This poll sucks, or sucks a pole.

[DuoShi]

I'd rather receive. I'm not into giving oral, and I'm selfish. I wouldn't ask for oral though. I'd just let it flow if it wills its way in.

 

[Crumb]

if something is not working for you, tell me, direct me, I will take instruction, I will listen, on how to make it an enjoyable experience for you. if I hit a good spot, say "keep doing that" and I'll keep doing that.

Try telling your partner to refrain from any verbal communication at all, and instead listen/feel/sense, their body/breath/movement for your ques. It frees them up to relax that much more, and when it is right, it becomes a magic thing. (I once heard somewhere Wynton Marsalis describe what it is like to play jazz when everything is working, that was one of the sexiest things I have ever heard, but I know nothing of music.)

I agree but there is something, for me, about verbal affirmation and knowing that I'm doing something correctly. I also try my best to take cues from her body language and love it when I she squirms (in a good way) a bit to whatever I'm doing at that time cause I don't get that sort of reaction when it comes to the ol in-out-in-out

 

[camstory]

And finally, I got on this day to write a post examining my recent post@this poll sucks, or suck this pole, and more importantly the poster. my device will be to quote thus, -

Here will be the exploration. The why of a post that I feel must sound instructive, even condescending, bigoted toward girls who don't force themselves to enjoy what I think they should, oh and I should have added, 'BTW what are you doing here anyway, don't you have chores to do! And why such a post? A post that if I read it from some one else I would be so wtf, who does he think he is. Then somewhere before the big bomb, (for me big, don't think most will even hear it, much less have their windows rattled), I will reckon that condescending was not consciously what I meant to do, (and it was not). But yes, I guess I have to admit to thinking that I most likely can do two things better than anyone else in the world, (well US, you are pretty good down under, and the Europeans are very dominate, but they train constantly, -all notch, top notch program :thumbleft: ) and taking control of ppl's souls through oral manipulation is one of them. Going on to say yes I am full of myself, but it was worse than that, not sure if it was noticeable, and I'm not clear what it was exactly, but found myself,,, hum well,, a bit mad I guess. Angry at me for being such a prick, but really being such a prick B/C my poll had made something too obvious, I could no longer over look it. I have not been happy with wondering in the death valley of RW sex/intimacy that I have been in for near 4 years now. Mad at me b/c I had been my own Moses, and then refused to find my way out, b/c that would be hard, and there is always tomorrow, right? Wrong! so add being mad at CamStory for wasting the ever diminishing time of Cam's. (notice both seem to be tied to me at some level. ) So much to give, and with such a need to give. Neglecting myself, and others, b/c I was getting a fair bit of attention @MFC & ACF. At first interesting, generous, and unpredictable, (I had no more insight into me than anyone else). With Vic, always running it off the rails like a Spanish conductor. No, I didn't leave out, fucking bonkers, I chose the synonym, "interesting". And mad @Amber for being shocked,,,, No that is not right! Mad at me again, b/c I had lost my appeal. I was still a nice guy, but I had got Vic's meds dialed in, and lost my spot on the midway. At some point the train wreck stops being exciting, especially in slow motion. A nice guy with no side show, is just a crossing guard, or grocery store checker, that's OK, but no life for a Rock Star with so much left to give. No I was mad at me b/c Amber was the first in forever to feel anything about one of my post in any substantial way. I have felt like my mic has been shorting out for months now, and most of the time I just seem to be making white noise. I was actually quite pleased that Amber was shocked, being just static sucks. You may have figured it out by now my dear friend, this part of your PM has become the post I had started off to describe to you. I had planed my grand departure to be much more articulate, eloquent, graceful, but why spend so much time to say I have to take a break guys?

Oh how I hate farewell post. Talk about condescending, at best they still say, "hay everyone this shit might be OK for you, but I can't do it any more, it's making my pin-strips run and my ears bleed!" So this is not a true farewell post, I will be back, if there is any doubt on that, Fox will back me up i think. And I am not better than this place, far from it, (I many ways there is not much better than this place, IMO.). I am better than what I have been doing for me, or what I have not been doing for me is more correct. I can't deny myself any longer. I have skills believe it or not, and it is time I put them to work. Hell Areosmith is still rocking and those guys are old. :lol: OK so it is going to be harder than being static, but the effort will be worth the giving, and I am so tired of not giving.

:hello2: see ya in a month or two. Next time you see me it may be on a large electronic billboard, or posters plastered up all over HollyRock. Lets hope the posters are not done by a sketch artist, and the billboard does not read,

"Forumnography, delusions of Grand Jour that might just drive you batty"​

, -This below the overhead picture looking down on a dry condemned city pool somewhere. 50 feet up, and 5 feet above the High dive in the fore ground, and in the back ground the cracked cement pool bottom, spray painted with a huge vagina, and in the middle of that, a nice, giving, man, face down laying across his shoulder and arm, leg bent backward at the knee. Every 1.5 seconds the image flips 180 degrees. The crumpled figure pressed firmly against the aptly painted rattle-can lips, dances macabre somersaults, dressed in nothing but mini bat cape, and black bat hood with large Pachmayr pistol grip bat ears. On each bare ass cheek there is a large black W. As he flips over and over and over again, it becomes clear his last words were, "wow ʍoʍ wow ʍoʍ wow ʍoʍ... "

Take care, I will come build you a small gray wall soon. And maybe skype, to talk about giving head, and why going down starts above the shoulders.

 

[emptiedglass]

I voted for receiving, but the "sucks a pole" part of the thread title might have biased me a bit. If the person has similar... equipment... to mine, I'm just not interested, you know?
That, and I'm feeling a bit selfish tonight. :lol:

 

[VenPerv2]

i love giving and recieving, but im just not that flexible :icon-cry:

 

[JordanBlack]

I love giving (forcefully if possible ).

i love giving and recieving, but im just not that flexible :icon-cry:

Kudos for trying perv

 

[VenPerv2]

I love giving (forcefully if possible ).

i love giving and recieving, but im just not that flexible :icon-cry:

Kudos for trying perv

you wouldn't have to force me if you know what i mean :tools-hammerdrill:

i'd put my tongue in your hoo hoo if you didn't know what i meant hell, id put my tongue in my own hoo hoo if i could