Subject: Abusive behavior from a model – request for clarification
Hello everyone ?
First just know im not posting this message while crying or complaining , reporting , in a spiteful mannerbut or whatever ... just to have some honest opinions .
Because I respect and deeply understand the difficulty of the job and I even wish the best to this model with all the greatest sincerity in the world.?
But i would like having a advice about a probbaly abusive behavior so I think I was witness and victim .
Im a kind of tchatty guy who rarely ask models for stuff and like to speak and get to know each others im pm tchat ( mostly at first ) .
Yesterday, i was browsing a little bit randomly and i enterer in a BDSM/Findom room .
(Im not a sub and it's one of my rare time in a such findom room )
Her room title already stated:
"100TK FOR MY ATTENTION - Free loaders are ignored, even blocked"
(It gave me a few cold sweats but the model seemed to be smiling,
)
and her tip menu listed 25 tokens for a PM tax (private message discussion).
However, before I tipped anything, like a few seconds after i enter in her room , at my pleasant surprise she initiated a private message with me even without tipping her the 25 tokens requested . Then to be polite , respectful and follow the rules, I still tipped ( without she asked me ) the 25 tokens requested for tchattting in private messages right after .
We had a short conversation with some flattery and i also told her i saw here a long time ago and it's good to see her again , so she kinda frostily answers me : " so without being offended, you found me not good enough and interesting not enough for you to stay?" i answered im rarely online and browsing in the morning , and my work shedules and life sadly made that i couldn't be there see her . ( I already felt uncomfortable having to explain this as if it was my jealous and possessive wife lol )
She after asked me to tip 500 tokens “to prove my sincerity.” Then i politely explained that I didn’t have that amount right now and iam not so much into submissions stuff .
Despite this, I sent another 25 tokens as a sign of good faith and keep going the converstation .
She then told me I had “disappointed” her and said I would not receive her attention unless I fulfilled her demand. I replied calmly, saying “I understand,” and ... i was immediately banned from her room.?
Well i can understand that models can manage their rooms as they see fit, but i still felt like I was being kinda manipulated into tipping more than advertised, and then "punished" for not complying — even though I had paid the required amounts for pm tchat and remained polite.
She definitely took it badly that i didn't play and entered in her game and spirit of financial femdom submissions ... or she absolutely not here to make friendy tchat with people and saw me just as a waste of time , i may understand but I think the ban is disproportionate even given the context ....
Hello everyone ?
First just know im not posting this message while crying or complaining , reporting , in a spiteful mannerbut or whatever ... just to have some honest opinions .
Because I respect and deeply understand the difficulty of the job and I even wish the best to this model with all the greatest sincerity in the world.?
But i would like having a advice about a probbaly abusive behavior so I think I was witness and victim .
Im a kind of tchatty guy who rarely ask models for stuff and like to speak and get to know each others im pm tchat ( mostly at first ) .
Yesterday, i was browsing a little bit randomly and i enterer in a BDSM/Findom room .
(Im not a sub and it's one of my rare time in a such findom room )
Her room title already stated:
"100TK FOR MY ATTENTION - Free loaders are ignored, even blocked"
(It gave me a few cold sweats but the model seemed to be smiling,
) and her tip menu listed 25 tokens for a PM tax (private message discussion).
However, before I tipped anything, like a few seconds after i enter in her room , at my pleasant surprise she initiated a private message with me even without tipping her the 25 tokens requested . Then to be polite , respectful and follow the rules, I still tipped ( without she asked me ) the 25 tokens requested for tchattting in private messages right after .
We had a short conversation with some flattery and i also told her i saw here a long time ago and it's good to see her again , so she kinda frostily answers me : " so without being offended, you found me not good enough and interesting not enough for you to stay?" i answered im rarely online and browsing in the morning , and my work shedules and life sadly made that i couldn't be there see her . ( I already felt uncomfortable having to explain this as if it was my jealous and possessive wife lol )
She after asked me to tip 500 tokens “to prove my sincerity.” Then i politely explained that I didn’t have that amount right now and iam not so much into submissions stuff .
Despite this, I sent another 25 tokens as a sign of good faith and keep going the converstation .
She then told me I had “disappointed” her and said I would not receive her attention unless I fulfilled her demand. I replied calmly, saying “I understand,” and ... i was immediately banned from her room.?
Well i can understand that models can manage their rooms as they see fit, but i still felt like I was being kinda manipulated into tipping more than advertised, and then "punished" for not complying — even though I had paid the required amounts for pm tchat and remained polite.
She definitely took it badly that i didn't play and entered in her game and spirit of financial femdom submissions ... or she absolutely not here to make friendy tchat with people and saw me just as a waste of time , i may understand but I think the ban is disproportionate even given the context ....
