choices so much as saying what a douche it makes one to do so.

Probably, but guys aren't (for the most part) doing it to be douches, or meaning to be douches.

Well, yeah, and similarly trolls don't at some point in their miserable lives say to themselves, "I think I'll become a troll." The label comes after the decisions to make a series of unsocial acts.

That's a bit hyperbolic perhaps, but the principle is the same: unsolicited advice makes us douchy, whether that is our intention or not.

 

[JickyJuly]

I don't think it's about any "right" to make unsolicited opinions about another person's choices so much as saying what a douche it makes one to do so.

Probably, but guys aren't (for the most part) doing it to be douches, or meaning to be douches.

Dudes tell women their opinions on aesthetic shit that has NOTHING to do with them because they feel they have a right to. You don't. Society teaches men that to feel pretty and validated women need to hear compliments and agreement from men. We don't. Women need to be more adamant at creating boundaries, and men need to stop being douchnozzles under the guise of sweetness and white knighting.

On topic though, yeah. Get rid of the ChipIn. Paypal is not your friend and accepting donations will not help your camscore at all.

 

[mynameisbob84]

I agree with most all of what Lolli said but I will say that when a guy tells a girl that she doesn't need plastic surgery - while he doesn't need to and ultimately shouldn't tell her that - he's not doing it to be a dick.
It's like peering over Da Vinci's shoulder as he's putting the finishing touches to the Mona Lisa... and watching in horror as he starts to paint a comedy moustache on her face. It's not their painting, it's not their canvas, and it's not their business to say anything - but you can understand why they might, ya know?
But ultimately, yes, it's a woman's (or a man's for that matter) right to be able to change the things they don't like about their body, and they should be able to do that without being bugged about it by strangers. Their reasons for wanting to look different might be valid and understandable, they might be completely illogical, but it's still their decision to make and that fact should be respected by others :twocents-02cents:

 

[RedHerby]

Ok, this is clear, when my words makes JJ bang her head against the wall (can someone please go with a first-aid kit to her room) and make great persons like Miss_Lollipop & JickyJuly angry then clearly I have done something wrong here.

Sometime in some other thread, when it is not about a member from the ACF comunicity, I will try to make my point that there is something wrong with the world that makes women want to modify their body. Something about pressure from society about beauty , something about photoshopping normal good looking women into unreal creatures.

Now back to MFC, models, please show your pussy, I will masturbate. (oh there was also something about tokens I believe)

 

[LaceyRoyce]

Ok, this is clear, when my words makes JJ bang her head against the wall (can someone please go with a first-aid kit to her room) and make great persons like Miss_Lollipop & JickyJuly angry then clearly I have done something wrong here.

Sometime in some other thread, when it is not about a member from the ACF comunicity, I will try to make my point that there is something wrong with the world that makes women want to modify their body. Something about pressure from society about beauty , something about photoshopping normal good looking women into unreal creatures.

Now back to MFC, models, please show your pussy, I will masturbate. (oh there was also something about tokens I believe)

I'm not angry! I enjoy debate. Please don't take that as anger.

 

[camstory]

no she did not ask for any one's opinion, but having a chip in on your profile I don't see as being much different than publicly saying, "hey I'm planing on getting implants". which is not asking for opinion, but I suggest it's inviting it.

I will decline the innovation in the future, though I still see this ^^^^^^ as a valid point.

 

[Nordling]

I don't think announcing something you plan to do in your life is "inviting" criticism.

This is analogy only, it's not meant as a DIRECT comparison, but when I hear "inviting," I hear "she asked for it," and when I hear "she asked for it..." See where this kind of thinking CAN lead?

 

[Jupiter551]

Jessi is going to come back to this and be like "WTF" :?

 

[Lounge20K]

no oneis ever in my room

Huh?? All I seem to remember so far is.. BooBs.. Huh?..

 

[AllisonWilder]

OP didn't ask anyone here about her boobs. She was simply stating that nobody is ever in her room. Having anything on a profile saying this, that or whatever doesn't mean that you have a right to voice your unsolicited opinion.

They're her boobs. It's her decision. It's hardly up for debate and even if it was, she's not even here debating it. :?

 

[RedHerby]

OP didn't ask anyone here about her boobs. She was simply stating that nobody is ever in her room. Having anything on a profile saying this, that or whatever doesn't mean that you have a right to voice your unsolicited opinion.

They're her boobs. It's her decision. It's hardly up for debate and even if it was, she's not even here debating it. :?

