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IF you're "worthy" and "deserving", you might be in with a shot at banging this "gentleman"!

http://jezebel.com/insanely-detailed-craigslist-personal-ad-has-a-28-quest-1212317513

Frequently Asked Questions (FAQs) & Comments. . .

1) Question: If you are such an amazing guy then why are you still searching or single?

Answer: Good question. Did you read my headline? It says, looking for a "Worthy and Deserving" girl. By this, I mean, "mature," "intelligent," "responsible," "grateful," etc. That's like finding a needle in a haystack. Basically, I'm looking for "quality" over "quantity" so that takes longer to find.

2) Question: Most guys say they are great or a gentleman. How do I know that's really you?

Answer: Good question. I also find that most girls tell me they are a "Good Girl" too or "Worthy and Deserving" but often that's not the case either. Thus, the best and ONLY way to really know if the guy or girl is "great," is by spending a lot of time with them and getting to know them by dating and having conversations, etc. Otherwise, you will never know for sure. This works both ways for men and women. The man has to "test" the woman and vice-versa.

3) Question: Do you really think online dating is a good or serious place to find what you are looking for? Do you really take this serious? Afterall, this is Craigslist.

Answer: What do you have to lose by trying? You never know for certain unless you try. Right? If you have a negative expectation, the results will be the same. Thus, I look at "online" places like Craig's List as another place with "potential" and "possibilities" instead of looking at it from a negative or pessimistic perspective.

4) Question: I'm not in California. I currently live in Dallas, Texas. Is that OK?

Answer: No. If you live "outside" of Southern California it will be very difficult or impossible for a real friendship or relationship requiring an "airplane" for traveling and meeting.

5) Question: We are in different counties, towns or cities. Is that OK?

Answer: Yes. As long as we are both in "Southern" CA. it's not a major problem UNLESS you are unwilling or unable to "drive" —OR- use public transportation including the bus or train. I will drive to you but you must also be able or willing to travel to me and to some equal extent. I may ask you to drive or travel to me on the first meeting to "test" if you are serious. The focus and priority is on the "person" not their distance. If you allow "distance" to distract your attention from the main focus (the two people) or use "distance" as your excuse then DO NOT contact me because you have your priorities and focus out of line. (P.S. I am in the Antelope Valley - Lancaster & Palmdale Area - which is in LA COUNTY). Check the map if you are unfamiliar.

6) Question ("Comment"): I don't want to do any traveling. I want to find someone close to me or in the same city.

Answer: And I wish we lived in a "perfect" world and everything was across the street from my house or within walking distance so none of us would need cars, trains or airplanes. Unfortunately, we don't live in a perfect or ideal world. This world is full of "challenges" for everyone. Relationships (especially "successful" ones) require enormous time, energy and effort from both man and woman. Relationships are like a full time "JOB." It's NOT "EASY." If you are not able or willing to commit to the challenges of the "job" then you are not ready for the "job." It's that simple. (P.S. If everyone could find someone close to them or across the street, then none of us would need to be looking online for someone. Right? Get it?).

7) Question: What exactly are you looking for?

Answer: A romantic (intimate) relationship and long-term (on-going) girlfriend. This also includes the "possibility" of marriage. Thus, if this is not what you are looking for then you SHOULD NOT contact me. (P.S. I am NOT looking for a Facebook, email, telephone, texting or platonic friend. I am NOT looking for patients or customers either. So don't contact me for anything besides what is described above).

8) Question:I'm a lesbian. I do not date men. Are you cool with meeting someone that wants to be "just friends"?

Answer: See answer #7 above. I am NOT looking for "just friends." You are in the wrong section. This is the romance section called "Men Seeking Women." You should be looking under "STRICTLY PLATONIC."

9) Question: I'm only 18 or 20. Don't you think you are too old for me?

Answer: DEPENDS on your level of "MATURITY," mental growth, intelligence and overall cognitive understanding. If you are MATURE for your age it shouldn't be a problem unless you are still playing with barbie dolls, teddy bears, video games, etc. I'm in my 30's (Between 30-39). I won't tell you my exact age until we meet so don't ask beforehand.Generally speaking the MAN should be OLDER than the woman because females mature or age faster than males (both physically and mentally). This is a scientific fact. For example, females reach puberty on average at age 9 or 10. Males don't reach puberty until 14 or 15 on average. Another reason why bigger or older age gaps work better is because older men have more resources, maturity, education, life experiences, etc., to provide, treat or care for a woman properly.Generally, men under age 40 are still considered "young" while women under 30 are considered "young." Age has a different meaning and consequence for men and women.

10) Question ("Comment"): You sound or seem rude, aggressive, controlling or cocky. Just like my asshole ex-boyfriend or husband.

Answer: And you sound ignorant just like my XXXXX ex-girlfriend. It's ignorant and ridiculous to judge someone so quickly without ever talking to them, meeting them and not even spending 10 minutes with them. Trust me, I am not like your ex-boyfriend or husband. I'm much better. Don't be quick to judge someone (especially negatively) until you really get to know them which takes time.

11) Question: Are you at least 6 foot tall? Do you have any tattoos or piercings?

Answer: NO. And if this is your first focus or priority don't contact me. Instead, you need to FIRST "educate" yourself about the keys to success and happiness in relationships. These are not based on how many tattoos or inches on a ruler.

12) Question: OK, so now what? I emailed you and never got a response back. Will I be sure I will get a response back?

Answer: The ONLY reason(s) you didn't get a response is/are, (1) You did not include ALL "6" items requested, or (2) Your message was rude, disrespectful or sarcastic in some way, or (3) I never got your email. Simply re-send and wait for a response within 24-hours.

13) Question: I am super cute and have a great body. Are you good enough for me?

Answer: Tell me something about yourself that I or other men cannot $$ PURCHASE $$ for a few dollars off the street and you will have my attention. Being cute or attractive is no doubt appealing but NOT sufficient. Sadly and more humorous, most girls think just being "cute" or "pretty" will get them far or that's all they need to be successful with men. Sorry, this is not the case especially with smarter and more intelligent men with resources. We know better and not easily fooled by just a "pretty" girl. You need more than "pretty" ladies, especially if you want something real, serious or long-term with a man.

14) Question: I have tattoos and piercings and sometimes I like to dye my hair different colors. Is that OK with you?

Answer: It's OK. I am more concerned about how you talk and behave with me and if you respect and appreciate a good man. That is the starting point and not how many tattoos you have UNLESS most or entire body is covered in tattoos or piercings or you got them when you were in prison. If so, we need to talk about it some more.

15) Question: Do you drink alcohol like beer or liquor? Do you smoke or do any type of drugs? Do you mind if I do?

Answer: NO and I don't mind if "you" do but this also depends on "your" frequency, type and reason for use or consumption.

16) Question: I like to be "spoiled" and I want to know how much you are going to spend on me. How much?

Answer: You sound like a gold-digger or prostitute. My headline says "Gentleman" or "Professional" it doesn't say $ATM$ Machine. If you are looking for an ATM Machine to finance and "spoil" yourself look somewhere else. You have to appreciate the company of a "gentleman" and at the same time appreciate any amount he spends on you, if any. He has no obligation to spend a dollar on you BUT he MAY depending on what he thinks you are worthy and deserving of (not what you think) and how well you reciprocate and show appreciation for it. If you are focused on his money instead of him or if you are a gold-digger, escort or prostitute don't bother. (P.S. I don't need to be online to find a XXXXX. Many of them walk the streets a few blocks from my house everyday and are easily accessible. Get it?)

17) Question ("Comment"): Sorry, I passed out in bed and wasn't able to call or text you back. Now I am in bed sick, I have a sore throat. My phone battery died too.

Answer: I think I have heard you say that before or that you had to take your dog to the vet or something else. If you have a tendency to make "excuses" for a lot of things, then you probably aren't ready for any friendship or relationship for that manner. So that gives you a hint. If you are an "excuse-maker" don't contact me. It won't get you far with me.

18) Question: Do you have any children? Do you have a wife or ever been married?

Answer: NO.

19) Question: Hey I am looking for someone for my friend or sister and I thought your ad was cool. I want to introduce you to her. Is that OK?

