Everyone hates my husband and I

[Stella_SC]

@MeAbc

You are correct that you cannot change the Account Holder on your account after an initial grace period. However, you are welcome to sign up for a solo account and have both your couples account and your solo account.
Signing up for an account should not be hard, feel free to reach out to me or Elira via PM if you need assistance.

 

[MeAbc]

I have read quite a few places that single ladies earn more than couples. I understand a lot of partners can’t handle their partner cramming in their own. I think it’s a shame that to you are “not allowed” but I’m not in your relationship, so it’s your choice whether to put up with this from a partner. Hopefully he can pay the bills other ways if he feels entitled to make these sorts of rules?

Given what you’ve said I have to wonder why are you camming? If for $$ you can do better streaming mostly solo and using him as a special guest star for some shows and for content, and he can still be your chat mod/watch/encourage tippers if he doesn’t want to miss out. A full time assistant to help film you and repost content is so valuable (my late husband used to do this and it worked great for us, but he didn’t have a bone of jealousy so YMMV.)

If for fun, maybe try a different site or a different plan for your shows? Like just having a fun chat and having your fun together. How long have you been at it as a couple and have you been consistent enough to build a community within your audience? Just some things to consider, I wish you the best! Husbands don’t know everything LOL

Its okay, I dont want to do anything that makes my sweet hubby feel uncomfortable. He is good to me and the viewers are used to him on cam with me and so we do over the cam cuckhold. The viewers love it and I have 29 K followers. I'm acually making significantly more since I purchased the new lush 4. I had problems with the lush 3 and did not invest in another purchase until the viewers started to miss the remote control they had.

Speaking of over the cam cuchold, this one viewer is obsessed with me and acually asked my husbband to give his will to him and let him fuck me in real life! Of course my husband said the hell he will and he told him absalutely not lol

 

[MeAbc]

@MeAbc

You are correct that you cannot change the Account Holder on your account after an initial grace period. However, you are welcome to sign up for a solo account and have both your couples account and your solo account.
Signing up for an account should not be hard, feel free to reach out to me or Elira via PM if you need assistance.

I don't know if I want to sign up for a solo account. I dont want my husband to feel uncomfortable. I trully love this man that has roughed it in below zero temps just so we had our essentials. My husband is gentle and kind to me.

 

[LilyLaughing]

Its okay, I dont want to do anything that makes my sweet hubby feel uncomfortable. He is good to me and the viewers are used to him on cam with me and so we do over the cam cuckhold. The viewers love it and I have 29 K followers. I'm acually making significantly more since I purchased the new lush 4. I had problems with the lush 3 and did not invest in another purchase until the viewers started to miss the remote control they had.

Speaking of over the cam cuchold, this one viewer is obsessed with me and acually asked my husbband to give his will to him and let him fuck me in real life! Of course my husband said the hell he will and he told him absalutely not lol

Sounds like things are going a lot better than when you made your initial post, so if people are loving it and you are both happy, that is great! Sounds like you’ve found your groove.

 

[MeAbc]

Sounds like things are going a lot better than when you made your initial post, so if people are loving it and you are both happy, that is great! Sounds like you’ve found your groove.

Yes things have definately improved. I think when I originally posted I just had a bad day.

 

[LilyLaughing]

Yes things have definately improved. I think when I originally posted I just had a bad day.

Good job! Didn’t mean to dis your man, it’s not for everyone to want their lady to do this work solo.

I get a mental twitch when I hear about men “allowing” things but ummm I am twice widowed before 50 so I just keep to my own rules now especially regarding supporting myself financially. Just my personal bad luck, I don’t believe men when they say they will take care of you and that you don’t need to worry.

 

[MeAbc]

Good job! Didn’t mean to dis your man, it’s not for everyone to want their lady to do this work solo.

I get a mental twitch when I hear about men “allowing” things but ummm I am twice widowed before 50 so I just keep to my own rules now especially regarding supporting myself financially. Just my personal bad luck, I don’t believe men when they say they will take care of you and that you don’t need to worry.

I am so sorry for your losses. That must be diffacult. I wouldn't mind doing solo but part of me was longing for my husband when I used to do solo. I still had fun with solo though.

 

[MeAbc]

Hello @MeAbc

I’m really sorry to hear about your experience. The advice shared above is solid—consider switching greys to silent, and don’t hesitate to use the ban function when needed. It’s often not productive to try to reason with users who are intentionally being disrespectful. Engaging with them can unintentionally encourage further boundary-pushing, both from them and from others watching.

It’s also important to remember that, for some users, provoking a reaction is the goal, and is their fetish. The most effective approach is to avoid giving them that response—ignore, ban, and report when appropriate, rather than arguing or offering repeated chances.

When you stay consistent and firm with your boundaries, you’ll find that the majority of users on the platform are respectful, supportive, and genuinely kind people .

Hi Stella, The greys are already silent and have been perminantly since they once flooded my chat with verbal insults and they had multiple accounts all on the public chat at once and that was so emarrassing because I had a viewer that my husband and I considered a friend.