A question about models.

[Canadian1991]

if a model was to get suspended on MFC for any reason would she lose her tokens for that month?
im just very curious because a model who is my favorite was suspended for 5 days.
and she hasn't been on even after those days have past. she has signed on but that is all.
its quite up setting for me.

any help would be much appreciated. Thank you in advance for answering me.

 

[mynameisbob84]

I wouldn't worry about it, yo. I'm sure she's capable of finding out for herself by contacting MFC :thumbleft:

 

[LilyMarie]

I can't answer this for sure because I've never been suspended or fined, but I know that models only lose the tokens they made while breaking an MFC rule.

 

[Canadian1991]

yes Bob that would be obvious, i am asking for my own reason's.

thank you Lily that gives me a better understanding. i guess it would also come down to what what she did.

sorry for the odd question. i just miss her.

 

[IsabellaSnow]

This isn't really relevant to your question, but just a friendly piece of advice- Try not to get too invested in the models you watch. While many members and models have very good relationships with members, models are also very independent and may not want to cam for lots of reasons. Camming can be a very emotionally draining job and as a model you may need to take a break without facing questions and pressure from members.

Models will always be unpredictable. They are human beings, not pre recorded programming. Even the most organised of models just sometimes cannot be there. I have seen many times on this forum members complaining about cancelling real life plans or deliberately staying in to catch their favourite model at their usual time and have been extremely upset when they haven't been around (even if the model hadn't stated she would be on), or sometimes members getting upset when a model comes on cam at a different time than normal.

I'm not saying you are in this situation, but you'll enjoy camsites a lot more as a whole if you keep your emotional investment limited. By all means form friendships with models, but if you're getting actively upset and anxious at the idea that your favourite model hasn't been on cam for a few weeks (and you know she's safe and well) it's probably time to take a step back and remember that it is just online entertainment. Not only could you save on a lot of heartache, but you'll also save models having a lot of headaches. I know I get actively stressed if I feel people are waiting on me. It's the reason I stopped coming on cam after my top 100 month- I took a few days off and started freaking out thinking members were going to be really angry and upset with me so totally cut myself off. Of course they weren't and I was just being neurotic

 

[motherbrain]

This isn't really relevant to your question, but just a friendly piece of advice- Try not to get too invested in the models you watch. While many members and models have very good relationships with members, models are also very independent and may not want to cam for lots of reasons. Camming can be a very emotionally draining job and as a model you may need to take a break without facing questions and pressure from members.

Models will always be unpredictable. They are human beings, not pre recorded programming. Even the most organised of models just sometimes cannot be there. I have seen many times on this forum members complaining about cancelling real life plans or deliberately staying in to catch their favourite model at their usual time and have been extremely upset when they haven't been around (even if the model hadn't stated she would be on), or sometimes members getting upset when a model comes on cam at a different time than normal.

I'm not saying you are in this situation, but you'll enjoy camsites a lot more as a whole if you keep your emotional investment limited. By all means form friendships with models, but if you're getting actively upset and anxious at the idea that your favourite model hasn't been on cam for a few weeks (and you know she's safe and well) it's probably time to take a step back and remember that it is just online entertainment. Not only could you save on a lot of heartache, but you'll also save models having a lot of headaches. I know I get actively stressed if I feel people are waiting on me. It's the reason I stopped coming on cam after my top 100 month- I took a few days off and started freaking out thinking members were going to be really angry and upset with me so totally cut myself off. Of course they weren't and I was just being neurotic

I don't think OP was being overly invested by posting this. One of my favorite models disappeared for like two months and I felt a little concerned. I'm sure if I was a regular chatter and tipper as opposed to just a lurker I'd reach out to the cam community to see what was up to try and ease my mind. :twocents-02cents:

 

[Canadian1991]

thanks for the reply's. and yes i most definitely understand that cam models have actual lives.

motherbrain that is exactly how i feel. i care for her and i am concerned. as far as feelings go, i cannot control them.
she is the reason i signed on this site as a premium.

well i guess time is the only answers for me, the fact that she signed on a few days ago must mean she is infact taking a little time off.
thanks you for answering me, my mind is a little at ease for getting this all out.

 

[Fay_Galore]

thanks for the reply's. and yes i most definitely understand that cam models have actual lives.

motherbrain that is exactly how i feel. i care for her and i am concerned. as far as feelings go, i cannot control them.
she is the reason i signed on this site as a premium.

well i guess time is the only answers for me, the fact that she signed on a few days ago must mean she is infact taking a little time off.
thanks you for answering me, my mind is a little at ease for getting this all out.

this is obviously none of my business but since you've posted on a forum about it heres a tiny bit of advice;
I understand you might feel tempted to send a few MFC mails/tweets/whatever her way, letting her know you're slighty concerned and hoping for a sign of life. I would like to advice you to not do this too much. one email is plenty, because I do think if she is dealing with some personal issues and every one of her regulars is sending her concerned emails, the pressure of replying the messages/getting back on cam could be counter working.

