Advice from models to members

[theone]

I would like some advise from the models on here as far as private shows go. When a guy is in private show with you, what is a good way to end the show? I would feel like a jerk just say hey thanks and leaving but I don't want to burn up all my tokens visiting afterwards.

Ok so a little teasing and a bit of chit chat in private is hot. There is however a point where we want you naked. What is a polite way to let you know we are ready to take the show to the next level without being rude, crude or offensive?

Also, what is the perception of the member who frequent the webcam sites? Do the models group us all into the stereotypical view of us? We're not all overweight nerds in the basement of our parents house too terrified of the real world to go out and mingle with other people. We all have different reasons for being there. Personally, I am in a situation where due to taking over my dad's business and tying to learn on my own all the things he tried to teach me over the years, I am just not a good candidate for a relationship right now. It wouldn't be fare to start dating someone knowing full well I didn't have the time or energy to put into a relationship what it deserves. So for now I choose to be single. But as time speeds by I get horny. Lonely too but I'm a guy, we get horny way before anything else. Porn movies just weren't doing it for me. Way to passive. The live webcams offer me a much more rewarding experience. I get the satisfaction I crave physically while also having some interaction with a real live girl. Someone asked me once why I pay for live webcams when there is so much free porn out there. My answer is, dude, there is nothing hotter than having your porn talk to you.

Wow I"ll shut up for now. Looks like I have a couple of questions in my ramblings.

 

[AllisonWilder]

I would like some advise from the models on here as far as private shows go. When a guy is in private show with you, what is a good way to end the show? I would feel like a jerk just say hey thanks and leaving but I don't want to burn up all my tokens visiting afterwards.

A quick "Thanks, that was awesome! I'll see you soon." is a great way to end the show.

As to perceptions, every model and member is different, but the only people I picture as lazy slobs in their parents basements are scammers and people that have been basic members for like, 4 years.

 

[IsabellaSnow]

It's funny, almost all members seem to get really worried that models will have this image of them being some basement dweller. I think it's because members have this image in mind about other members. As a model I can honestly say I don't give a fuck if you are living in your mothers basement or never go out or have many friends, I don't care if you're ugly or fat or look like Brad Pitt. Doesn't make one tiny ounce of difference to me. The only thing I care about is how you speak to me, how you treat me, I care about your personality but only when it comes to interacting with me, I don't care what other people think of you, most of all I care about how much you tip me and how much you ask for in return of your tokens and whether you cause me stress or cause me to smile every time we chat. You can be the biggest, fattest, spottiest, greasiest, smelliest, ugliest loser on the planet and I really don't give a fuck either way. So long as you treat me well it's ok! I also have images in mind of members dependant on their personality. If they're a shiningly lovely person towards me then I imagine them as a superstar, if they're some slimy git then I see them as some form of troll. I don't care about physical appearance. On camsites it's what's within that counts.

As for private shows: Most good models will be able to get a sense of what you want. I try and find out roughly how many tokens someone wants to spend before to avoid this situation. If I know I have 1000 tokens to work with then unless asked otherwise I might prolong the tease part of the show, maybe use a few different toys, work up to it. I tend to keep the show going until around when they have to leave, but if I know they're the chatty type and they seem ready to cum then I'll finish with them and have a bit of downtime chat afterwards until their tokens run out.

I'd buy tokens specifically for the show if they're showing. If you walk into a private with 3000 tokens showing the model is going to get excited and think you're in for a long show. I've had many long shows in my time as a camgirl so it's really not a ridiculous thing for me to expect when I can see they're showing. So don't have loads of tokens showing when you're only going to take the girl for a 500-600 token private. It's rude. I mean members can do whatever they want with their tokens, but it's still bad manners.

I'd then ask the model how long she wants one for, say "I have x amount of tokens to spend". If she accepts she knows what she's getting and should be able to wrap the show up in that time. She'll know you're leaving.

What would be rude is to start a private and then when she's still doing the show you see what you want to see or cum quickly and then go "thanks, bye!" while she's still doing her thing. That's really rude. Let the girl know you're close/want to wrap it up, give her the opportunity to finish.

I'm not a mind reader, the last thing I want in a private is to orgasm quicker than the guy paying for it and then have to tone down the show when it should be at its hottest. I tend to keep myself close to orgasm and wait until the guy is ready to finish, but for that I need some communication.

