Reasons for visiting cam models

[Starman]

A personal list:

• No danger of either you or the model catching an STD
• No physical danger for either of you
• You usually spend less or about the same as you would for a date night out - but with guaranteed results.
• You don't have to spend an evening boring your date by talking about your horrible ex and recent divorce or by being withdrawn because you don't want to talk about it.
• It is easy to find an interesting, smart, empathetic model - or whatever other personality traits you seek.
• In fact you have a ridiculous amount of choice, and all of the models will talk to you - or do way more than talk - for a few tokens. You won't get that at a singles bar/event.
• Real friendships are possible,
• You can practice talking to desirable people without the usual pressure.
• Sex is good for you, it reminds you you're alive, makes you more body-aware, and is a great mood-lifter.

Others?

 

[NotYou]

Honestly for me it's just some obvious reasons..

- It's much easier and more convenient, I don't need to make an effort in terms of appearance, even if I am doing Cam 2 Cam.
- I get to experience a woman that I would never have the balls to chat up in real life
-- Find these amazing and beautiful women that I would never dare approach because they are out of my league, and realising "wow, she is not a stuck up person BECAUSE she is so attractive"... She is a smart and funny person that I really get on with AND she enjoys me too (believe it or not ladies, it's a very nice feeling for us guys).
- I can ask for some dirty/kinky things I wouldn't dare dream of doing for the first time or few times in a relationship lol.

 

[Lelo1]

This is a joke right?

 

[Slapstick]

My reasons:

1. I like to watch young women masturbate.
2. There is no #2

Also, with a cam model I can tip $5 and tell her how much I want her to wrap her thighs around my ears. IRL not so much.

 

[NotYou]

My reasons:

1. I like to watch young women masturbate.
2. There is no #2

Also, with a cam model I can tip $5 and tell her how much I want her to wrap her thighs around my ears. IRL not so much.

Nothing stopping you from doing it in the real world... the only differences would be you'd get slapped, punched or god only knows what else, from the woman you do it to and/or their partner or friends.. along with a possible arrest.. but nothing stopping you from doing/saying it lol

 

[justjoinedtopost]

Nothing stopping you from doing it in the real world... the only differences would be you'd get slapped, punched or god only knows what else, from the woman you do it to and/or their partner or friends.. along with a possible arrest..

you left out 'possibly suffocated to the point you black out'

 

[AudriTwo]

Nothing stopping you from doing it in the real world... the only differences would be you'd get slapped, punched or god only knows what else, from the woman you do it to and/or their partner or friends.. along with a possible arrest.. but nothing stopping you from doing/saying it lol

i think it's important to add that we are real women too, and sometimes dudes say some fucked up shit to us because we are cammodels and they can say anything they want.

pls be keep being respectful and mindful, mah dudes.

 

[softnipple]

The models are fun and you can find what you like, blonde barbie or tattooed suicide girl, instead of going to a strip club and seeing the girls they have there, or going on a dating app and trying to find the perfect girl THERE.

 

[Deleted member 37064]

• You usually spend less or about the same as you would for a date night out

I'm just going to say I disagree with this one.

 

[Lelo1]

You usually spend less or about the same as you would for a date night out.

I'm just going to say I disagree with this one.

A good date and be as simple as cooking and sharing a good meal.

 

[bud9752]

Boobs

 

[DFT]

I enjoy old movies, but burlesque never interested me much. Never got the art from those edits. The unedited aspect of camming has introduced me to creativity, to sensual performances, to tease, to good clean goofy fun - now I not only get burlesque, but why it's been in a revival. Sure, other tastes, but I found what I enjoy and thank cam models for keeping creative sexuality alive.

 

[MFCuser]

I'm just going to say I disagree with this one.

yeah....i've spent more on cam models than on all dates I have been on combined

 

[n_i_c_u]

It really helps with my typing skills and spelling.
It's nice to meet nice people from all around the world for just tokens (not that I always learn anything, but, sometimes sharing happens) as I'm not the most adventurous traveler
What used to be lonely days/nights, before the internet, aren't so lonely if you are engaged in a chat room...interesting, mostly hilarious, members too. Good for an introvert with no social game
All kinds of women, as opposed to what a publisher decides is acceptable for monthly publication. I always disliked the publications growing up as they kind of dictated what was "beautiful"

 

[Osyrus]

Cute girls, cool conversation and interactions. Opn bobs and pretty smiles. um, chat with people who have common fetishes or kinks. Not any other place you can go to express your inner dirty. Its a fun place to hang out usually, not much else i can say.

Edit: oh yea I don't have a problem interacting with people or models, even IRL, but it can be a good social learning/training exercise for some people. I'm always looking to increase my social skills and I learn something from time to time

 

[DudeExtreme]

I started viewing on MFC because I was following a professional model that had moved to MFC. Through the online friendship she took me “behind the scenes” on Skype and showed me what it was like on her side. Then she introduced me to ACF and from this site I got to meet other models thru whom I still see 6 years later. Sometimes I go to MFC for private’s; other times for videos, but always to chat and get to know the models. Online friendships gets me coming back for more.

 

[JoeSpod]

...and I learn something from time to time

Might not be the most popular reason for visiting cam models but I'll confess to having learned an awful lot of new things!

 

[Deleted member 37064]

i think it's important to add that we are real women too, and sometimes dudes say some fucked up shit to us because we are cammodels and they can say anything they want.

pls be keep being respectful and mindful, mah dudes.

In regards to the whole online thing, this is one of my pet peeves. I hear comments like "It's just the internet". Or, "need a thick skin to be online." Yeah, true. But, people forget that there is another person on the other side of the cam, or reading the forum or messages. People get so wrapped up in the relative anonymity the internet gives that they say whatever they want and willingly attack others or say/do things they otherwise would. Many times, I often think these are the exact same people who cry foul when they get attacked and call others out for harassment.

As you said, people need to just show a little respect to one another. Whether it be in a model's chatroom, or life in general.

 

[Deleted member 37064]

The models are fun and you can find what you like, blonde barbie or tattooed suicide girl, instead of going to a strip club and seeing the girls they have there, or going on a dating app and trying to find the perfect girl THERE.

You kind of hit on why I started visiting models. I have an extremely busy life, and don't have time to date or commit to a relationship with someone. I've been active on message boards for years, and made a lot of online friends that way (some I've met IRL). So, was kind of natural to go to MFC, especially since I was already following a model in pictures elsewhere. For myself, it's more the social aspect, than it is the sexy aspect. I get along with members as well as the model. Sometimes privates. Most times chatting/flirting/teasing with tipping.

yeah....i've spent more on cam models than on all dates I have been on combined

Yep, I've often said that I'd save money if I had a GF.

 

[CallMeMaria]

Great thread! I am looking forward to meeting some of you genuine people in my room in CB! We have only just started, but the first encounters leave a lot to hope for. An awful lot of demanding and rude greys out there!

 

[Starman]

A good date and be as simple as cooking and sharing a good meal.

So about $12 - 15 for a good bottle of wine or 6-pack of good beer, another $25 - 40 for ingredients (for example: salmon fillet, potatoes, fresh vegetables, cheese, crackers, sparkling water, desert and/or fruit). That’s enough for “foreplay-tips” and a 10-15 minute Skype session. At the high end - $55 - you could get two evenings out of it if you are frugal.

 

[Lelo1]

So about $12 - 15 for a good bottle of wine or 6-pack of good beer, another $25 - 40 for ingredients (for example: salmon fillet, potatoes, fresh vegetables, cheese, crackers, sparkling water, desert and/or fruit). That’s enough for “foreplay-tips” and a 10-15 minute Skype session. At the high end - $55 - you could get two evenings out of it if you are frugal.

Some reason when you said visiting cam model, I though you meant actually visiting a cam model.

 

[Starman]

Some reason when you said visiting cam model, I though you meant actually visiting a cam model.

You have a point there. The time I actually - in person - visited cam models, it was way more expensive. Lol

 

[Darcy DeVasto]

I’m a cam model myself but I also visit other rooms and throw tokens around from time to time

I have social anxiety and am intimidated by beautiful women just as much as the next guy lol. It’s exciting to be able to instantly interact with some cool mysterious girl who could be on the opposite side of the world from me but we can have this naughty fun fleeting connection. Even just being acknowledged is a rush! Also lush is great cause I get to give pleasure. I also just enjoy giving money to beautiful cool people, it makes me feel good.

And it doesn’t hurt that cam models just happen to be very cool,smart,open minded,etc so there’s so much to talk about/learn from each other.

 

[sspacekittenn]

I myself have anxiety and don't get out much due to a chronic illness, so being able to have an unintimidating, fun and active atmosphere to join in on kind of fills my needs for interaction but in a way that doesn't over exert myself. I enjoy being able to create the same accepting and open space for other people as well! I also agree with an earlier comment about how camming has evolved the idea of porn performances. It's a great blend of amateur, authentic, and curated sexuality. It's fun to see how everyone wants to be viewed sexually and feels most comfortable expressing their sexuality, whether through a kinky show, a sensual strip tease, or beyond that.

Just some thoughts. It was interesting to read everyone else's thoughts as well, thank you for sharing!

 

[Darcy DeVasto]

I myself have anxiety and don't get out much due to a chronic illness, so being able to have an unintimidating, fun and active atmosphere to join in on kind of fills my needs for interaction but in a way that doesn't over exert myself. I enjoy being able to create the same accepting and open space for other people as well! I also agree with an earlier comment about how camming has evolved the idea of porn performances. It's a great blend of amateur, authentic, and curated sexuality. It's fun to see how everyone wants to be viewed sexually and feels most comfortable expressing their sexuality, whether through a kinky show, a sensual strip tease, or beyond that.

Just some thoughts. It was interesting to read everyone else's thoughts as well, thank you for sharing!

Omg sammmeee. Fellow chronically ill model,had to pretty much put my life on pause this year after being in denial/being gaslit over my health issues for years. Camming has been a god send for me,if it wasn’t for cam I’d still be on the rat wheel struggling from job to job and using drugs so I can pretend to be a healthy functioning person lol. Now I’ve gotten a diagnosis/treatment that’s working so I can go back to school and be a boss bitch.