 

[Canadian1991]

yes i agree with you Fay. the most i have done is send her an offline tip with a little note saying she was missed.

 

[Bocefish]

the most i have done is send her an offline tip with a little note saying she was missed.

You mean aside from knowing she signed on a few days ago and being semi-stalkerish here?

the fact that she signed on a few days ago must mean she is infact taking a little time off.

What was she suspended for?

 

[XxXIndiXxX]

Oh man, Isabella, I wish every MFC member could read what you wrote. So much truth. Thank you!

 

[Canadian1991]

@Bocefish

You mean aside from knowing she signed on a few days ago and being semi-stalkerish here?

stalker? why does that word even need to be used. i sent an offline tip, you can see in mfc mail
if that tip was read or not. whats wrong with looking to see when the person last signed on?

What was she suspended for?

well that is none of my business.

 

[MemberEd]

if a model was to get suspended on MFC for any reason would she lose her tokens for that month?
im just very curious because a model who is my favorite was suspended for 5 days.
and she hasn't been on even after those days have past. she has signed on but that is all.
its quite up setting for me.

any help would be much appreciated. Thank you in advance for answering me.

I get the part about wanting to know if the model was still suspended or banned on MFC. The thought of any tips I sent her being pocketed by MFC and not forwarded to her would just gall me. It perfectly reasonable to want to know if that's happening. Its also pretty easy to tell if a model friend has logged on without stalking her since it shows the last time they logged on in the offline friends list.

 

[Bocefish]

Hmmmmm... you somehow knew she was suspended for 5 days (for what... you say you don't know) and she has signed on since, but her absence (non-available to you) is still apparently worrying you enough to come here and ask complete strangers what you seem to already know.

Nah... not stalkerish at all. :whistle:

 

[Canadian1991]

Hmmmmm... you somehow knew she was suspended for 5 days (for what... you say you don't know) and she has signed on since, but her absence (non-available to you) is still apparently worrying you enough to come here and ask complete strangers what you seem to already know.

Nah... not stalkerish at all. :whistle:

could it be that i am a regular of hers and she may have messaged me threw MFC mail?
hmn i wonder if that is how i knew the exact suspension, could that be possible?

no reason to get like that dude.

it was obviously a question. i thought these forums were created for certain circumstances
like mine, to help people get a better understanding of how things may work.
and aren't we all strangers here? lol

ill accept your opinion. but just no reason to get like that man. simple question.

thank you to all that replyed it was very much appreciated that you took the time to do so.

 

[JickyJuly]

I read this as "A model I like and tip got suspended. Will she get the money and come back to mfc?". How is that stalky? I love slamming a dope, but I don't get why this guy's getting advised like he's fallen in love or hiding in the shadows.

 

[Bocefish]

could it be that i am a regular of hers and she may have messaged me threw MFC mail?
hmn i wonder if that is how i knew the exact suspension, could that be possible?

If she "threw" you a message... could it be possible, or likely quite obvious, she needs some time away from regulars like you?

You know she's ok, yet are seeking something else? It's obvious to everyone but you that if she wanted to come back, she would.

 

[RainyDayGuy]

 

[Fay_Galore]

I know from experience it is not a nice thing someone disappearing on you. You could argue she's a camgirl and that is different from 'normal' friendships, but the fact of the matter is that even if there's a financial aspect it often ís a type of friendship, I bet all models have a few regs they consider friends. and the other way around too, members seeing models as friends.
so, there's nothing wrong with trying to find out what happened to your friend when she disappears. and isnt he 'allowed' a general enquiry on the protocol of MFC?

seriously, I hope she's well and eventually will let you know that she's good. but there's not a whole lot to do besides wait it out, you're always welcome to just hang out in others girls' rooms until then


(I for one could not take that, one of my friends disappeared for a year! nobody knew where he was! one day he came back and pretended like nothing happened, I was so furious I pushed him off his bike. ha! we're good now though )

 

[Bocefish]

i thought these forums were created for certain circumstances
like mine, to help people get a better understanding of how things may work.

 

[Bocefish]

the fact of the matter is that even if there's a financial aspect it often ís a type of friendship

 

[Fay_Galore]

you know you're only quoting right?