With the girls stripping slowly, talk to them before the private, make it clear you're excited about seeing the action. Some guys love the tease, the tease is part of the show. If you're less fussed about it then show her that. Sometimes guys can be too nice in privates. Feeling like they can't ask me to do things, as there are guys who do just like the chat/tease it's sometimes hard for me to know whether they actually want to see me get down and dirty or not. Again, I'm not a mind reader. I'm a camgirl and I'm perfectly happy with getting naughty for a guy in private, but in privates I do what the guy wants me to do. I don't want to rip him off, I don't want to get carried away in a show if he just wants to chat or vice versa.

Best ways to deal with privates I'd say, communicate beforehand, let the girl know exactly how much you want/have to spend. If you don't want to spend all your tokens personally I'd hide them, if you've communicated beforehand that you have those tokens and will spend them that shouldn't be a problem. If you just have those tokens then keep them showing.

Once in the private if you want her to get down to the show part then try not to start casual chat. If a member starts asking me "How are you then?" "been having a good day?" it implies he wants to talk, I don't want to ignore him by stripping down, and having a mundane chat kind of ruins the sexy of a striptease. I'm happy with chat and will still strip during, but it implies he's not strapped for time or that eager to get down to the explicit stuff.

This is a time where you can write incoherent things that are usually found annoying in the public chat. Here you can write "mmmmmmmmm so hot" "oohhhhh yeahhhh" "so beautiful" "yeah take that off", "can't wait to see you naked" is a good one, if you say something like "love the slow strip" chances are she may slow down. I try and strip sensually while not dithering around when in private, sometimes I'll take longer depending on my mood, remember if a model's been sat there not being remotely sexy she may need a few minutes to get herself in the zone and get herself wet. You are paying for a service, but if you want the real thing then most models aren't just "wet and ready" 24/7. We may be camgirls, but we're also women. How many women that you've just spoken to are immediately ready for sex? Even if they're horny and want sex it usually takes several minutes if not more to get them physically ready for it. Some models can get themselves in the zone sooner or are better at faking it, some models do take longer, hence why a short discussion beforehand is a good idea.
"Show me your pussy" 10 seconds into a private isn't ok. Reason being, the only dudes who've ever asked me this just want a really cheap flash (that the can re-watch) and will drop out soon as I've shown it.

When she's playing give her encouragement, even if it's incoherent typing, it's good for her to know that what she's doing is turning you on. Once you've both finished, you can say "tokens are about to run out in a sec but that was incredible!", or "that was amazing but I've gotta head out now! Thank you so much!" She'll say bye and then you leave. After saying goodbye to each other don't hang about, that's just awkward. She's not going to close it, it's up to you. If you have a few tokens left over tip them to her out of the private with a tip note being all like "that was so incredible! Definitely recommend to everyone else!"

 

[CharlotteLace]

Also, what is the perception of the member who frequent the webcam sites? Do the models group us all into the stereotypical view of us?

There's thousands of camgirls just on MFC, so obviously we don't have some weird unified view of members. The only thing I assume about my regulars is that they're looking for company, either sexy virtual company or a good conversation with a friend. That's the beauty of camming interactions- we're all individuals and all our camming relationships will differ. I love seeing my regulars consistently in my room (even if they're just chatting and hanging out), because I genuinely consider them friends I'm happy to interact with.

Also, in privates, even if you're busy jacking it, a couple words now and then are helpful so we know you like what you're seeing. Mention when you're close, and afterwards, a quick "that was great! thanks!" will suffice.

 

[Camgirl]

It's funny, almost all members seem to get really worried that models will have this image of them being some basement dweller. I think it's because members have this image in mind about other members. As a model I can honestly say I don't give a fuck if you are living in your mothers basement or never go out or have many friends, I don't care if you're ugly or fat or look like Brad Pitt. Doesn't make one tiny ounce of difference to me. The only thing I care about is how you speak to me, how you treat me, I care about your personality but only when it comes to interacting with me, I don't care what other people think of you, most of all I care about how much you tip me and how much you ask for in return of your tokens and whether you cause me stress or cause me to smile every time we chat. You can be the biggest, fattest, spottiest, greasiest, smelliest, ugliest loser on the planet and I really don't give a fuck either way. So long as you treat me well it's ok! I also have images in mind of members dependant on their personality. If they're a shiningly lovely person towards me then I imagine them as a superstar, if they're some slimy git then I see them as some form of troll. I don't care about physical appearance. On camsites it's what's within that counts.

As for private shows: Most good models will be able to get a sense of what you want. I try and find out roughly how many tokens someone wants to spend before to avoid this situation. If I know I have 1000 tokens to work with then unless asked otherwise I might prolong the tease part of the show, maybe use a few different toys, work up to it. I tend to keep the show going until around when they have to leave, but if I know they're the chatty type and they seem ready to cum then I'll finish with them and have a bit of downtime chat afterwards until their tokens run out.

I'd buy tokens specifically for the show if they're showing. If you walk into a private with 3000 tokens showing the model is going to get excited and think you're in for a long show. I've had many long shows in my time as a camgirl so it's really not a ridiculous thing for me to expect when I can see they're showing. So don't have loads of tokens showing when you're only going to take the girl for a 500-600 token private. It's rude. I mean members can do whatever they want with their tokens, but it's still bad manners.

I'd then ask the model how long she wants one for, say "I have x amount of tokens to spend". If she accepts she knows what she's getting and should be able to wrap the show up in that time. She'll know you're leaving.

What would be rude is to start a private and then when she's still doing the show you see what you want to see or cum quickly and then go "thanks, bye!" while she's still doing her thing. That's really rude. Let the girl know you're close/want to wrap it up, give her the opportunity to finish.

I'm not a mind reader, the last thing I want in a private is to orgasm quicker than the guy paying for it and then have to tone down the show when it should be at its hottest. I tend to keep myself close to orgasm and wait until the guy is ready to finish, but for that I need some communication.

With the girls stripping slowly, talk to them before the private, make it clear you're excited about seeing the action. Some guys love the tease, the tease is part of the show. If you're less fussed about it then show her that. Sometimes guys can be too nice in privates. Feeling like they can't ask me to do things, as there are guys who do just like the chat/tease it's sometimes hard for me to know whether they actually want to see me get down and dirty or not. Again, I'm not a mind reader. I'm a camgirl and I'm perfectly happy with getting naughty for a guy in private, but in privates I do what the guy wants me to do. I don't want to rip him off, I don't want to get carried away in a show if he just wants to chat or vice versa.

Best ways to deal with privates I'd say, communicate beforehand, let the girl know exactly how much you want/have to spend. If you don't want to spend all your tokens personally I'd hide them, if you've communicated beforehand that you have those tokens and will spend them that shouldn't be a problem. If you just have those tokens then keep them showing.

Once in the private if you want her to get down to the show part then try not to start casual chat. If a member starts asking me "How are you then?" "been having a good day?" it implies he wants to talk, I don't want to ignore him by stripping down, and having a mundane chat kind of ruins the sexy of a striptease. I'm happy with chat and will still strip during, but it implies he's not strapped for time or that eager to get down to the explicit stuff.

This is a time where you can write incoherent things that are usually found annoying in the public chat. Here you can write "mmmmmmmmm so hot" "oohhhhh yeahhhh" "so beautiful" "yeah take that off", "can't wait to see you naked" is a good one, if you say something like "love the slow strip" chances are she may slow down. I try and strip sensually while not dithering around when in private, sometimes I'll take longer depending on my mood, remember if a model's been sat there not being remotely sexy she may need a few minutes to get herself in the zone and get herself wet. You are paying for a service, but if you want the real thing then most models aren't just "wet and ready" 24/7. We may be camgirls, but we're also women. How many women that you've just spoken to are immediately ready for sex? Even if they're horny and want sex it usually takes several minutes if not more to get them physically ready for it. Some models can get themselves in the zone sooner or are better at faking it, some models do take longer, hence why a short discussion beforehand is a good idea.
"Show me your pussy" 10 seconds into a private isn't ok. Reason being, the only dudes who've ever asked me this just want a really cheap flash (that the can re-watch) and will drop out soon as I've shown it.

When she's playing give her encouragement, even if it's incoherent typing, it's good for her to know that what she's doing is turning you on. Once you've both finished, you can say "tokens are about to run out in a sec but that was incredible!", or "that was amazing but I've gotta head out now! Thank you so much!" She'll say bye and then you leave. After saying goodbye to each other don't hang about, that's just awkward. She's not going to close it, it's up to you. If you have a few tokens left over tip them to her out of the private with a tip note being all like "that was so incredible! Definitely recommend to everyone else!"

Excellent post!

We are not mind readers so the member has to communicate what they want with us! There have been MANY times I have moved too fast for a member and he would say "no not yet, tease more", etc. so now I try to ask questions and hope that the member will also voice what it is what he wants. We are camgirls. We are not going to get offended from you expressing what you want out of a show.

 

[PunkInDrublic]

If the model is giving you the "Is this sexy? I don't know if this is sexy Please tell me this is sexy" look, let her know you're enjoying what she's doing.

 

[Shaun__]

When a guy is in private show with you, what is a good way to end the show? I would feel like a jerk just say hey thanks and leaving but I don't want to burn up all my tokens visiting afterwards.

You should consider chit chatting after your privates, it can be fun if you are friends with the model. They are all glowy, happy, and have such a contented relaxed look on their face.

 

[LilianaXO]

It's funny, almost all members seem to get really worried that models will have this image of them being some basement dweller. I think it's because members have this image in mind about other members. As a model I can honestly say I don't give a fuck if you are living in your mothers basement or never go out or have many friends, I don't care if you're ugly or fat or look like Brad Pitt. Doesn't make one tiny ounce of difference to me. The only thing I care about is how you speak to me, how you treat me, I care about your personality but only when it comes to interacting with me, I don't care what other people think of you, most of all I care about how much you tip me and how much you ask for in return of your tokens and whether you cause me stress or cause me to smile every time we chat. You can be the biggest, fattest, spottiest, greasiest, smelliest, ugliest loser on the planet and I really don't give a fuck either way. So long as you treat me well it's ok! I also have images in mind of members dependant on their personality. If they're a shiningly lovely person towards me then I imagine them as a superstar, if they're some slimy git then I see them as some form of troll. I don't care about physical appearance. On camsites it's what's within that counts.

As for private shows: Most good models will be able to get a sense of what you want. I try and find out roughly how many tokens someone wants to spend before to avoid this situation. If I know I have 1000 tokens to work with then unless asked otherwise I might prolong the tease part of the show, maybe use a few different toys, work up to it. I tend to keep the show going until around when they have to leave, but if I know they're the chatty type and they seem ready to cum then I'll finish with them and have a bit of downtime chat afterwards until their tokens run out.

I'd buy tokens specifically for the show if they're showing. If you walk into a private with 3000 tokens showing the model is going to get excited and think you're in for a long show. I've had many long shows in my time as a camgirl so it's really not a ridiculous thing for me to expect when I can see they're showing. So don't have loads of tokens showing when you're only going to take the girl for a 500-600 token private. It's rude. I mean members can do whatever they want with their tokens, but it's still bad manners.

I'd then ask the model how long she wants one for, say "I have x amount of tokens to spend". If she accepts she knows what she's getting and should be able to wrap the show up in that time. She'll know you're leaving.

What would be rude is to start a private and then when she's still doing the show you see what you want to see or cum quickly and then go "thanks, bye!" while she's still doing her thing. That's really rude. Let the girl know you're close/want to wrap it up, give her the opportunity to finish.

I'm not a mind reader, the last thing I want in a private is to orgasm quicker than the guy paying for it and then have to tone down the show when it should be at its hottest. I tend to keep myself close to orgasm and wait until the guy is ready to finish, but for that I need some communication.

With the girls stripping slowly, talk to them before the private, make it clear you're excited about seeing the action. Some guys love the tease, the tease is part of the show. If you're less fussed about it then show her that. Sometimes guys can be too nice in privates. Feeling like they can't ask me to do things, as there are guys who do just like the chat/tease it's sometimes hard for me to know whether they actually want to see me get down and dirty or not. Again, I'm not a mind reader. I'm a camgirl and I'm perfectly happy with getting naughty for a guy in private, but in privates I do what the guy wants me to do. I don't want to rip him off, I don't want to get carried away in a show if he just wants to chat or vice versa.

Best ways to deal with privates I'd say, communicate beforehand, let the girl know exactly how much you want/have to spend. If you don't want to spend all your tokens personally I'd hide them, if you've communicated beforehand that you have those tokens and will spend them that shouldn't be a problem. If you just have those tokens then keep them showing.

Once in the private if you want her to get down to the show part then try not to start casual chat. If a member starts asking me "How are you then?" "been having a good day?" it implies he wants to talk, I don't want to ignore him by stripping down, and having a mundane chat kind of ruins the sexy of a striptease. I'm happy with chat and will still strip during, but it implies he's not strapped for time or that eager to get down to the explicit stuff.

This is a time where you can write incoherent things that are usually found annoying in the public chat. Here you can write "mmmmmmmmm so hot" "oohhhhh yeahhhh" "so beautiful" "yeah take that off", "can't wait to see you naked" is a good one, if you say something like "love the slow strip" chances are she may slow down. I try and strip sensually while not dithering around when in private, sometimes I'll take longer depending on my mood, remember if a model's been sat there not being remotely sexy she may need a few minutes to get herself in the zone and get herself wet. You are paying for a service, but if you want the real thing then most models aren't just "wet and ready" 24/7. We may be camgirls, but we're also women. How many women that you've just spoken to are immediately ready for sex? Even if they're horny and want sex it usually takes several minutes if not more to get them physically ready for it. Some models can get themselves in the zone sooner or are better at faking it, some models do take longer, hence why a short discussion beforehand is a good idea.
"Show me your pussy" 10 seconds into a private isn't ok. Reason being, the only dudes who've ever asked me this just want a really cheap flash (that the can re-watch) and will drop out soon as I've shown it.

When she's playing give her encouragement, even if it's incoherent typing, it's good for her to know that what she's doing is turning you on. Once you've both finished, you can say "tokens are about to run out in a sec but that was incredible!", or "that was amazing but I've gotta head out now! Thank you so much!" She'll say bye and then you leave. After saying goodbye to each other don't hang about, that's just awkward. She's not going to close it, it's up to you. If you have a few tokens left over tip them to her out of the private with a tip note being all like "that was so incredible! Definitely recommend to everyone else!"

Excellent post!

We are not mind readers so the member has to communicate what they want with us! There have been MANY times I have moved too fast for a member and he would say "no not yet, tease more", etc. so now I try to ask questions and hope that the member will also voice what it is what he wants. We are camgirls. We are not going to get offended from you expressing what you want out of a show.

Is it okay that I copy this and send it to people when they inquire about privates? This is a golden post, Isabella!

 

[TheProfessor]

It's funny, almost all members seem to get really worried that models will have this image of them being some basement dweller. I think it's because members have this image in mind about other members. As a model I can honestly say I don't give a fuck if you are living in your mothers basement or never go out or have many friends, I don't care if you're ugly or fat or look like Brad Pitt. Doesn't make one tiny ounce of difference to me. The only thing I care about is how you speak to me, how you treat me, I care about your personality but only when it comes to interacting with me, I don't care what other people think of you, most of all I care about how much you tip me and how much you ask for in return of your tokens and whether you cause me stress or cause me to smile every time we chat. You can be the biggest, fattest, spottiest, greasiest, smelliest, ugliest loser on the planet and I really don't give a fuck either way. So long as you treat me well it's ok! I also have images in mind of members dependant on their personality. If they're a shiningly lovely person towards me then I imagine them as a superstar, if they're some slimy git then I see them as some form of troll. I don't care about physical appearance. On camsites it's what's within that counts.

As for private shows: Most good models will be able to get a sense of what you want. I try and find out roughly how many tokens someone wants to spend before to avoid this situation. If I know I have 1000 tokens to work with then unless asked otherwise I might prolong the tease part of the show, maybe use a few different toys, work up to it. I tend to keep the show going until around when they have to leave, but if I know they're the chatty type and they seem ready to cum then I'll finish with them and have a bit of downtime chat afterwards until their tokens run out.

I'd buy tokens specifically for the show if they're showing. If you walk into a private with 3000 tokens showing the model is going to get excited and think you're in for a long show. I've had many long shows in my time as a camgirl so it's really not a ridiculous thing for me to expect when I can see they're showing. So don't have loads of tokens showing when you're only going to take the girl for a 500-600 token private. It's rude. I mean members can do whatever they want with their tokens, but it's still bad manners.

I'd then ask the model how long she wants one for, say "I have x amount of tokens to spend". If she accepts she knows what she's getting and should be able to wrap the show up in that time. She'll know you're leaving.

What would be rude is to start a private and then when she's still doing the show you see what you want to see or cum quickly and then go "thanks, bye!" while she's still doing her thing. That's really rude. Let the girl know you're close/want to wrap it up, give her the opportunity to finish.

I'm not a mind reader, the last thing I want in a private is to orgasm quicker than the guy paying for it and then have to tone down the show when it should be at its hottest. I tend to keep myself close to orgasm and wait until the guy is ready to finish, but for that I need some communication.

With the girls stripping slowly, talk to them before the private, make it clear you're excited about seeing the action. Some guys love the tease, the tease is part of the show. If you're less fussed about it then show her that. Sometimes guys can be too nice in privates. Feeling like they can't ask me to do things, as there are guys who do just like the chat/tease it's sometimes hard for me to know whether they actually want to see me get down and dirty or not. Again, I'm not a mind reader. I'm a camgirl and I'm perfectly happy with getting naughty for a guy in private, but in privates I do what the guy wants me to do. I don't want to rip him off, I don't want to get carried away in a show if he just wants to chat or vice versa.

Best ways to deal with privates I'd say, communicate beforehand, let the girl know exactly how much you want/have to spend. If you don't want to spend all your tokens personally I'd hide them, if you've communicated beforehand that you have those tokens and will spend them that shouldn't be a problem. If you just have those tokens then keep them showing.

Once in the private if you want her to get down to the show part then try not to start casual chat. If a member starts asking me "How are you then?" "been having a good day?" it implies he wants to talk, I don't want to ignore him by stripping down, and having a mundane chat kind of ruins the sexy of a striptease. I'm happy with chat and will still strip during, but it implies he's not strapped for time or that eager to get down to the explicit stuff.

This is a time where you can write incoherent things that are usually found annoying in the public chat. Here you can write "mmmmmmmmm so hot" "oohhhhh yeahhhh" "so beautiful" "yeah take that off", "can't wait to see you naked" is a good one, if you say something like "love the slow strip" chances are she may slow down. I try and strip sensually while not dithering around when in private, sometimes I'll take longer depending on my mood, remember if a model's been sat there not being remotely sexy she may need a few minutes to get herself in the zone and get herself wet. You are paying for a service, but if you want the real thing then most models aren't just "wet and ready" 24/7. We may be camgirls, but we're also women. How many women that you've just spoken to are immediately ready for sex? Even if they're horny and want sex it usually takes several minutes if not more to get them physically ready for it. Some models can get themselves in the zone sooner or are better at faking it, some models do take longer, hence why a short discussion beforehand is a good idea.
"Show me your pussy" 10 seconds into a private isn't ok. Reason being, the only dudes who've ever asked me this just want a really cheap flash (that the can re-watch) and will drop out soon as I've shown it.

When she's playing give her encouragement, even if it's incoherent typing, it's good for her to know that what she's doing is turning you on. Once you've both finished, you can say "tokens are about to run out in a sec but that was incredible!", or "that was amazing but I've gotta head out now! Thank you so much!" She'll say bye and then you leave. After saying goodbye to each other don't hang about, that's just awkward. She's not going to close it, it's up to you. If you have a few tokens left over tip them to her out of the private with a tip note being all like "that was so incredible! Definitely recommend to everyone else!"

Excellent post!

We are not mind readers so the member has to communicate what they want with us! There have been MANY times I have moved too fast for a member and he would say "no not yet, tease more", etc. so now I try to ask questions and hope that the member will also voice what it is what he wants. We are camgirls. We are not going to get offended from you expressing what you want out of a show.

Is it okay that I copy this and send it to people when they inquire about privates? This is a golden post, Isabella!

As a member, I'd be :shock: if I got that giant terms of agreement in response to a question about privates :-D

 

[Albert_1]

I don't do a lot of privates and the ones I have done were always with models I regular with but I find it helps to plan it out with her ahead of time. Tell her what you're looking for and how much you plan to spend before you go in. :twocents-02cents: