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Bocefish

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Usually somewhere between flippant and glib.
Some models do this on a regular basis... whether it be for sympathy tokens or whatever. I can understand it happening once, but time after time gets old quickly.

What do you think about CGs that do this?
 

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A few tears are acceptable once in a while, but routine outbursts of sobbing and whining about MFC related stuff is pretty off-putting. I once tried to talk sense into a girl (I was bored, what can I say) and told her to compose herself and come back later, but she went on and on about how it wasn't fair that she didn't make as many tokens as the other girls on the site. So I told her to find another job. :D
 
I think that for some girls, being on cam does result in the room becoming their circle of friends, and as a consequence, they feel that they can open up to the room and tell them their woes. In my case I actually care about both the opinions and well being of some of my regulars, but for the most part I just move on - unless they are doing it naked.
 
I don't know how any girl can do it. I understand tears from happiness, but I hate crying in front of anyone. It makes me feel so vulnerable and weak. I could never cry out of sadness in front of a hundred+ guys. If they are doing it just for money, I find it pathetic, to be honest. :snooty:
 
Ugh, it's so pathetic. I could never do that, I'm much too proud to cry in front of a bunch of strangers. I think most people are.
Of course every now and then I talk about things that annoy me. But if any serious shit is going on in my life, I couldn't possibly talk about it on MFC. MFC is not the place for that.

And crying to get tokens.... that's just so low. :roll:


Little fun fact... Female tears turn off men.
The article says that the smell of tears is what turns them off, but I'm pretty sure it also works over the internet ;)
 
The guys on MFC who try to "break down" a model will have a field day with you if you're constantly bawling on cam. I once peeked in on a room where guys were telling a model "Hey, I found a video of you on _____.com." The model got very upset and was crying so much that her mascara was running. SMH. Some of the guys in chat were like "Leave her alone!" while others were laughing at her and getting a kick out of it.

Don't let a bunch of jizzballs - who aren't even spending money on you - make you cry in public chat. If something is upsetting you THAT much to the point of tears, log off.

Tears of joy, on the other hand, is a different story. If someone tipped 100,000 tokens in a single tip, hell yeah I would cry! :mrgreen:
 
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Jessi said:
Its so easy just to hit that red X when youre frustrated or upset. Why would you stick around?

I stuck around once when I cried because I honestly didn't know what to do and I figured I'd get over it in a minute. I asked advice about the situation and gained composure but I had just reached a goal for a show RIGHT before I got a phone call with bad news. I was trying REALLY hard not to cry and someone asked me what was wrong and I started crying when my voice cracked to answer and maybe I should have gotten offline, but it felt wrong to have just taken the tokens of all these men, gotten bad news in a phone call and then just left immedately without doing the show. An awesome awesome awesome premium member took me private and sang to me to make me feel better and then I was all composed went and did the show.

I got my highest tip beat that night too and I felt HORRIBLE about it, like the only reason it happened was because I cried and I felt like any person who saw me was judging me like we see here "Oh she's only doing it for tokens". Also, I remember my room had an extra 200 people in it for no reason watching me cry - this is probably why criers do it. Lots of tokens and attention.

(btw this whole crying ordeal didn't last long, I'm just giving my whole story for the devil's advocate aspect on why someone might cry on cam and stay online and also the effects it had on the room.)
 
LacieLaPlante said:
Jessi said:
Its so easy just to hit that red X when youre frustrated or upset. Why would you stick around?

I stuck around once when I cried because I honestly didn't know what to do and I figured I'd get over it in a minute. I asked advice about the situation and gained composure but I had just reached a goal for a show RIGHT before I got a phone call with bad news. I was trying REALLY hard not to cry and someone asked me what was wrong and I started crying when my voice cracked to answer and maybe I should have gotten offline, but it felt wrong to have just taken the tokens of all these men, gotten bad news in a phone call and then just left immedately without doing the show. An awesome awesome awesome premium member took me private and sang to me to make me feel better and then I was all composed went and did the show.

I got my highest tip beat that night too and I felt HORRIBLE about it, like the only reason it happened was because I cried and I felt like any person who saw me was judging me like we see here "Oh she's only doing it for tokens". Also, I remember my room had an extra 200 people in it for no reason watching me cry - this is probably why criers do it. Lots of tokens and attention.

(btw this whole crying ordeal didn't last long, I'm just giving my whole story for the devil's advocate aspect on why someone might cry on cam and stay online and also the effects it had on the room.)


Thats really understandable Lacie. I guess I was thinking more along the lines of crying because you're being trolled or having a slow night.
 
I've seen 3 cryers on cam. One was ukgg and her drama about not 'winning'.... I simply dont understand that when you're as prosperous as she was. One was indeed just BC she wasn't getting what she had expected. You can almost always find her on cam whining about something in her high nasally voice. The 3rd had apparently simply had some bad luck and it'd all hit at once. A few guys started tipping her to try to cheer her up. She asked them to stop BC she didn't want their pity tips even tho some of her problem was indeed financial. She then precoded to set the tip minimum thing to 10,000 to stop the tips, and sat there and talked it all out for the next hour before she thanked everyone for chatting and helping her digest it all and then signed off. That also goes to the comment in another post about camming interaction with regs being their only daily friends and support. Even tho she was and is still struggling , I have a bit more respect for her and her efforts. Makes her less of a bitchy camgirl and more real person. :twocents-02cents:
 
I've cried on cam a small handful of times and I usually end up apologizing for being a girl and then signing off. I cried the other night and tried to compose myself and although it didnt work as quickly as I liked I tried to explain to the guys that its hard to fake happiness.. I'm not a robot, if I'm hurting it's hard for me to turn it off sometimes. I see a lot of the guys in my room as friends now, I dont have much of a social life and sometimes my time on cam is the only interaction I get in days.. sad but true.. so if i have a rough night i have no one to turn to and some of my regulars have become the only "shoulders" i have. I stayed on cam and they cheered me up by helping me feel less alone.
I just have a lot of feelings. /meangirlquote.
 
Theres one Eastern European model whose name escapes me who cries on a daily basis, she used to be quite popular but now not so much (probably due to people wising up to her antics)

She basically sits there and just types one phrase, like Tip Me or Group and spams it over and over again one after the other, when this doesnt work she says that she must be ugly and not as attractive as the top models, when THIS doesn't work (and its unbelievable the amount of times it does) She starts with the tears.

Its all just incredibly awkward. I can understand that models are only human and will get upset for whatever reason from time to time but when its like they are playing on peoples kindness i think its a bit much!

:twocents-02cents:
 
sweetiebatman said:
Theres one Eastern European model whose name escapes me who cries on a daily basis, she used to be quite popular but now not so much (probably due to people wising up to her antics)

She basically sits there and just types one phrase, like Tip Me or Group and spams it over and over again one after the other, when this doesnt work she says that she must be ugly and not as attractive as the top models, when THIS doesn't work (and its unbelievable the amount of times it does) She starts with the tears.

Its all just incredibly awkward. I can understand that models are only human and will get upset for whatever reason from time to time but when its like they are playing on peoples kindness i think its a bit much!

:twocents-02cents:

I can't remember her name either and probably just blocked her, but I'm gonna start posting the scamming crier CGs pics on this thread from now on.
 
The only thing I can think of seeing this is that I would be absolutely mortified if anyone other than a very select few people saw me cry. :shock:

As for tears on cam, tears of joy for whatever reason are completely ok and acceptable. The occassional break down, as long as it's handled appropriately is ok too. But making crying your stick is a big turn off. It makes me sad and bums me out and then I can't watch and be willing to participate in any form.
 