Answer: That's good but I didn't hire you as my "match-finder." Thus, you can have your friend, sister or relative review this page and THEY can contact me directly as they wish. That works better. I am not really interested in talking to the "middle" person nor is that the best way to approach it.

20) Question: What type of music do you like? Do you like dogs? I need to know before I send you any information about myself.

Answer: NO other information about me besides what is already stated here until you supply the "6" items requested. Why? I don't want to spend a lot of time answering your questions UNTIL I know who you are and know you are serious. This will give me confidence that I'm not wasting a lot of time answering questions to a fake or phony person. As of right now, and if you have been reading this far, you know A LOT more about me than I know about you.

21) Question ("Comment"): I can only text or email you -OR- I can't talk much over the phone —OR- I will let you know in a few days when we can meet.

Answer: Seems like you aren't too serious and aren't looking for something real or serious either. If you are looking for a "texting" relationship or uncertain as to what exactly you want, then DO NOT contact me. If you have read this far, it should be clear to you what I am looking for.

22) Question ("Comment"): I am scared of "Internet" dating. I don't meet anyone from the Internet.

Answer: Then why are you on the "Internet" and searching here? You don't get into a car and start driving and then tell your passengers inside the car that you are afraid to drive. Either you are scared or not. Do yourself a favor. On the top right of your screen there is a "Log-Out" or "X" button. Close your screen and turn off your computer and hopefully your fear will go away soon.

23) Question ("Comment"): I am going to be evicted from my house and will be homeless soon. My parents are also going through a divorce and I have to go to Court next week.

Answer: Sounds like you have a lot of personal problems or distractions in your life at the moment. It's best to resolve whatever your personal tragedies or challenges are first and before you pursue a relationship with someone. DO NOT contact me if you are too distracted from personal matters in your life because you are not ready to be in a real/serious relationship.

24) Question ("Comment"): I have to work all this week and my school starts the week after. I am super busy and don't have time to meet or date for some time.

Answer: Similar to answer #23 above. It sounds like you don't have time for a "relationship" either which is like another "JOB." You have to be "available" and willing to set aside time to show up to the "JOB." You have to resolve whatever "outside" distractions or obstacles you have (i.e., other jobs, school, etc) so you can be available for at least 2-3 full days per week and at various times including weekends for dating, hanging out, etc. DO NOT contact me if you are too "busy" or "unavailable" because you are not ready to be in a real/serious relationship. You will not make any progress in that matter and in the area of relationships.

25) Question ("Comment"): I can't date or go out unless my parents give me permission —OR- I have to be home by 10 pm because my parents will get mad —OR- My sister is next to me right now so I can't talk on the phone.

Answer: If you are 18 or 30 years old (legal adult) and your parents or siblings still "control" your decisions, then please don't contact me. I am not looking to "babysit" anyone or let you make me feel I am with a child. You must be "free" from the decision or control of your parents, siblings or anyone else, otherwise this will interfere with the ability to focus on each other WITHOUT outside interference or distractions. This does not mean you shouldn't respect or listen to your parents or other family members or that I am unwilling to meet or talk with them. It means that you should be able to control your own decision making and not tell me "I need to get my mom or dad's permission. . ." or "I can't go out tonight because my parent's or sister won't let me. . ." and things of that sort.

26) Question ("Comment"): When you come pick me up, park down the street and not next to my house because I don't want my parents or anyone to see us —OR- I can't kiss you now because I don't want someone to see us or in the car together.

Answer: Similar to answer #25 above. It sounds like you are under the control of others and/or too immature, shy or embarrassed to be in a romantic relationships and/or concerned about "others" more than you are about "us." I am NOT looking for a "secret, discreet or immature" relationship but something "open," "romantic," "mature," "friendly" and "formal." Get it?

27) Question: Why can't you XXX?! —OR- I want to know why XXX!?.

Answer: Asking questions is fine but "arguing" is NOT attractive. You have a right to disagree BUT if your intention is to "argue," just do us both a favor and don't contact me at all. Men, in general, are TURNED-OFF by aggressive or argumentative woman BECAUSE it is characteristic of a traditional "masculine" person and NOT someone feminine. Have you heard of the "Bitch" stereotype? That's what I mean. When men date the opposite sex they don't want to feel they are with another man but with a female. If this is your style, please DO NOT contact me because we won't get along.

