So I was looking over the terms and conditions on CB (which I plan to start on soon) because I want to make sure I dont fuck anything up and get banned (and already saw fisting isnt allowed, so im glad I checked since I was debating making that a super-duper-rare stretch goal. no pun intended...). And thats fine, I definitely dont need to incorporate that, nor was I sold on trying to do it on cam anyway. But I noticed that "pain" is supposedly not allowed. Now I can understand not taking this to an extreme, im sure they wouldnt appreciate a flesh hook suspension show, but on the other hand, I see TONS of girls using paddles on themselves, sometimes fairly roughly (and even those small paddles can be bloody wicked...just ask my thighs after my dom gets a hold of me...). And nipple clamps are certainly very common and god knows those can hurt like a fuck too. Since Im a sub and pretty active in the BDSM community I definitely wanted to incorporate a little bit of that into my shows. At least, nothing too serious, just maybe some paddling, maybe using a small flogger, nipple clamps etc. But doing more would both be fun for me and I think would make for a good show. I had once hoped to do some shows with another person who could dom me during a show, which I thought would be nice considering how deeply I go into subspace and get immersed in a scene (and Im told its pretty fun to watch, because I basically forget its a scene and the pain and fear and screaming and begging are definitely real...) but that is starting to seem like a bad idea...
So what do you guys think. Where is the line actually? Does anyone know of things which definitely have, or have not been an issue?
Let me know what you think
Thanks!
Lexi
So what do you guys think. Where is the line actually? Does anyone know of things which definitely have, or have not been an issue?
Let me know what you think
Thanks!
Lexi