LilyMarie said:
Little fun fact... Female tears turn off men.
The article says that the smell of tears is what turns them off, but I'm pretty sure it also works over the internet ;)

Miss_Lollipop said:
Personally I find a girl in tears hot....

though usually after a hard spanking :p

Vaguely on topic, but actually (at least in Japan, of course, Japan) they made a video called "Crying Girl", with vulnerable women sobbing and crying on film while recalling real-life situations that greatly upset them. It was aimed at making men feel more "macho" or protective and masculine seeing these women being so vulnerable.

http://www.examiner.com/sexual-health-i ... able-women

Also, I share Miss Lolli's view on this one. :)
 
SoTxBob said:
I've seen 3 cryers on cam. One was ukgg and her drama about not 'winning'.... I simply dont understand that when you're as prosperous as she was. One was indeed just BC she wasn't getting what she had expected. You can almost always find her on cam whining about something in her high nasally voice. The 3rd had apparently simply had some bad luck and it'd all hit at once. A few guys started tipping her to try to cheer her up. She asked them to stop BC she didn't want their pity tips even tho some of her problem was indeed financial. She then precoded to set the tip minimum thing to 10,000 to stop the tips, and sat there and talked it all out for the next hour before she thanked everyone for chatting and helping her digest it all and then signed off. That also goes to the comment in another post about camming interaction with regs being their only daily friends and support. Even tho she was and is still struggling , I have a bit more respect for her and her efforts. Makes her less of a bitchy camgirl and more real person. :twocents-02cents:


This is an outstanding idea! Just one tip a day now, and the model is rolling in it!

:lol:
 
ComicOzzie said:
SoTxBob said:
..... She asked them to stop BC she didn't want their pity tips even tho some of her problem was indeed financial. She then proceeded to set the tip minimum thing to 10,000 to stop the tips, and sat there and talked it all out for the next hour before she thanked everyone for chatting and helping her digest it all and then signed off.


This is an outstanding idea! Just one tip a day now, and the model is rolling in it!

:lol:

I was waiting for someone to pick out this lil tidbit... lol. the idea would indeed work IF she had anybody in her room that could actually afford this. She was lucky to get 50 in any tip with the majority being 10-30. Where have all the ballers gone to ? Last year at this time, the handful of girls I frequent were raking in the Christmas cheer. Now it seems many are struggling to make rent.
 
I gotta admit... The ugly cry-ee face on some girls can be hilarious though... especially when accompanied with snot running down half her face, wailing, uncontrollable sobbing, and a twitchy body

LilyPink said:
Choking blow job tears are hot

and the teary eye'ed thing that comes from a choking BJ doesn't really turn me on... lol... unless I'm mad and punishing a girl for something... lol... then i'm trying to punch the back of her throat our with my dick
 
sweetiebatman said:
Theres one Eastern European model whose name escapes me who cries on a daily basis, she used to be quite popular but now not so much (probably due to people wising up to her antics)

She basically sits there and just types one phrase, like Tip Me or Group and spams it over and over again one after the other, when this doesnt work she says that she must be ugly and not as attractive as the top models, when THIS doesn't work (and its unbelievable the amount of times it does) She starts with the tears.

Its all just incredibly awkward. I can understand that models are only human and will get upset for whatever reason from time to time but when its like they are playing on peoples kindness i think its a bit much!

:twocents-02cents:

That sounds a lot like Hannah. I'm not sure if that is how she spells it or not. Crying every time she was on was a routine for her. I don't think she is quite as bad now.
James
 
I could never cry on cam. God I would feel so weak and on cam and irl I am this tough girl the only people that have seen me cry is 1 reg on skype when I needed someone 2 my hubs 3 my family and I plan to keep it that way. I would not like a target on my head. Dunno why girls do this on a daily basis and think it will get them some where truely pathetic.
 
I can't stand to have people see me cry. When I'm on cam I'm all sunshine and rainbows. I sign off and then I cry. I just can't stand the thought of having a whole room full of people pitying me....
 
Rosemary said:
What?
What?
SOBBING HYSTERICALLY IS DELICIOUSLY SCRUMPTIOUS.
All caps means I'm fucking correct.
And so do these sexy samples:

Damn...those aren't doing it? I need phallic support, STAT!
Theeeeere we go.
I swear, I post the sexiest fucking pictures. :hand:
Happy Fappery guys!
:think: Where is your cat? It's not a sexy Rosemary pic without the cat somewhere :think:
 
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