With all the posts that are so rampant recently with "I was banned but they didn't tell me WHYYYYY", I feel like it just needs to be said.
The sites we work on are not our employers, we are contractors. They are private companies that provide a platform for us to use. It's like renting a booth at a swap meet or farmer's market - we run our room how we want, but if it is upsetting the owners of the place, you are no longer welcome. They ALLOW us to use their site, until they find something that gives them reason for not doing so. They do NOT need to give detail about their reasons about it, if and when, we are removed from that platform.
Sure, it would be polite, but it isn't a requirement to be polite. That's a courtesy. Once in a blue moon they do so, but don't expect it. MOVE ON.
Same goes with my forum here. ACF is not a given right, it's a privilege to be able to use it if you so choose. It was not originally created to be a means of appealing bans on cam sites!
I am an individual human running this site. If I personally dislike how you operate, I ban you and you're never welcome back. Imagine that is my house and I let you come over to chat with others over tea... you behave in a way I dislike, I push you out the front door. I do not open that door again for you and I do NOT owe you a reason WHY. This space is not a guarantee of positive interaction with site reps, it is not a guarantee of support for your cause, it is not a guarantee that you'll get the encouragement and support of other cam models or members for your plight.
I don't know if it's a generational thing, or a regional thing, etc... but there's so much more expectation of full disclosure from both the cam site reps/support and myself here this year. I don't know how better to say "get over it and fuck off" when people don't take "no" or merely take the silence of non-reply the way it's intended. If someone says they can no longer help/reply to you, that isn't an invitation to INCESSANTLY repost your query. It's an indication that you need to go away, as there is NOTHING to be gained from remaining here/sending emails to support of the site you're banned from.
The sites we work on are not our employers, we are contractors. They are private companies that provide a platform for us to use. It's like renting a booth at a swap meet or farmer's market - we run our room how we want, but if it is upsetting the owners of the place, you are no longer welcome. They ALLOW us to use their site, until they find something that gives them reason for not doing so. They do NOT need to give detail about their reasons about it, if and when, we are removed from that platform.
Sure, it would be polite, but it isn't a requirement to be polite. That's a courtesy. Once in a blue moon they do so, but don't expect it. MOVE ON.
Same goes with my forum here. ACF is not a given right, it's a privilege to be able to use it if you so choose. It was not originally created to be a means of appealing bans on cam sites!
I am an individual human running this site. If I personally dislike how you operate, I ban you and you're never welcome back. Imagine that is my house and I let you come over to chat with others over tea... you behave in a way I dislike, I push you out the front door. I do not open that door again for you and I do NOT owe you a reason WHY. This space is not a guarantee of positive interaction with site reps, it is not a guarantee of support for your cause, it is not a guarantee that you'll get the encouragement and support of other cam models or members for your plight.
I don't know if it's a generational thing, or a regional thing, etc... but there's so much more expectation of full disclosure from both the cam site reps/support and myself here this year. I don't know how better to say "get over it and fuck off" when people don't take "no" or merely take the silence of non-reply the way it's intended. If someone says they can no longer help/reply to you, that isn't an invitation to INCESSANTLY repost your query. It's an indication that you need to go away, as there is NOTHING to be gained from remaining here/sending emails to support of the site you're banned from.
