Things Members Say That Make You Go "WTF?"

[Ozzie_]

- both days a user was talking smack/bitching about me (who was her only active knight) to try and be knighted. That level of middle school drama just really turns me off and for a variety of reasons I believe she participated in it and at any rate certainly didn’t shut it down. I am trying to decide if I want to continue to visit this model anymore based on all this. She is very hot and I generally like her, but I know if drama is what happens every session it won’t last long because it is a pet peeve.

Well if she did nothing about you being the butt of someone's "attack"or, worse in my opinion, participated in it. I know what my next move would be. I'd certainly answer her message with the truth.

That is providing it was not teasing or as we call it in Australia "shit-stirring". in my model friend's room there is often a lot of teasing going in all directions, but it is good-natured and always accompanied by appropriate emojis to get across that it is a joke.

... it’d be “I’m out.” But honestly, what would that accomplish but make her feel bad when I’m not sure she can do anything about it?

I am sure she can do a lot about it, at the very least an apology for treating you less than well, from the sound of what you have said here.

I was going to add, "If my model friend did this.." but I could not finish the sentence because she would NEVER behave like that. If an idiot guest is hassling any of her knights she usually is the first to mute and ban them even before any of us other knights can do so. She has our backs just as we have hers.

 

[Ich Bin]

Just an update, this user is about what I expected. Over-moderating and being a general tool. At least he tips her well.

The model was out Monday and Tuesday and yesterday a regular of hers took her private for most of her time so today is really the first day with the new guy. I had been reflecting on her stream Saturday and Sunday and was generally not happy with how I felt after either for the same reason - both days a user was talking smack/bitching about me (who was her only active knight) to try and be knighted. That level of middle school drama just really turns me off and for a variety of reasons I believe she participated in it and at any rate certainly didn’t shut it down. I am trying to decide if I want to continue to visit this model anymore based on all this. She is very hot and I generally like her, but I know if drama is what happens every session it won’t last long because it is a pet peeve.

I have a message she sent to me a little while ago asking if I am mad at her (haven’t fully opened it because I would prefer it doesn’t show I read it yet). I don’t really want to have that discussion right now because I haven’t processed everything but if forced to make a call now it’d be “I’m out.” But honestly, what would that accomplish but make her feel bad when I’m not sure she can do anything about it?

I just think this is a case where a good model may be risking letting a toxic user hurt her brand. Hopefully I am wrong though.

Hopefully you are wrong and ........ time will tell.

 

[NotYou]

Just an update, this user is about what I expected. Over-moderating and being a general tool. At least he tips her well.

The model was out Monday and Tuesday and yesterday a regular of hers took her private for most of her time so today is really the first day with the new guy. I had been reflecting on her stream Saturday and Sunday and was generally not happy with how I felt after either for the same reason - both days a user was talking smack/bitching about me (who was her only active knight) to try and be knighted. That level of middle school drama just really turns me off and for a variety of reasons I believe she participated in it and at any rate certainly didn’t shut it down. I am trying to decide if I want to continue to visit this model anymore based on all this. She is very hot and I generally like her, but I know if drama is what happens every session it won’t last long because it is a pet peeve.

I have a message she sent to me a little while ago asking if I am mad at her (haven’t fully opened it because I would prefer it doesn’t show I read it yet). I don’t really want to have that discussion right now because I haven’t processed everything but if forced to make a call now it’d be “I’m out.” But honestly, what would that accomplish but make her feel bad when I’m not sure she can do anything about it?

I just think this is a case where a good model may be risking letting a toxic user hurt her brand. Hopefully I am wrong though.

Well if she did nothing about you being the butt of someone's "attack"or, worse in my opinion, participated in it. I know what my next move would be. I'd certainly answer her message with the truth.

That is providing it was not teasing or as we call it in Australia "shit-stirring". in my model friend's room there is often a lot of teasing going in all directions, but it is good-natured and always accompanied by appropriate emojis to get across that it is a joke.

I am sure she can do a lot about it, at the very least an apology for treating you less than well, from the sound of what you have said here.

I was going to add, "If my model friend did this.." but I could not finish the sentence because she would NEVER behave like that. If an idiot guest is hassling any of her knights she usually is the first to mute and ban them even before any of us other knights can do so. She has our backs just as we have hers.

What Ozzie said. Could it have (on her part at least) just been her humour?
A lot of models have an amazing sense of humour and a lot of guys don't seem to understand and appreciate them, they maybe don't really take the time to try and "get" it or understand it either.

I think either way regardless of whether it was, message her but don't be rude or even angry/annoyed, just explain to her that you found it bad and worse that she allowed it and joined in. Maybe she will apologize and explain it was/is just her humour. or if not, then unfortunately you know to go to another model who won't do this in a rude (non-joking) way.


edit:
Oh I forgot to mention I finally saw AndrewUnited in another room, but this time he wasn't doing his typical BS.
In fact - not sure if it's worse or not - he was not tipping but being rude to the model demanding her and telling her what to do and calling her "bitch/slut" and saying how horny and hard he is blah blah.