28) Question: I don't think I'm your type or will have any chance with you. Should I still contact you?

Answer: You are welcomed and encouraged to contact me UNLESS you are not serious, don't like or disagree with anything I have stated in this ad or profile.
 
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I can't stand his overuse of quotation marks.

Why does airplane or drive need to be in quotes?
 
AmberCutie said:
I can't stand his overuse of quotation marks.

Why does airplane or drive need to be in quotes?


"T"h"e"y" "d"o" "a"p"p"e"a"r" "t"o" "b"e" "o"v"e"r"u"s"e"d"." :think:
 
mynameisbob84 said:
IF you're "worthy" and "deserving", you might be in with a shot at banging this "gentleman"!

http://jezebel.com/insanely-detailed-craigslist-personal-ad-has-a-28-quest-1212317513
LOL I almost posted this myself


29.Do you know you're a fucking weirdo?

Answer: Good question. "No".
3) Question: Do you really think online dating is a good or serious place to find what you are looking for? Do you really take this serious? Afterall, this is Craigslist.

Answer: What do you have to lose by trying?
Dignity?
 
Jupiter551 said:
3) Question: Do you really think online dating is a good or serious place to find what you are looking for? Do you really take this serious? Afterall, this is Craigslist.

Answer: What do you have to lose by trying?
Dignity?

People do meet through personal ads placed in all kinds of media, and a lot of them end up in happy relationships. As much as a douche as this guy seems to be, I wouldn't be so arrogant as to say they collectively have any less dignity than someone who, oh, let's say, visits nude cam sites.
 
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Sevrin said:
Jupiter551 said:
3) Question: Do you really think online dating is a good or serious place to find what you are looking for? Do you really take this serious? Afterall, this is Craigslist.

Answer: What do you have to lose by trying?
Dignity?

People do meet through personal ads placed in all kinds of media, and a lot of them end up in happy relationships. As much as a douche as this guy seems to be, I wouldn't be so arrogant as to say they collectively have any less dignity than someone who, oh, let's say, visits nude cam sites.
I met my boyfriend of 3 years off of CollarMe, which is like Craigslist if it was 10 times more horrible and had ten times as many dick pics.

Still bang him sometimes. He's got a great wang.
 
Sevrin said:
Jupiter551 said:
3) Question: Do you really think online dating is a good or serious place to find what you are looking for? Do you really take this serious? Afterall, this is Craigslist.

Answer: What do you have to lose by trying?
Dignity?

People do meet through personal ads placed in all kinds of media, and a lot of them end up in happy relationships. As much as a douche as this guy seems to be, I wouldn't be so arrogant as to say they collectively have any less dignity than someone who, oh, let's say, visits nude cam sites.
That wasn't the point I was trying to make lol - dignity is what he has to lose by trying a 28 question personal ad.
 
At least anyone who might answer could confidently do so knowing exactly what to expect. Laying the crazy out all at once in the beginning is actually a pretty nice courtesy, I think.
 
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the MAN should be OLDER than the woman because females mature or age faster than males (both physically and mentally). This is a scientific fact. For example, females reach puberty on average at age 9 or 10. Males don't reach puberty until 14 or 15 on average

9/10? wtf?! I don't know any girl who reached puberty so young! I mean sure my boobs started to grow when I was around 10, but I was one of the first to start my period and I was 12 and a half! I also know very few guys who didn't reach puberty until they were 14/15. The gap is way less big than this. It's not like girls reach full puberty until they're 16-20 which is about the same age as men. Sure women are more mature than men, but this isn't actually to do with age, it's more to do with how women think and present themselves. Girls generally just act more mature and are more interested in sex at a younger age than men.

I also love that this guy said he'll ask for a woman's ID to prove her age, when me won't tell the woman how old he is, and of course he's telling everyone that because of what happens scientifically when children turn into teenagers that him wanting to date YOUNGER "women" is "ok", because it's what should happen. Scientific fact.
Generally, men under age 40 are still considered "young" while women under 30 are considered "young." Age has a different meaning and consequence for men and women.

