A model seeking love and a future with a client? Or a manipulative romance scammer? One year anniversary! Ideas and impressions sought, please.

[GeorgeSpelvin]

So do some studios. I once tried to give a model my Telegram username. (She was leaving the next day for a month to undergo surgery. I just wanted her to let me know how things went) The result was catastrophic. Her studio almost fined her, and I was almost banned. She basically begged her admins not to carry through and promised them she would never call me. That was just a member offering personal info to a model. Interestingly, all her admins are female, and at this particular studio, they are strict, but actually look after the model's safety. I am sure being in Russia has something to do with that too.

Her studio almost fined her, and I was almost banned.

So you were almost banned by the particular cam site? I'm assuming that the studio can only take action against the model.

It sounds like I'll be "self-confessing" to a lot in this situation. It takes two to tango. She set up a private account and sent me numbers; I was sending money to it. She gave me her passport and other info. Most of the conversations about money moving around and meeting up are in Skype, but there were some references even in PMs on sites. Especially on StripChat and a bit on LiveJasmin.

My question, though, is if we talked about this stuff initially on a site (say StripChat) but then took the conversation to an offsite messaging system like Skype, does that then exempt everyone to whatever happened after that point? It's just two people talking on personal Skype account... But I guess the issue would be that we met and originally interacted on the sites, though?

 

[Ozzie_]

But I guess the issue would be that we met and originally interacted on the sites, though?

This.
If there was any mention on SC they would frown on it.

However, this has turned into a saga of Homeric proportions, so they may not give a tinker's cuss about it now after all this time.

 

[Nienna]

So you were almost banned by the particular cam site? I'm assuming that the studio can only take action against the model.

It sounds like I'll be "self-confessing" to a lot in this situation. It takes two to tango. She set up a private account and sent me numbers; I was sending money to it. She gave me her passport and other info. Most of the conversations about money moving around and meeting up are in Skype, but there were some references even in PMs on sites. Especially on StripChat and a bit on LiveJasmin.

My question, though, is if we talked about this stuff initially on a site (say StripChat) but then took the conversation to an offsite messaging system like Skype, does that then exempt everyone to whatever happened after that point? It's just two people talking on personal Skype account... But I guess the issue would be that we met and originally interacted on the sites, though?

You are correct, the studio can only take action against the model, but the studio can instruct the model to ban any user on any of the sites she streams on. (In my friend's case, five). So effectively, it is being banned by the studio. In terms of off-site platforms, like Skype, the studio has no jurisdiction, but I could see them threatening to terminate the contract of a model for such conduct. There is very likely a provision for conduct on off-site platforms written into her contract.

 

[Smoothie]

She's already partially blocked

So she’s not blocked?

 

[misterical]

My question, though, is if we talked about this stuff initially on a site (say StripChat) but then took the conversation to an offsite messaging system like Skype, does that then exempt everyone to whatever happened after that point? It's just two people talking on personal Skype account... But I guess the issue would be that we met and originally interacted on the sites, though?

I'd imagine that once it moves to Skype then that's an agreement between two individuals. I'm not a legal eagle but I'm assuming that a cam site wouldn't:-

1. Have access to the Skype chat even if they wanted to
2. Be able to even identify with any certainty that the two people in the conversation were you and her

Of course, point 2 above assumes that you presumably set up a fake, unidentifiable Skype account, right? I mean it's guaranteed she did. Tell me you did that at least.....

Although if you were pissing money directly into her bank account then she already knows your true identity anyway.

 

[Hiunds]

SC certainly forbids real life meet-ups and off-site payments. (There is NO grey area from them in this)
Why?
Well obviously because in those scenarios they (SC) are *not* getting their cut even though they have been the conduit for the initial meeting / transactions.

well, that and potentially facilitating prostitution

 

[Upanddown]

hey george have you thought about speaking with a therapist about this? i understand this is probably really heavy on your conscious. a therapist is a great person to speak with during stressful times to get through your thoughts and decision-making.

there is a discord that is ran by a psychiatrist who helps mainly those with jobs that are seen as taboo or I think criminals too. But my point is, he might be a good resource for you at least to run your story by. He does not give medical advice or diagnose unless you go into his office but I was referred to him after a porn career meltdown i had. The guy is good at what he does and over chat it makes it a lot easier to open up and he let you set the pace of the discussion.

He starts a fresh server everyday and the link is always the same . I just looked and it looks like he just started for the day but here is the link, it doesnt change. https://discord.gg/SBePYXhZAG

 

[AmberCutie]

In effort of everyone moving on, locked