Okay. I started following a model in May. We became pretty close over the month and still message each other almost every day. At this point I only visit her room occasionally just to say hi. She is the only model who has ever seen my face and she says I am her type. This is not "I am in love with a model" post. So keep reading.
Early on I mentioned the vacations I had to cancel because of the pandemic including two trips to Hawaii. And she said "I would love to go to Hawaii with you." I laughed it off as simple flirting. Going forward we would make joking references about going to Hawaii together.
Then about a month ago I was telling her about an article about the best foreign countries Americans for retire to. I've got 30 more years before that is a realistic idea but I like to dream. But I mentioned it to her because I was surprised to see Colombia as the #5 place to retire. Colombia always seems dangerous to me and when I mentioned it to her she agreed, being Colombian. Horrible economy, horrible government.
I then mentioned that Costa Rica topped the list but I would like to visit first to see if it was a place I would like to live. She said she would love to go with me. Once again I laughed it off as a joke saying we have 30 years to figure it out.
But now I am seriously planning a trip to Costa Rica early next year. Should I call her bluff and ask her to go? How would you respond to such an overture? Would it creep you out? I would hate to ruin the relationship as it currently is. And I am not asking for sex. I would get separate rooms. But it would be interesting not see if anything clicked in real life.
Early on I mentioned the vacations I had to cancel because of the pandemic including two trips to Hawaii. And she said "I would love to go to Hawaii with you." I laughed it off as simple flirting. Going forward we would make joking references about going to Hawaii together.
Then about a month ago I was telling her about an article about the best foreign countries Americans for retire to. I've got 30 more years before that is a realistic idea but I like to dream. But I mentioned it to her because I was surprised to see Colombia as the #5 place to retire. Colombia always seems dangerous to me and when I mentioned it to her she agreed, being Colombian. Horrible economy, horrible government.
I then mentioned that Costa Rica topped the list but I would like to visit first to see if it was a place I would like to live. She said she would love to go with me. Once again I laughed it off as a joke saying we have 30 years to figure it out.
But now I am seriously planning a trip to Costa Rica early next year. Should I call her bluff and ask her to go? How would you respond to such an overture? Would it creep you out? I would hate to ruin the relationship as it currently is. And I am not asking for sex. I would get separate rooms. But it would be interesting not see if anything clicked in real life.