Me and my boyfriend are thinking of both being escorts!

[asianrawra]

call me crazy, but we are both thinking of escorting for a year to save money to move abroad.
No negative comments please, was wondering if anyone on here has done this before and how did it go?


Asianrawra

 

[Gen]

Where do you live, and is he comfortable getting sexual with men? Whatever you do, make sure you know the laws where you live, and SAFETY FIRST. Make sure you have a friend (or your boyfriend) to be on call whenever you're on a "date", have them know exactly when you expect to be done and touch base with them as soon as you leave. You can use a code phrase via text, for example if you text "I love puppies" that means all is good - that way if a client harms you and takes your phone, if they say "I'm all good" your friend knows that's not you. Sounds paranoid but paranoia is essential if you're doing independent escorting.

 

[asianrawra]

Where do you live, and is he comfortable getting sexual with men? Whatever you do, make sure you know the laws where you live, and SAFETY FIRST. Make sure you have a friend (or your boyfriend) to be on call whenever you're on a "date", have them know exactly when you expect to be done and touch base with them as soon as you leave. You can use a code phrase via text, for example if you text "I love puppies" that means all is good - that way if a client harms you and takes your phone, if they say "I'm all good" your friend knows that's not you. Sounds paranoid but paranoia is essential if you're doing independent escorting.

Hi thankyou for your answer, we live in London and would always use protection, we will only prefer to do incalls. The code though is really good we didnt think of that xxx

 

[Sevrin]

You might find more experienced folks over at Stripperweb.

 

[Snowie1969]

London is a good location though for escorting. Lot of rich businessmen around. One of the hardest things may be to create your customerbase though. You may want to advertise and all, but not too much either.

 

[asianrawra]

London is a good location though for escorting. Lot of rich businessmen around. One of the hardest things may be to create your customerbase though. You may want to advertise and all, but not too much either.

I was thinking using my adultwork base and to subscribe to some escort sites but blur my face in pics abit like ive seen some people do x

 

[Snowie1969]

I was thinking using my adultwork base and to subscribe to some escort sites but blur my face in pics abit like ive seen some people do x

That sounds like a reasonable way to do it yes. You would not be the first to do it like that and you won't be the last.
Good luck

 

[Serenity_Tam]

Keep in mind escorting isnt really glamorous as a lot of people make it seem.

You are going to have to be so convincing that "yes tiny dicked dude your peen is the biggest I have seen" "Oh yes man who is fifty years my senior and kinda smelly you are just soooo cute and fun!"

I would agree in saying you will find more folks on stripperweb who are escorts.

I dont know the laws where you live but ensure you can budget for security and SAFE transportation as needed, some laws, like those in Canada can make this difficult. Know your local laws and the penalties. Invest in good lube
Know your pricing scheme - you can value your services higher which will get a different clientele and possibly less and business will take a long time to build, but these clients are more likely to be able to vetted by another escort - get those dudes vetted. Charging less is going to bring you different clients, and you may be charging less BUT you MIGHT make more.

Condoms are not 100% in protecting you from pregnancy so ensure you have birthcontrol, some STIs can transfer from person to person in other ways than penetrative sex, so be sure to take precautions or know the risks and be tested frequently.

Good luck!

 

[zippypinhead]

call me crazy

Okay. YOU'RE CRAZY.

Nevermind the social implications, and let's just look at this logistically. You and your boyfriend want to become escorts in order to save money, but your big plan involves renting not one, but two luxury apartments in the third most expensive city to live in in the world. London is so expensive, it's cheaper to live in Madrid, and fly in to work there every other day.

Exactly how is it that you intend to save money with this plan of yours? You may or may not currently live in Leeds, as your MFC profile says, but that doesn't really matter, since living literally anywhere in Europe other than Zurich is cheaper than living in London. So, your better bet would be to stay right where you are.

This all sounds suspiciously to me like some bedroom fantasizing. Don't let the stories you tell each other while you're getting off become life plans. If you really want to save money, maybe do it the way most people actually save money. Live on a budget, downsize your housing situation, possibly move in with your boyfriend, work more and expand your camming business. Here's a novel idea, I dunno, but maybe you and your boyfriend could fuck each other for money, instead of fucking strange men. Make some videos to sell. Get a couple's account on Chaturbate or Streamate. There's a hell of a lot of options for saving and earning money that you could explore that are a whole lot more sensible than fumbling your way cluelessly into big-city prostitution.

 

[asianrawra]

Okay. YOU'RE CRAZY.

Nevermind the social implications, and let's just look at this logistically. You and your boyfriend want to become escorts in order to save money, but your big plan involves renting not one, but two luxury apartments in the third most expensive city to live in in the world. London is so expensive, it's cheaper to live in Madrid, and fly in to work there every other day.

Exactly how is it that you intend to save money with this plan of yours? You may or may not currently live in Leeds, as your MFC profile says, but that doesn't really matter, since living literally anywhere in Europe other than Zurich is cheaper than living in London. So, your better bet would be to stay right where you are.

This all sounds suspiciously to me like some bedroom fantasizing. Don't let the stories you tell each other while you're getting off become life plans. If you really want to save money, maybe do it the way most people actually save money. Live on a budget, downsize your housing situation, possibly move in with your boyfriend, work more and expand your camming business. Here's a novel idea, I dunno, but maybe you and your boyfriend could fuck each other for money, instead of fucking strange men. Make some videos to sell. Get a couple's account on Chaturbate or Streamate. There's a hell of a lot of options for saving and earning money that you could explore that are a whole lot more sensible than fumbling your way cluelessly into big-city prostitution.

