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Ladies....Do You Get Upset If Your Guy Masturbates?

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MOAR benefits...

Health Benefits for Men

Research summarized in a 2007 article in Sexual and Relationship Therapy found that masturbation may help men by:
— Improving his immune system’s functioning.
— Building his resistance to prostate gland infection.
— Making for a healthier prostate.

Australian researchers have reported that frequent masturbation may lower a man’s risk of developing prostate cancer. A survey of men found the more frequently a man masturbates between the ages of 20 and 50, the less likely they are to get prostate cancer. In fact, those who masturbated more than five times a week were one-third less likely to develop prostate cancer.

Health Benefits for Females

When it comes to a woman’s health, self-pleasuring serves her well by:

— Building her resistance to yeast infections.
— Combating pre-menstrual tension and other physical conditions associated with their menstrual cycles, like cramps.
— Relieving painful menstruation by increasing blood flow to the pelvic region. This will also reduce pelvic cramping and related backaches.
— Relieving chronic back pain and increasing her threshold for pain.

Health Benefits for Both Sexes

Masturbation rewards both men and women because it’s:

— The safest kind of sex, keeping you free of sexually transmitted infections.
— A great form of stress relief.
— A mood booster in releasing endorphins.
— A natural sleep sedative.
— A mechanism for building stronger pelvic floor muscles, which can lead to better sex.
— A natural energetic pick-me-up.

As Sigmund Freud once remarked at the Vienna Psycho-Analytical Society, “the subject of masturbation is quite inexhaustible.” While he wasn’t getting at the benefits (Freud saw self-pleasuring as harmful to the genitals and one’s psychosexual and moral development), the same can be said in how it can improve one’s sexual relationship.

For couples who masturbate on occasion or regularly, sex with yourself can:

— Be empowering, especially by helping you to feel better about your body, genitals and sexual response.
— Deliver some of your most intense orgasms ever, which you’ll now know how to recreate with that special someone!
— Increase your sexual awareness, giving you the opportunity to discover what turns you on – the sensations and movements that work best to give you the greatest of sexual gratification.
— Have the potential to enhance your sex life in general, boosting your sexual confidence and turning you into a better lover.
— Get you or your partner off the hook if neither is available or not in the mood.
 
it depends on how it happens.. i had a ex bf.. that made me really upset by mastrubating..
i have a pretty high sex drive.. and usually i feel like having sex 3,4 times a day.. (if i have a bf)
with him it was rarely 1 time a week.. and after a while i just figured his sex drive was just very low.. he couldnt help that right?
but then i found out he mastrubated while i was in the room next to him.. with him knowing i'm always in for sex..

it didnt really have to do with the fact that he was mastrubating and i wasnt getting any.. but it felt like he found me too unatractive to have sex with.. it was a horrible feeling..
so on a level yeah.. it does upset me when my bf mastrubates while he could have sex with me.. and he rather doesnt..
but i think its an emotional issue.. its not about me not having sex or anything..

also you have these guys that go wank beside you in bed when you told them you didnt feel like it tonight.. and i fucking hate that!
every house has a bathroom.. please go use that.. it doesnt feel right when i said no and you just go on.. on your own right beside me..
to me that looks like trying to get me guilty for not wanting to have sex (which rarely happens lol)

after all... sex is soo much more emotional then physical for me.. it sucks to get the feeling that someone rather has sex without the emotional side to it..
i'm not saying mastrubation would in all cases mean he doesnt wanna have sex with you.. i know men have the physical side to it..
but just in the case of not having sex and then go mastrubate alot.. while you have someone you could actually have sex with...
 
amberimplosion said:
I get myself off 3 times a week. So, I'd be a hypocrite if I said I hated my boyfriend getting himself off...
;)

i feel like a crazy woman! i do that a day... 3 times.. 8-) :?
when i wake up.. when i watch tv at night.. and before i go to sleep.. :oops:
i guess i have always had a pretty high sex drive..
 
LadyLuna said:
Jebbaz said:
funnily enough I cook, and clean, and do laundry.

If my sex drive decides to wake up, well thats just gonna make my social life even more of a disaster.

Social life? What's a social life?

Oh, right, that thing I've never had and never really wanted. INTROVERTS FTW!
lmao
 
Jebbaz said:
I do not enjoy sex. I have a physical need for it, maybe twice a year. Other than that, never. Don't touch me, I'm not gonna have sex with you. That said, I like to masturbate maybe 3 times a week, so if I found a woman who could deal with me never wanting to have sex with her, and be ok with me masturbating a few times a week, then hey that'd be awesome.
But that doesn't exist I'm guessing? Darnit oh well.

You are such an interesting individual, Jebbaz... I don't understand... but I do find you intriguing.

Meh... dudes gotta get off. Let 'em. I imagine that even in serious, loving and understanding relationships people need to handle themselves at least once in a while... I don't think it's so much a sex thing as it is a "me time" thing.
 
JoleneJolene said:
Jebbaz said:
I do not enjoy sex. I have a physical need for it, maybe twice a year. Other than that, never. Don't touch me, I'm not gonna have sex with you. That said, I like to masturbate maybe 3 times a week, so if I found a woman who could deal with me never wanting to have sex with her, and be ok with me masturbating a few times a week, then hey that'd be awesome.
But that doesn't exist I'm guessing? Darnit oh well.

You are such an interesting individual, Jebbaz... I don't understand... but I do find you intriguing.

Meh... dudes gotta get off. Let 'em. I imagine that even in serious, loving and understanding relationships people need to handle themselves at least once in a while... I don't think it's so much a sex thing as it is a "me time" thing.
what don't you understand? I will answer to the best of my ability.
 
Jebbaz said:
JoleneJolene said:
Jebbaz said:
I do not enjoy sex. I have a physical need for it, maybe twice a year. Other than that, never. Don't touch me, I'm not gonna have sex with you. That said, I like to masturbate maybe 3 times a week, so if I found a woman who could deal with me never wanting to have sex with her, and be ok with me masturbating a few times a week, then hey that'd be awesome.
But that doesn't exist I'm guessing? Darnit oh well.

You are such an interesting individual, Jebbaz... I don't understand... but I do find you intriguing.

Meh... dudes gotta get off. Let 'em. I imagine that even in serious, loving and understanding relationships people need to handle themselves at least once in a while... I don't think it's so much a sex thing as it is a "me time" thing.
what don't you understand? I will answer to the best of my ability.

Not wanting to have sex CONSTANTLY! I mean no harm, it's not a bad thing... I just don't know many guys that don't always want it. No explanation is necessary... I prefer the mytique that is Jebbaz. :)
 
JoleneJolene said:
Not wanting to have sex CONSTANTLY! I mean no harm, it's not a bad thing... I just don't know many guys that don't always want it. No explanation is necessary... I prefer the mytique that is Jebbaz. :)

Before my sex drive woke up (twoish years ago, yup, took till I was 23, and I lost my virginity at 20!).. I only got horny once a month. You know- that one day when the hormones have you so horny you'll hump a bed (and I have x.x) Most guys don't get that rush of hormones once a month, so if their hormones are awake enough to want it on occasion, but not enough to need it constantly, then I can definitely understand.
 
Masturbating is great. Everyone should do it whether single or not lol. Those that say they don't are lying (99% of the time)

When in a relationship I don't care, i'm gonna do it so it'd be hypocritical of me if I didn't want my partner too! I think when I was younger i'd get all insecure about it, but meh go for it!!!
 
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