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As many of you know, I have a history of "ruining" Amber in private shows. We both know it's not really my fault that she's ended up feeling sick twice after pvt shows for me, but we run with it for the giggles.

Also, many of you know that one of my pet peeves is seeing people have short pvt shows with Amber. I don't just mean those 1-2 minute things, but even a 5 minute show. I just want to scream at them "what the fuck dude? You can't pay to see her actually get off for you!? Are you that cheap!?"

So, after wanting to say this for some time, I present to you:

The Geekstick Guide to Awesome Amber Private Shows

Read carefully...

Rule #1- READ HER PROFILE, DAMNIT!

I think this goes without saying. This probably should be rules 1-10. Read her profile, learn the rules, learn what she can and can not do. This will save you about 20 tons of trouble later.

Rule #2- Contact her in advance.

I'm not talking 30 minutes before the show either. I'm talking a day before or more. She actually looks forward to the shows when she is expecting you. First time I went private with her, I contacted her a week before, because...

Rule #3- If you have questions, ask her!

It was my first time doing a private show on any website (in fact, I hadn't paid for porn anywhere until seeing Amber). I had questions and she had answers.

And when I say questions, that includes ideas for what you want her to do. She'll tell you what she's game for and what she can't do. Sometimes, you might have an idea and she'll say that she's likes the idea, but suggest something similar. That's how we ended up with her fucking the bed for me back in January.

Let me tell you what I mean.

For the first pvt show (the somewhat infamous Christmas night show since she had to call it a night right after that), I simply asked about basic things: was she OK with me not having a cam, can she call me my real name (though she didn't really start calling me Mikey until the 2nd pvt), etc.

For the second show, I had asked if she was willing to do a cowgirl position for me. But she had something she wanted to try and I was willing to be the one she experimented with. The result: bed fucking.

The last time we did a pvt show at the end of February, I only decided to do that the night before. I didn't really have ideas of what to do at first, but the next morning I suggested via email that she plays on the futon. And she did. (of course, I was the one who ended up ruined after that since I missed the next night... or maybe it was the tacos I had for lunch that day that made me miss it...anyway)

Finally...

Rule #4- Stock up on tokens.

Give her time to do her thing and give yourself time to enjoy it. A good show with her doing her normal thing should take 10-15 minutes so just buy the $75 token package and you'll be fine. But if you want her doing something else, definitely get more. But obviously, don't do more than you can afford (I feel comfortable in saying that she wouldn't want that).

I don't know if Amber or anyone with pvt show experience will want to add anything to this, but if you do; please go for it. This is just from my (limited, let's be fair) experience.
 
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Great advice for any model really. I've only had one private show with Amber and it was right after she had like 3-4 that were less than a minute. I took her private so she could get a good hard cum that was needed. It was fun for both of us, more like a group type of show, but just us two. We were both nervous since we "knew" each other a little bit via the public chat and email exchange.

Amber's a bit different in that I like to do group shows and tip heavily in public chat. Holding out for those special private shows with her. As I've said before, I just had that one private show with Amber so I have limited experience with her in that regard.

Other models I've done several privates with, so the following tidbits of advice can also apply to Amber's shows. I do agree with geekstick that Amber does love privates and gets all jacked up to do them. Most models look at the token value, but Amber (and I'm sure the other fun models here) think of the fun value.

Interact with her. Talk. Don't just go private and watch like a 10yo seeing a naked woman for the first time. She's a person. Show her that you care.

Compliment her. We all know how numbingly gorgeous she is. Tell her how soft her skin is, tell her how you like it when her eyes twinkle as she smiles, let her know you appreciate her as a woman AND as a person. Little things like my signature "Stay beautiful" as I leave the room isn't empty.

Find out the boundaries before you enter the show, as aforementioned. Don't waste your tokens on something that won't happen or ruin the mood because you pushed things to far.

Thank her. Be appreciative of her time she spends with you. Sure, you pay for it. Big deal. We pay for a lot of stuff every day. We are not entitled to her time, we are privileged to be a part of it. Every second that I spend with Amber, be it in group or public chat just watching her be Amber, is special to me. Let her know she, and her time, are appreciated. Reciprocity goes a long way beyond just 69.

I think if you follow geekstick's guidelines as well as the "tubby commandments" (be polite, be respectful, be yourself) the shows, public chat, and your overall experience will be nothing short of the very best we as a community have to offer. We are in this together. Let's make it enjoyable for everyone. :dance:
 
You guys have it pretty much step by step which impresses me. I have so many people that I tell them "TELL ME BEFORE HAND SO I DON'T WASTE YOUR CASH FUCKER!" in a nicer way and no one ever listens. Mind if I post this on my MFC profile? LOL It could work with any interacting and caring model like Amber.
 
