Would you date a cam girl?

[Xxpinkylooxx]

So I do notice that many guys love us and are so kind to us while we're on cam, but in real life guys are not so accepting when it comes to dating or being with someone that cams my bf hates its!

So my question to you all (cammers and non camera)
Would you personally date a camgirl?
Why or why not ?
What do you see that's good or so bad about it?

 

[gonegirl4]

I do date a camgirl
She's a stripper/nude masseuse most of the time, but she cams on the side and was actually who introduced me to camming!
I'm assuming that most of the reasons people would be hesitant to date a girl that cams are to do with jealousy, and maybe a belief that things like nudity and/or sex acts are only for the relationship and not something you're comfortable sharing.. but to be honest we haven't had any issue with work related jealousy at all!
I don't know if it's so easy because we're both in the industry so we just both 'get it'.. but our boyfriend isn't and he has no issue with our camming either
Maybe it's more to do with like a base level of sexual openness.. I really am not sure. But honestly I have no issue with what my girl does, and I felt that way long before I ever got in front of the camera myself!

 

[Miss_D]

Im excited for this thread! :dance: Bring on the boys & the opinions!!!!!! :lol:

 

[mynameisbob84]

Depends on the cam girl obviously, but probably, aye. There's certain things I think I'd struggle with, but every relationship has its hurdles, regardless of who does what for a living.

 

[Minnie]

I dated a few strippers couple years ago honestly it made things a lot easier where I wasn't always demanding to see them and if they had bookings outside the club I would be encouraging them to them even he wasn't all that up for it.

Someone already in the field does make dating a little easier and it changes the focus where you really get to work on the relationship.

I am doing the online dating this OMG I am weeding out idiots. some will message me claiming they are cool with what I do but in the message only focuses on camming not the fact that hey I also do porn scenes as well.

I've been doing this long enough to know that some are telling me what I want to hear and a few actually mean it and know how to show me they are ok with what I do in other ways.

 

[Red7227]

I did, and would again. No idea what the problem is supposed to be.

 

[Chamaeleon]

Yeah, but I'd need to check with my wife first.

 

[Crumb]

I think you're asking this question to the wrong subset of internet males.

I'm pretty sure that most of us, if not all, dudes on ACF, realize that sex cam work is work. the camgirl is not going to form any strong attachment to any particular member (even though this does happen, it is rare). and it'd be very hypocritical of us to say no, when we watch camgirls ourselves... and I try not to be a hypocrite as much as possible.
I'm sure there are more points to say on this, but I just woke up...

so, my answer is yes.

 

[ThePioneer]

A person's job/career really isn't all that important to me as long as they're a decent person. So any issues I would have would be as a result of their character, not their job. "We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give."

So my answer would be yes, but it depends. I wouldn't have a problem dating someone who happened to be a cam model as long as they're open about it because trust and communication are important to me. I wouldn't have a problem if we met on a dating site. However, I would be very reluctant to date someone I met on a camsite for various reasons.

A friend's boyfriend was on the fence about her camming. One of the many issues he had with it was wanting to get involved and "help" her which really just made things awkward in her room. Finding the right way to be supportive can make dating difficult especially if insecurities are involved.

 

[ACFFAN69]

Definitely. It's just a job. Her doing g/g vids/shows wouldn't bother me either, even if I wasn't around.
Now if she wanted to do a b/g with someone else, I'd probably have issues with that (assuming it is a monogamous relationship of course).

I think my biggest problem would actually be trying to get "too involved" with "helping" her off cam, and annoying her in doing so.

 

[DuoShi]

Probably not. It wouldn't be due to their job, because that would be dumb. Pretty much all the cam girls I've come across don't have the same set of beliefs that I do, and that's very important to me. So, any attempts are relationships probably wouldn't pan out.

 

[PunkInDrublic]

Would you personally date a camgirl?

Probably not seriously.

Why or why not ?

Has little to do with insecurities or jealousy and more to do with standards and wants in a partner. I don't want my queen performing for a bunch of peasants and jesters on the internet. I don't want to lie about or hide what she does from friends and family. I don't want to worry that she could negatively effect my career at some point.

What do you see that's good or so bad about it?

I can't really think of any good things about dating one that a non camgirl doesn't have. Non sex workers are just as sexually open and fun as cammers. They just don't get naked on the internet.

With that said, currently involved with a stripper so I don't think I really know what I want in a partner.

 

[Sevrin]

I'm twice the age of most cam models, so I wouldn't see much of a future for her.

 

[Red7227]

I'm twice the age of most cam models, so I wouldn't see much of a future for her.

Do not underestimate the appeal of being older. My GF wanted kids when I was 48 and she was 32, which was just ridiculous. I was not going to be 70 when my kid turned 21. Another friend married a 68 year old when she was 42

 

[Chamaeleon]

I'm twice the age of most cam models, so I wouldn't see much of a future for her.

Do not underestimate the appeal of being older. My GF wanted kids when I was 48 and she was 32, which was just ridiculous. I was not going to be 70 when my kid turned 21. Another friend married a 68 year old when she was 42

sounds like golddiggers!

 

[Red7227]

I'm twice the age of most cam models, so I wouldn't see much of a future for her.

Do not underestimate the appeal of being older. My GF wanted kids when I was 48 and she was 32, which was just ridiculous. I was not going to be 70 when my kid turned 21. Another friend married a 68 year old when she was 42

sounds like golddiggers!

Nah, they just don't like men under 40 and think they are children - which can be hard to disagree with. Mine ended badly for various reasons, but Elvira is still going strong after 5 years.

 

[Chamaeleon]

I'm twice the age of most cam models, so I wouldn't see much of a future for her.

Do not underestimate the appeal of being older. My GF wanted kids when I was 48 and she was 32, which was just ridiculous. I was not going to be 70 when my kid turned 21. Another friend married a 68 year old when she was 42

sounds like golddiggers!

Nah, they just don't like men under 40 and think they are children - which can be hard to disagree with. Mine ended badly for various reasons, but Elvira is still going strong after 5 years.

Yes, Elvira ... Giddy up, oom poppa, omm poppa, mow mow

 

[Miss_D]

Im that way though. I am in my 20's and I HIGHLY prefer men in their late 30's early 40's to date….

 

[Deleted member 16664]

I'm twice the age of most cam models, so I wouldn't see much of a future for her.

The oldest person I've dated was 20 years my senior. I mostly date 7-12 years older than myself. There are always exceptions.

 

[Ann_Sulu]

I'm twice the age of most cam models, so I wouldn't see much of a future for her.

I don't really care whether someone is my exact age or more than a decade over, but if someone's younger than me by a day it's kind of a turn off to be honest. I'm sure I could date a younger guy again, but every time I've ever dated younger it wound up badly due to them not being really serious about a relationship. So yeah, not so much gold-diggers I think as much as looking for someone who actually knows what they want (not that older one's necessarily know either :lol: )

 

[Jessi]

A camgirl would be the ideal partner for me. We'd have similar lifestyles/work flexibility, they'd understand my after-work gripes, I can think of a million other things.

 

[knottybynature]

If I were single, I would definitely date a camgirl. In fact, that would probably be pretty awesome.

In reality, my partner doesn't mind that I'm a camgirl. I ran it by them first before I actually started. They were pretty indifferent at first but now they fully support me and even have allowed me to turn one of our spare rooms into my cam room ;3

 

[KittyKray]

knottybynature

You posted a hair before I did, but your sentiment is exactly mine.

If I were seeking a partner I wouldn't have an issue dating a cam girl in fact I would most likely prefer it. For the most part it would also make it easier to avoid any potential jealousy drama if we were both cam models (although my partner and I also have no trouble separating my work from our personal romantic life.)

I think it'd be pretty narrow-minded of me to enjoy camming or watching people cam and then turn around and have a problem with their profession if we wanted to date. I believe what matters most is how the person you are with makes you feel and how they respect you. If I love them I love them, and what anyone else may think of that has nothing to do with my happiness.

 

[Worship Jaclyn]

I was going to say hey, I'm going to be hypocritical here and say no but honestly, I'm not sure hypocritical is the right word. I wouldn't be comfortable with it. I would never tell my partner what they and can't do, it just wouldn't be something I personally would like. We all have entirely different needs in our relationships and I don't think there's really anything wrong with me feeling like a relationship with a camgirl wouldn't suit me.

My husband has extremely strict "rules" for what I can and cannot do in this field of work. I don't mean that he gives me ultimatums or tells me what I can and cannot do. He just told me from the get go what he really wouldn't be comfortable with (g/g shows and any kind of sex work that is done in the flesh). I'm fine with those limitations and understand. It works for us and that's all that really matters.

I could date someone who other people saw naked and jacked off to. The reason I don't think I could date a camgirl or camboy is the clingy members that we all get. I couldn't stand my partner having anyone in their life who thought they stood a chance with them. I just know me and that would drive me crazy.

 

[maskpull]

To me, it is ok to love, flirt and date with a camgirl.
But if both of camgirl and her lover want to go futher, marriage or live together.
May be, she must have some respect for her partner, although it is only a job.
And if once day, her kid or husband was told and see the video of her from his friends who maybe her customers.
What would he feel and should do at that time.

 

[DuoShi]

I'm twice the age of most cam models, so I wouldn't see much of a future for her.

Do not underestimate the appeal of being older. My GF wanted kids when I was 48 and she was 32, which was just ridiculous. I was not going to be 70 when my kid turned 21. Another friend married a 68 year old when she was 42

sounds like golddiggers!

Doesn't sound like it to me. Sounds like a normal thing to me. A lot of girls my age (30) like a decade older guys. Hell, my dad is almost a decade older than my mom. It's more about maturity than anything else. Maybe you're seeing the fact that a mature guy is much more likely to be financially secure than one who is immature. My :twocents-02cents:

 

[Miss_D]

I'm twice the age of most cam models, so I wouldn't see much of a future for her.

Do not underestimate the appeal of being older. My GF wanted kids when I was 48 and she was 32, which was just ridiculous. I was not going to be 70 when my kid turned 21. Another friend married a 68 year old when she was 42

sounds like golddiggers!

Doesn't sound like it to me. Sounds like a normal thing to me. A lot of girls my age (30) like a decade older guys. Hell, my dad is almost a decade older than my mom. It's more about maturity than anything else. Maybe you're seeing the fact that a mature guy is much more likely to be financially secure than one who is immature. My :twocents-02cents:

I think you hit the nail on the head. Although for me its not about money, its more about open lines of mature communication and men who are older are more experienced in knowing how to communicate properly {usually}. Cuz lets be honest, communication is the ultimate turn on for women :thumbleft: When a guy can tell me how he feels, what he needs/wants {both sexually and not sexually} AND listen to me in return all while being empathic and sensitive..…. Meowwwww…

Most guys my age can't even ask a girl out on a date properly... :naughty:

&& yes..Guys who are much older usually have their shit together which is a huge fucking plus in my books :dance:


But on the topic of dating a cam girl…Im biased -obviously- lol

Most cam girls are super comfortable being themselves…NAKED… in front of at least 300 random people on a daily basis! To me thats SUPER hott. Its hard for most people to be authentic, fully clothed, in front of 10 people. So yeah. Id date the shit out of a cam girl. :banana-dance:

 

[SaffronBurke]

I'm twice the age of most cam models, so I wouldn't see much of a future for her.

Do not underestimate the appeal of being older. My GF wanted kids when I was 48 and she was 32, which was just ridiculous. I was not going to be 70 when my kid turned 21. Another friend married a 68 year old when she was 42

sounds like golddiggers!

Doesn't sound like it to me. Sounds like a normal thing to me. A lot of girls my age (30) like a decade older guys. Hell, my dad is almost a decade older than my mom. It's more about maturity than anything else. Maybe you're seeing the fact that a mature guy is much more likely to be financially secure than one who is immature. My :twocents-02cents:

I've actually run into a bit of a different experience regarding maturity during my forays on to dating/hookup sites. I often find that guys around my age (I'm 26, so I'm usually contacted by guys anywhere in their 20's or in their early 30's) are pretty gracious about being politely turned down, often thanking me for responding even if it is with a "no" and wishing me luck in finding what I'm looking for, while guys in their late 30's, or anywhere from 40's-60's, have been absolute babies when I turn them down, and say preposterous things like "my dick's probably too big for you anyway" or "you're just worried I'll ruin younger guys for you", as they try to convince me of the benefits of being with an older man. Admittedly, though, the biggest whiners by far are the 18-19 year olds who just don't understand why I won't give them a chance because they really want to experience being with an older woman. The guys around my age also seem to have mastered the direct, but respectful approach as far as seeking a one-night stand, where some of the older guys are a bit ruder (and even sometimes kinda gross) in their approach.

Back on topic, I would be completely willing to date a cammodel, or any type of sex worker. It would be pretty cool to date someone with whom I can completely commiserate about work, and we'd both understand that it's just a job. Additionally, I'm a polyamorous person, and I've noticed that many models are more amiable to that lifestyle than your average person, which would make being myself in a relationship much easier than if I have to try and ease someone into accepting who I am and having them either grumpily allowing me the freedom I want to date or sleep with other people despite them not being happy with it just for the sake of making me happy, or them not wanting me to continue to date/sleep with others, which I would agree to in order to respect my significant other's wishes, but then I would be grumpy and unhappy.

 

[sweetiebatman]

I think i can safely say I would, In fact their occupation would come quite far down the list of possible problematic issues for me. Some of the most awesome women I have met in my life I have met on MFC

I think I quite like hanging out on MFC because confidence and an outgoing personality are two things I would say are THE most important things that I look for in a woman and i've tended to stay active in rooms where I find these and on more than one occasion its lead to further friendships.

I'm sure you'd have to be quite secure as a person yourself to be in that kind of relationship and that goes for both parties

 

[Doc_Mercy]

Would I date a cam model, yeah. i'm quite relaxed about things, is camming much different to 'topless modeling' or stripping for example, arguably it's perhaps safer than stripping, and I'm quite confident in myself, and trusting with partners.

I've never been 'clingy' or anything like that, I'm borderlind aloof, more than happy for a partner to have a night out with the girls for example, and be confident that nothing will happen, that sounds amazingly arrogant doesn't it, it's not meant to lol. :-D

However there will be perhaps some issues, if she did 'date' meets for example, not really due to jealosy, but more from a concerned safety issue, and any sort of content created with someone else, even G/G content as well as B/G it's still a level of deep intimacy where I might have a few issues, but it will depend on what the content is. But that's where being open and honest and communicating with each other, like any other relationship.

But with any relationship, whatever job each of you have, issues and problems will crop up at some point. :twocents-02cents: