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I occasionally spy on some of my favorite models when they go private and one thing I frequently notice is that the session ends after only a minute or so. I spied a private yesterday in which the member abruptly ended things after a minute or two while the model was busy pleasuring herself doggie style. That led to a couple of questions:

1. Do models get some sort of indicator that lets them know the member left? I imagined the model doing the doggie style show above for another minute or two before realizing that the member had left.

2. How do you feel about such short privates? Are you like, well that's 60 easy tokens, or is it, fuck, I can't believe I got naked for only 60 tokens.

Discuss. :dance:
 
When someone leaves a private, it makes a *bing bong* noise so the girl will know.

I personally am more of a "I can't believe I got naked for 60 tokens" kinda girl lol. I went through a period of guys taking me private & ending it in less than a minute... I don't think it was because they were *done*, I think it was because they wanted to see me naked instead of waiting for the room countdown to be reached... or maybe more sinister a motive of emptying my room so I go back to a room which previously had a few hundred in, but then has 15 in it on my return & I have to start builiding the room numbers up again. :icon-cry: It can also be very physically frustrating if you really are getting into it when they leave. :icon-wink:
I now actually have a minimum of 300 tokens for private rule (or unless otherwise agreed) & will ban anyone who leaves superfast. People often ignored that (after I had told them in PM, not just having it on my profile) so it resulted in me turning privates off. That was a few months ago. I have only recently turned privates back on cos I miss one on ones sessions with people.

Edited to add: The guys who connect to private & leave really quickly are usually always guys who haven't said anything beforehand or who I have never seen before...so now I automatically decline a guy who hasn't even said "hi" before trying to take me private.
 
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Wow, I never thought about the consequences to your room count of going into a short private and returning to see your room emptied out. There are some devious motherfuckers on MFC.

And thanks for letting me know about the sound when the one-minute man makes his abrupt exit. :-D
 
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Iam an what the fuck just happenedd did he cum that fast kind of girl. I think 1-2 min men are the most annoying cause when I'm doing something sexy and seductive and he leaves it makes me feel really crappy like wha ddid I do wrong or I think man what a cheap bastard. Yes I like my privates to be at least 5-10 mins.when a person exits a prvt I don't get a sound i just see a screen that I'm away from the cam.
 
I don't mind them, the way I see it is it's tokens I wouldn't have had otherwise and it all adds up. I'm on another cam site where I get mostly one minute wonders, and they soon add up too, and I see it as good exercise having to get up and down so much, haha.
I don't get naked in public so always tell people if they want to see me naked they have to take me private, so I expect one minute wonders from that.

It is funny when you're in a position where you can't see the cam and the guy leaves and you don't realise though haha.
 
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It only bothers me if I'm about to orgasm, but that's only after ~8 minutes. If they leave in under 2 minutes then I've only just gotten naked and chosen a toy. Lol, like AngelicTease it's really good exercise and it adds up after awhile. Plus if they leave after 1 minute or 2 then I haven't gotten my toy dirty yet and I'm still at square 1 for the next guy. Lol.
 
I am on a similar page with Cherry in that I go, "What did I do wrong?" LOL! But they do add up. I don't like that they empty my room and I actually had one of my regs complain about me going to pvt because of this fact. If they cum in 1 minute then fine, I'm ok with that. I actually feel rather empowered and confident in myself, but when they leave and don't respond to my pms then that is when I get a little annoyed.

I always pm someone after a short time to make sure everything is ok. I once had someone end it early who had accidentally fell off his chair and bonked his head. He showed me the bruise afterwards and we laughed about it but I wouldn't have known if he was ok had I not pmed him! If I don't hear anything back I just leave a 'well if you were unsatisfied let me know what I can do for you next time!'. And then leave it at that.

And yeah, if I'm cumming or close then it's like, "DAMNIT!" LOL! That happened to me the other night! So while my camera was 'offline for a moment' or whatever the message was I just finished myself off. I'm not gonna let some punk ruin my orgasm!
 
