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Just curious what guys tend to look like when you can see them on cam... it seems when I ask models they say they tend to be 50+ and not really in great shape. They tend to be amazed I look so young and in shape, but I just like voyeur and I'm socially shy and awkward in real life. Sorry if I'm touching a sore spot, I know a lot of ladies don't really care and just enjoy chatting/flirting/voyeur/sexuality no matter what anybody looks like.
 
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Side note: Do not assume girls are going to be impressed that you're young or fit or whatever. I never open a cam because someone says I'll like what I see. Give me the dude that's been partying since the 80s and has 30 pounds to lose.
 
I get a TON of young dudes through my indie advertising. I don't particularly care if they are cute or whatever as long as they are paying me. On my box sites it's all across the board. No one gets special treatment.

Boners don't have a demographic, aside from "people who have penises."
 
Normal humans of varying ages and attractiveness levels.
You seriously can answer it any better than this. Varying ages, of varying attractiveness or varying cock size. As far as models being surprised your so young and in great shape... they are probably playing up to what they think you want to hear. I can always tell when a guy expects me to be impressed with his looks or cock size, just the same as I can tell when a guy wants me to lean more towards humiliation. There is no one size fits all and as long as your respectful and paying me for my time I will do most things (within my comfort zone) to make you happy.
 
it seems when I ask models they say they tend to be 50+ and not really in great shape. They tend to be amazed I look so young and in shape

They're probably saying that because it's what most of their dudes want to hear. When I actually paid attention to dude's cams instead of hiding them, it was like 90% dudes in the 20's-30's range who appear to go to the gym regularly. For the most part, viewers tend to seek out models in their own age range, though we all have the random dude in his 60's.
 
If anything I notice the younger more fit guys can sometimes be more jerky/cocky to me saying or making assumptions like: "I bet you hardly see guys like me on here! You're used to nasty old fat men huh?" or "You're probably not used to someone this hot" etc. When I see quite a lot of muscular young men as well! Nothing suprises me- we've seen it all. Old, young, fit, skinny, chubby, all races, all sizes. I'd actually go so far to say I see MORE younger guys on cam2cam than older guys.
 
The majority of guys I see on cam are younger than I am, but I don't look my age, so @SaffronBurke is probably right that they're seeking someone in the same age range. Appearance-wide I'd say they match the same distribution of size, shape and attractiveness as the general population. I would absolutely not be amazed to see a guy who was young and in shape in cam any more than I'd be amazed to see one at the grocery store. I'm also not the sort who tells people what they want to hear, which seems to disappoint some young in-shape types or dudes who are especially proud of their penises but who do not impress me in the least. To take it a step further, guys who think I'll chat with them or open their cam for free or give them my number etc. etc. because I'll "like what I see" are just delusional... For one thing, if I was going to be personally interested in you, you'd probably need to be female. Otherwise I mainly care if you can pay.
 
I get 50% younger (under 37) good looking guys, and then about 50% guys who don't fall into this category. And then the occasional silver fox. ;)

I think it's not that 50% of the guys on the cam sites are young & hot, it's probably more diverse than that. It's just that the good looking guys are more likely to want to turn their cams on. I think guys don't get enough compliments in our culture, it's not normal for guy friends to tell their dude friends - "Wow, your abs are looking tight!" ...like girls would do with other girls, or hear compliments from their mom or strangers etc. So I think a lot of the attractive guys that I meet on cam ARE looking to hear that they are attractive. There is nothing wrong with this at all.
 
I've sometimes wondered what models might get themselves into when they open a cam. Reading some of the threads here, and elsewhere have been somewhat entertaining. But, I can imagine sometimes a little horrifying at times too with some of what I've read.

I've never asked a model to open my cam. But, have been asked by a few if I would. I get that it's a turn-on for some to see that a guy's enjoying. But, I'd also imagine that, such as in my case, many prefer to not do so most/all of the time. Or, just don't have cams.
 
I have experienced a lot of younger "attractive" men assuming I would give them discounts or free time/videos whatever because of how they looked, and it really doesn't matter to me. I could get fucked by men more attractive and athletic than me at just about any point just because, you know, tits and a vagina. I'd rather spend my personal time with someone that I click with, and I'd rather spend my model work time with polite and interesting customers. I'd rather give a discount to someone that's respectful and would appreciate it rather than someone who thinks that just because they got a ten inch penis they deserve all the open crevices and porn in the world.

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All the guys who've actually shown me their faces, which is moderately rare, have been under 30. I think without exception, actually. I may have seen some older guys a few years ago when I was working under a different name maybe.
 
I find a lot of guys think I'm actually getting off to watching them on cam, I even have guys pity me saying it must be 'so hard to cum when guys won't turn their cams on' like no I'm not getting off looking at your penis, it's a penis I've seen one before it's not that exciting. If you're paying me to act excited by your body/dick/face then I will, but I could care less
 
I find a lot of guys think I'm actually getting off to watching them on cam, I even have guys pity me saying it must be 'so hard to cum when guys won't turn their cams on' like no I'm not getting off looking at your penis, it's a penis I've seen one before it's not that exciting. If you're paying me to act excited by your body/dick/face then I will, but I could care less
Thisssss.
Looking at some random guy's cock does literally nothing for me. A lot of the time it even repulses me tbh :bag: I generally don't do C2C for this reason.
A cock will turn me on if it's attached to the person I love but that's about ittttt :dead:
 
It varies so much even on an hourly basis because of how often guys like to do C2C on my particular site. I mean, it's all just glorious flesh at this point so I don't really notice much besides the boner unless they're doing something weird on cam.
 
I hate the extreme closeups.

I'm ready to start zooming in on my pussy until it's so close you can't see what's going on until they get the hint.

Show a little torso guys.

Maybe even some thigh. I like thighs.
 
Depends. A good majority of the people who view me are men who are anywhere between 40 & 55. Typically black or white men who are into race play which is a whole other topic. OR it's white men who are into/experimenting with ddlg when their wives aren't around. Sometimes I'll get the Wildcard and have a viewer in his/her 20's stop by. But regardless, I wouldn't be quick to separate the "attractive" from the "unattractive". In all honesty, If you're paying the right amount of coin, you're attractive enough for me to strip down on cam and think about my fiancé while I masturbate.
 
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I get 50% younger (under 37) good looking guys, and then about 50% guys who don't fall into this category. And then the occasional silver fox. ;)

I think it's not that 50% of the guys on the cam sites are young & hot, it's probably more diverse than that. It's just that the good looking guys are more likely to want to turn their cams on. I think guys don't get enough compliments in our culture, it's not normal for guy friends to tell their dude friends - "Wow, your abs are looking tight!" ...like girls would do with other girls, or hear compliments from their mom or strangers etc. So I think a lot of the attractive guys that I meet on cam ARE looking to hear that they are attractive. There is nothing wrong with this at all.


You are so right. Thank you, thank you!

Beling told I’m attractive, even when I know a model is probably just telling me what I want to hear, has positive real-life effects. I can testify!

MFC was theraputic in this and other ways following a hideous marriage breakup in which my spouse cheated on me with a younger, very fit guy. Consorting with and getting compliments from much younger, stunningly attractive models put a spring in my step, a touch more self-confidence and a feeling that maybe life was not over, after all. Even when I knew the compliments were polite lies and they were usually followed by “... for a guy your age.”

BTW: I only open my cam if model asks me to. I figure if a model charges to open a cam, that’s to discourage it.
 
Or if a model is charging to open your cam it's because she's just trying to get paid for giving your dick attention. Or opening up your cam and hiding it behind their Web browser hahaha
 
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