(I promise I don't stalk this guy or anything lol - seems like we both either like a 30+ woman or he just goes to all women rooms and eventually we cross paths)

 

[Omne35]

Just an update, this user is about what I expected. Over-moderating and being a general tool. At least he tips her well.

The model was out Monday and Tuesday and yesterday a regular of hers took her private for most of her time so today is really the first day with the new guy. I had been reflecting on her stream Saturday and Sunday and was generally not happy with how I felt after either for the same reason - both days a user was talking smack/bitching about me (who was her only active knight) to try and be knighted. That level of middle school drama just really turns me off and for a variety of reasons I believe she participated in it and at any rate certainly didn’t shut it down. I am trying to decide if I want to continue to visit this model anymore based on all this. She is very hot and I generally like her, but I know if drama is what happens every session it won’t last long because it is a pet peeve.

I have a message she sent to me a little while ago asking if I am mad at her (haven’t fully opened it because I would prefer it doesn’t show I read it yet). I don’t really want to have that discussion right now because I haven’t processed everything but if forced to make a call now it’d be “I’m out.” But honestly, what would that accomplish but make her feel bad when I’m not sure she can do anything about it?

I just think this is a case where a good model may be risking letting a toxic user hurt her brand. Hopefully I am wrong though.

If she apologizes are you going to feel the same towards her as you did before? It sounds like you lost some of your trust towards her.
It may seem incongruous to some but normal users on cam sites can be actually very vulnerable. They are showing parts of their personalities that probably few if anyone else know about. Being rejected or mocked, unless it's their kink, can have a major and lasting effect on trust.
Commercial transactions depend on trust just as much as personal transactions. Users trust that the model will accept them. That they will not make fun of them or laugh at their fetishes as long as the user is well behaved.

 

[rockin_rod]

okaaaay.......ignoring this user after several similar comments (but no tips).

 

[Omne35]

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okaaaay.......ignoring this user after several similar comments (but no tips).

Wasn't it Lucifer and the rebelling angels that fell from heaven? So isn't that the same as calling her a demon?
I get odd trains of thought sometimes.

 

[Shane]

I told a model "if you have a twin sister, you can cam together" (as a joke) during the lengthy conversation on the public chat. (Her room is popular)

She said like "twins are sister and how can we cam together" (as casual speech).

After a week, I saw a new model camming with another model and her room was trending. She said the other model was her sister and they can kiss on the cam...

 

[Omne35]

I told a model "if you have a twin sister, you can cam together" (as a joke) during the lengthy conversation on the public chat. (Her room is popular)

She said like "twins are sister and how can we cam together" (as casual speech).

After a week, I saw a new model camming with another model and her room was trending. She said the other model was her sister and they can kiss on the cam...

Sounds kind of creepy.

 

[yummybrownfox]

She said the other model was her sister and they can kiss on the cam...

It’s possible that she was lying about the other model being her sister. She probably figured some dudes would be into that (Two sisters making out), and I guess she was right since the room was trending…

 

[NotYou]

There are lots who do the whole fake stuff like my sister is with me, my aunt, my uncle my whatever the fuck else. Guys fall for that all the time and they love it.
Just like the whole "shhh I'm in the office don't let my boss hear/see me naked".. or sitting on a sofa naked with a sister's husband while he is on his phone and she is full naked using a domi but "shhhh my sister's husband doesn't know I am on here" - in these women defense though, at least with a sofa one, they are good at hiding it so the guy can't see them naked, they add a small cushion or pillow between them to separate it.. no way he can see her naked or hear her moans now right haha

 

[rockin_rod]

Sounds kind of creepy.

Not to mention against the site TOS

 

[Omne35]

It’s possible that she was lying about the other model being her sister. She probably figured some dudes would be into that (Two sisters making out), and I guess she was right since the room was trending…

I never really understood the attraction of that. The g/g part I can see but siblings? Makes me picture kissing one of my brothers....yech.

 

[NotYou]

Ahh yes, this guy with his BIG BOLD capital letters name seems super shy

 

[yummybrownfox]

I never really understood the attraction of that.

Me neither. But hardly anything surprises me anymore about what some of these men find "hot."

 

[Maxi]

I’ve seen this increasing more recently; where I’m tipping the model I’m a reg for healthy amounts just straight out tips, nothing from the menu and greys and even non-greys (SC) are asking:

[@my username]: tip for boobs
[@my username]: tip open pussy
[@my username]: use tip menu

…it’s like, no! You tip for it if that’s what you’d like to see. I mean I can mute them, and I usually do if they’re grey. But still. Irks me when I see that. The cheek!

 

[Hiunds]

I’ve seen this increasing more recently; where I’m tipping the model I’m a reg for healthy amounts just straight out tips, nothing from the menu and greys and even non-greys (SC) are asking:

[@my username]: tip for boobs
[@my username]: tip open pussy
[@my username]: use tip menu

…it’s like, no! You tip for it if that’s what you’d like to see. I mean I can mute them, and I usually do if they’re grey. But still. Irks me when I see that. The cheek!

It’s even better when they phrase it “MAKE her do X”

Dude, nobody is MAKING anyone do anything. And, by the way stop being a cheap ass

 

[NotYou]

I’ve seen this increasing more recently; where I’m tipping the model I’m a reg for healthy amounts just straight out tips, nothing from the menu and greys and even non-greys (SC) are asking:

[@my username]: tip for boobs
[@my username]: tip open pussy
[@my username]: use tip menu

…it’s like, no! You tip for it if that’s what you’d like to see. I mean I can mute them, and I usually do if they’re grey. But still. Irks me when I see that. The cheek!

This bugs me too, and it bugs me if they do it to other people. Luckily I don't get people doing it to me because I tip in PM or I use my tokens for private shows, so to everyone else, I just come across as a freeloader due to "how" I spend my tokens - but that's a whole other story haha

 

[Maxi]

This bugs me too, and it bugs me if they do it to other people. Luckily I don't get people doing it to me because I tip in PM or I use my tokens for private shows, so to everyone else, I just come across as a freeloader due to "how" I spend my tokens - but that's a whole other story haha

? Haha - another future thread maybe…

 

[misterical]

I never really understood the attraction of that. The g/g part I can see but siblings? Makes me picture kissing one of my brothers....yech.

The sibling thing is wrong on more levels that I can count.

 

[Nienna]

This bugs me too, and it bugs me if they do it to other people. Luckily I don't get people doing it to me because I tip in PM or I use my tokens for private shows, so to everyone else, I just come across as a freeloader due to "how" I spend my tokens - but that's a whole other story haha

I do the same. I read my friend's chat rooms all the time but rarely post. (I guess that makes me a "lurker"). I communicate with her solely in PM (which I pay her for), tip her privately, and use my tokens for private shows. I have to admit, the chats can be entertaining!

 

[Maxi]

I do the same. I read my friend's chat rooms all the time but rarely post. (I guess that makes me a "lurker"). I communicate with her solely in PM (which I pay her for), tip her privately, and use my tokens for private shows. I have to admit, the chats can be entertaining!

Sounds like a need to adapt my style to stop it from happening thanks for the info!

 

[Ich Bin]

I had a favorite model that often had a crowded room but Plenty of lurkers. She and I prearranged this. When there was limited tipping, I would tip But I wrote that it was for a Hip Massage. She used the Domi on her hip. We both got a laugh and the lurkers got Nothing from my tip. (It was funny for us anyway ?.)

 

[Maxi]

I had a favorite model that often had a crowded room but Plenty of lurkers. She and I prearranged this. When there was limited tipping, I would tip But I wrote that it was for a Hip Massage. She used the Domi on her hip. We both got a laugh and the lurkers got Nothing from my tip. (It was funny for us anyway ?.)

I communicate solely in PM with the model with whom I’m a reg but she constantly tells me to check the public chat to see what’s going on in there

Even tells me what some guys say via PM too, which can be illuminating. Obviously not everything but only the completely absurd requests she obviously gets. I guess joking about it helps put it to one side.

 

[Highlander884]

The sibling thing is wrong on more levels that I can count.

Reminds me of a guy on a forum trying to explain how certain lesbian things dont count as incest (I'll save u any example he gave). Worst of all though is that "legally" I think he might be right judging from the twins professional pornstars I once saw when browsing ??.

 

[Ich Bin]

I communicate solely in PM with the model with whom I’m a reg but she constantly tells me to check the public chat to see what’s going on in there

Even tells me what some guys say via PM too, which can be illuminating. Obviously not everything but only the completely absurd requests she obviously gets. I guess joking about it helps put it to one side.

Oh yes! Public Chat & PMs are a true literary adventure as the forum members have shared. Unfortunately, it's like reading the same book over & over &....... ?

 

[Ozzie_]

I’ve seen this increasing more recently; where I’m tipping the model I’m a reg for healthy amounts just straight out tips, nothing from the menu and greys and even non-greys (SC) are asking:

[@my username]: tip for boobs
[@my username]: tip open pussy
[@my username]: use tip menu

…it’s like, no! You tip for it if that’s what you’d like to see. I mean I can mute them, and I usually do if they’re grey. But still. Irks me when I see that. The cheek!

Yep instant muting whatever the colour in my model friend's room. To me it's almost worse somehow than begging the model for free stuff.

 

[MiaSarah]

Gray came in posted this and left:
I hope indian persian IS racism terrorists with satellites raping not all familys. A computer make deceptions and lies against my billion starship familys

What. The. Fuck.

 

[Omne35]

Gray came in posted this and left:
I hope indian persian IS racism terrorists with satellites raping not all familys. A computer make deceptions and lies against my billion starship familys

What. The. Fuck.

Looks like a completely incoherent rant got typed into Google translate.

 

[Shane]

It’s possible that she was lying about the other model being her sister. She probably figured some dudes would be into that (Two sisters making out), and I guess she was right since the room was trending…

I think she said the truth, she said that if her sister is not available for camming, she has her friend. (or I'm just naive to believe that, I'm not into this kink though)

 

[yummybrownfox]

I think she said the truth, she said that if her sister is not available for camming, she has her friend. (or I'm just naive to believe that, I'm not into this kink though)

Maybe. Who knows? I remember when I’d hang out with a girl I knew from church, she would introduce me to people as her cousin. Lol.