I don't like one minute privates on any site but it's especially annoying on MFC since I'm usually trying to achieve a goal in public with a game or countdown. It clears my room out, so if I go away from my room to do a private then I want it to be worth my time. If you only have enough tokens to see me get naked, why not contribute them to the public countdown towards naked, and hang out for a minute? I will be naked a lot longer and it will be a lot more fun than watching me quickly get undressed. I no longer accept privates if they have fewer than 300 tokens.
 
this is why i pretty much became fed up with going private. it usually happens when i have a lot of people in my room, we're all chatting and having a good time. someone then takes me pvt, we go in for literally 20-30 seconds and he stops the pvt. it is really irritating ;-; not only does it scare members out of my room away, but it kills the mood as well. =/ no time to even enjoy myself.
btw I have had this happen to me so many times..i think the only time i will do pvt now is if I know the person and have been pvt with them before.
 
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I hate it. It definitely can empty my room, but now that MFC automatically shows you the person's stats (if they aren't hidden) I can give my room an estimation of when I'll be back. If the person has less than 200 tokens (my min is 300 tokens, as is the case with many models) and wants me to cum, my evilness kicks in sometimes and I purposefully go so slowly that I waste all their tokens and they get jack shit. If you're going to empty my room, not tip towards the countdown (which, like Madison said, would get me naked for longer), and make it take that much longer to hit my countdown, then I'm going to inconvenience you like you inconvenienced me. If, on the other hand, they are polite and ask me ahead of time if I wouldn't mind doing a short prvt, then I'll oblige them unless I'm super close to the countdown being met or something.
 
I wonder if some members are so stupid that they don't realize that privates are 60 tokens per minute and then panic and leave after 30 seconds when they see their 200 token balance quickly slipping away.
 
ComicOzzie said:
I wonder if some members are so stupid that they don't realize that privates are 60 tokens per minute and then panic and leave after 30 seconds when they see their 200 token balance quickly slipping away.
That probably happens quite a bit
 
EllaXoXo said:
I'm going to inconvenience you like you inconvenienced me.

QFE.
I sometimes forget to take care of myself, but this was an excellent point I just HAVE to quote. If anyone is like me and puts themselves on the bottom, remember this. I think I'm going to tape this to my wall on a piece of paper, LOL!
 
One minute man IRL I would probably spank around.... hehehe

Whereas on mfc I generally ban them afterwards because they take time away from my room and my room number drops. I also find it insulting that someone would leave the moment I get naked.

But as a few models said, it does add up... I just wish they were honest about it.
 
hi,

When i see a model i would like to take pvt i will look at her profile and when i see things like

i only accept truepvt
i need at least 5 minutes to "warm up"

Then her chances are gone.Now.Ok 1 minute i can understand that upsets most models as it's kind of disrespectfull but some models are verry good at "strechting" the pvt and that in fact is forbidden
 
MadisonLeigh said:
I don't like one minute privates on any site but it's especially annoying on MFC since I'm usually trying to achieve a goal in public with a game or countdown. It clears my room out, so if I go away from my room to do a private then I want it to be worth my time. If you only have enough tokens to see me get naked, why not contribute them to the public countdown towards naked, and hang out for a minute? I will be naked a lot longer and it will be a lot more fun than watching me quickly get undressed. I no longer accept privates if they have fewer than 300 tokens.

you can not always see that i always hide my tokens and reward points so how are you doing that ? nevertheless your right 100% i would constribute to the public naked then and it must be verry annoying for you to take everything off for a minute (or a few of them) and then having to dress again mfc should make people more aware that it's 60 tokens a minute for example by showin it right after you click go private that way the member is not gonna panic and the model will not be annoyed
 
ComicOzzie said:
Wow, I never thought about the consequences to your room count of going into a short private and returning to see your room emptied out. There are some devious motherfuckers on MFC.

MadisonLeigh said:
I don't like one minute privates on any site but it's especially annoying on MFC since I'm usually trying to achieve a goal in public with a game or countdown. It clears my room out, so if I go away from my room to do a private then I want it to be worth my time. If you only have enough tokens to see me get naked, why not contribute them to the public countdown towards naked, and hang out for a minute? I will be naked a lot longer and it will be a lot more fun than watching me quickly get undressed. I no longer accept privates if they have fewer than 300 tokens.


I had a similar thought to ComicOzzie that it is possible that some countdowns could be deliberately sabotaged with a one minute wonder which would be pretty low. It is true that when a private show starts the room starts to empty straight away which screws with countdowns as they have to start from scratch. Wonder if any models ever thought that such private shows were ever suspicious rather than just annoying?

The fact that some members go private then leave suddenly after a very short show without saying anything sounds weird to me anyway... :think:


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Belgian said:
MadisonLeigh said:
I don't like one minute privates on any site but it's especially annoying on MFC since I'm usually trying to achieve a goal in public with a game or countdown. It clears my room out, so if I go away from my room to do a private then I want it to be worth my time. If you only have enough tokens to see me get naked, why not contribute them to the public countdown towards naked, and hang out for a minute? I will be naked a lot longer and it will be a lot more fun than watching me quickly get undressed. I no longer accept privates if they have fewer than 300 tokens.

you can not always see that i always hide my tokens and reward points so how are you doing that ? nevertheless your right 100% i would constribute to the public naked then and it must be verry annoying for you to take everything off for a minute (or a few of them) and then having to dress again mfc should make people more aware that it's 60 tokens a minute for example by showin it right after you click go private that way the member is not gonna panic and the model will not be annoyed

If they hide their tokens, I decline the private and PM them first to let them know my requirements. Then if they take me for a 1 minute private after that, they get banned. Pretty easy solution.
 
I only accept privates from people on my friends list now so luckily I don't run into this problem. When I used to happen to me, I would think to myself "What the hell?" or "What's wrong with me?"

I actually don't mind a quicky... as long as I know it's going to be a quicky. In other words, year it's a lil rude to have the model get completely naked, start fucking herself silly and then close the window. A simple "Thanks, bye!" goes a long way lol.

But regardless, it is what it is. Just another lovely part of the caming world!

So anyway, guys, if you're gunna take a girl for a quicky, just let her know in advance if you can. Sometimes girls also get upset because it messes with the groove of her public chat. Say she has a room full of people and then she disappears for 1 minute... well it is likely that when she gets back, he room may have disappeared as well!
 
KaylaMarie said:
I only accept privates from people on my friends list now so luckily I don't run into this problem. When I used to happen to me, I would think to myself "What the hell?" or "What's wrong with me?"


Having a private end after a minute does not mean there is any thing wrong with the model it means the person who could only last a minute needs to see a doctor and be checked for an underlying medical condition, including high blood pressure, atherosclerosis, diabetes, obesity and high cholesterol.

Even if I do not like the show I will let it run a 4 or 5 minutes if the model is doing the best she can. I have only ended a private early once because the model sounded so bored it was depressing I did tip her extra before I left to bring the token count up to her minimum. I swear it was like she thought sex was supposed to sound like a cheap porn. I could have set a watch by her mechanical "oh my gods" and "I am so wet". I thought it would be hard to find a model worse at enjoying masturbation than she was until I spied on another model I was curious about. I probably would not have been laughing so hard if I had been paying full price every time she stopped to fuss with her hair.
 
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KaylaMarie said:
I only accept privates from people on my friends list now so luckily I don't run into this problem. When I used to happen to me, I would think to myself "What the hell?" or "What's wrong with me?"


Having a private end after a minute does not mean there is any thing wrong with the model it means the person who could only last a minute needs to see a doctor and be checked for an underlying medical condition, including high blood pressure, atherosclerosis, diabetes, obesity and high cholesterol.

Even if I do not like the show I will let it run a 4 or 5 minutes if the model is doing the best she can. I have only ended a private early once because the model sounded so bored it was depressing I did tip her extra before I left to bring the token count up to her minimum. I swear it was like she thought sex was supposed to sound like a cheap porn. I could have set a watch by her mechanical "oh my gods" and "I am so wet". I thought it would be hard to find a model worse at enjoying masturbation than she was until I spied on another model I was curious about. I probably would not have been laughing so hard if I had been paying full price every time she stopped to fuss with her hair.

Well thanks for your input. That's nice of you to stay for a couple minutes if the model is doing her best. Actually it's really sweet :) Although now I wonder if anyone's ever done that with me, "just to be nice." I dunno which is worse! lol I suppose what the model doesn't know won't kill her.

Again, I have no problem with a short private, but at least say goodbye guys! This is why I love only accepting privates from people on my friends list. I don't have to worry about it. But it wasn't always this way! And I am starting on streamate soon and I am sure I will run into this problem there as well.... oh joy!
 
I dislike one minute privates on stream so bad. It's like, I get totally naked and ready to go, and they just got off. It's also annoying when I'm in a good private for a few minutes n u get the guys who go in for like 20 seconds n dont have to pay. That is why I love exclusives. The guys usually stay in longer, especially on phone. Another thing about one minute men. . they never say goodbye! or thanks! or anything! they usually just demand you to take your clothes off and then leave, and I got 30 seconds to put my clothes back on to go to free chat. Grrrrrrr :angry4:
 
WickedTouch said:
I had a similar thought to ComicOzzie that it is possible that some countdowns could be deliberately sabotaged with a one minute wonder which would be pretty low. It is true that when a private show starts the room starts to empty straight away which screws with countdowns as they have to start from scratch. Wonder if any models ever thought that such private shows were ever suspicious rather than just annoying?

But what's the motive?

A competing model? Too unfocused, no way to drive the people to the competitor's room.

Random act of bastardry? Probably happens from time to time but bastards aren't usually the deepest thinkers, times that by 100 when dealing with porn, and statistically the frequency of minute-men can't account for this.

Also, from my observation guys who take models private do it in one of two ways. The first is they hang out in the room, are a regular more or less, and when they go private it lasts a while. The second MUCH more common way is they'll come in the room, ask for a private regardless of whatever is going on in the room, will stay anywhere from 1-5 minutes in the show, after which they'll exit the room and probably never return. I dunno if that's suspicious so much as self-absorbed and disinterested in the model (outside of watching her masturbate) but hey it's their dime, as they say.

KaylaMarie said:
Again, I have no problem with a short private, but at least say goodbye guys!
I agree completely, hell I always say thanks and goodbye even in a group, and sometimes leave a tip with it (always if I'm the last one left and they've stuck around for me).

I also can't leave if the model appears to be approaching orgasm, even if I already came lol. I feel like it's my duty as her masturbation partner (client or not) to stick around and encourage her :p

They're called manners and I guess some people just don't have them.

LiciousLily said:
I dislike one minute privates on stream so bad.

Totally read that as "I dislike one minute privates on steam so bad."
 
Jupiter551 said:
I also can't leave if the model appears to be approaching orgasm, even if I already came lol. I feel like it's my duty as her masturbation partner (client or not) to stick around and encourage her :p
That's a great way to think of it! :clap:
 
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I feel like I haven't been doing this long enough to have much of an opinion, but I've noticed that I tend to get them a lot... I'm sort of the opinion that I may be cursed with having a lot of them because I have larger than average boobs and there are just some people that are going to want to see me braless/shirtless/whatever because of that and not really be interested in looking that long. It's more of a curiosity factor, it seems like. In some ways, it's kinda disappointing, but I unless a guy is specifically requesting masturbation, I just tend to assume that he's there to look at the tits for a bit.
 
spika said:
I feel like I haven't been doing this long enough to have much of an opinion, but I've noticed that I tend to get them a lot... I'm sort of the opinion that I may be cursed with having a lot of them because I have larger than average boobs and there are just some people that are going to want to see me braless/shirtless/whatever because of that and not really be interested in looking that long. It's more of a curiosity factor, it seems like. In some ways, it's kinda disappointing, but I unless a guy is specifically requesting masturbation, I just tend to assume that he's there to look at the tits for a bit.

Wouldn't it be better for your room (and you) though to say charge 60 tokens to take your top off (for a couple minutes) - that way the guys get what they want to look at, don't need to go into private and kill any vibe going on and hopefully the vibe of you being topless for a couple minutes might encourage more tips or desire from room members.
 
Jupiter551 said:
Wouldn't it be better for your room (and you) though to say charge 60 tokens to take your top off (for a couple minutes) - that way the guys get what they want to look at, don't need to go into private and kill any vibe going on and hopefully the vibe of you being topless for a couple minutes might encourage more tips or desire from room members.

Hmm... That's a good point. I'm wondering if this is something that's approached differently based on whether you're working off of MFC or SM or not though. I'm only on SM (and I know the majority of folks who are around here are MFC folk). I know that the two sites have different business models based on what I've read on this forum, but I'm not sure what those differences all are yet.... Any thoughts from anyone who's worked both sites? Obviously I'd like to do things the most efficient way if possible. :lol:
 
spika said:
Jupiter551 said:
Wouldn't it be better for your room (and you) though to say charge 60 tokens to take your top off (for a couple minutes) - that way the guys get what they want to look at, don't need to go into private and kill any vibe going on and hopefully the vibe of you being topless for a couple minutes might encourage more tips or desire from room members.

Hmm... That's a good point. I'm wondering if this is something that's approached differently based on whether you're working off of MFC or SM or not though. I'm only on SM (and I know the majority of folks who are around here are MFC folk). I know that the two sites have different business models based on what I've read on this forum, but I'm not sure what those differences all are yet.... Any thoughts from anyone who's worked both sites? Obviously I'd like to do things the most efficient way if possible. :lol:
MFC is one of the very few sites that allow nudity in free chat. Jupiter was probably forgetting that not all models here at ACF are MFC girls. ;)
 
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Jupiter551 said:
WickedTouch said:
I had a similar thought to ComicOzzie that it is possible that some countdowns could be deliberately sabotaged with a one minute wonder which would be pretty low. It is true that when a private show starts the room starts to empty straight away which screws with countdowns as they have to start from scratch. Wonder if any models ever thought that such private shows were ever suspicious rather than just annoying?

But what's the motive?

A competing model? Too unfocused, no way to drive the people to the competitor's room.

Random act of bastardry? Probably happens from time to time but bastards aren't usually the deepest thinkers, times that by 100 when dealing with porn, and statistically the frequency of minute-men can't account for this.

Also, from my observation guys who take models private do it in one of two ways. The first is they hang out in the room, are a regular more or less, and when they go private it lasts a while. The second MUCH more common way is they'll come in the room, ask for a private regardless of whatever is going on in the room, will stay anywhere from 1-5 minutes in the show, after which they'll exit the room and probably never return. I dunno if that's suspicious so much as self-absorbed and disinterested in the model (outside of watching her masturbate) but hey it's their dime, as they say.

KaylaMarie said:
Again, I have no problem with a short private, but at least say goodbye guys!
I agree completely, hell I always say thanks and goodbye even in a group, and sometimes leave a tip with it (always if I'm the last one left and they've stuck around for me).

I also can't leave if the model appears to be approaching orgasm, even if I already came lol. I feel like it's my duty as her masturbation partner (client or not) to stick around and encourage her :p

They're called manners and I guess some people just don't have them.

LiciousLily said:
I dislike one minute privates on stream so bad.

Totally read that as "I dislike one minute privates on steam so bad."


Well untill this week I had very little hard evidence to say the practice of active room manipulation/sabotage occurred. However, during the week, I was in a room to see a girl taken for a show and as she left the room... this appeared in public chat...

11:19:14 AM hardaswood4u: check out lovecharlize she is beautiufl and if you giver her 150 tokens to get her naked
11:19:17 AM hardaswood4u: check her out



...now, within a few mins a large clutch of premiums left to (presumably) visit said spammed girls room and when the session ended after only 3 mins, more than half the premium members had walked. Admittedly, this was the first time i had seen such an action occurring, but it does seem to happen, even if on a very small percentage of the short shows.


Myself, I have never walked into a room and straight out asked for a private show, even when I know the model well. I will always check with her first.... for example, sometimes tips for dances or for music are being given by members, which are not immediately obvious, so its always best to check with the girl before asking to take her for a private show. There may even be a queue... and no one likes queue jumpers!

Second, I would be embarrassed for both myself and for the model if I left the show without saying anything at all when it concluded. Its only basic manners to let the model know if the session went well and what you liked about it. Give her some feedback too. Maybe ask then and there for something that she may use on a future visit... at least show her that you were involved and participating in the event.

Third... I always stay till the the girl has finished... as I said before... if the model has a good time, then I have a good time and everyone leaves with a happy face. Its not rocket science after all... just basic courtesy and understanding extended to the model who has done all the hard work. As a result, my private shows last around 15 mins now.
 
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