No. Just no. Male life expectancy is about 70/75 depending on where you're from, women live older. A 35 year old man is not "young", he is middle aged. Scientific fact. A 35 year old man considering himself as young as a woman 10 years younger than him just because he is psychologically immature is "DELUSIONAL". Not scientific fact, my opinion. Seeing as women's life expectancy is longer, technically we reach being middle aged at an older age. Also women don't age faster than men, we actually age slower which is why elderly women function physically much better than elderly men. What is true though is that age suits men better than women. We don't mind how lines, scars and other imperfections look on men, whilst we prefer women to have smooth, flawless skin.

I love how this dude in his FAQ's is constantly saying how he won't tell anyone about himself until he hears all about the person, and how he's not wasting his time blah blah, whilst asking the people reading to read through his whole rant of FAQ's which give bugger all info out about himself, and he expects them to spend the time giving him info about them.

This comment on the article made me laugh:
"Huh. I was wondering why there seemed to be a shortage of quotation marks lately."

seriously.... those quotation marks.... does he not realise that using quotation marks in type when you're not actually quoting something implies that what your saying isn't true/is a joke/being sarcastic? Clearly not.... Or maybe he does.... because I would hope it's a joke....
Do you guys think the FAQ questions were made up or ones he genuinely got?
 
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Isabella_deL said:
the MAN should be OLDER than the woman because females mature or age faster than males (both physically and mentally). This is a scientific fact. For example, females reach puberty on average at age 9 or 10. Males don't reach puberty until 14 or 15 on average

9/10? wtf?! I don't know any girl who reached puberty so young!
I hit puberty at 8. My sister was 9. All of my aunts were between 8-9 when they started puberty. My mother was the oddball of the family and didn't hit puberty until 11. All of the girls I knew in school growing up seemed to hit puberty around 9 too.... Around here 8-10 is the average and common. For girls, we actually hit puberty a couple years before we get our first period. It's why the preteen years are so crazy. Just sayin..
 
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Rose said:
Isabella_deL said:
the MAN should be OLDER than the woman because females mature or age faster than males (both physically and mentally). This is a scientific fact. For example, females reach puberty on average at age 9 or 10. Males don't reach puberty until 14 or 15 on average

9/10? wtf?! I don't know any girl who reached puberty so young!
I hit puberty at 8. My sister was 9. All of my aunts were between 8-9 when they started puberty. My mother was the oddball of the family and didn't hit puberty until 11. All of the girls I knew in school growing up seemed to hit puberty around 9 too.... Around here 8-10 is the average and common. For girls, we actually hit puberty a couple years before we get our first period. It's why the preteen years are so crazy. Just sayin..

More and more are reaching puberty at 7.

Honestly I tend to blame growth hormones that are being used at an alarming rate in chicken and other animal products.
...environmental exposure to estrogens in plastics, chemicals and foods has been going up.
http://www.nbcnews.com/id/38600414/ns/h ... h-abxtwrmc
 
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Rose said:
Isabella_deL said:
the MAN should be OLDER than the woman because females mature or age faster than males (both physically and mentally). This is a scientific fact. For example, females reach puberty on average at age 9 or 10. Males don't reach puberty until 14 or 15 on average

9/10? wtf?! I don't know any girl who reached puberty so young!
I hit puberty at 8. My sister was 9. All of my aunts were between 8-9 when they started puberty. My mother was the oddball of the family and didn't hit puberty until 11. All of the girls I knew in school growing up seemed to hit puberty around 9 too.... Around here 8-10 is the average and common. For girls, we actually hit puberty a couple years before we get our first period. It's why the preteen years are so crazy. Just sayin..

More and more are reaching puberty at 7.

Honestly I tend to blame growth hormones that are being used at an alarming rate in chicken and other animal products.
...environmental exposure to estrogens in plastics, chemicals and foods has been going up.
http://www.nbcnews.com/id/38600414/ns/h ... h-abxtwrmc

It's also speculated that the increase in estrogen use in food-animals is making men's dicks smaller. Shit needs to stop!
 
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