Privates

[BlairLuxe]

Strippers also aren't running their own lights/music/bouncing, ready with props/toys laid to the side, inviting you into their home, ready to do things in front of you that could qualify as criminal in person. Strippers have a physical workplace. They don't have to worry about the never-disappearing and horribly unforgiving internet. Even if stripping and camming were the same service, if a stripper decides to take a different job, their boss will not find evidence of them doing that job on a tube site and potentially fire them. Internet sex workers get risk pay. Those "go pick up food for me from a restaurant that doesn't deliver" services in cities are fucking expensive, because you're in your home, you don't want to leave your home, maybe you don't want to put out the social energy, but you're hungry, so you pay a premium +tip for someone to make it happen for you from the comfort of your own home. They risk their safety to get it to you, and you don't complain at the door about paying them their fee because that's rude. If you can't afford for the to-your-home option, you have to leave your home or deal with it. Some people can't afford to go to the restaurant and pick up anyway, so they just need to use their imaginations and cook for their damn selves or get someone who likes them enough to come do it.

(I of course am not saying there is no risk with stripping. There's a difference between "mostly right now" risk and "definitely forever" risk, though. This is also not to say there can't be issues down the line or that nobody will ever figure out that you stripped and cause you problems. The evidence is just definitely there to find if you're recording it and putting it on the internet or streaming it on the internet. I also understand that we are also not equivalent to food items and I hope this analogy does not ruffle feathers.)

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OP, I am sure you will have a great time! A message before is great so she knows to have everything ready you might want her to use and she is physically and emotionally ready for a long private. Don't be shy or embarrassed, she wants you to have a good time. You're doing her a favor by telling her what you like, so don't feel like you are being a bother.

 

[Guy]

I'm guessing you haven't been to too many strip clubs. $20-25 gets a you roughly 5 minutes lap dance, $100 gets you a 1/2 hour sometimes longer at private rooms. This is 1-1 with real woman not virtual experience and it is generally better. $100 may or may now get you handjob at the Bunny Ranch but $200 will definitely get you a legal blowjob and $100 will get you an illegal one in most places.

A $100 will get you 6 months and often a year at pretty much any porn site on the net with a little shopping.

A model doing a private for an hour makes 4800 *$.05=$240/hour which cost the member between $380-$450. On a per hour basis that is extraordinarily expensive entertainment, compared to damn near anything but superbowl tickets.

It is free market and I am capitalist so I'm not bitching. But for a young guy making $10/hour that means he has to work 10 hours to pay for something lasting 10 minutes. There is reason guys complain.

You're comparing apples to oranges.

 

[JoleneBrody]

Well this thread was very helpful to OP for the first few posts at least. Lol.

There was some great advice up there though so I hope it helped him before everything went off the rails.

 

[HiGirlsRHot]

I really not interest in starting a stripping vs camming war. Sex workers make what they make, that's not my concern and certainly there are risks and headaches associated with both jobs. Guy ask why members complain about the price of private and I said because it is expensive. Camming is a form of entertainment and taking a girl private is a definitely a luxury. I compared it to other forms of sex work and it is way more expensive on a hourly basis than internet porn, (ignoring all the free porn available). It is also more expensive than a strip club and on par with going to a prostitute. I've never used a prostitute so I can't comment on them. If, In my roughly every year or two trip to a strip club, find I have more at strip club especially if I'm with a group. And I generally spend less money/hour than on MFC. Other guys may have different experience. Yes camming is unique and can be done from in your underwear from your living room, that's certainly a feature.

But the fact remains taking a girl to true private cost $400/hour on MFC. If I said an activity cost $400/hour or a service person told you that was their hourly rate, what words would you to describe the price?

 

[Phoenix4987]

As someone pointed out, it's a luxury. Pros and Cons to each type of sex worker you can "hire." And there's definitely an issue of quality when it comes to all work involved. So $400 an hour for top quality service? I don't usually pay for True Privates, so I pay the standard $300 an hour. Still. It's about the type of service (sex work) and also the quality of service. Some models fit your fancy more than others, some strip clubs are way better than others, some escorts are definitely more clean than others. MFC is pretty cheap considering what other sites can charge.

Anyway. It's just a luxury. You have options to get your entertainment fix how you want and there's definitely plenty of options that suit all budgets.

 

[Lorelei]

But the fact remains taking a girl to true private cost $400/hour on MFC. If I said an activity cost $400/hour or a service person told you that was their hourly rate, what words would you to describe the price?

If we're okay talking semantics, I think the word you're looking for is "costly." "Expensive" insinuates that something costs a lot of money but isn't necessarily worth the price. "Costly" implies value. It depends on how you feel about what you've gotten in return.

But maybe that's just me.

 

[Ambers Troll]

The cost of private is an an important consideration: its' worth is definitely more dependent on the value you get for the experience.

It is also more expensive than a strip club and on par with going to a prostitute. I've never used a prostitute so I can't comment on them. If, In my roughly every year or two trip to a strip club, find I have more at strip club especially if I'm with a group. And I generally spend less money/hour than on MFC. Other guys may have different experience. Yes camming is unique and can be done from in your underwear from your living room, that's certainly a feature.

But the fact remains taking a girl to true private cost $400/hour on MFC. If I said an activity cost $400/hour or a service person told you that was their hourly rate, what words would you to describe the price?

It is expensive/ costly spending on cam models (many orders beyond just a premium service), in fact spending in private may be the cheaper option most times, tipping you can spend the same amount in minutes, even seconds.

When you are spending so much for your own pleasure, especially when their is no guarantee of getting what you want, you can either go with the risk or try to protect yourself against it. You can also do something you know deep down is reckless.
Protecting yourself can restrict the pleasure. Doing something reckless can result in you getting no reward for your spending. Accepting the risk is simply a gamble.

Phoenix4987 does have a point in that a model accepting private time should be ready. Most models in my experience have been fine with little or no notice. If you communicate well and can afford to take your time, you can ask for what you want within private. It does risk being reckless with your spending, so some consent and an idea of what you want private is wise.

Back to cost, most members seem to choose cam models over their cheaper professional alternatives for how they react to that spending. Cam models seem to notice their members and this increases their value. The rules of cam modelling allow it, where it is restricted in other areas. This is perhaps the best reason to ask for private time, the experience can be quite a bit richer even if not as physical.

To give an example, I still sometimes tip a model who banned me years ago (I rank as her #36 highest spender as a result of this). I can still enjoy seeing her on, so I tip. She can't hide being affected, and I know that she enjoys the compliment as much as it annoys her. You can only get experiences like this in cam land.

 

[TeganTrex]

OP, tell us how long you want a show for, what you'd like to do, and what we will need to get.

I feel horrible when I do a private and someone wants me to get something I don't have in my cam room during the private because people should be paying money by the minute during the show, not during the set up.

As was said before, help us help you.

 

[fandango]

If we're okay talking semantics, I think the word you're looking for is "costly." "Expensive" insinuates that something costs a lot of money but isn't necessarily worth the price. "Costly" implies value. It depends on how you feel about what you've gotten in return.

But maybe that's just me.

That's interesting. I personally don't link the word expensive with the thing not being worth it. I literally take it as meaning it costs a lot of money and that is it. Whether or not it's worth that money is a separate thing entirely.

To me if someone said something was costly I would think that it costs quite a lot of money but less than something that was expensive.

It's interesting how we can all take different meanings from the same word and it totally change to tone of a discussion to the reader.


Back to the topic a private show certainly isn't cheap (On MFC at least). If you are only interested in finding a cheap privcate then a site like SM has models who offer rates much lower than MFC but also some who are way higher. If you have your favourite model and want to take her specifically private then you have to pay whatever her rate is on her site of choice.

 

[AmberCutie]

Back to the topic a private show certainly isn't cheap (On MFC at least). If you are only interested in finding a cheap privcate then a site like SM has models who offer rates much lower than MFC

The downside to going directly to a private based site that might offset the money savings = you can't hang out in the girl's public chat room and get to know her in the same way you might be able to on MFC. I like to think it makes for a better private experience if you have some understanding of the girl's likes and dislikes and personality before going into an intimate pay per minute scenario.

All things to consider!

 

[Entertainer33]

The downside to going directly to a private based site that might offset the money savings = you can't hang out in the girl's public chat room and get to know her in the same way you might be able to on MFC. I like to think it makes for a better private experience if you have some understanding of the girl's likes and dislikes and personality before going into an intimate pay per minute scenario.

All things to consider!

Yes. The best privates I've had have been with women who I know and like. Best one I had I just started typing what I wanted, and they knew where I was going before I was finished.

 

[summerale]

Yes. The best privates I've had have been with women who I know and like. Best one I had I just started typing what I wanted, and they knew where I was going before I was finished.

On the flip side, I generally prefer doing privates with models I only sort of know. With my favorite models I feel weird at the thought of it or I feel it would be quite awkward.

 

[Entertainer33]

On the flip side, I generally prefer doing privates with models I only sort of know. With my favorite models I feel weird at the thought of it or I feel it would be quite awkward.

Whatever works. I took a model I barely knew private, and while it was nice and all, it was a basic show. Havn't had a bad private yet, just some better than others..

 

[ZombieKiller]

Thanks to everyone who responded. Yes, I didn't read all comments lol. I first stumbled upon this models room 3 months ago. I appreciate all of the advice.

I have let her know that it will be a longer private. I've also arranged it so she can jump online before her normal start time so it doesn't interfere with her day. She does do privates, but gets most of her tips in chats and countdowns.

We know what each other likes and I've requested that for the first private, I will have her show me what she likes. I want this to be fun for both of us. About the token storage, this is a great idea. I wouldn't want to stop what I'm doing to buy more tokens if needed. I usually keep my tokens invisible because I've noticed you can go into a room once, and the msgs don't stop.

You ladies are lovely! Thanks so much for your insight!!

Zombie