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Ahh that old "so young and attractive" spiel. Yes, I'm sure we've heard it and seen it all before. Generally I am not surprised if someone is young or in shape, I have yet to meet a guy in his 20s who doesn't watch porn on a regular basis. And most men in their 20s are pretty in shape, not necessarily Joe 6-pack, but it's hardly a USP to be in shape if you're in a younger age group. I think for sure it's possibly more likely that the guys who can afford to spend money on camsites enough to form a friendly relationship with a camgirl would be a bit older. But in my experience I've encountered a real range of ages, as when I started camming I was in my early 20s I tended to get quite a few regulars who were in their mid to late 20s or early 30s.

Something I have heard a lot with young men in regards to sex work, is a misconception that looks make any difference. It's been talking to guys I know who've hired prostitutes in 3rd world dodgy brothels when I've asked them if they were concerned about sex trafficking, and they adamantly defended themselves on "but I'm young and good looking, so it must have been much nicer for them", logic I find hard to get on board with (especially as some young guys are like jack rabbits in the sack. Ouch). Or when I worked in an upmarket burlesque/strip club and guys would go on at me about all the "awful" men I must have to dance for, and be disbelieving when I say that most are under 30, many very good looking (lots of stag do's, man I loved this place), even after I've gestured around a room full of well off, good looking young men. I think it's that they want to feel special, or even have their preconstructed ideas of the people who visit sex workers affirmed. Maybe it makes them feel less like "one of the pervs". And don't get me wrong, in a strip club if you find the person you're dancing for attractive it can be pretty dam hot, but in the cam world I really don't give two fucks. For sure I will compliment someone if I find out they're hot, and if it's a particularly awesome regular then I might feel some pleasure from that information, but realistically when it comes to camming, personality and monies is hands down the only thing I really care about.

So maybe that's just me, but if you're a young, decent looking member, you may get compliments, but remember where you are. Camgirls are not poor unhappy girls who only get to meet or speak to men who are 40 years our senior, not only are members of all ages and levels of attractiveness, we also almost certainly have plenty of decent looking men and women of our own age in our personal lives. Our job is to make you feel special and attractive, try not to read into it too much.
 
I have experienced a lot of younger "attractive" men assuming I would give them discounts or free time/videos whatever because of how they looked, and it really doesn't matter to me. I could get fucked by men more attractive and athletic than me at just about any point just because, you know, tits and a vagina. I'd rather spend my personal time with someone that I click with, and I'd rather spend my model work time with polite and interesting customers. I'd rather give a discount to someone that's respectful and would appreciate it rather than someone who thinks that just because they got a ten inch penis they deserve all the open crevices and porn in the world.

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I will be completely honest, when I first joined a site like CB or any cam model site, my assumption was everyone (especially the more popular and/or attractive people - women AND men) would simply be liking and getting off to other people at "their level" of attractiveness.

Oh boy how wrong was I? I have genuinely learned and seen that all different types of women aren't overly impressed or really all "that" interested in wanting the young (or older), fit, athletic, big dick kind of guy. In fact, maybe it's just the circle I am in for the ladies I visit, but most don't want HUGE penises (so that was a big eye opener - us guys ARE size obsessed but I think it's because we grow up seeing huge ones in professional porn vids, so our perceptions are wrong). I have learned that they all think quite similarly and you ladies truly do want more than just that - because you truly can (if you want or really want) get that whenever you want, especially on a site like cam sites.

I perv on a lot of rooms and so I see a lot of these kind of guys and they all seem to have that arrogance in common, where they think all you women (especially any that don't have thousands of viewers) automatically want them... The amount of times you see that kind of guy in public message saying "young athletic guy from [country], you'll love what you see. cam is on for you." is unbelievable.

I am NOT one of those guys and I have always had self confidence issues for EVERYTHING, but since being on CB and taking ladies in shows and doing cam2cam [only in shows] (which took me forever to try but I am happy a wonderful lady persuaded me to try) I have got my confidence up and realized that sure I am no "stud" with a "horse dick" etc but I am no "shrek" either, I am an average guy and although I am taking the ladies in pvt, some of them do obviously fake and pretend to enjoy what they are saying to be nice, of course, but a lot of you are sincerely genuine and are fine with what you see (not just me, but I mean other guys who are not your "stud").



Most guys are somewhat obsessed with a few things on the site (CB) that I see from, they always say the same things: Their age, cock size, colour/race, if they are italian or spanish or french they seem to think they have a free pass just because of this... I have learned from you lovely ladies NOT to be worried about my age, my look (sure look after myself and be healthy etc but not gym addicted and think that's the meaning of life) and most importantly, 99% of you don't care ultimately about penis size. SOme have a "preferred" or "ideal" size RANGE (smallest to largest) which is fine, but the majority of you genuinely enjoy the whole package and brain too.

I for one truly appreciate you ladies (and gents if your the same) for helping me understand and learn more. The site has opened my eyes in SOOOOO many ways, positively and negatively (not exactly negatively, but I mean to show how arrogant and horrible a lot of the guys are or can be towards people and again, that I am glad I am how I am but kind and a decent human, rather than like a lot of these guys)..

Anyway sorry. I mean everything as huge compliments for you all, so I hope that is exactly how it sounds. So thank you ladies for being so amazing and try ignore those asses that are rude, cruel or anything else.
 
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Guess not everyone wants to be visible on cam...

Being asked to turn the cam on or "why can't I see you?" happens fairly regularly even though I have told you I'm not young. I absolutely hate it ,despite the fact that unless we are in a private I am going to be fully dressed. As soon as that cam goes on self conciousness sets in and I am left wondering how the hell anyone can look so relaxed on cam.

I have a regular skype arrangement (perhaps twice a month) where the model likes to see my face while we masturbate, took well over a year to become even faintly comfortable doing that - again no clue how people seem so relaxed with it.

As a man who mostly matches JickyJuly's earlier description of someone who "has been partying since the 80s and has 30 pounds to lose" (maybe a hint of silver fox thrown in :haha:) I'm going to guess the average demographic is much older than people think, just not all of us want to turn a cam on.
 
I had to laugh at @notyou87 's comment about Shrek. Because, that's kind of how I feel about myself. But, even then, there's still someone who may find us ogres attractive. ;)
 


No matter age, weight, or whatever... you look like this when you pretend to lick pussy through the member cam.

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Have you ever done c2c with a guy that shaves off his eyebrows?
I was an eyebrowless goth kid for a decade. I've done a lot of things with the eyebrowless men of the world, but I don't think any of them have C2C with me. Hehehe.
 
Do people actually do that on cam?
You would think we are kidding, but yes. I used to do cam 2 cam often in my early months on MFC, and this definitely happens.
 
Honestly, what do you ladies want to see a guy be doing if/when he has taken you in a PVT for a vanilla kind of show (and it could last for 20 or 30 or more minutes) and you're doing c2c?
Do you like to be seeing his whole body with face, of course? Avoid his face so you're not making some weird eye contact (even though he is looking at you, hope that makes sense lol).. you want him to just be sat their stroking? standing up? doing everything as if he was with you in real life (thrusting hips, changing positions and thrusting etc)? Genuine questions, I am really curious because it must be very boring/annoying you ladies just seeing a headless guy tugging away and that's it...
 
Honestly, what do you ladies want to see a guy be doing if/when he has taken you in a PVT for a vanilla kind of show (and it could last for 20 or 30 or more minutes) and you're doing c2c?
Do you like to be seeing his whole body with face, of course? Avoid his face so you're not making some weird eye contact (even though he is looking at you, hope that makes sense lol).. you want him to just be sat their stroking? standing up? doing everything as if he was with you in real life (thrusting hips, changing positions and thrusting etc)? Genuine questions, I am really curious because it must be very boring/annoying you ladies just seeing a headless guy tugging away and that's it...
Enjoying himself, but with his tongue in his mouth. I don't care much past that. I do a lot of fetish and femdom for private so I've seen guys standing, guys with eggplants in their ass, guys not stroking and just tipping, whatever. It doesn't bother or effect me. The tongue thing just grosses me out cause saliva.
 
As a member, I really cannot understand why other guys would want a model to watch their cam. Is it validation? Or is it the thrill of doing something naughty on cam?
 
As a member, I really cannot understand why other guys would want a model to watch their cam. Is it validation? Or is it the thrill of doing something naughty on cam?
A shared, interactive experience. It’s more personal, which can be a pro or con, depending on your view. I like watching cams in private a lot.

Honestly, what do you ladies want to see a guy be doing if/when he has taken you in a PVT for a vanilla kind of show (and it could last for 20 or 30 or more minutes) and you're doing c2c?
Do you like to be seeing his whole body with face, of course? Avoid his face so you're not making some weird eye contact (even though he is looking at you, hope that makes sense lol).. you want him to just be sat their stroking? standing up? doing everything as if he was with you in real life (thrusting hips, changing positions and thrusting etc)? Genuine questions, I am really curious because it must be very boring/annoying you ladies just seeing a headless guy tugging away and that's it...
I prefer to see a guy’s face, and I like if he’s just stroking and enjoying himself. Doing positions would weird me out a little. Standing or sitting, whatever’s comfy.
 
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As a member, I really cannot understand why other guys would want a model to watch their cam. Is it validation? Or is it the thrill of doing something naughty on cam?

emm c2c is not something naughty, plenty of funny dance contests, art views, instruction on how to fix., showing off beer belly. and of course eating of the pizza. yum yum.

and generally to help communication between different languages.))))

oh jacking off, playing on cam is fun also. wiener wiener wiener
 
emm c2c is not something naughty, plenty of funny dance contests, art views, instruction on how to fix., showing off beer belly. and of course eating of the pizza. yum yum.

Yep, it can be anything from sharing in a drink "cheers" to a model, showing something to her, etc. One of the models Ihaven't seen online for a while would have a few different cams open and she'd comment on the stuff someone was doing. Made for kind of an interesting time :lol
 
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I liked turning on cams on MFC way better than SM. On MFC, I've gotten tours of peoples' houses, seen their pets, done shots together, seen their job sites. I'm nosy. Fun stuff. My best SM cam 2 cam was a dude who played guitar for forever and just wanted an audience. I don't really watch any graphic stuff.
 
I've gotten tours of peoples' houses, seen their pets, done shots together, seen their job sites. I'm nosy. Fun stuff.

See, that is what I tend to do. I would love to have some sort of sexy element, but, I am totally unprepared for sexy just because it is a lot of effort to get naked (and I don't want my butt juices getting on my chair which is a classic 1970's cloth--not leather-- swivel) and it is just me fully clothed chatting with a person miles away that I will never know. I see their rooms and get nosy and ask questions about stuff and they see mine (which I am kind of proud of and love to show off as I am always working toward a better living space). I always would love criticism and help on how to improve it in a feng shui kind of manner, but, for some reason that never happens. :mlol
 
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See, that is what I tend to do. I would love to have some sort of sexy element, but, I am totally unprepared for sexy just because it is a lot of effort to get naked (and I don't want my butt juices getting on my chair which is a classic 1970's cloth--not leather-- swivel) and it is just me fully clothed chatting with a person miles away that I will never know. I see their rooms and get nosy and ask questions about stuff and they see mine (which I am kind of proud of and love to show off as I am always working toward a better living space). I always would love criticism and help on how to improve it in a feng shui kind of manner, but, for some reason that never happens. :mlol

In regards to the room/surroundings I'm kind of the same. Usually there's something in the room that catches my eye, and I'll ask the model either via tip note or PM about it. It's kind of a fun way to learn about new things, and about someone you may spend a few minutes or more on a regular basis with. The few times I've opened my cam to models, I've received a few comments about my surroundings as well and have given a brief showing of a few things that may be common interest. I'm always looking for new ideas on home furnishings, as well as how I want my next place to be.
 
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it must be very boring/annoying you ladies just seeing a headless guy tugging away and that's it...

For me, not at all. :) I am more comfortable with not having to see your face looking at me (however, when you're getting ready to cum, I would absolutely love to see your face). The only time the "headless guy tugging away" thing is boring to me is when he's stroking it sooooo slooooowly, like barely even moving. That absolutely drives me up the wall. LOL. That's like me using the vibrator on the lowest setting (I need to have it at the second level)...booorrriiinnng. :p
 
Penises! Penises! Everywhere! YOU GET A PENIS AND YOU GET A PENIS AND YOU GET A PENIS!

But for real, the only thing that takes me aback when I open a member's cam is if they are a lot more attractive than I am. It happens from time to time and I don't really get it. I always had assumed that the super super hot guys would go after the super super hot girls, so I find it strange that they'd choose to pay for my company. Like, I'm cute and everything, but some of the other models look like Victoria Secret angels. The member won't get any special treatment for being hot, its just always been weird to me.

For the most part, I am only looking at the member's cam to know what they like and what they don't and to gauge how to pace what I am doing.
 
It would be great if guys could not do drugs on cam too.
Nothing dries me up faster than worrying if the person I'm doing c2c with might die.
Smoke weed if you want but everything else... Please don't.
Ive heard of members smoking meth during C2C.
 
best c2c experience, the girl started to "squirt" i went off cam to find my totes mini umbrella. opened it. after a few seconds she looked , eyes got big , and started laughing. really enjoyed that !
 
I enjoy having my regs turn their cams on when we are hanging out. It actually helps my anxiety to be able to see others there just hanging out casually. I often encourage people to turn their cams on and just hang. I usually say something along the lines of "I don't want to see your ween.. I'm sure it's real nice and all but I prefer to just sit and hang out and have actual faces to look at when I'm talking with someone" now most of my regulars automatically turn their cams on when they are in my room while we talk or take shots or play cards or whatever. I have even had them do hilarious things to make me laugh when I'm nervous or when it's a slow night to cheer me up. Some have even jokingly don't spanks along with me to crack me up or because I'm a fan of the phrase "pants on head retarded" which has just been shortened among us to things like "sounds like someone is wearing their pants on their head" or "loosen the belt around your forehead I think you're cutting off the circulation to your brain" when there is a troll in the room or someone is being dumb... I have screenshots of almost all of my regulars wearing pants on their heads in one way or another from over the last few years. Makes me smile the stuff they do to help me remember to laugh and that there are people around that care.
 
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