I agree with everything said above, and would even go so far as to say that sometimes, you can just take a model private, and NOT have any sort of sexual actions going on. Sometimes, a model might want to just have a long moment where they don't have to have things in their vag. Rare, yes, and costly for you, but sometimes, it's just what a girl needs.
 
Somadelnocha said:
I agree with everything said above, and would even go so far as to say that sometimes, you can just take a model private, and NOT have any sort of sexual actions going on. Sometimes, a model might want to just have a long moment where they don't have to have things in their vag. Rare, yes, and costly for you, but sometimes, it's just what a girl needs.

It always surprises me when a member is willing to take me or any model in to private just to talk or unwind without something in one of my holes. Always a nice surprise yes, but surprising none the less.
 
Frankie said:
You guys have it pretty much step by step which impresses me. I have so many people that I tell them "TELL ME BEFORE HAND SO I DON'T WASTE YOUR CASH FUCKER!" in a nicer way and no one ever listens. Mind if I post this on my MFC profile? LOL It could work with any interacting and caring model like Amber.

Sure! Just tweak it to work for you.

To be honest, this is sort of targeted for noobs who don't know what to do yet. But it's nice to see that this should be common knowledge for all members for shows with any model.
 
Hi 5 to you, geekstick.

Make the models feel special and they will take care of you. I think that's the point we are trying to make.

I like having the models on the forum too as it helps me be a better guest when I'm in their room. Getting feedback on stuff is always helpful.
 
Frankie said:
It always surprises me when a member is willing to take me or any model in to private just to talk or unwind without something in one of my holes. Always a nice surprise yes, but surprising none the less.


I usually do that after :p

My advice (for any model) is before thinking about going private, go join a few group shows. You can get a feel of what she likes to do, what she won't, and give you ideas for your own special fun time together.
 
Cassidy Nicole said:
Oh so someone shouldn't walk into a private with 80 tokens and want 50 different positions and objects in and around them? And then gets mad at the model because she isn't Houdini :shock: Learn something new every day.

I know, crazy isn't it!
 
it scares me how much these boys know everything that should happen with Amberz shows! It kinda impresses me that someone can get to know someone like that! Its pretty awsome! Specially comming form a site like MFC! i have been watching Amberz for a cpl months now and i also have noticed things that she likes and all that! Never been pvt with her since i cant afford the long pvts, but i do join in on groups and teeep her!

:-D
 
Cassidy Nicole said:
Oh so someone shouldn't walk into a private with 80 tokens and want 50 different positions and objects in and around them? And then gets mad at the model because she isn't Houdini :shock: Learn something new every day.

that's the main reason I haven't taken anyone private on there yet, I never seem to have enough for more than a couple minutes and it's not worth it.
 
I won't initiate a private unless I've got at least enough for 5-10 minutes. My longest private was almost 20 minutes, and my shortest has been....7 minutes?
 
My shortest was with Amber but I told her the token count before hand to make sure it was OK. I wanted to make sure it wasn't going to waste her time. I remember that night well as I dropped a metric shit ton of tokens on her to the point she began scolding me harshly when I kept tipping her. My longest private was almost 45 minutes.
 
Here's the real scoop:
buy tokens. You have to be a premium member for this trick to work.
constantly send her private requests without warning. Do this all the time.
When she yells at you for it, this is how she lets you know she wants you. Remember, women are objects here for men's enjoyment.
Tell her "I'm sorry, can we do a private though? You're super sexy"
Then when she goes private with you, fap as fast as you can. Tokens are expensive. Cum buckets. Leave without warning.
If you managed to hit the 90 second mark you are a fap king and get a recording of the event so you never have to worry about it again. Amber will love you and never want to ban you from her room after this. Because she will know you're her king and only you know how to treat her right.
 
Keithy said:
Here's the real scoop:
buy tokens. You have to be a premium member for this trick to work.
constantly send her private requests without warning. Do this all the time.
When she yells at you for it, this is how she lets you know she wants you. Remember, women are objects here for men's enjoyment.
Tell her "I'm sorry, can we do a private though? You're super sexy"
Then when she goes private with you, fap as fast as you can. Tokens are expensive. Cum buckets. Leave without warning.
If you managed to hit the 90 second mark you are a fap king and get a recording of the event so you never have to worry about it again. Amber will love you and never want to ban you from her room after this. Because she will know you're her king and only you know how to treat her right.

Protip: Don't listen to Keithy. :naughty: :lol:
 
I forgot this post was here... guess it's not relevant anymore since I stopped accepting private shows. Maybe we should make one for group shows, lol.
 
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