Because i would also be camming, there are apartments for 800 per month which would be two days work. I earn abit in a day from cam anyway as do he. We are BOTH thinking of escorting, which means a few times a week, I am not bedroom fantasizing i do know it is expensive but it will be alot cheaper than how we are living now, with me just on cam and him doing his work. Its not just we though, oh lets move to London. he doesnt have a choice, he cant stay in this area for reasons and i want to support him, Thanks for your comment i will take that into consideration

 

[NerdieBirdie]

Long ago, in a place far away, NerdieBirdie was once a very thin blonde gal, which is a desirable visual image around these parts. I did escorting, but not the type people usually think of when they hear of escorting. I truly did not have sexual relations with anyone. I did the "super hot arm candy" for a company party or wedding situation. I'd make like $300 for a night out somewhere and it was understood that I'd smile, he could have his arm around me, give me a butt squeeze, refer to me as his girlfriend, etc. but nothing occurred beyond the event. I had someone close to me drop me off for the event and pick me up from a public area at a designated time afterward. I had safety phrases I could text if I felt the person was expecting something different, treated me poorly, etc. and I made it clear before the transaction went down that I could leave at any point if I was disrespected or made to feel uncomfortable. It is exactly how I handle dates I do with members from MFC. I know you're talking about doing the sexy stuff, but I don't know if there is a market out by you for what I described, but it was totally worth it. I stopped doing it mostly because once I started getting tattoos and dying my hair crazy colors, I was no longer a desirable candidate for the older men who were interested in a young escort. Not to mention I was getting older. But it was fun while it lasted.

 

[Puffin]

there are apartments for 800 per month

I'm not anywhere near London, but a doubt that £800 a month would cover a well located luxury apartment.
Google found me a 1 bed London apartment for £750 per week or £3250 per month. Also your going to need a deposit, insurance and advance payment plus references and likely proof of income.

 

[mynameisbob84]

Yeah... London is an expensive place to live. A luxury apartment in the areas of London in which you would want to live and that would benefit your escort situation is going to cost you closer to £800 a week than £800 a month. If you want two of them, you're going to have to earning an awful lot just to pay your rent, let alone have money to put aside to save.

 

[HiGirlsRHot]

Yeah... London is an expensive place to live. A luxury apartment in the areas of London in which you would want to live and that would benefit your escort situation is going to cost you closer to £800 a week than £800 a month. If you want two of them, you're going to have to earning an awful lot just to pay your rent, let alone have money to put aside to save.

Your profile mention 350 GBP for an hour, you are quite stunning so I imagine you can get that. While prostitution is mostly legal in England, not paying your taxes on the money is illegal and living in a nice flat will definitely raise suspicions. If you are planning on doing in call work (which I assume is safer) than you'll probably need a nice place. A high price call girl has to look the part. Still I think you are kidding yourself if you think you can have 2 apartments in London and save money.

 

[Gen]

Have you considered working at an agency? You definitely have the appearance to get hired anywhere and it might help you get your feet wet before investing a ton of money into a venture that might not work for various reasons. I imagine London would have a lot of high-end agencies for women, and being in a supportive environment of experienced workers while you're learning could set you up for more success when you do go independent.

 

[asianrawra]

Have you considered working at an agency? You definitely have the appearance to get hired anywhere and it might help you get your feet wet before investing a ton of money into a venture that might not work for various reasons. I imagine London would have a lot of high-end agencies for women, and being in a supportive environment of experienced workers while you're learning could set you up for more success when you do go independent.

yeah that sounds good, its just my boyfriend has experience as he did it in sydney for a year and said he did well for his self. I think its best to jump deep and see how it goes maybe x

 

[asianrawra]

I'm not anywhere near London, but a doubt that £800 a month would cover a well located luxury apartment.
Google found me a 1 bed London apartment for £750 per week or £3250 per month. Also your going to need a deposit, insurance and advance payment plus references and likely proof of income.

hmmmm on rightmove.com i saw some for 1,550 a month but its in canary wharf

 

[fandango]

I live in London and £800 a month will get you a 1 bedroom shoebox in a terrible area. The kind of place where the bed folds out from the wall and the kitchen, bathroom, bedroom and living room are all actually the same room.

I dont know anything about the local prositution game but although canary wharf is full of business types there isnt that much else around there and its a bit remote. Most likely you'd need somewhere around the liverpool street/bank/london bridge areas,basically somewhere central, where there are loads of high rollers you can catch at work or somewhere to the west/southwest like Chelsea where the high rollers tend to live.

 

[Swizzles]

ok, I live in London (a fairly nice part...little Venice for those of you that know the area) and I have a 1 bedroom flat that I pay £1500.00 and that's at the lower end of the scale for the area. The flat is not anything to brag about and not what I would expect from an incall "luxury" escort. As HiGirlsRHot mentioned, you need all the trappings if you're going to be a "luxury" escort.

Also, whilst you certainly have the looks to do well, escorting in London is serious business and you will have a LOT of competition. There are a lot of extremely good looking and fit escorts (and even more at the opposite end) that don't charge £350.00 an hour.

I do wish you all the best though.