A cam model who wants more traffic? She should be happy that I did give her boobs so much free publicity !

 

[AllisonWilder]

OP didn't ask anyone here about her boobs. She was simply stating that nobody is ever in her room. Having anything on a profile saying this, that or whatever doesn't mean that you have a right to voice your unsolicited opinion.

They're her boobs. It's her decision. It's hardly up for debate and even if it was, she's not even here debating it. :?

A cam model who wants more traffic? She should be happy that I did give her boobs so much free publicity !

Wow...so much wrong with those 21 words that I don't even know where to start.

 

[Jupiter551]

They're her boobs. It's her decision.

Not yet they're not! That's what the chip-in is for.

Honestly, like it or not, if your job entails showing your bare breasts daily and you make it common knowledge that you're getting surgery to enhance them AND you put a chip-in on your profile so that we (as in the 'audience') can pay for it - expect comments.

You might not like it, and you might think they have no right to comment, but there are going to be comments. Whether or not they're 'solicited' is debateable. One might say in seeking funding, a person is making the topic available to reference.

 

[AllisonWilder]

They're her boobs. It's her decision.

Not yet they're not! That's what the chip-in is for.

Honestly, like it or not, if your job entails showing your bare breasts daily and you make it common knowledge that you're getting surgery to enhance them AND you put a chip-in on your profile so that we (as in the 'audience') can pay for it - expect comments.

You might not like it, and you might think they have no right to comment, but there are going to be comments. Whether or not they're 'solicited' is debateable. One might say in seeking funding, a person is making the topic available to reference.

I do actually see your point but what I meant was that she didn't mention any of those things in her post and therefore are irrelevant in this thread. She was just trying to garner some interest and possibly some new regulars to her room.

If she came here and said, "Hey guys, I have this chip-in on my profile for new boobs, what do you think?", then by all means, shout your opinion from the rooftop. She didn't though...she didn't say anything about boobs at all, actually.

 

[LaceyRoyce]

honestly, if you're dressed like a slut - expect men to reach out and touch you without your permission. expect them not to take no for an answer. expect to be raped. groped. assaulted. hollered at.



OBVIOUSLY this issue is not as serious as a sexual assault. But I hope you understand the comparison.


..... just because it's the normal does not make it OK and does not mean we should do it, condone it or not speak out against it.

 

[Nordling]

I don't think anyone's questioning whether or not there's GOING TO BE COMMENTS. The question is, is it being douchey to do so?

If someone posts a call for money to fight Lou Gehrig's disease (ALS), it MAY bring on comments from Christian Scientists to say, "just pray, don't give money to fight 'God's Will.'" But that is being a douche. Douches are out there, there's going to be douches, douches happen, all of us are sometimes douchey.

Can we now get back on topic? lol

 

[jessi_castro]

lol you guys cafre way more about it than i do haha really, thank you for people who said i didnt need em so sweet buut i want them. the only reason i dont jump to do it is straight up fear of something going wrong or even worse ending up with a ugly ass pair of tits lol


thnx for the support guys!

 

[SoTxBob]

I don't think anyone's questioning whether or not there's GOING TO BE COMMENTS. The question is, is it being douchey to do so?

..... the principle is the same: unsolicited advice makes us douchy, whether that is our intention or not.
Douches are out there, there's going to be douches, douches happen, all of us are sometimes douchey.

By this lil pearl of logic, anyone that offered their opinion, thereby advising the others on this thread, is a douche.... Interesting...
perhaps there should be some investigation into the differentiation of male Vs female douchiness terminology. :roll:

 

[Nordling]

I don't think anyone's questioning whether or not there's GOING TO BE COMMENTS. The question is, is it being douchey to do so?

..... the principle is the same: unsolicited advice makes us douchy, whether that is our intention or not.
Douches are out there, there's going to be douches, douches happen, all of us are sometimes douchey.

By this lil pearl of logic, anyone that offered their opinion, thereby advising the others on this thread, is a douche.... Interesting...
perhaps there should be some investigation into the differentiation of male Vs female douchiness terminology. :roll:

Ha ha! My comment was faulty yes, taken literally, but in the context of the thread where we're discussing unsolicited advice from folks when someone announces something they've already chosen to do, and when that something is a very personal subject to a lot of people, yeah, it's a bit douchy...and as my statement also admits...we're ALL douchy at times...not that we're all douches, or that anyone in this thread is.

 

[Anonymous]

A cam model who wants more traffic? She should be happy that I did give her boobs so much free publicity !

:roll:

 

[BabyGirlRed]

Wow...so much wrong with those 21 words that I don't even know where to start.

I counted every word thanks to you.

On topic of boobies: Boobs are fabulous- big or small. If a woman feels like her body is in need of some changing, I say 'go for it'.

On original topic: I'm sure this thread was a great way to get more people in your room. All this talk about boobies, everyone will be sure to check out your room.
...and your boobs.

If you are still having trouble getting people in your room after all this crazy boob madness, I suggest reading the stuff on this forum. I mean, it has covered so many topics. From fun games to play with regulars to... Oh, I don't know... Sex with horses and such. You will find just about everything you need on this forum. Happy reading!

Also, good luck with the boobs.

 

[RedHerby]

A cam model who wants more traffic? She should be happy that I did give her boobs so much free publicity !

:roll:

Yeah yeah, got it, a cam girl that must be thankfully for something I said, the horror ! So, let me rephrase it:

For a cam model who wants more traffic, from a marketing point of view, this free publicity about her boobs must be a good thing

With a smiley an no reference to this douchebag in it, is it now a funny remark?

 

[AllisonWilder]

A cam model who wants more traffic? She should be happy that I did give her boobs so much free publicity !

:roll:

Yeah yeah, got it, a cam girl that must be thankfully for something I said, the horror ! So, let me rephrase it:

For a cam model who wants more traffic, from a marketing point of view, this free publicity about her boobs must be a good thing

With a smiley an no reference to this douchebag in it, is it now a funny remark?

Maybe next time you can just try to remember your audience here before you post and people wouldn't react to you like you're a douchebag. :thumbleft:

Wording it the way you did the second time is a million times better than the way you originally worded it, even if it's essentially saying the same thing.

 

[SoTxBob]

Maybe next time you can just try to remember your audience here before you post and people wouldn't react to you like you're a douchebag. :thumbleft:

Wording it the way you did the second time is a million times better than the way you originally worded it, even if it's essentially saying the same thing.

Oh FFS.... :roll:

 

[AllisonWilder]

Maybe next time you can just try to remember your audience here before you post and people wouldn't react to you like you're a douchebag. :thumbleft:

Wording it the way you did the second time is a million times better than the way you originally worded it, even if it's essentially saying the same thing.

Oh FFS.... :roll:

I feel like I should clarify...I'm not saying he's a douchebag, he made the reference to himself.

 

[Anonymous]

Oh FFS.... :roll:

What's wrong with Allison's statement? I thought she nailed it.

 

[Jupiter551]

Maybe next time you can just try to remember your audience here before you post and people wouldn't react to you like you're a douchebag. :thumbleft:

Wording it the way you did the second time is a million times better than the way you originally worded it, even if it's essentially saying the same thing.

Oh FFS.... :roll:

I feel like I should clarify...I'm not saying he's a douchebag, he made the reference to himself.

Sometimes I feel like we've been tossed into an arena to fight and survive for the amusement of blood-hungry amazons *dodges arrow* and as much I would like to stand up for the rights of my fellow men *uses camstory as shield* sorry boys it's every man for himself! :violence-rambo:

 

[RedHerby]

Maybe next time you can just try to remember your audience here before you post and people wouldn't react to you like you're a douchebag. :thumbleft:

Wording it the way you did the second time is a million times better than the way you originally worded it, even if it's essentially saying the same thing.

Oh FFS.... :roll:

I feel like I should clarify...I'm not saying he's a douchebag, he made the reference to himself.

I don't think Bob's FFS is about that, maybe he is a little disappointed that you let me get away with it now I worded it a bit different. It's fun to see a member here getting in trouble with models, you have taken that away from him

 

[AllisonWilder]

Maybe next time you can just try to remember your audience here before you post and people wouldn't react to you like you're a douchebag. :thumbleft:

Wording it the way you did the second time is a million times better than the way you originally worded it, even if it's essentially saying the same thing.

Oh FFS.... :roll:

I feel like I should clarify...I'm not saying he's a douchebag, he made the reference to himself.

I don't think Bob's FFS is about that, maybe he is a little disappointed that you let me get away with it now I worded it a bit different. It's fun to see a member here getting in trouble with models, you have taken that away from him

Well, either way, I wasn't saying you're a douchebag. I like to reserve my insults for special occasions. :lol:

 

[SNATCH]

WHAT IN THE FUCKING FUCK IS WRONG WITH THIS TOPIC?!