 

[Bocefish]

:shhh:

 

[IsabellaSnow]

I wouldn't say stalkerish, I mean for all we know he could be a stalker, but I didn't get any of those vibes from him and I don't see any need to accuse him of it. My advice was just to be wary of going down that road and try not to invest too many emotions into worrying about models. I know it's hard, and I myself worry about regulars and what's going on in their lives. I've had several times where a regular has suddenly dropped off the face of the earth and have been worried. I think by all means be a bit worried if a model totally drops off the face of the earth with no explanation, but in this case the model has been online and I'm assuming some form of contact has been made, whether by pm, mfc mail or twitter I don't know, to say that she's been suspended for a certain amount of days. When I can see a member has been active online I don't worry as I know they're ok, even if they aren't visiting me.

Often models will get attached to certain regulars, but as harsh as it sounds, the majority of the room the model doesn't give two fucks about. I can only really speak for myself, but though I care about entertaining a room, I am only really bothered by the guys who tip me a decent amount and are guys I get on with and will chat to in pm. There are a few drifters who I enjoy the company of, but it can annoy me when guys who barely tip me send me messages about me getting on cam and asking how I am etc. Not all models are as social and interactive with their regulars as I am, so this model could just not like responding to messages, or... as much as you like her, she may not think of you as a prominent figure in her camming world. In that case then she'd probably not see it as a big priority responding to messages or contacting you.

This is all just speculation though, all I know is it's clearly bothering you enough to find this forum, and from how it sounds your model friend hasn't been offline for that long, maybe a few weeks? It also sounds like you're more concerned by the fact that you haven't seen her on cam and are missing the interaction than about her being physically ok, but I could be wrong there.

Sometimes it's very easy to assume that feelings are mutual. Both models and members are guilty of this. Members often believe a model likes them just as much as they like them. Models often believe a member cares about them in the same way they do. In reality models usually feel only friendship feelings towards members while members are often there for more sexual reasons, and members often see the model as a big deal in their world, someone they consider a friend as from a members side you're hanging out and interacting with a real person, while the model simply sees words on a screen.

 

[AmberCutie]

I read this as "A model I like and tip got suspended. Will she get the money and come back to mfc?". How is that stalky? I love slamming a dope, but I don't get why this guy's getting advised like he's fallen in love or hiding in the shadows.

I'm going to assume Boce drank too much and decided this thread was a fun outlet for his drunken-retartedness.

 

[Alexandra Cole]

It worries me when any trace of personal attachment is treated like a felony.

 

[Canadian1991]

Thank you isabella.
im aware that what i may feel for her is in no way reciprocated
i actually have told her things of how i felt to just give her a better understanding of me.
and she responded very well to me explaining that i was only seen as a friend and a regular
also someone she appreciated. that is all that i could ask for. i would never expect
a girl i never really met and don't know completely to like me in some way more then just a friend.

yes i am sad that i have not seen her on cam in awhile because i do very much miss
not talking with her, but i feel more concerned if that she is ok. although ill just let
time go by, and hope to see her soon. i need to accept it.

i really don't understand why the reason for calling me a stalker was even brought up by the one dude
to me this was just a legitimate question. but i suppose he is entitled to his opinion.
but suggest you to contact the admin or moderator if you find my post to be in some way
inappropriate. i don't see any reason why to just throw words around.

for what it is worth i am a caring person. who unfortunately feels human emotions.
i have no control of the way i may feel for a person. if i came across as creepy to anyone
i am very sorry. i just needed some help to allow me to feel at ease. and thankfully
a lot of you were very kind and in fact allowed me to feel much better.
for that i thank you so very much.

she is special to me in the way she makes me feel, i am always happy to see her.
that is my only reason in being so concerned.
ill just deal with it, and let the time go.

im sorry if my actually emotions came out in this thread. i did not expect it to get like it has.
much appreciated to all the kind words and advice. and for taking the time to help.
btw Alexandra Cole i could not agree more, thank you for your kindness.

 

[mynameisbob84]

yes Bob that would be obvious, i am asking for my own reasons

My bad. I read this as another in a long line of "hey, I'm enquiring about x on behalf of model y" posts. They irk me because I can never figure out why the member is trying to find out things that the model would be able to find out herself much more easily. But it seems like that's not what this is, so... my bad

 

[Canadian1991]

Bob that is perfectly fine dude. i kinda figured you miss read or misinterpreted my post.
no harm done, thank you for even taking the time to reply.

 

[JoleneBrody]

Does your model friend have any forms of social media related to her camming persona? Like Twitter or Tumblr?